Thanksgiving

by Heather on November 26, 2009

in the famous Madeline

Thanksgiving 2008

14 pounds of Maddie, 21 pounds of turkey

reflection

love from mom

playing scrabble

I am so thankful she is my daughter. I am so thankful I am her mommy.

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1 Seraphim November 26, 2009 at 12:14 am

xxxxxxxx
to you and Mike
and a hearty bear hug too.
From across the ocean.

2 andrea's sweet life November 26, 2009 at 12:15 am

She is so beautiful. You will always be her mommy. Much love to all of you, today and everyday. Xoxo

3 Krystal November 26, 2009 at 12:18 am

I am thankful for you sharing her stories with us!

Enjoy life Heather! Have a Happy Thanksgiving!

Lots of love to you and your family!

xoxox
Krystal
.-= Krystal´s last blog ..Princess Ariann’s Story on The Today Show =-.

4 Jenny November 26, 2009 at 12:19 am

Happy Thanksgiving, Heather.
I love the 14 lbs of Maddie, 21 lbs of turkey pic, that is awesome. LOVE!!!
.-= Jenny´s last blog ..Oh, MckMama, you do make me laugh =-.

5 Amy November 26, 2009 at 12:43 am

How beautiful, you are one lucky mama. And that can never change.
.-= Amy´s last blog ..Rise and Shine =-.

6 Kate @ UpsideBackwards November 26, 2009 at 12:55 am

And I’m thankful I got to know her, and you, through this blog. Happy Thanksgiving, Spohrs.
.-= Kate @ UpsideBackwards´s last blog ..Afternoon pick-up =-.

7 Janeen November 26, 2009 at 7:18 am

100% what she said.
Forever and always you’re Maddie’s mom and she’s your baby. You are one lovely family.
.-= Janeen´s last blog ..The Seven Week Slide =-.

8 Marti from Michigan November 27, 2009 at 10:28 am

I fully agree too.

9 Friend of Maddie November 26, 2009 at 7:12 pm

i agree.

happy thanksgiving, heather and mike. and rigby!

10 missbanshee November 26, 2009 at 1:32 am

Happy Thanksgiving, Spohrs. What a beautiful reason to be thankful.
.-= missbanshee´s last blog ..Are You Making Fun Of My Headgear? =-.

11 Krissa November 26, 2009 at 1:53 am

Warm (((hugs))) and a Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. This is a beautiful post.

12 Casey November 26, 2009 at 2:15 am

I love how she’s about the same size as that turkey! ;-) Beautiful girl as always. Happy Thanksgiving!

13 Kelly November 26, 2009 at 2:24 am

Happy Thanksgiving, Heather. Hugs to all
.-= Kelly´s last blog ..Shame i have to move her… =-.

14 Summer November 26, 2009 at 2:46 am

Happy Thanksgiving to you both!

15 jen November 26, 2009 at 3:01 am

Beautiful! Happy Thanksgiving!
.-= jen´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday- Oh brother! =-.

16 habanerogal November 26, 2009 at 3:53 am

Many good wishes to you and Mike for Thanksgiving. Hope it is spent with the people that you love.
.-= habanerogal´s last blog ..Facebook is watching me on webcam and I’m scared =-.

17 amanda November 26, 2009 at 4:34 am

What a doll!

Happy Thanksgiving!

xo from CT,
Amanda
.-= amanda´s last blog ..thankful =-.

18 Amy M November 26, 2009 at 4:37 am

I hope today is filled with happy memories for you!
.-= Amy M´s last blog ..Two little pumpkins =-.

19 Kristen McD November 26, 2009 at 4:41 am

That tuekry looks like it might have a few pounds on her. lol. Lovely girl.

Love to you and Mike and your family today.

20 red pen mama November 26, 2009 at 4:45 am

Happy Thanksgiving. You will always be hers.

ciao,
rpm
.-= red pen mama´s last blog ..Thankful Thursday =-.

21 Tina November 26, 2009 at 4:49 am

My mom passed away last September, so Thanksgiving last year was a blur. This year it is more real that she is gone. I especially love the pics of your mom with Maddie. You could tell that Maddie was totally grandma’s girl… :-) Give your Mom a hug today, and hold on tight…
Best to you and your family…
Happy Thanksgiving

22 Gemini-Girl November 26, 2009 at 4:51 am

And I am so thankful that you are my soul sister. love you.
.-= Gemini-Girl´s last blog ..Happy Thanksgiving to You & Yours! =-.

