When I was seven years old, I won a cassette copy of Debbie Gibson’s Out of the Blue. I was, to put it mildly, obsessed with Debbie. I listened to Out of the Blue (and then Electric Youth) so much I literally wore out the tapes. I joined the Debbie Gibson International Fan Club. I took piano and voice lessons. I wrote my own songs. I dreamed of seeing her perform in person. Since this was before the internet, I found out she was touring because of an ad on the radio and I begged my mom to take me. The concert was at the Great Western Forum, then-home of the LA Lakers. I remember every. single. song. she played, and that during her encore (where she sang Electric Youth) she came out in a Lakers jersey. The year was 1989.
Annabel’s Debbie Gibson is Taylor Swift. She listens to her CDs on repeat, watches her music videos, and wants to learn all about her. When Taylor announced her tour, I made sure Santa Claus brought Annabel a ticket, because I remember how life-changing that first Debbie Gibson concert was for me.
Annabel counted down the days to the concert on her (Taylor Swift) calendar for eight long months. She woke up at the crack of dawn on concert day and picked out her outfit. She was vibrating with excitement – but honestly, I was, too.
We had tickets with Annabel’s best buddies Reilly and Isabella (and their moms!), so we all headed down to the concert together. There was a whole lot of happy in the back seat:
The concert was across the street from the Grammy museum, which currently has a large exhibit called “The Taylor Swift Experience.” We thought it would be fun to take the girls there first – a total Taylor bonanza. I forgot how awesome the Grammy Museum is – tons of hands-on stuff for adults and kids, like this cool band set-up:
The kids humored us for like five seconds before they started begging to go to the Swift exhibit, so we skipped the majority of the museum and went there. First they watched a video presentation about Taylor, including Grammy performance highlights:
Then we explored the Experience. There were lots of costumes and gowns worn by Taylor, plus some of her instruments and hand-written lyric sheets. The girls loved the interactive exhibits:
The Shake It Off light-up dance floor.
Mixing Mean on their own soundboards.
The soundproof booth where they got to record verses from We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together.
After the museum, we met up with our friend Nanette and her daughter for dinner, and then it was off to the concert!
Now personally, I would have loved to see Taylor’s two opening acts, Vance Joy and Haim, but I knew there was no way the girls would be able to sit through 90 minutes of non-Taylor music. We used that time to get snacks, buy t-shirts, and take pictures. We took our seats about ten minutes before Taylor came on and it was perfect – just enough time for everyone to put on the light-up bracelets taped to our seats (thanks, Taylor!) and smash ear plugs into the girls’ ears.
Right when the show started, we shifted seats so each girl could sit next to her mom. This proved to be a good move because while we were prepared for the girls to be overwhelmed by the volume/flashing lights/screaming, they were actually spooked by how high up our seats were. Once we promised them that they wouldn’t fall, they had a blast:
The bracelets lit up with the music. So cool.
Our seats let us see the whole stage, plus the giant screens:
And of course, we could see the magical flaxen unicorn, Taylor Swift:
Taylor spoke a lot to the audience between songs, which Annabel appreciated. “Mom, I love how she talks to us, and waves to us. She knows we love her!”
This concert tour has been famous for Taylor bringing out special celebrity guests. At our show, Uzo Aduba (Orange is the New Black) sang a duet with Taylor, Matt LeBlanc and Chris Rock walked the “runway,” and Mary J. Blige sang two of her songs with Taylor, which just about made me leave my body. I had to laugh, though, because all the young kids around us (and there were a LOT) were like, “WHO?” every time one of the special guests came out. Ah, Youths.
As for the much-buzzed-about video interludes (where Taylor’s famous supermodel and actress pals talk about what a great friend Taylor is), I could write a thousand words about them…but when I asked Annabel what she thought about the videos, she said, “I liked them because Taylor and her friends said friendship is so important, and my friends are so important to me.” If that’s the message Swift is selling (and I think that’s her intention), these girls are buying it – and I’m okay with that.
Three days later and Annabel is still totally on a high from the concert. Taylor’s albums are on a constant rotation, and Annabel has started begging us for guitar lessons (she’s already written half a dozen songs since Saturday). With school starting tomorrow (!!!), I don’t know if this is a request that will withstand the shock of the elementary school routine, so we’ll see. But if it does, I’ll be happy to help foster an interest in music.
Oh, and the concert was held at the Staples Center, the now-home of the LA Lakers – and the name of the tour is “The 1989 Tour.” The Concert Gods work in mysterious ways.
Becca says:
I saw you did this this weekend from instagram and was waiting for the recap! Sounds like it was SUCH a personal and parenting blast! Win! I live in Maine and was actually in the running to win a trip to this concert a little while back but, alas, I did not win. Ah well..
Rachel says:
That last paragraph… Whoa, so cool! ????
Rachel says:
In my last comment, the last part was a smiling emoji, but on my phone, it now shows as ????… Weird
Lisa says:
The picture of Annie in her boots and sunglasses is just too much!!!! She is such a little doll. Glad you all had fun at TS.
