This is Heather and Mike’s friend Meghan again.
It breaks my heart to have to share this news with you, but sweet, beautiful Maddie passed away today. That’s all I know right now, but as soon as I have more information I will share it with you.
Heather and Mike have asked that in lieu of flowers you contribute to the March of Dimes in memory of Madeline Alice Spohr.
*Updated 4/8/09 9:30pm*
Thank you, everyone for your amazing show of love and support. Heather and Mike are truly grateful to all of you. Thanks, also, for bearing with us while we moved the site from their previous server. They were unable to handle the amount of visitors that have been coming by to send their love. But, with the help of two amazing women, Tempting Mama and PrincessJenn the site successfully made it’s way to it’s new home and there *shouldn’t* be any further problems, once all the final kinks are worked out.
Details for the service are being arranged tomorrow and will be announced when they are finalized. The hope is that it will be early next week in Burbank and everyone is invited and encouraged to attend. If you are planning to come, know that they are requesting that everyone wear purple.
A mailbox has been set up for Heather and Mike, so if you would like to send them anything, you can send it to:
Mike & Heather Spohr
11870 Santa Monica Blvd. #106-514
West Los Angeles, CA 90025
It is at a UPS Store, so they can accept packages as well.
There is also a PayPal account set up to take donations for any expenses they are incurring. Until a button is created (shortly) you can go to the PayPal site, click “Send Money” and use formaddie@hotmomreviews.com as the payee email address. All funds collected will be given to Mike and Heather to do with as they please.
A collection of posts written about Maddie are available for viewing here. There are currently well over 100, with new ones being added regularly.
And, as was mentioned earlier, please donate to the March of Dimes in Madeline’s memory. You can click on the banner on the upper right.
Nic says:
I’m so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you right now. Oh my… I wish there was something I could say. I’m so, so sorry.
Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] says:
My heart and prayers and thoughts are with you.
Sarah says:
Oh LORD, be with the Spohr family right now in their grief.
You are all in my prayers and tomorrow I will buy a block at my work in memory of Madeline. (My bank is a huge sponsor of March of Dimes. We are participating in the walk on Saturday. I now have a cause.)
Sarahs last blog post..Scents and sense and cents
Sierra says:
NO. NO. NO.
This cannot be.
It can. not. be.
I am in tears. My heart can’t catch up to my head. I will not believe sweet Maddy is anything but alive. She was just here. How could this be? NO.
My God.
Mike and Heather…there’s nothing to be said right now except for WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH. I wish I could bring your precious one back.
pgoodness says:
Oh my goodness, my heart is breaking for you. Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss.
pgoodnesss last blog post..Tuesday in list form
Avitable says:
Please accept my sincerest condolences.
Avitables last blog post..What else do I dislike?
Insta-Mom says:
Oh God. Oh God, no.
I am so, so sorry. The world just stopped making sense.
Insta-Moms last blog post..And to think, it only took four years
moosh in indy. says:
No.
Glennia says:
No words for this, just love to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Glennias last blog post..Water, Water, Everywhere…And Now I Need a Drink
The Southern Mama says:
I have no words. I am so very sorry. It’s mind numbing. I pray that peace and comfort find you.
The Southern Mamas last blog post..Season Opener: Starting Pitcher for the Yankees
Grandmaother says:
I am heartbroken for you.
Jessica says:
I don’t know what to say. I am so sorry. My prayers are with your family.
Jo Anna says:
Oh, dear god. There’s just nothing to say. I want to. I want so much to say something, anything, but I can’t. And I’m just so terribly sorry.
Elizabeth says:
My heart is breaking for you both.
Elizabeths last blog post..I am officially nuts
Metalia says:
Oh, Heather. My god. I am so, so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you. xoxo
Metalias last blog post..Apparently, my procrastination techniques involve critiquing Paul Rudd and writing a Twilight musical
Malia says:
I’m so sorry. There are no words. No words.
Peace to you and your family.
Malias last blog post..My Lent: Part Three
califmom says:
Hugs and the deepest sadness for your loss.
califmoms last blog post..To Whom It May Concern
Nicole says:
I am so sorry about this tragic loss. My heart and prayers go out to you.