23 binkytowne November 26, 2009 at 5:01 am

I am thankful that I get the chance to read your words and see cute pictures of Maddie. Good thoughts for you today. (and every day)
.-= binkytowne´s last blog ..Thankful =-.

24 Jill Sarven November 26, 2009 at 5:19 am

SHE IS AND ALWAYS WILL BE BEAUTIFUL….god bless and Happy Thanksgiving from the Sarvens of Lima Ohio

25 cj November 26, 2009 at 5:27 am

we are thankful for you….that Maddie is your daughter, that you are her mommy and that you share your life with all of us. i hope that you have a wonderful Thanksgiving remembering your beautiful daughter.

26 Jenn November 26, 2009 at 5:40 am

Hi Heather,

When I saw the pics of Maddie today, I couldn’t help but cry. She’s so cute, so perfect. I wondered if you would share those pictures of her. I’m glad you did.

I know you are thankful for Maddie, just as I know SHE is thankful for you and Mike. Even though it’s not my Thanksgiving, I am thankful I found your site, you opened your heart & soul and shared the most precious thing in the world with us.

I wish you and Mike and your families a joyful Thanksgivings filled with love, laughter and hope.

Blessings to all of you today and ALWAYS….
Jenn

27 Karen Chatters November 26, 2009 at 6:15 am

Happy Thanksgiving, Spohr family.
.-= Karen Chatters´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday =-.

28 Kristel November 26, 2009 at 6:22 am

And even though it’s not Thanksgiving north of the border, I am so very thankful you have shared so much of your daughter, and yourselves, with the world.

I am thankful, each and every day, for the Spohrs!
.-= Kristel´s last blog ..I am sew cool =-.

29 Lindsay from Florida November 26, 2009 at 6:28 am

I just saw Abby Cadabby on the Parade and had to come comment. I am so thankful to have “met” you this year and so thankful that your family will have a new baby to welcome very soon.

And we are ALL thankful that your amazing Madeline lived a life that will continue to touch others for many, many years.

Happy Thanksgiving, Spohrs!!!

30 Tiffany November 26, 2009 at 6:32 am

Happy Thanksgiving to you all today! Maddie was lucky to have you for a mama and you are also for having her as your daughter. What a wonderful things to be thankful for! May you be able to see just how many blessings you have today! I am thankful that you all continue to share your story with us each and every day, good and bad. I hope that today is a good day filled with lots of turkey, desserts, & naps. :)
.-= Tiffany´s last blog ..Blair’s 1st Birthday Party =-.

31 Chrissie November 26, 2009 at 6:34 am

I am thankful that I have the chance to “know” you.

(((HUGS)))

32 kristen November 26, 2009 at 6:44 am

thankful every day for the wisdom and strength and love you share with the world.

thankful for maddie.

hopes for a happy thanksgiving for you all.

xo
kristen

33 Dawn November 26, 2009 at 6:54 am

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!

Thanks for sharing your beautiful daughter with the world.
.-= Dawn´s last blog ..I swear I wasn’t looking…OR I’ve still got it! =-.

34 Francesca November 26, 2009 at 7:23 am

beautiful. happy thanksgiving. love.

35 Elizabeth November 26, 2009 at 7:33 am

Happy Thanksgiving to you and Mike! I am so thankful that I found your blog and got the chance to “know” Maddie and you, Mike and Rigby. ((Hugs)) from KY

36 Tami November 26, 2009 at 7:36 am

Happy Thanksgiving Heather and Mike. The pictures are adorable of Maddie. Hugs, and thinking of you both.

37 tara November 26, 2009 at 7:45 am

happy thanksgiving to you. sending you so many hugs and lots of love today, and every day. xo

38 monica November 26, 2009 at 7:52 am

Happy Thanksgiving! I love her little face, I melt every time I see it. She is just a doll!!

39 Tara. November 26, 2009 at 7:55 am

Happy Thanksgiving Heather and Mike! Maddy is feasting in heaven!
I know today is hard. Be kind to yourself and take it easy. {{{hugs}}}
.-= Tara.´s last blog ..# 25. =-.

