A few weeks ago Heather and I left Annabel in the care of my parents so we could attend Jackie’s memorial, and when we returned Annabel was out of her mind with excitement. Turns out that while we were gone my parents took Annie to the toy store and let her pick out whatever she wanted.
Annie’s choice – the thing that had her so freakin’ excited – was a doll house that a family of little panda bears lived in.
At the time I thought it was cute, but not something that was going to hold Annie’s attention any longer than her other toys. Boy, was I ever wrong about that.
Every morning since then I’ve gone into Annie’s room to get her out of her crib, and every morning she greets me the same way:
“Dada! Wanna play panda bears wif me?!”
Annie doesn’t just want to play first thing in the morning either. She wants to play all day long. Every ten minutes or so she strolls over to me, puts her hand on my knee, then asks in her sweetest voice, “Wanna play panda bears wif me, Dada? Pwease?”
And so I get on the floor and play panda bears.
After a couple days of this I told Heather that as adorable as this whole panda bear thing was, I didn’t know how much more panda bear playing I had in me. She laughed and told me not to worry as she was sure Anne’s obsession would pass soon.
But then the next day Heather came home with a present for Annie – a family of hedgehogs to join the pandas in the house! Annie lost her two year old mind and starting running around the house, whooping.
“What are you doing to me?” I asked Heather. “You’re enabling an addict!”
Heather laughed and said she stumbled upon the hedgehogs at the store, and that they were just too cute to pass up. While she was right that they were very cute, she definitely inspired a new round of fervor for “playing panda bears,” and not just with me:
“Mama! Wanna play panda bears wif me?”
“Gramma! Wanna play panda bears wif me?”
“Bampa! Wanna play panda bears wif me?”
Today Heather’s brother, Kyle, came over to visit, and before he got here we worked with Annie so that when we opened the door she would say, “Uncle Kyle! How are you?” We practiced this until Kyle’s car was heard parking outside, then asked Annie what she was going to say when we opened the door.
“Uncle Kyle!” she replied. “How are you?”
Heather smiled, pleased, then opened the door. Annie immediately sprinted up to Kyle and yelled, “Uncle Kyle! Wanna play panda bears wif me?!”
The funny thing is that while I may have reached my fill of “playing panda bears,” these tiny critters have triggered Annie’s imagination and ability to play pretend in an incredible way. For example, she will make the animals have entire conversations together, like this one I eavesdropped on today:
MAMA PANDA BEAR: “Hi, Mama Hedgehog. Let’s go inside.”
MAMA HEDGEHOG: “Okay, Mama Panda Bear. Wait. Where Baby Panda Bear?”
MAMA PANDA BEAR: “I don’t know!”
MAMA HEDGEHOG: “Oh no! We need to find him!”
MAMA PANDA BEAR: “Baby Panda Bear? Where are you?”
MAMA HEDGEHOG: “Here he is!”
MAMA PANDA BEAR: “Yay! Thank you, Mama Hedgehog!”
I almost died from the cute. But I didn’t dare let on that I was paying attention or else I surely would have heard, “DADA!!! WANNA PLAY PANDA BEARS WIF ME?!”
Jenn says:
You almost look excited in that picture!!! Ha ha!!! AAAhhh – The things we do for our kids!! You’re a good dada Mike…even if you’re not into playing panda’s 24/7!!!
Glenda says:
So cute!!!
Bianca says:
YAY! Sylvanian Families I used to love them as a kid Glad Annie is enjoying playing with them
Kristin says:
That’s the name of them!! I think its something different now, but yes, I had Sylvanian Families as a kid too. LOOOVED them. Luckily my mom keeps everything and I was able to pass mine along to my daughter.
Heather says:
We have some too! Calico Ceitters! Super cute until you step on one of the 100 minuscule pieces the come with!!! Lol
I love watching Annie and am so glad she found something to enchant her imagination!!
Annalisa says:
Get used to it: I hear Calico critters are very addicting. I’m crossing my fingers that neither grandma stumbles on them, or we’ll be doomed. :p
Madi says:
OMG those are Sylvanians! (I think they changed the name in the U.S. to Calico Critters?)
I LOVE THEM!I have like 200+ from when I was a kid, and many more in the box from Herrods in London.
LOVE THEM!