Emily says:
She is too cool for school in that picture.
Jenn says:
I love everything about this post! I brought my two girls to the show in Massachusetts last month and I was beyond excited myself! The first couple of songs I was a little choked up because I loved the looks on my girls faces and really the faces of all 60,000 people in the stadium. She is a class act and this was definitely one of the best concerts I have ever been to! My parents brought us to concerts growing up and I love being able to do the same for my girls!
Jessica says:
I LOVE the pic of Annie with her arms spread out – her mind was literally blown. How special!!
Marjorie Steele says:
Love yours and Annie’s outfits! Especially the footwear selections! Looks like it was so much fun!
Lindsay says:
Concerts with Mom are SO much fun and so special. And I can relate to Annie: I’m almost 30 but still absolutely jumping-out-of-my-skin excited bout seeing Idina Menzel in concert this weekend!!!!!
Heather says:
Oh my gosh, I’m seeing her in October and I’m excited! I hope you have an amazing time!!
Terri says:
We have tickets for one of the KC concerts. I’m soooo excited!!! Especially after seeing this post. I had to giggle though, we are sitting up high too and a couple years ago we sat in a similar spot for Bon Jovi. I totally felt like I was going to fall off my chair. Soooo scary! I swore I wouldn’t do that again, but then came Kalie, and Taylor! lol I was a total Debbie Gibson fan in the 80’s too. Probably still have the tshirt in my parents basement somewhere.
Lenora says:
So exciting and so much fun. Annie is a lucky girl and she looked great. I was visiting my parents one year at Christmas and my mom got us tickets to a Christmas play (nothing as exciting as Taylor, of course). Anyway, the seats were high and on a very steep incline. Totally freaked me out, I had to trade my ticket for one on a lower level!
Donna P says:
Simply magical!
Jordan says:
I was looking forward to this post!
Both of y’all look fabulous. But, can I talk about Reilly for a minute? Girl is SO grown up! And stunning.
I’ve always been a secret TSwift fan. I liked her, but more for her songwriting than her voice… however, I LOVE 1989. When I caved and bought it, a friend sent me a link to this SNL skit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAhAz7JU0dg
My life.
So glad y’all had fun, and you got to share such a cool experience with Annie like your mom did with you. My Aunt took me to my 1st concert (Hilary Duff- bless her heart!); my Aunt recently told me that now I get to return the favor and take her 8 year old to her first concert, which I happily obliged. That concert with my aunt is one of my favorite memories! Part of me secretly hopes her concert of choice is TSwift.
How was the concert from a voice soundpoint? I’ve heard mixed reviews on her live! Love all the adult guest appearances! haha.
Good luck to Annie tomorrow! Can’t wait to hear about it- maybe an Annie post in store?!?
Heather says:
She sounded great! It’s clear she’s been working hard on her voice – lots of power behind it!
Christina S says:
Love this so much! Out of the Blue was my first CD (along with the Cocktail soundtrack – I got both and a Diskman for Christmas in 1989) but I never made it to her concert. New Kids was my first concert (can’t remember when). I can’t wait to take my 1-year old to his first!
Jeanie says:
Lucky Annabel! I don’t know why I’m always amazed when I see such huge concert crowds.
Noelle says:
LOVE how happy she looks and especially that picture of her rocking the boots and sunglasses..like she’s already been to a million concerts! My daughter got Taylor Swift tickets for her birthday in January and it’s FINALLY two weeks away! Yay! We can’t wait
Kari says:
Oh my gosh! I was at the same Debbie Gibson concert! I still remember it! I loved reading this post and seeing you share such a special memory with Annie!
Heather says:
That’s AWESOME!!
Kirsty says:
I am so jealous! My 11-year-old is a huge Taylor Swift fan and would love to see her in concert… And I admit, I would too!
Unfortunately, big stars never come anywhere near where I live (south of France), just as they didn’t when I was growing up (middle of nowhere UK, not that my mother would EVER have taken me to any concerts), so I’ve never really been to any big name concerts. It’s a huge regret in my life (one of many, to be honest)!
Glenda says:
Oh my Annie! She rocked her outfit! Love it! I saw TS in 2011 and 2013. She’s amazing what she does for Childhood Cancer. Have you heard the song Ronan?
Heather says:
Yes – can’t hear it without crying!
Lisa says:
Oh my gosh. So much to love in this post! It’s great to see Annie have such a love for music – but really, with you and Mike as her parents I’m not surprised. The music gods certainly work in wonderful & mysterious ways!
Jen Tate says:
My son and I got to see the tour in June. I actually was one of the winners of her swiftstakes. We got to go back stage and meet her. My son is 12, and he carries his copy of our picture with her in his wallet. Memories like that are something our kids will remember much longer than just buying them something. We probably blast Taylor’s music as much as Annie does!!!
Heather says:
WOW that’s amazing! Annabel would be so jealous. What an amazing experience!