40 Christina November 26, 2009 at 8:03 am

Happy Thanksgiving Heather and Mike! I am so thankful I’ve gotten to “know” you through your blog. I saw the Abby Cadabby float in the Macy’s parade and thought of Maddie…be good to yourselves today <3

41 Ginger November 26, 2009 at 8:07 am

I am thankful you had her for that brief shining moment, here with you, but she will always, always be yours. Happy days to you ,Heather and MZike.
.-= Ginger´s last blog ..Of sticks and tails and compasses =-.

42 jen November 26, 2009 at 8:07 am

I am thankful that although i never met Maddie she has made a difference in my life and so many others.

Sending my love…
.-= jen´s last blog ..melt with you.. =-.

43 Alexandra :) November 26, 2009 at 8:15 am

I have to agree with you, Heather. That sweet face is a lot to be thankful for.

44 Aunt Becky November 26, 2009 at 8:18 am

Shit, I remember when I saw those last year. I’m so thankful I know you and that I know Maddie, and Mike and Binky and Rigby.

Thank you for being my BFF, Heather. You’ve brought a lot of joy into my life.
.-= Aunt Becky´s last blog ..Blogging For Dummies =-.

45 Alison November 26, 2009 at 8:57 am

I’m thankful for getting to know Maddie and you guys courtesy of this here internet. And I’m thankful, as a lot of people are, for all that you and Mike do in her memory. Happy Thanksgiving.

xoxo
.-= Alison´s last blog ..Separation Success =-.

46 Glenda November 26, 2009 at 9:11 am

Heather, beautiful pictures! Thanks for sharing! Happy Thanksgiving to you, Mike, Binky & Rigby and the rest of your family too! XXX

47 Angella November 26, 2009 at 9:13 am

I’m thankful that we’ve all gotten to know your family.

Happy Thanksgiving, Heather. xoxo
.-= Angella´s last blog ..The First Cut Is The Deepest =-.

48 susie November 26, 2009 at 9:19 am

Happy Thanksgiving from my family to yours.

49 missy November 26, 2009 at 9:19 am

Happy Thanksgiving!

50 Jenny @ http://motherlawyercrazywoman.blogspot.com/ November 26, 2009 at 9:25 am

Happy Thanksgiving!
.-= Jenny @ http://motherlawyercrazywoman.blogspot.com/´s last blog ..Culinary Genius =-.

51 pgoodness November 26, 2009 at 9:36 am

Happy Thanksgiving, Spohr family. I am thankful you shared your sweet Maddie with us. xo
.-= pgoodness´s last blog ..Thankful leaves =-.

52 mel November 26, 2009 at 9:48 am

Thinking of all of you today. Much love to your family as well.

53 Jen L. November 26, 2009 at 9:54 am

Such a beauty. Have a good Thanksgiving.
.-= Jen L.´s last blog ..Too Close To Home =-.

54 cindy w November 26, 2009 at 9:58 am

And I am thankful for my brave & strong friend Heather, and for what a wonderful mommy she is.
.-= cindy w´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday =-.

55 Mama Cas November 26, 2009 at 10:07 am

Hugs from New York. I know it’s not much and will never ease your pain….but I’m thinking of you.

56 deej November 26, 2009 at 10:23 am

Many hugs and love for you, Mike, St. Gramma and Bampa today.

57 Kelly November 26, 2009 at 10:31 am

Just a while ago I turned on the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade and who should be floating by? Abby Cadabby!

I am so thankful that through her parents I came to know a bit about the Magnificent Maddie.

Happy Thanksgiving to all of Madeline’s beloved family.
.-= Kelly´s last blog ..We Shall Love One and Other =-.

58 Sarah M. November 26, 2009 at 10:32 am

I’m so thankful I got to see Maddie’s beautiful eyes this Thanksgiving day. Thank you so much for sharing her with us :)

59 Kim November 26, 2009 at 10:58 am

And I am thankful for you my dear friend. Thankful that I can call you my friend and that I have been able to get to know Maddie through you. Have a wonderful day and give that belly some sweet rubs from her Auntie Kim.
.-= Kim´s last blog ..Thankful =-.

60 Suzie November 26, 2009 at 11:12 am

You are so right! You are her mommy and she is your daughter!! Happy Thanksgiving from Iowa!! Hoping Rigby is better and you, Mike and Binky eat lots of turkey today! I enjoyed this post so much, brightenend my day!! Let’s keep that little turkey of yours in the oven for a while longer!! Been following your friend, Anissa’s journey, and it sounds so encourageing. Praying for all of you!! Take care, my friend(not IRL, but oh well), lol

61 Lisa November 26, 2009 at 1:29 pm

Happy Thanksgiving. Those photos are beautiful.