Megan says:
My heart, my love, my prayers, everything I have in the world is with you. I am so, so sorry.
Amanda says:
I am so sorry.
Lida says:
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have been touched by Maddie’s story, so honestly told with such love through this blog. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Michelle says:
Praying for you all. I don’t know you but I have fallen completely in love with Maddie through this blog and I’m just so deeply sad. Know that she (and you) have touched so many lives.
And now I’m off to put my money where my mouth is and donate to the March of Dimes in honor of a beautiful little angel named Maddie.
Mandee says:
I am so incredibly sorry. So, so sorry.
Mandees last blog post..Timeline Continued
annie heckenberger says:
My heart is sick with this news. You’re all in my thoughts and prayers.
Andy says:
I know I’m not a reader, but this can only touch my heart. Sorry for your loss, and I don’t think there’s words of consolation right now. I’m just… really sorry. My prayers are with you and your family, so God can grant you strength to come through this.
Alison says:
Rest in peace, beautiful, strong, brave Madeline Alice.
Love and strength to Heather, Mike, and all Maddie’s family and friends.
Alisons last blog post..The Tattoo Story
velocibadgergirl says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Words seem so inadequate right now.
Amanda of Shamelessly Sassy says:
My heart is breaking for you.
Amanda of Shamelessly Sassys last blog post..Dear Allie
Amy @ Milk Breath and Margaritas says:
I’m so deeply sorry. I am praying for you both and for Maddie. God — I’m so so sorry.
Amy @ Milk Breath and Margaritass last blog post..Damage OR Where’s Handy Manny When I Need Him?
perksofbeingme says:
Heather and Michael, I have no words that will make things better, so all I can say is I love you.
perksofbeingmes last blog post..I’m moving!
cindy w says:
I am sobbing so hard I can barely see the keyboard and I’m shaking all over. Heather and Mike, I am so sorry. We all love you and support you, and hope that you’re able to find some comfort, somehow. Oh god. I can’t believe this. I’m just so, so sorry.
cindy ws last blog post..prayers for Maddie
matkins65 says:
I am so so sorry for your loss.
Daddy Dan says:
God bless Maddie. My heart is breaking for you all.
Angela says:
I am so so sorry for everyone whose lives Maddie touched. Family, friends, and yes, the blogging community right here. We are sitting at our computers tonight crying for your loss. I am so sorry.
Angelas last blog post..Branching Out
Sam says:
NO. NO. NO….I am so so sorry. I am in complete shock…as I am sure you are too. Sweet Madeline Alice…the world will never be the same without you in it.
Sams last blog post..Cake! Cake! Cake!
karla | looking towards heaven says:
I am so sorry for your loss.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
karla | looking towards heavens last blog post..What happens when you are upstairs putting laundry away
GirlsGoneChild says:
In shock. My heart breaks for you. Sending you all the strength I can muster. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you, for your family. Love.
GirlsGoneChilds last blog post..The Outsider Inside Her
Sandi says:
I am so, so sorry for your loss.
adrienne says:
Like all the others there are no words to express my sadness. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Mike and with Maddie on her journey.
Lori says:
I am so sad to hear this…my prayers are with the family. God Bless you all.
Playground for Parents says:
My heart is aching for you, and I am so overwhelmingly sorry for you and your family. Peace and blessings to you.
Playground for Parentss last blog post..Clean Up Your Act
Jenny says:
I’m shocked and in grief for your family. Sending you love.
Jennys last blog post..Growling and-a prowling and-a sniffing the air
Jessica Gottlieb says:
Oh Heather. What can we say? I’m thinking of you, it sounds horrible and hollow.
I’m not much for praying, but I’m praying…
Jen says:
Heather and Mike, I am so so sorry. I have no words right now that can bring you comfort. We love you and we love Maddie. She is truly an angel that touched all of our lives.
I love you!
Amber says:
This can’t be happening.
I’m so very sorry. I don’t know what else to say.
