On the morning of November 11, 2007 you were still in my belly. I was in the hospital, doing everything I could to make sure you were healthy. But, things weren’t going well that day. I had a lot of stomach pain. My perinatologist felt my abdomen and when I groaned, he said labor was close. Then my OB came in and gave me a sterile speculum exam, one of the most painful exams I’ve ever had. She said I wasn’t dilated and I should relax.
Then I started bleeding. My OB was called again. The blood came out in gobs. I wasn’t scared, because the doctors had told me to relax. I was alone in the hospital room, talking to Jackie! on the phone, when my nurse came in and said I was going to have a C-Section and you’d be here ASAP. I called Daddy and told him to come back to the hospital right away.
When I was wheeled into the operating room, everyone who already loved you was waiting with baited breath for you to arrive. The neonatologists came in and told me and your daddy not to worry if you didn’t cry, because your lungs had been through such a hard time. As I laid there on the operating table, I said a prayer to my grandmas and great grandma, asking them to give you air in your lungs.
When you were born at 4:22 pm, you cried, and your daddy and I cried, too.
I wanted them to put you on my chest, but you were very small and sick. Daddy and the nurses took you to the NICU, but before they left they told me to give you a kiss. Because of the way they held you, I only managed to kiss your little hat. I didn’t get to give you a kiss on your soft skin for two weeks.
While the doctors worked on us, your daddy took pictures so I could see you. He came back to where I was recovering and said how beautiful you were. Your daddy and I were so happy. Then your doctors came back and told us how sick you were, so sick that you needed to go to another hospital. And even though I’d known for months that you were likely to be sick, I still cried. I cried as hard as my sewn up body would let me, and I cursed it for letting you down.
The nurses said I could wait in the hallway outside of the NICU, so when the transfer team wheeled you by I could get a glimpse of you. They said you’d be out in 15 minutes. It took two hours for the transfer team to get you stable enough to be moved. The nurses offered to take me back to my room, but I waited for you in that hallway. When they wheeled you by, I told you to be strong, and that I loved you. I didn’t know if I’d see you alive again.
Since that day, your strength and bravery have amazed me. You made me a mommy, and it’s been such an honor to be YOUR mommy. You’ve been through so much but you are so happy, it blows me away. You have a smile for everyone – you bring out the best in people.
On November 11th, I stopped loving the idea of you and started loving you. Happy birthday, my beautiful, smart, happy little girl. You’re my dream come true.
November 11, 2007 - 3 lbs, 1 oz, 15 3/4 inches
November 11, 2008 - 13 lbs, 14oz, 26 1/2 inches, giant head
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Totally just made me cry. I love you, Maddie and Heather!
Happy Birthday, little Maddie! And a great big happy Birth Day to you too, Heather. May you have many, many, many more birthdays to celebrate together, and may each year be better than the last!
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Happy birthday Maddie! You are adorable.
Rachels last blog post..Nevermind
I normally lurk here. But I just have to say. What a beautiful letter to your beautiful daughter.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY NUMBER 1 to the cutest, sweetest, most loved baby on Earth! Kisses and Hugs! Grandma and Grandpa
One year of blowing the world away with her strength and cuteness! Happy birthday! You are a great mom for that little bundle of joy. Though maybe not so little… Almost 14 pounds!!
Alisons last blog post..There Are No Words
Oh Happy Birthday Maddie! And cheers to you Heather and to Mike. What a gorgeous little one you have.
Kristins last blog post..And a partridge in a pear tree
Happy Birthday Maddie! You guys are amazing.
I’m glad we all don’t gain 4 1/2 times our weight every year.
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Happy First Birthday Madeline! I always enjoy stories (and pictures) from the Maddie file:)
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Happy Happy day to you all!
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I’ve been waiting for the birthday post all morning. I just knew it would come. I’ll remember that day forever and just want you to know that I am thinking about all 3 of you today. Happy First (with many, many more to come) Birthday, Maddie – my favorite baby girl in the whole world!
Oh, Heather. Birth-day anniversaries are so special and this one is especially precious because of the circumstances of Maddie’s birth.
That girl has angels swirling around her head all the time and their smiles are exactly like the one on your daughter’s face.
And she is your angel.
Ms. Moons last blog post..Ask Ms. Moon
I’m going in the other room to SHOW YOU MY TEARS.
moosh in indy.s last blog post..Out of Season/Place
AWWWW….so sweet.
I adore her giant head and I can’t wait to see it again!
Happy Birthday Maddie! We love you!