Love and hugs.
.-= Lisa´s last blog ..Happy Thanksgiving =-.

62 Domestic Extraordinaire November 26, 2009 at 1:51 pm

much love to you today and always.
.-= Domestic Extraordinaire´s last blog ..Terrors of Thanksgiving Past =-.

63 cm November 26, 2009 at 2:04 pm

Happy Thanksgiving Spohrs!

64 Sherry November 26, 2009 at 2:44 pm

Thank you for those beautiful pictures!!!!

You were indeed blessed with her.

You will always be her Mommy. She will always love you too.

May God bless you with only goodness and happiness from now on.

You are such a strong wonderful woman.

I know the Hoilday’s must be so hard. What beautiful memories you have.

I do still cry when I realize again how deep the loss of her was to you and even to all those who are stangers and who have learned to love her so.

Take care!! The pictures are wonderful.

65 Sara GC in the FL November 26, 2009 at 3:46 pm

Happy Thanksgiving Spohrs! :)

66 Kate November 26, 2009 at 4:49 pm

thinking of you…. lovely pics

67 Rebecca November 26, 2009 at 6:42 pm

I’m pretty sure the bird looks bigger than her. So so so cute and adorable. I bet she tried to gobble the whole thing, or did she try to wear it on her head like how Joey did on Friends.
.-= Rebecca´s last blog ..Merry Christmas =-.

68 Alli November 26, 2009 at 7:12 pm

Beautiful…just beautiful.

~Hugs from TX
.-= Alli´s last blog ..Long Time No Blog =-.

69 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] November 26, 2009 at 7:19 pm

Frackin cute.
.-= Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing]´s last blog ..Having a big open family is all good until they totally ruin your sex night =-.

70 Mary November 26, 2009 at 7:48 pm

Those simple words…can’t believe I’m crying so hard, both with you and for you.
Blessings to your family.

71 Andrea November 26, 2009 at 11:12 pm

Happy Thanksgiving to Maddie in heaven.
.-= Andrea´s last blog ..I Couldn’t Ask For More =-.

72 Noelle November 26, 2009 at 11:52 pm

I am so thankful that you have shared so much of her with us all.
Hugs to you.

73 Tamara November 27, 2009 at 12:50 am

I somehow came across your blog tonight. Beautiful and tragic all at once. I will be praying for you and your family. As I type this it is almost 3am and I have been trying to stop reading your blog for about 3 hours! I just couldnt stop. Thank you for sharing your story. I am so touched. I am crying for you and your loss. Tonight my son wanted to sleep with me and I said no. I know that making my son sleep in his bed is not a bad thing but I am about to go get him and bring him to my bed to cuddle between my husband and I. Thank you. Thank you for reminding me how lucky I am. On Thanksgiving, I am adding you to the list of things I am thankful for. May God bless you, your husband, and your children.

74 cheryl November 27, 2009 at 6:58 am

These are wonderful photos. madeline was so beautiful and adorable.

75 preTzel November 27, 2009 at 7:09 am

Happy Thanksgiving Heather, Mike, Rigby, and Binky. <3

76 vp November 27, 2009 at 8:31 am

this kid never took a bad picture, did she?
i’m sure little-miss-binky will be the same way as her big sis. i know your hearts are heavy but i’m sure maddie is thankful she has really amazing parents.

77 Stephanie November 27, 2009 at 9:17 am

She is adorable…
Happy Thanksgiving!

BODA weight loss

78 Leslie November 27, 2009 at 9:31 am

She’s so beautiful.

I love you all so very much.

79 Molly November 27, 2009 at 10:54 am

Oh, sweet Maddie. Happy Thanksgiving, guys! Hope Binky gave you lots of big kicks.

80 Tina November 27, 2009 at 1:03 pm

You have the best photos of her.

Love to you all this Thanksgiving and everyday.

XOXO

81 Debi Powell November 27, 2009 at 6:27 pm

I’m thankful you took the most amazing photos of her so you could share her with the world! I know each one is priceless. I can SEE the love spilling from your heart for her.
Enjoy today… enjoy your pregnancy… enjoy your precious memories of Maddie!

82 mythoughtsonthat November 27, 2009 at 8:19 pm

Your girl, she is something.

Faith….Hope….Love….Peace.
.-= mythoughtsonthat´s last blog ..I Spend My Day With Children =-.

