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Maddie had a check-up/15-month appointment with Dr. Looove on Wednesday. The good news? Maddie is WAY advanced in her brainz. She’s like, wicked smaht. Her head also got bigger, and she grew longer. The bad news? She still weighs 14 lbs 15 oz, which means since her 12-month appointment she’s only gained one pound. But considering the barf-fest she put on this last week, I’m just glad she didn’t LOSE weight. Oh, the best news? Dr. Looove took Maddie off 24-hour oxygen. WOOOOOOOOOOO! We’re still putting her on it at night, but WOOOOOOOOO!
To celebrate our new-found freedom, Maddie and I went to the indoor mall a few miles from our house. Maddie LOVES people-watching and I was feeling frumpy and wanted a little pick-me-up. Whenever I feel like I could use a boost, I go to a make-up counter. I always go to MAC – they will do your make-up for free and talk you through what they’re doing so you can replicate it at home. If there is a male behind the counter, I always always always ask him for help. It’s just a thing I have. The male make-up artists have a knack for making me feel the prettiest.
Maddie and I rolled into the department store and headed straight toward the MAC counter – and they were jammed. The four workers were all doing make-up applications, and by the looks of it, they’d just started. Damn. I poked around the eye shadows, trying to decide if it was worth the wait. I looked down at Maddie in her stroller. It wasn’t worth the wait. So I went to the next counter.
The girl behind the counter could not have been older than sixteen. I seriously wanted to see her ID and ask her why she wasn’t in her US History class. But her makeup looked nice, so I decided to ask her if she’d pamper me a bit.
“Sure,” she chirped, “I have JUST the thing for the bags under your eyes.”
Such a salesman. I looked at Maddie, who was looking at the makeup girl with suspicion. If Maddie lost her cool, I would leave immediately. I climbed into the chair and the makeup girl stood in front of me, an assortment of creams and powders spread out on the counter next to her.
Makeup Girl: So, I can tell you’re not getting a lot of sleep. Your skin is really dry and the bags under your eyes are so dark!
Me:……well, no, I haven’t had much sleep in the last week or so, the baby has been sick.
We both glance at Madeline, who is now smiling up at us with an innocent look on her face. Such a traitor.
Makeup Girl starts rubbing cream under my eyes.
Makeup Girl: She’s real cute. My grandmother always said that we grandchildren were such a joy. She said we kept her young! But we didn’t see her that much.
Me: Oh, that’s too bad. I was lucky, I lived with my grandmother when I was growing up.
Makeup Girl: And now she does!
And then she gestured at Maddie.
Me: Huh?
Makeup Girl (with a brush clenched in her jaw): show dew you half udder manchillun?
Me (with growing confusion): I’m sorry, did you ask if I have any man children? Like, a boy?
Makeup Girl: NOOOOOOOOO! (laughing) I asked if you had any other grandchildren.
Me: ARE YOU KIDDING?
Makeup Girl: ……..(WIDE EYES)………
Me: HOLY SHIT! HOW OLD DO YOU THINK I AM?! I’M TWENTY NINE! IN MY TWENTIES! THAT IS *MY* BABY! AS IN, FROM *MY* BELLY! OH MAI GAH!!!!!!!
Makeup Girl starts to freak. People are starting to look over at us.
Makeup Girl: Oh, gosh, I messed up, I didn’t mean grandchildren like, you know, like you’re old, I meant like, you know………
Me: NO! I DON’T KNOW!
Makeup Girl: (loooooooong pause)….the bags under your eyes are REALLY dark!
Me: Ok. I’m done. Thanks SO much.
I jumped out of the chair and started to push Maddie’s stroller away. Who knew I’d lose my cool before Maddie? We walked past the MAC counter and I looked wistfully at the skinny guy applying makeup on a red-head. I bet he didn’t call HER a grandma.
Between this and TWO! DIFFERENT! NURSES! last week asking me and my mom who was who (meaning, who is mom and who is grandma!!!!!!!!!!), I am starting to get a complex.
Bec says:
Oh she did not!
Ms. Moon says:
You just need some sleep. And listen- consider the source.
I remember once, about a million years ago when I was probably all of 25, I was in the grocery store with my two children (yes, I started early) and two girls crossed my path. I doubt they were two years younger than I was. One of them indicated me with a nod of her head and said to her companion, “Do you want to end up like HER?”
Get some rest.
