A couple days ago I said that, thanks to Rigby, I had cared for Madeline flawlessly for the most part. I’m not going to say this statement was untrue, but I will do my best impression of a contract lawyer and direct you to the statement, “for the most part.” Before you get too worried please realize that no babies were harmed in this production. Nonetheless, I may have made one pretty bad mistake while caring for Maddie that, when I realized what I had done, made me tear up. Wait. The contract lawyer in me has advised me to revise that statement. I didn’t tear up…dudes never tear up unless “Field Of Dreams” comes on TBS…I just inexplicably found that wetness had appeared on my eyeballs.
So, as you may know, Maddie is off the bottom of the weight chart for her age not only because she was a preemie, but also because she has been adversely affected by the media’s tendency to glamorize women of nearly anorexic weights. Okay. Maybe it was mainly because she was a preemie, but I’m pretty sure that re-run of “The Simple Life” I once watched while feeding her didn’t help.
Anyhoo, the first week I was left home alone with Maddie my wife left me with a million instructions on how to take care of her. There were ten steps to be followed when changing a diaper, elaborate demonstrations of how to swaddle her, heck, there may have even been a long discussion of how to even breathe around the kid. That last one may have been an exaggeration, but it gives you the idea.
At the end of my first week as Maddie’s day-time caretaker Heather came home and was very impressed with my work. Had I correctly instituted the ten step instructions on how to change her diaper? Check. Was I able to swaddle her pefectly in ten seconds or less? Check. Did I put two scoops of formula into the 110 cc’s of water every time I fed her? Check, er, what? TWO SCOOPS? I thought it was just one!
Heather’s jaw dropped. “You’ve only been giving her one scoop?”
I cleared my throat and said, “Um, er, perhaps?”
Heather was not happy. “That’s just great, babe,” she said (although she may have said something less loving than babe), “because our baby is already so fat!”
This is when “Field Of Dreams” suddenly came on TBS. I looked at my little Kate Moss baby and felt like the worst dad ever. After a few seconds, however, she smiled at me with an expression that said, if I wasn’t exactly the world’s best dad, I was pretty decent. I scooped her into my arms and smothered her with kisses.
Ever since that little hiccup Maddie has received two, if not two and a half scoops, in every bottle I’ve ever given her, and when “The Simple Life” comes on I change the channel and tell her that most men actually find Kate Winslet way hotter than Paris Hilton.
Black Hockey Jesus says:
O Kate Winslet.
Dude this is good stuff. I have a tip to generate some action.
“The Newborn Vagina”. Shit. Maybe not. But work vagina in there somehow. I swear to you.
Danielle says:
You should give her a fudgesicle to make up for it…
Heather says:
Remember how she was totally pounding all those bottles? And we were like, she’s gonna get sooooo fat? And then she didn’t gain ANY weight? Yeah.
maya says:
First of all- my company thanks you for the TBS shout out.
Secondly, we all make mistakes as first time parents. The first born is always the test dummie. Maddie seems to be doing well after all is said and done- but you do need to talk to her about not emulating nicole richie.
Leslie says:
I have to remind myself all the time that I am human because I beat the shit out of myself when I slip up. If it makes you feel any better – you sound like an AWESOME daddy and Miss Maddie, who is just gorgeous, is very lucky to have you for a dad. By the way, I have really enjoyed your blog (and Heather’s too). I listed them on my site, but don’t get all twitterpaited about it because I don’t get much traffic!
Worker Mommy says:
Mistakes happen to the best of us, the fact that we feel like shit afterwards it what makes us good parents…in that we care so much. Hmm…my personal favorite: My 4 month old daugther had recently learned to roll over. I set her in the middle of our bed for an instant while I turned my back to put on some shoes. Next thing I knew – “thud”. The look of shock on my babies face, oh and then the wailing (uh me and her). Yep you guessed it she rolled herself right of the bed. I was mortified.
Yeah, she’s five now and doin’ fine
(BTW, I came by way of Moosh in Indy…I couldn’t resist your post title)
Worker Mommy says:
Dude, sorry about the horrific spelling in my comments above…but it’s after 4 and well the end of my work week and my brain refuses to function properly
Mike says:
I totally read your whole post, worker mommy, and didn’t recognize a single spelling error. I must be tired too! Glad to hear your girl is doing well after her fall!
How to Fix a psp says:
you sound like an AWESOME daddy and Miss Maddie, who is just gorgeous, is very lucky to have you for a dad.
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