Tokissthecook says:
oh Heather I am beside myself for you. Been offline and the last I saw was ice cream and i’m just so shocked. Sending as many loving thoughts as I can warm together at this point.
Bec says:
There are no words. Please tell me if there’s anything I can do.
Becs last blog post..NICU bags delievered!
Barbara says:
I’ve written and erased my comments so many times already because no words can even come close to expressing my feelings for you Heather and Mike. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I am here if you need me for anything at all.
Elise says:
I am so sorry. Know she touched so many people through your blogging.
You and your family are in my thoughts.
Lex - @laprimera says:
I’m so sorry.
Casey says:
I am so, so sorry I don’t even know what I can say but sorry, my heart is breaking for you. I will be keeping you all in my thoughts
Caseys last blog post..quick sewing project.
veep veep says:
Oh Heather, I am so very sorry.
Charty: @VirueIMC says:
Our hearts are with you… if there is anything that you need, please reach out to us!
Charty: @VirueIMCs last blog post..Do as I say…
Allison Worthington says:
Praying for comfort for you both. I am so sorry.
Shash says:
My heart is breaking right now for you all. If there is anything I can do for you guys, please, just ask. Love you guys so much!
Shashs last blog post..I have NO IDEA what normal is anymore
Kim says:
My heart is breaking for you. I’m so sorry.
Many prayers for peace through this difficult time. Maddie touched me so much in her short life….
Huge {{{hugs}}} and deepest sympathy.
Maggie's Mind says:
My heart breaks for you. I don’t even know what else to say. I’m so sorry.
Maggie’s Minds last blog post..JET Results
Molly says:
I don’t even know what to say. I am so so sorry for the loss of your sweet Maddie. My heart is breaking for you
bethanywd says:
My heart is breaking for your family. We are all weeping with you.
Undomestic Diva says:
I am at a total loss. I just cannot fathom it. I am so, so sorry. What can I do?
Jessi says:
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so sorry for your loss
Jessis last blog post..Time flies when you are having trouble holding on to the handlebars
flutter says:
may she rest, gorgeous and whole.
Liz says:
My heart is overwhelmed with sadness for you. Praying for you right now. I don’t know you all personally, but I can tell you that in the short time I’ve been following your blog, Maddie has deeply touched my life. I’m sorry for your loss.
Lizs last blog post..Costco Find: LARABAR Variety Pack
holli says:
What – Heather… I am sitting here in shock and in tears. Please, please – if there is anything I can do other than offer my love, prayers and sorrow… I am here.
And I will be praying for your entire family tonight.
hollis last blog post..Tube or not tu-be.
Kymmi says:
This will never make sense – I can’t imagine your family’s pain. Thank you for sharing so much of her with us through words, pictures and videos. I’ll always remember her and her beautiful smile.
Your family is in my thoughts.
Cory says:
I’m so so so very sorry. I have read the post at least 50 times and I’m still just in shock and sitting here crying. My heart is breaking for you. You guys will definitely be in my prayers.
Corys last blog post..Twitter Much?
Sarah says:
Just “met” you and your precious Maddie today through blogs, and yet I am so brokenhearted for you all. So incredibly sorry.
Erin says:
we are here for you
Erins last blog post..Inhale
VDog says:
I can’t even begin.
Madeline, you were a living Angel.
Rest in peace, darling girl.
Kayley says:
I don’t read this at all actually. My friend just linked it to me, but I want you to know that you, a complete stranger, and Maddie, another complete stranger, are in my prayers over and over again tonight. And the next night…and the next. May the Lord bless you and help you through this trying time
Francesca says:
While I do not know you personally, Maddie has brought joy to my life with the stories that you have shared day to day. My heart is weeping and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
To Think Is To Create says:
No idea what to say that will matter at all…so deeply saddened. Her light, her soul. Amazing. Thinking of you all…
xoxo
Sarcomical says:
i was just finding out about you a little bit the last few days because of some of my friends’ references to you on Twitter. even though i don’t know you, hearing about this and seeing your sweet girl has broken my heart. i wish for you that love wraps up your entire family right now.
