Annabel very adamantly wanted to write her dad a “special post” for his 40th birthday today. I typed out everything she dictated.
Hi Daddy, I wanted to write a post for you, for your birthday. Forty! Have a great time being older.
I have 40 reasons I love my daddy!
1. He is kind.
2. He is great at helping me do stuff.
3. He makes good breakfasts.
4. He likes to play imagination games with me.
5. I love my daddy because he is cute.
6. He makes me feel safe and saves me from bad dreams.
7. He worries about me a lot.
8. He makes me smile with the funniest jokes.
9. I love daddy because I love to kiss him.
10. He gives good hugs.
11. He is so silly.
12. We always have fun together.
13. He makes me stop crying when I get hurt.
14. We do lots of fun stuff when he’s home from work.
15. He did a good job of being 39.
16. He’ll probably be good at being old.
17. I love daddy because he makes me feel like I can do anything.
18. I love daddy because he loves me.
19. He makes me feel comfortable.
20. His tummy is more soft than clouds.
21. I love him because he is tall and can reach things for me.
22. He takes me to the movies.
23. His love makes me feel happy.
24. He likes to play with toys.
25. He is as sweet as candy.
26. He makes me feel like a shining star.
27. I love daddy because he likes having me as a daughter.
…I can’t think of more reasons. Forty is a lot.
photo by Yvonne Marie
This picture was when you were 39! You were handsome.
Happy birthday to the best daddy in the whole universe and the whole world! Forty is old but I still love you.
Love, Annabel


hulsta says:
wow, this is the sweetest thing ever! even with the digs at his old age.. ?
Jana from Germany says:
Happy birthday Mike!
erin says:
Happy Birthday Mike! I’m not sure which of those reasons is my favorite. Either “you’ll be good at being ol” or “his tummy is soft as clouds.”
Leah says:
“Tummy soft as clouds” for the win.
samatwitch says:
Happy Birthday, Mike! Since you were so good at being 39, I’m sure you’ll have 40 down in no time. By the way, 40 is when life starts to get really good.
Becky says:
Happy Birthday Mike!
Jill says:
Ha! Cloudy-soft tummies happen when you are that old. and yes 40 is a lot to think of!
Becca says:
Aww – what a sweet post & photo! Happy Birthday, Mike!
Debbie A-H says:
I’m sure you’ll do a good job of 40 also! Happy Birthday! This is an amazing gift. You rock, Annabelle!
Rebecca says:
Oh, my! That’s PERFECT!
Lorrie says:
So sweet!!! Little girls and daddies are so sweet together. Happy Birthday!!
Michele says:
I can think of no better 40th birthday gift than this list. Mike, I trust you will do just as good a job at being 40 as you did at being 39. Happy birthday, Mike!
Kim from Minnesota says:
Wow – what a great job Annabel! Happy Birthday Mike! PS 40 is NOT old!
nancy says:
happy birthday mike
Kathy says:
Tell Annabel she did a great job with her Dad’s birthday post!
Rita says:
Best post ever!!! Happy birthday Mike!
Damita says:
Awesome! Especially 15 & 16! Great job Annabel. Happy birthday Mike! Enjoy your day!
Rachael says:
They will both love looking at this post when she’s 40! Happy Birthday Mike!
Anna says:
My favorite is that he did a good job of being 39! Hope Mike has a wonderful birthday and that he isn’t upset about the cloud/tummy comparison!
Marjorie Steele says:
#20 LOL!! Great way to honor a great dad on his 40th. Happy bday Mike!
LD's Mom says:
Every single word – LOVE IT! Happy Bday Mike, and great job Annie!
Jackie F. says:
This touched my heart! I love it times 100! You have such an amazing and thoughtful daughter and that picture is ADORBS!
Stephanie says:
This is amazing. Happy Birthday, Mike!
Anne says:
This is so sweet and brought a smile to my face. The things kids love most about us are so small. We don’t have to move mountains, just make time for our kids to love and laugh.
Ginny Williams says:
So cute! Happy Birthday to Mike ….its my birthday too! And 40 is not old!
Jen R. says:
Happy Birthday!
Jackson says:
The photo of Mike and Annabel is gorgeous.
Rachel says:
Happy Birthday Mike! This post is awesome. =)
Lenora says:
Happy Birthday, Mike!! Great job, Annie! I know this will be one of the best presents he will ever get!
Kandi Ann Brewer says:
Keep writing lil lady, You will love looking back on it when you are old, or 40, and hey, I am 46 and I gotta tell you, when your 40, oh will you laugh laugh laugh at this post. xoxoxo
JustAMom says:
This is truly the sweetest think ever.
Happy Birthday Mike!!
AuntieMip says:
Those words are precious and sweet and heartfelt. And advanced for a near 6 year old I might add. But that picture. She could have just as easily said I love my dad because (see picture)… Because that picture tells the story perfectly.
There is so much love and joy and mended brokeness in that picture! Being the child born after the death of another can be a very rough road. So many unspoken expectations, worries and fears. So much pressure for mom and dad. Can’t read too much in to every expression. Do they look like their sibling? Fear you will lose them too. And for that child, such pressure. They don’t necessarily even know or understand the significance of their birth, but the pressure is there for the whole of the family.
So this picture, to me, illustrates a love that has transcended all that pressure, worry and fear. And it speaks to a hard fought wholeness. And a little girl who loves her daddy! Congratulations. You really have a beautiful family!!
Tell Mike he wears 40 well and it only gets better from here.
Jen R. says:
This post is EVERYTHING.
Happy Birthday to Mike!
Greis says:
So sweet!!!! Happy Birthday, old man!
Toni says:
Adorable!
Christina says:
I love the “his tummy is as soft as clouds”. SO CUTE. Happy Birthday Mike and thanks to you both for sharing so much great writing with us via this blog!
April says:
Oh my goodness, that was a wonderful list. What Daddy could ask for anything more than that? Happy Birthday to Mike, and many more to come.
twingles says:
#15 and #20 – dying laughing.
Enjoy being 40 Mike. I’ve enjoyed it for 9 years almost!
Jeanie says:
Annie did a good job! Happy birthday, Mike!
Lauren says:
Read this to my boyfriend and he said, “Clearly a child who is being raised wonderfully. Bravo!” But that was only after he realized that I was gonna post what he said. Immediately, he gushed about how it speaks of Mike. Annabel is clearly loved! Happy birthday, Mike! Keep up the good work!
Kris says:
#15 made me laugh out loud. I hope he can keep up the good work.
And I get to be comment 40 (per the counter at the top of the post)!
Happy birthday to Mike!
Laura says:
This is the sweetest thing ever. Happy birthday Mike!
Lisa says:
Happy birthday Mike!
Auntie_M says:
Adorable! Numbers 15-20 were my faves! Well done, Annie, & happy (late) birthday, Mike!
That picture–fabulous!
Pattie says:
What a wonderful birthday present for Mike. Great list, Annie!
CJ says:
Oh my gosh -this made me laugh so hard. I love her age Happy birthday (late) to Mike! I am sure this list will be a favorite for years to come.