Where did she get them?!?! Which store? I haven’t been able to find them in stores forever!
Tracy says:
Toys R Us carries them, Learning Express carries them, and you can even order them on Amazon now.
Annalisa says:
Also, check out independent toy stores that cater to the organic toys crowd. They usually carry a great selection of them, since they’re very popular with that kind of parents (I happen to be one… we’ve only recently surrendered to the fact that I can’t banish plastic from my home).
TonyaM says:
You are the best daddy. That is all.
MissyK says:
This is great! I second TonyaM…You are the best daddy. LOL
Julie says:
Best toy ever! We are on year four of constant, daily play with those things. I love them because they provide years of toy ideas for family members, without taking up too much space. Annie has the world’s best grandparents!
Editdebs says:
My son had a Playmobile castle, and every morning and when he got home from daycare he would ask my husband to play castle with him–for probably about 3 years. So get excited about that panda family! It could last for a very long time.
Krissa says:
This post made me smile and that’s something I wouldn’t have believed possible at the moment. Very sweet.
S says:
You are a better parent than I. If my daughter asked, I would have looked her straight in the eye and said, “No thanks!” Well, at least, I would have after the 20th time she asked anyway.
Also, I don’t know why, but “Dada, wanna play panda bears wif me?” is a question that is really tickling my funny bone. I can’t stop laughing at it.
JennS says:
I had the rabbit family when I was a kid! I loved them!
Ali says:
We have two boys, and around our house the constant refrain is “train tracks, mommy?” “Train tracks, daddy?” As a man, I’m sure you’re thinking you’d rather play with train tracks than panda bears. You’d be wrong. But we do it anyway – apparently trains can talk to each other just as much as pandas and hedgehogs!
Diana says:
To get my son potty trained at 3, we used to make up these really funny stories together. It was great at first, and really developed his imagination. By 5, I was running out of material and getting so sick of them. My husband assured me it would not last forever. Now he is 8, and we just transferred him to a private school WAY across town. Any guess what we do every morning for 20 minutes? FIVE years later, I really, really, really hate stories!!! But of course he won’t ever know that….
mel says:
I feel for you. My 3yr old does the same thing. They have the cutest penguin triplets, but then you might need to buy her some additional real estate for them all to live in…
JoAnn says:
This is the most adorable post ever. And I, too, love hearing my son’s imagined conversations at playtime. Now that he’s four and a half and obsessed with lego heroes most of it is pretty gruff and grunt-like, but hearing his mind churning creatively is still pretty amazing!
twingles says:
Ah, Calico Critters. There are lots of other animals too. Just sayin’.
Meg says:
So sweet. What a good dad, getting down and playin’ panda bears! My dad would occasionally be “Ken” in my sister’s and my elaborate Barbie games.
Lisa A says:
She’s growing up!! So cute.
Amy says:
Just wait till she wants to play Barbies with you
Desera says:
SO cute! I love that you get down on the floor and play with her! You are an awesome Daddy!
Mommy says:
OMG too cute for words! Love it!!!
Meg says:
Right now, I want to hide every book that my daughter owns, because I am sick of all of them, and sick of reading them day in and day out, from the second she wakes up until the second she goes to bed. Gah, literacy is the WORST.
So, I feel you.
Annalisa says:
I felt that way too, but by now we’ve read all of the books, all of the time, and finally my daughter is realizing she CAN look at books all on her own. That’s a relief. Hang in there.
Meg says:
Oh, I wish. She knows all the words (I can pause and she’ll finish a page, or I’ll hear her muttering the words to herself while she’s in the stroller) but she won’t just sit and page through them if I’m around. Little fart!
Meg says:
Oh, I wish. She knows all the words (I can pause and she’ll finish a page, or I’ll hear her muttering the words to herself while she’s in the stroller) but she won’t just sit and page through them if I’m around. Little fart!
Jen PM says:
Hi Mike, just a word of warning: The panda bears are just the beginning. My daughter has a few calico critters (along with pet shops, poly pockets, groovy girls, etc). She just turned 7 and she is still amused by them.
grandma says:
Mike. I am so glad Annie loves her Panda bears. Going into town with her was so much fun. Adventure Toys was her favorite store. We all had so much fun. I will always reminber that day. Love, Mom