Sarcomicals last blog post..The Eye Candy Returns…
Beth - PlusSizeMommy says:
OMG, I was just reading your tweets and it lead to this. I am so so so sorry for your loss. This is so horrible. I am feeling such sadness and I dont know what to say. Please God be with the Spohr family. Please watch over them and take care of them during this trying time. Keep them safe and wrap your loving arms around them. Please Keep little Madeline with you as one of your precious Angels, as I know she is one. Please take care of her until they all meet again.
In Jesus Name and May God Be with you all during this time of sorrow.
Beth Davis and Family
AKA The Plus Size Mommy
Beth – PlusSizeMommys last blog post..What does any great mom do when this happens?
Kate in NZ says:
Heather, I only discovered your blog recently, but immediately fell in love with wee Maddie and have loved to read about her bubbly personality and your life with her. I have been watching Twitter all day here with my heart in my mouth, I am so sorry for your terrible loss. Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful daughter’s life through this blog, you have brought joy to so many people in so many places just with her amazing smile. I hope that the comments here will bring you some small comfort at this heartbreaking time. I am certain I am not the only person who never met Maddie yet has tears streaming her face right now, that is a measure of the impact she has had on people far and wide. I will always remember her enchanting smile which captured me right away. With love…
Zoeyjane says:
I’m so sorry. My heart is broken for your family.
Zoeyjanes last blog post..On refusing to cry
Wendy says:
I am so so sorry
Jennifer H says:
My heart is breaking for you. I’m just learning your story and I cannot imagine this kind of loss. Sending strength and love.
Jennifer Hs last blog post..Fever all through the night
Adventures In Babywearing says:
Oh, my God. I am so sorry. Thinking of you immensely… there really are no words.
Steph
Heather says:
Through my tears, I can’t even find the words to tell you how sorry I am, and how it’s so unfair. My heart is heavy with the pain you must be feeling. I am so sorry.
Heathers last blog post..Spring sprung
Jen @ One Moms World says:
I just saw this on twitter. I am so so so speechless right now. I will definitely keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if we can do anything at all. (((HUGS)))
jenni williams says:
Words will never be enough, but I am so very so sorry.
jenni williamss last blog post..Ack I Actually Spent $$ at CVS
Keonte' Smith says:
I pray for your family’s continued strength during your time of bereavement.
When a child, or anyone for that matter, loses the battle of life, everyone is affected. For the short time I was able to get to know Maddie on your blog, I was always amazed at her enchanting eyes and adorable smile. She has truly captured our hearts.
~~Maddie, may you rest in peace and watch-over your family. Be the angel in heaven as you were on earth.~~
Keonte’ Smiths last blog post..It’s a Miracle (Blanket): REVIEW
bonggamom says:
I am so sorry My thoughts and prayers are with you.
bonggamoms last blog post..Monday Mornings: Crappy morning, happy (birth) day
threeundertwo says:
I am so very very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family. As we say in the Orthodox Church; “May her memory be eternal.”
threeundertwos last blog post..Wordful Wednesday: Beware!
The Glamorous Life Association says:
I am simply stunned.
Grief is the price we pay for true love.
Life is so so damn unfair.
SO sad. and so sorry.
Amanda says:
Madeline. Precious baby. I know you’re in a better place but that means you’re gone from this place and that is infinitely sad. So many people were rooting for you and now so many people are grieving for you and your family.
Heather and Mike. I can’t see the keyboard or barely what I’m writing through the tears. I have never personally met any of you. I found out of this blog through my twin who does Letters for Multiples. I had so much hope for Maddie. So much love. I am so very sorry for the loss and pain you have to experience. I am so very sorry Maddie couldn’t spend more time here with us.
I spent some time looking at the entries above. I guess that’s the power of the internet… bringing people together. Just know that all the people Maddie brought together are still here for you both.
Heather says:
I am so very, very sorry. I wish there were something more any of us could say.
Nicole Miraty says:
I am so sorry for you loss. Please know that she means a lot to very many people and she will be missed greatly.