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DesignHER Momma says:
don’t believe a word they say – you’re foxy. They obviously haven’t gone to Nashville with you.
Maria says:
You should have asked her how middle school was going.
Mahala says:
Lawsy.. I think I would have just started bawling right on the spot. *hugs* girlie. When you’re in high school, everyone over 22 looks old.
Mahala says:
Lawsy.. I think I would have just started bawling right on the spot. *hugs* girlie. When you’re in high school, everyone over 22 looks old.
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Danes says:
I’m sorry that’s plain ridiculous – you do NOT look like Maddie’s grandmother. Your MOM doesn’t even look like MAddie’s grandmother. What a total idiot! …and SO jealous you still get to say you’re 29
maya says:
I cannot believe that, only because you do not look a day over 25. That totally would have pissed me off, then made me laugh.
mayas last blog post..Neve & Daddy
TUWABVB says:
A few years ago, WHEN I WAS ONLY THIRTY, I was on line buying beer in law school with a guy that was an on-again-off-again type of guy. I got my ID out and so did he – this particular store was infamous for carding everyone involved in the purchase, and the cashier sweetly said, “Oh, I don’t need to see your SON’S ID.”
Mind you – he was in his twenties…so apparently I looked old enough to have a 25 year old son whom I was sort of dating at the time.
Yea – people are stupid. I think you look great!
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ali says:
WHAT? i’m shocked.
seriously shocked.
clearly that woman was just an asshole.
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AMomTwoBoys says:
BWA HA HA HA HA HA HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.
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jen says:
Dude, people are just stupid!!!
mommymae says:
just because she had a baby last week and her momz had her when she was 14 doesn’t mean every single one of us did that. geez. what a bonehead.
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Issa says:
Teens know nothing. Nothing at all. 23 is old to them. I personally think that no one should ask that question. Ever. Dude, you do not look like a grandma. No way, no how.
ps. am linking over here today. Posting a plea for monies for you.
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Domestic Extraordinaire says:
That is crazy! Perky little teenagers are just retarded-didn’t you know that?
Glad to hear that Miss Maddie is doing so much better.
Off to pimp your MoD baby on Twitter!
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Karen says:
She must just know her share of 25 year old grandmothers.
Jaden says:
OMG! I would have been SO spitting mad!
Great news on Maddie though Congrats to that!
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J says:
Listen, the rest of us *wish* we looked as good as you (with or without sleep), so forget the dumb makeup girl. And, of course, kids are just a$$holes a lot of the time whether they mean to be or not – it’s practically biological – and her iq is obvy not enough to make up for her lack of tact.
Heather, Queen of Shake Shake says:
My god, I’ve seen you and you do NOT look like a grandmother. This ticks me off so much that I’m going to drop kick the next make up counter girl I see, I don’t care if she insulted you or not. Someone’s gotta pay!
metalia says:
Oh no she dee’int! I think I would have wept. And then maybe stabbed her with a retractable lip brush.
For the record? You are foxay. And do not look like a grandma.
metalias last blog post..Put the Wind Away
Maura says:
What a ditz. Like someone else said, consider the source. With all you’ve been through the last few weeks, you just need some serious rest. And a pampering spa day that you don’t end up feeling guilty about.
Mauras last blog post..Grace in Small Things, 14
Heather says:
Do not tell me this actually happened! I almost decked a guy for asking if I’m in my early 30s before remembering I actually am in my early 30s. I can’t imagine what I would’ve done had he accused me of being a grandmother!
Heathers last blog post..Tapestry: Forty Days and Forty Nights
cindy w says:
If it helps: once when I was buying department store eye cream, the salesgirl threw in a free sample of skin-firming cream. “You know, for the loose skin around your tummy and the cellulite on your thighs.” I was wearing jeans & a decidedly not-tight sweater. So, umm, what the eff??
Lesson learned: stick with the pretty gay boys for your makeovers. They know all the right things to say to foxy mamas like us.
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Susan says:
I would have wiped the floor with her face. I am not kidding.
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TexasRed says:
Completely unacceptable! This is what happens when tweens live in a world all their own.
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Gracee Arthur says:
Heather,
I was checking in to see how beautiful Madeline was doing and was shocked to read your cosmetic counter tale until I thought about it for a bit.
Here is my take on it.
There are many cultures where girls have babies at 16 and grandma is only 32!
So don’t stress about it. Get some sleep.
