Most people know I’m a huge Beatles fan, but few know my case of Beatlemania extends all the way to being a fan of Yoko Ono. Being a fan of Yoko ain’t easy. Between her mystifying performance art and eardrum rattling screams, I’ve learned to be ready for the weird and unexpected. Unfortunately, I was not prepared for one weird and unexpected thing Yoko did – block me on Twitter.
I bought my first Yoko album in college. I’d already acquired every Beatles album – not to mention all of the lads’ solo albums – so when I heard John and Ringo played on her early solo albums I picked one up. I put it in my CD player, sat down to have a relaxing listening session, then heard:
“AAAAAAAAAAAAIIIIIIIIIIIIEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!”
My roommate, Andrew, came running out of his room.
“What the hell is that?”
“Uh, Yoko Ono.”
“AAAAAAAAAAAIIIIIIIIIEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!”
“Wow, Spohr. I think it might be time to stage a Beatles intervention with you.”
“But John’s on guitar. And Ringo’s on drums!”
Andrew eyed me with an expression that would one day belong to McKayla Maroney, then returned to his room and shut the door. In time my friends tolerated Yoko’s albums (at an agreed upon low volume), and when Yoko and her son, Sean, announced a concert at the Roxy on Sunset, my friend Nora even agreed to go with me! I think she realized it would make a good cocktail party anecdote one day.
On the night of the concert Nora and I were packed like sardines in the little club when Yoko came out and, from only ten feet away, unleashed her trademark howl. It was pretty cool. A little wacky, but cool. Soon, however, I noticed a creepy dude with a natty beard making bizarre hand gestures at Yoko. Then, most disturbingly, he mouthed, “Kill you!”
Yoko motioned for security, but in the throng of people they couldn’t find the culprit. Seeing this, I pointed out the weirdo, and security nabbed him. Yoko nodded at me, appreciative.
Wow, I thought. I just saved Yoko! I was feeling pretty good about myself, I must say.
But then for the encore Yoko wanted everyone to pump their fist in the air, and being the awkward nineteen year old that I was, I was too self-conscious to do it. Yoko gestured over and over for me to join in, but for some reason I just couldn’t. She finally frowned and turned away.
For years I regretted not doing the stupid fist pump and wished there was a way to explain myself. That wasn’t possible, of course, so I put it out of my mind… until four years ago when Heather introduced me to Twitter.
“Lots of people are on it,” she said. “Even Yoko Ono.”
Intrigued, I got an account and made the ill-advised decision to tell Yoko my story. I’d only started typing when Twitter told me I was over the limit.
“What happened?”
“You only get 140 characters per tweet,” Heather said.
I nodded, then, not understanding how Twitter worked, told myself my story was going to take a bunch of tweets to tell. I typed away, sending tweet after tweet (way too many tweets), then went to dinner. When I returned I got online to see if Yoko had responded and saw this:
“You have been blocked from following this account at the request of the user.”
Heather broke into hysterical laughter. “Yoko blocked you! That is the best thing ever!”
She laughed some more then asked, “How many tweets did you send her?”
“I don’t know. Like fourteen? Is that bad?”
Heather laughed even harder. “You know that scene in ‘Swingers’ where Jon Favreau keeps leaving messages on that girl’s machine?”
“Uh-huh.”
“This is worse.”
Heather still finds this story endlessly amusing, and teases me that I got blocked on Twitter by a woman who knows from creepy stalkers. I’ve resisted writing about it until now because I’m aware it makes me sound like a complete moron. The thing is, you have to understand that this was back in 2008 and…. Eh, who am I kidding. There’s no looking good on this one.
Sorry, Yoko! (he says, while fist pumping)
Jenn says:
When I first started reading this I got so Mad and thought “Ohh Man!! I am going to tweet Yoko right now & tell that chic off”!! But then I got to the part about the 14 tweets & too be honest, it stopped me dead in my trackes!! No offense my friend but, I kinda agree with Heather & Yoko….it’s a little…uh….hhhhmmm……well…….maybe….just a little….weird..???? So, although I had planned to tell Yoko off, I just couldn’t b/c too be honest there is a part of me that kinda wonders if maybe you might have scared her or at the very least FREAKED her out?!
I do however get how much you love her & the Beatles and I am very sorry Yoko doesn’t want to be your friend on Twitter. HOWEVER, perhaps if you write her a real snail mail letter & explain your sweet story, maybe she would become endeared towards you and just HAVE to be your BEST FRIEND!!!! It’s worth a try!?!?! And if all else fails, at least you will ALWAYS have the music and the memories!!!
Mijke says:
I say we all tweet her the link to this post! She will HAVE to forgive you then (for both refusing to pump your fist AND for sending her fourteen tweets in a row). After all: you saved her life!
Now, if someone could just tell me how to find Yoko and tweet her a link…
S says:
Just read this, and I totally suggested that someone tweet her the link as well. Great minds…
(I should really read other comments before posting my own.)
Jody says:
This is the best story. I have had a bad week and this made me laugh. The fist pump, the regret about the pump, trying to explain to Yoko about the fist pump. I love this. And I love that Heather still laughs about it today. Those are the best kind of stories. But you got a nod and a frown out of Yoko, that is more than most can say.
Lisa says:
Well you only looked just a little stalker(ish).
suzanne says:
This story is a thing of beauty.
kristin says:
This is ALSO awesome! You guys are two-for-two in the excellent story department today!
Skye says:
Hahaha. This story is awesome, and I totally know what you mean about feeling silly about the fist pump for years… I do things like that too! The McKayla Maroney line really made me laugh.
S says:
I don’t tweet, but I kind of sort of get how it works. I think someone who does (Heather?) should tweet a link to this story and tag Yoko. One tweet, your entire story explained, and maybe she’ll unblock you.
Amber Bunn says:
I totally get you- I am the type of person that has to explain everything also- which is why I do not tweet!
Annalisa says:
Hmmm… I wonder what would happen if we retweeted mamaspohr’s twitter link… how long would it take to reach Yoko Ono?
(Yes, hash tagging is faster, but wouldn’t it be too obvious and easy for YO to tune out?)
Brooke says:
Being a Beatles fanatic myself this made me chuckle. Good job.
Marie says:
You should have sent a twitlonger! http://www.twitlonger.com
Mike says:
That would have been good… Unfortunately it didn’t exist yet back in 2008!
Lisa says:
That’s ok…I got blocked by UPS’s twitter for complaining (in a series of 6 tweets) about one of their incompetent drivers. Don’t feel bad
Jay- The Dude of the House says:
That is a great story, but the most amazing part is that you actually like Yoko’s music. I have a couple Plastic Ono Band albums and they are hard to listen to. Even when John was playing, sadly.
abby says:
GAH Andrew is such a buzz kill.
Mike says:
Ha! How would you ever know?
Auntie_M says:
That whole story is hysterically awesome!! This with the Annie & Heather and the butt talker make for the perfect Friday! LOL
Gotta love the Spohrs!!!
Tara says:
I love it! Knowing nothing about Twitter and having never used it to this day, I can totally see myself doing something similar.
I love the Beatles too but never have listened to Yoko.
Mommy says:
Being a fan of Yoko ain’t easy! I see what you did there!! Clever!!!
Also, this story is hilarious and endearing. You and Heather seem like so much fun.
Yoko should give Mike a chance.