Ilana Johnson says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot describe the saddness I feel for you and your family. I will be praying for you.
foradifferentkindofgirl says:
Have followed your angel’s story through fellow bloggers. I’m heartbroken to learn of your loss. Prayers to you and your precious girl.
Lolita says:
I am so sorry. Even though I don’t know you, I am thinking of you.
Lolitas last blog post..Engage: Moms – The New Retreats: Mommy Conferences
Erin --It's Your Movie-- says:
Your family is in my prayers and on heavily on heart right now. She was beautiful.
Rick Hubbell says:
We have recently walked through a similar tragedy. We are so sorry for your loss. The pain is staggering and comes in waves. We know.
The only consolation for us is that somehow the story of our precious son has traveled all over the world touching the lives of hurting families. The emails we have received have been life changing.
Here is the link:
http://www.ti-mc.com/nathan.html
Lane says:
Heather and Mike,
Although I never met you or Maddie please know how much she touched my life. I am so very sorry for your loss and will keep you all in my prayers. With love,
Lane
Kimmie says:
Oh Mike and Heather. Words are so inadequate, and so trite at times such as these. Please know how much we love you and care for you, and Maddie…and how much we are praying for you right now. That somehow you will find peace and comfort. Much love my sweet, sweet friends. This is just so, so, so unfair.
Kimmies last blog post..Heartbroken.
BusyDad says:
As one of the few who was lucky enough to meet your adorable sweet Maddie, I am deeply saddened. I am so sorry for your loss. I know I just met you and your family, but if there is anything I can do, I’m but a short drive away.
BusyDads last blog post..Notes On Being Classy
matt says:
i am so, so sorry. i am here for you now and always.
matt
Josh and Rebecca (MomFaves) says:
Heather and Mike,
You don’t know us, but we are hurting for you tonight because of this great loss.
Josh and Rebecca
WhyMomsMatter
Josh and Rebecca (MomFaves)s last blog post..Who and What Inspires You?
midwest mommy says:
Oh Heather and Mike my heart is breaking right now for you. I am praying for you and I just don’t know what to say right now. I am in shock. Oh little Maddie….we all love you.
midwest mommys last blog post..Help me out PLEASE!
Sassy says:
I can’t believe it. I’m so so very sorry.
Sassys last blog post..Shuffling
Redneck Mommy says:
I promise you Heather and Mike, my Shale will take great care of Maddie and play with her until you are with her again.
Shannan P says:
I wish there was something I could say or do to make things okay. I am so, so sorry. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you.
Laura says:
Heartbreaking. I’m so very sorry. My prayers are with you all.
Lauras last blog post..Something sweet for ya…
Janine (@twincident) says:
If I could take your pain from you and carry it for you, I would do so in a minute. I cannot make sense of this. I can only hope the prayers of strangers like me will offer some kind of comfort for you.
Janine (@twincident)s last blog post..We’ve Lost a Tooth! (Warning: this post may not be suitable for all ages.)
Headless Mom says:
I know that there are no adequate words. I love you Heather and Mike and I’m praying for you guys tonight. I just can’t believe it.
Headless Moms last blog post..Birthday Songs
always home and uncool says:
Heather and Mike — stay strong. We’re all thinking of you and sweet little Maddie.
always home and uncools last blog post..Spirits and the Material Girl
Mr Lady says:
Sending love to you and your family, honey. I am so sorry.
Mr Ladys last blog post..Party
Deb - Mom of 3 Girls says:
I just started reading your site after the Chris Mann blog party and loved seeing him hold your beautiful Maddie during the broadcast. I am so, so very sorry and although I know that no words can even come close to helping touch your grief right now, please know that there are people who didn’t even know your sweet angel who are keeping her and you in their thoughts and prayers.
Deb – Mom of 3 Girlss last blog post..Wordless Wednesday #90 – Now what was she plotting…
stacie says:
Oh Heather and Mike. There are just no words…I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you and your family. Maddie will be so very missed…
stacies last blog post..Three Things
kimberly/tippytoes says:
There are no words… I am so sorry. My heart breaks for your family.
holli says:
I’m still thinking about you – and I’m still in shock… and for some reason I had to come back and check here again, like maybe I read it wrong. I think my comment went to spam – or didn’t go through. I just need you to know I’m one of the many thinking about you all and praying. I’m just so sorry, Heather.