Gracee
tokissthecook says:
Oh for crying out loud. BS. Not just BS but let’s consider the source. Little girl probably got reamed if her manager was in listening distance.
Also? Jason saw pictures of us from the blogger event and Blissdom (on the bar, ahem) and thought we were the same age. Granted there’s a whole three years difference which isn’t much but he still had you figured for the 25-26 range.
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Midwest Mommy says:
OMG! I would have been P*SSED!
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Al_Pal says:
Oh Em Effing Gee! That is fugged.
& IDK how recent your pic on the about page is, but you look like a total hottie, and yes, in your 20s!
I have a friend in college who mentioned the other day how “30 was old” and it is like, biatch, please.!!! (I’m 32 FTR)
merlotmom says:
OMG! I’ve got tears happening. You so do not look like a grandmother. Just shows you how stupid these young bitches are these days. WTF! Girl’s probably flunking outta school if that’s any consolation. I hope her boss ripped her a new one. If I see her, I sure will, although I think I’ll stay away cuz she’d probably ask me if I was getting made up for my funeral.
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Mary says:
Um, I was with you when you GOT CARDED at Coyote Ugly! There is no way you look like a grandma. What is wrong with that girl?!?
Marys last blog post..A Sink Full of Bubbles
Sarah @ Ordinary Days says:
What the frick! You should have grabbed that brush out of her mouth and jammed it in her eye! She’s crazy. You’re gorgeous and definitely young.
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sam {temptingmama} says:
Damn girl. You should get some sleep.
sam {temptingmama}s last blog post..Clearly I Need Some Sleep
sam {temptingmama} says:
Too funny that my last post was about needing more sleep.
OMG.
I hope no one thinks I’m a grandma.
*scurrying off to bed*
sam {temptingmama}s last blog post..Clearly I Need Some Sleep
Angella says:
You handled it far better than I would have. I hope that girl keeps her mouth shut from now on. Sheesh.
(Also – she should probably get her eyes checked.)
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Loralee says:
Can I smack her? Because I really feel like smacking something right now.
For reals.
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Redneck Mommy says:
Am dying laughing.
But only because it is clearly ludicrous to assume you are a grandmother.
I mean, hell’s bells, I must look like I’m zombified then.
And we both know we are hot young mommies. So let’s just laugh shall we?
While we stick pins in a voodoo doll in that chick’s image.
heh.
Sarah says:
Get a massage, drink a glass of wine, and take a nap. Now that Maddie’s healthy again (awesome, btw) take a little mommy time.
MBKimmy says:
First time reader … came vis Chritine at A Mommy Story – nice to meet you … congrats on the good news of Maddie and for the ass hat at the make up counter … what an idiot!
Looking forward to reading your stories!
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dysfunctional mom says:
What a doofus! She’s not going to sell anything that way.
I’m glad Maddie is doing well!
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Joe says:
oh wow… just… wow… well, I’m a dude, and I think you’re pretty hot. That’s really what it’s all about, right? Right?!
You probably do need some more sleep though. I haven’t dealt with throwing up baby yet, but I can imagine.
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Amanda says:
The woman who gently asked to do my face from Trish McEvoy at the Seattle Nordstrom almost made me weep with her sweetness. Maybe switch go-to-in-a-funk-make-up counters…?
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Amazing Greis says:
OMG! I would FLIP out!!!! Note to self avoid the YOUNG teenage looking make up sales people in the future. LOL
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Kim says:
Fer serious? Dood the audacity of some people. You look in your twenties to me friend. I love you. Next time I see you, we’ll play makeup and I won’t even mention the bags under your eyes.
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Kristin says:
Fantastic news about Maddie.
Oh teenagers are so STUPID! We were stupid. Once. A long time ago. But we’re not grandmas. Yet.
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Kellee says:
Okay, that might be the lamest thing I’ve ever heard. You’re lovely, and don’t even look 30, let alone old enough to be a grandmother. Crazy stupid girl.
Scott says:
Congratulations on getting of 24 hour oxygen. My wife and I are hoping we have the same news in April.
GO MADDIE!
Amy says:
OMG Heather, I totally know how you feel. I have been asked mulitple times if my HUSBAND is my SON!!!!! Ok, I know he looks young, but seriously… how old do I have to be to have a 25 year old son?!?! And I get lots of sleep – I have no excuses!
Feeling your pain….