AMomTwoBoyss last blog post..It’s a Brand New Day!
*sobs*
Happy First Birthday, Miss Maddy. Your future husband (and partner in macrocephalic glory) Alex, wishes you all the best. He also tells me that cake is totally overrated.
Aunt Beckys last blog post..Carry On My Wayward Son
What an incredible journey. She is truly a blessing.
Happy Birthday Maddie!
You have a beautiful daughter. I hope she has a wonderful 1st Birthday!
Wow! HAPPY Birthday Maddie! Many Hugs from Ohio!!
Heather at Domestic Extraordinaires last blog post..Can I be a Winner Twice in One Week?
Oh Heather, that was so beautiful. Maddie is such an amazing girl and you and Mike are clearly wonderful parents. Happy Birthday to that darling child of yours!
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This post made me cry. You and Mike are certainly blessed with one very special girl.
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So sweet -
Happy Birthday, Maddie!
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Happy Birthday.
Backpacking Dads last blog post..Hugs and Cuddles and Things That Make You Feel Sick
Happy Birthday my sweet little maddie!!! Love you!
My Lil Moozer. Happy Birthday, Precious. That was so sweet, Heather – very poignant, and Maddie is lucky to have parents like you and Mike. I hope you had a fabulous day with your lil miracle. xoxo
Happy First Birthday Madeline Alice! You are a beautiful girl and your smile lights up the world.
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Happy Birthday, sweet Madeline.
Susans last blog post..Honoring all who served and who now serve
Wow. Happy Birthday, Madeline.
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Teary. I love your blog Heather! Look at this sweet girl and how far she has come. Look at her beautiful and brave momma! Love you…Happy Birthday Sweet Girl.
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Happy Birthday Maddie! What a beautiful last paragraph you wrote.
I have been lurking for a long time now and just had to come out of hiding to say Happy Birthday to your family! What an amazing year you have had!
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That was beautiful. She is beautiful. Happy birthday to the both of you. To all of you.
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Happy Birthday Maddie!
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Happy Late Birthday, Sweet Maddie! You are a fighter-never forget that!
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Happy Birthday to your beautiful little girl. She’s an amazing child.
Happy Birthday to your beautiful little girl. She’s an amazing child.
Happy Birthday to Maddie. Happy Anniversary of Becoming a Mom to you!
dysfunctional moms last blog post..Wordless Wednesday ~ Butterfly Rainforest
Happy Birthday Maddie!
She is one amazing little baby! And your post brought tears to my eyes.
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Happy birthday, Maddie!
Raise your hand if you got teary-eyed!
*Raises hand*
Happy Birthday, sweet little girl!
That was am amazing post – brought tears to my eyes!
I’m glad everything turned out ok for you. I went to an appointment with my wife last monday and we weren’t so lucky. We’re going to take some time off and try again in a couple of months.
Congrats and Happy Baby Birthday!
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Happy birthday, Maddie! I will never forget the day you were born. You have been such a fun addition to our group of friends. You always manage to light up a room with your beautiful smile and beautiful eyes. I can’t wait to watch you grow up.
Late to the party, but crying with the rest of them. Happy Birthday Maddie!! And big smiles to Heather and Mike as well. Sending you all lots of love from the East;). xoxo
I wrote about my preemies story a few days ago. she will be 12 TOMORROW! Can’t believe it
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Happy birthday to Maddy. Congratulations to you Heather and Mike.
Happy first birthday to your sweet baby girl!
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Oh heather…I know how long and short a year can seem. But what an amazing girl you have! She has stolen my heart and millions more to come.
Happy birthday, Maddie.
–That crazy stalkerish lady
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Happy Birthday, sweet little Maddie!
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You made me cry hard through Zoloft. No small feat friend. Go Maddie!!!
Heather, this was such sweet post! For such a beautiful little girl! Happy birthday Maddie!
Kristabellas last blog post..Winter Wonderland
So beautiful.
Happy birthday, Madeline!
maggie, dammits last blog post..Love Letter
Happy Birthday to sweet girl Maddie and to mommy & daddy too.
Happy birthday Maddie! And well done to your mama and daddy. I hope the coming year will be nice and smooth, no hospital visits and no scares. Oh, and lots and lots of eating on Maddie’s part
Becs last blog post..The good news
Awww! What a miracle. The perfect story to stumble upon on Christmas morning.
I’ve been reading everything again. This is a beautiful post Heather. Beautiful.
Maddie is so lucky that you are her mommy. Always and forever, even if you are apart.
Love you!!!
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Aww very beautiful post.
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