Christa N Valencia says:
I wish there was something I could do. I’m so sorry this happened.
I only got to meet her for a brief moment and in that moment I could she what a star she was.
Christa N Valencias last blog post..Does
Beth Blecherman says:
I am so sorry – all of our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Elaina says:
I am so sorry. I am so, so sorry.
Domestic Chicky says:
I am so very sorry. I can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Walking With Scissors says:
I am so sorry for your loss.
Walking With Scissorss last blog post..The one where I break down and have a pity party for one…
@deltavogue says:
Heather and Mike:
I am deeply saddened by your loss tonight. I honestly just learned of you and Maddie through the #GNO group on twitter. I read your tweet stream from the last few days Heather, and looked at your blog posts. I feel like I was with you from the beginning until now. My heart goes out to you!
Know that Maddie’s life was not in vain. You were absolutely right to give her every chance at life, and she has touched thousands of lives because of it. She is a beautiful little girl.. and her spirit will live on though your writings and the love, patience, and determination inscribed in them. It is forever tattooed on our hearts.
God is in control of our lives, and he never gives us more than we can bear. You have an amazing testimony in Madeline’s life. That should never be forgotten. God Bless you, and I will be praying for you and your family.
Blessings,
Monica Rowland
@deltavogue on twitter
Lotta says:
Oh my goodness – I’m so very very sorry for your loss. Such heartbreak indeed.
Lottas last blog post..Twilight Ice Earrings
Mandie says:
My heart goes out to this family during this difficult time. You guys will definitely be in my prayers. And God bless little Maddie!
Bonnie says:
Heather and Mike, I wish there was something I could say or do to make things better. I’m so, so sorry. You and beautiful, sweet Maddie are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you all my love.
Sarah says:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.
Lawyer Mama says:
There are no words. I’m so, so sorry.
jeffra says:
I saw the picture of Maddie in the hospital on flickr and jumped to your website…My heart dropped in my stomach….I barely know you and I am soo sad for your loss. Your little love faught with everything she had. Your family has increased awareness of so many…I will definitely donate in Maddie’s memory. You are all in my prayers.
Darryle says:
I’ve been reading your story for awhile and I am heartbroken for you; hope you can find some small comfort in all the love and prayers being sent your way.
Darryles last blog post..some rules are made to be broken
Allie says:
I don’t have words I am able to type to tell you just how sorry I am she is gone.
Anonymous says:
Wow- I am so sorry. it seems like a lame thing to say, and if I were in your situation I can’t even imagine what would help. I hope you know, a lot of mamma’s hearts are with you right now, and that love can conquer. Love you, sweetie
Mrs. Flinger says:
Just love. That’s all I have. Love. XOXO
Mrs. Flingers last blog post..Blog Of Shame
Monica says:
oh no…i can’t believe what i just read! i am so, so sorry. my prayer is that you are embraced by a peace that passes understanding. love to you both…
Monicas last blog post..American Idol Season 8: Top 9
Jon says:
I just don’t know what to say. I’m speechless, numb and so sad. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Erika says:
I am so, so incredibly sorry for your loss. I know there are no words that could ever make you feel better, so I just wanted to pass along that people like me, that you don’t even know, are praying for your family and for sweet little Maddie.
designmama says:
I am so, so sorry for your loss. sending big hugs to you and your family tonight.
designmamas last blog post..Work to Play
Amy Amy Bo Bamey says:
You have no clue who I am but I have been reading your blog for some time now. I am deeply saddened tonight to learn of the loss of your beautiful Maddie. I wish I had the right words to comfort you but I have none. I am at a loss for words, nothing seems fitting. My thoughts will be with your family.
Amy Amy Bo Bameys last blog post..You are HEIDI KLUM….I get that A LOT!
kimblahg says:
I’m so very sorry.