83 Ray November 27, 2009 at 10:55 pm

Such a cute Thanksgiving outifit Maddie had on. But, oh my, those shiny red shoes? Too cute! And that photo of you and her? Precious. You will always be her mommy, yes. And she will always be your daughter. And what a blessing she was. And what a blessing she will always be. To you, your family and those like us who are just lucky to read her story, to read about her (which reminds me that I must go back on this blog, and read some more about her). <3

84 Danny November 28, 2009 at 9:47 am

What great photos (Jesus, that turkey was massive!). Madeline should have been here with you this Thanksgiving, it’s really agonizing. How do we learn to accept such things? There’s just nothing harder. Happy Holidays to all of you.
.-= Danny´s last blog ..What I Am Thankful For This Year =-.

85 Momma Uncensored November 28, 2009 at 5:10 pm

thoughts of you.
what a beautiful girl in a beautiful dress.%Pr

86 Kelley Land November 28, 2009 at 5:49 pm

And we are thankful that you’ve shared her with us. Our lives will never be the same.
.-= Kelley Land´s last blog ..Five Years =-.

87 Kim Jones November 28, 2009 at 7:10 pm

Abby Cadaby in the parade made me smile for your Maddie. What a peanut, that turkey was bigger than her!

88 C November 28, 2009 at 10:07 pm

Big hugs all the way from Canada. What a beautiful post for a beautiful girl. Thinking of you guys. Our preemie was born on the same day as Maddie, only the year after. I think of Maddie often whenever I look at my little preemie…who was also born at the same gestational age as Maddie.

xo
.-= C´s last blog ..Something I Want to Try =-.

89 Heidy Martinez November 29, 2009 at 5:44 am

I know the holiday season is always a very hard time, I know exactly what you are going through. I always have my son in my mind but Im also very thankful for the time that he did spend with me and Im thankful for what I have now. Hang in there.

Question: There was this guy that you mentioned in one of your post a few months back. He had twins but one of them passed. You went to some time of concert with him. I used to follow his blog but my MAC crashed and I lost the page. I would like to follow him again to see how the baby (Charlie) is doing. Do you have the page. Thanks

90 Heather November 29, 2009 at 8:59 am
91 Kandi Ann November 29, 2009 at 12:23 pm

Dearest Maddie, Heather and Mike. I love the pictures you post. I Thank God for you all and you show me in the worst times to keep my chin up, or at least when its down, I know I can come here and read about Maddie & Binky and smile through my tears. I just wanted to say, I don’t know what it all means with my niece Amber Aka Boogie, It seems like good/great/Miracle news, she is set to get a blood test once a month. They can’t FIND anything now. Though she has bald spots, weird black pour things on her beautiful little red head, no one has a name. I am hoping that is because we got our Miracle and there is nothing wrong. Though there is a f*ear that isn’t the case. We don’t have the best medical teams here. So when she moves back here soon I will just keep Praying over her and letting God take care of it all. I think about you all often and hope that you can smile through the tears of this Christmas. Maddie wouldn’t want you to be crying. She is an active little angel that I know is touching lives every where and will for as long as we live on earth. Love to you all. xoxo, Kandi

92 Childwoman November 29, 2009 at 7:59 pm

I am so thankful that I met you in the blog world. I am thankful for the strength and courage you show. Thank You for the inspiration.

hugs

Childwoman~

93 Stephanie November 30, 2009 at 8:20 am

Sometimes when my son, Jasper, is upset, I go to your site and show him photos of Maddie. He immediately grins, laughs, and kicks in a way that’s different from the way he reacts to all other babies. Her smile, her joy, are so contagious in all of the photos…I just wanted to thank you for sharing so much of your life with us.

94 thatgirlblogs November 30, 2009 at 1:13 pm

I have four children… but Maddie was, and is, the most beautiful baby that ever was, and is.

95 Al_Pal November 30, 2009 at 8:27 pm

Such sweet photos!
Happy Thanksgiving, Spohrs.

96 qcmama December 5, 2009 at 4:30 am

Dear Heather and Mike,
I havebeen thinking about you guys alot this week. I don’t know if it is because my Madilynn is 17 months old this month, or if it is just the holidays in general. I want you guys to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday and so is your Madeline and Binky. :) I wish I were close enough to give you a real hug but guess I will settle for a virtual one. :) (((HUG))) Take care you two, well 3.