Happy Mother’s Day! We’re having the family over today, and I’m looking forward to a lot of laughs, and lot of snuggles, and a lot of togetherness. Mother’s Day is hard, not just for me, but for anyone missing a child, a mom, a grandma, or a mother figure. Take a moment today and send a message to someone you know who’s missing someone today – it will mean so much to them.
Our only Mother’s Day together.
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#WeAreLucky
My friend Jenny has started an amazing new mission, one that is near and dear not only to her, but also to me. Her sweet newborn, Oliver, was born with a very large and undetected (in utero) Lymphatic Malformation that’s required hospitalizations for treatment. While Jenny and her husband, Pete, were with him at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles, they quickly realized how lucky they were to have a large, supportive network to help them with their older son, who wasn’t allowed to visit his brother during flu season. Jenny and Pete saw many families didn’t have the same support, and struggled to be there for their hospitalized children. I saw the same thing during Maddie’s hospitalizations – there were so many parents who couldn’t afford to take time off work, who lived several hours away, who had to juggle caring for older kids as well. It was heartbreaking – Mike and I had relatives and family lined up to stay in the hospital with Maddie when other families had no help at all. Jenny and Pete have started the #WeAreLucky program, which helps a mom in need bring a trusted friend or loved one to her home so that she can come to CHLA to be with her sick child during surgery and recovery. I’m blown away by how she’s helping others.
Be Glad Your Dad
My friend Matt’s new children’s book, Be Glad Your Dad (Is Not an Octopus) came out this week. It’s super cute – Annie and James both love it and we’ve already read it a million times. I highly recommend it!
Happy Sunday, everyone!


amourningmom says:
Happy Mother’s Day to you Heather – I know this day is hard and I wish it wasn’t for either of us. Thank you for sharing that beautiful picture of you and sweet Maddie. I hope today goes as well as it can. xoxo
Heather says:
Happy Mother’s Day to you, too! I am thinking about you and all of your precious babies today. xoxo
Katrina says:
Love that photo of you and Maddie. I’m happy for you that you got one special Mother’s Day with her. Last year was my only Mother’s Day with Aaron, but he was still in my belly at the time. Today is my first Mother’s Day “missing” someone — I know I should be really, really happy because I am so blessed with my other children, but at the same time I’m thinking about the one who is missing. So this kinda sucks because I can imagine all my Mother’s Days will feel like this now? This first year….awwww, so hard in many ways. It’s like, “oh, okay…so this is another new normal I have to get used to. Nice.” —
Heather says:
Yeah…it’s so unfair, this dual life! I thought about you all day today, I hope you had a good day despite the mixed feelings. Xoxo
Sue says:
Happy Mother’s Day, Heather. Maddie looks like a little doll baby sitting on your lap,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Erin says:
Happy Mother’s Day, Heather; sending you love. And it looks like we have a mutual friend! Thank you for posting about #WeAreLucky!
http://www.sitternote.co/wearelucky
Lisa says:
A fairly new online friend (but old in spirit) lost her 14 YO in October and years ago lost her first son as a stillborn. I sent her a gift for Mother’s Day because I knew this would be her first one without them here. I never would have thought to do this without you. Thank you for sharing about loss and love. (On a completely different note-thanks for the update about Matt’s new book!!! I had no idea this was in the works!)