The Mother Tongue says:
Oh my god, I am so, so sorry. Please hang in there. I just don’t know the words to say. But please just hang in there.
The Mother Tongues last blog post..To Ethiopia with Love
Tony Katz says:
Thinking of you.
Tony Katz
Southern Fried Mama says:
I know that there are no words that will ease your pain, so with that I’ll just leave my condolences and will be praying for you and your family!!!
Patty says:
I’m very sorry to hear of your loss…I found your blog via twitter today and just heard the news and read up a bit on Maddie. It sounds like she was a fighter…may you find peace and comfort knowing she is in the hands of God.
Pattys last blog post..From My Mama’s Kitchen: Food for the Soul, Recipes for Living-Life’s Lessons
Lesley says:
I don’t know you but clicked over from someone else’s twitter. My sincerest condolences for this terrible loss. You’re in my thoughts.
Cary says:
As one of your readers, thank you for giving all of us the most precious gift of Maddie. She was the most beautiful joy of an angel and certainly we all have had our lives brightened by hers. Heartfelt healing thoughts to your family and all who have been touched by Maddie.
Ari Herzog says:
I am sorry.
Ari Herzogs last blog post..Reach Out and Touch Someone
Christine says:
I am sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.
Christines last blog post..He is Only Twelve
sweatpantsmom says:
Heather, my heart is just breaking for you and your family. I’m keeping you in my thoughts and prayers for a long time. I’m so sorry.
sweatpantsmoms last blog post..I don’t mind if you just look at the pictures
Bridget Pilloud says:
I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope that you can find comfort.
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Ginger says:
Your family will always be blessed by having had Maddie in your lives, you deserve all that happiness you had and so much more. May you find peace.
Gingers last blog post..Angel flying too close to the ground
lyndsey says:
I’m sick with sorrow. Life is so unfair. You fought so long and hard for / with Maddie. I’m so sorry.
Mama Bub says:
I’m a new reader but was immediately touched by Maddie and your family. I am sorry far beyond words can express for what you are going through.
Tiffany says:
I am sending all the love and comfort I have to your family.
Tiffanys last blog post..Featured Blogger: Rumblings and Bumblings
Leesa says:
Prayers here for you and your family.
Leesas last blog post..Moments
Nikki says:
I cannot even begin to express how unfair this is. Maddie was and still is a beautiful little girl. My thoughts and prayers go out to your whole family. I am so sorry that there’s nothing that anybody can do. But Maddie has a lot of friends and family and supporters that are helping her and you.
Anna Marie Hinnant says:
I am profoundly sad. Sweet Madeline fought so hard-and you fought so hard for her. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Anna says:
I am so terribly sorry for your lose. I can’t even imagine what you’re going through, all of my thoughts and prayers are with your family!
Kirsten says:
I’m so very sorry for you immense loss.
Kirstens last blog post..I Can Do This
MsGourmet says:
My two children and I will light a candle tonight for Maddie.
Heather and Mike you are in our thoughts & prayers at this time.
Leah says:
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers!
tara says:
My heart is breaking for you…
taras last blog post..Naturally dyed Easter eggs
laura says:
my heart has always been with you throughout Maddie’s amazing life because we live a life like it with our own amazing preemie. Tonight I have no other words except I am heart broken and so very sorry for this immeasurable pain and loss you must be feeling. Our family will be forwarding all March of Dimes inquiries for our family team (not walking this year) to Maddie and the memory of her dancing blue eyes.
lauras last blog post..mindfully sad
Ms. Changes Pants While Driving says:
thinking of you and thinking of you and thinking of you.
Stefanie says:
I’m sick with grief. I love you, heather and mike. I’m here listening and monitoring and I’m here for you. I, like everyone else, have no idea what to say. But I had to say something.
Stefanies last blog post..I Have Officially Become a Cliche
an unrepentant kulak says:
Heartbroken to read of your loss. May your daughter live on always in the hearts of the many whose lives she touched.
Miss says:
Heather and Mike, you are both in my thoughts as you have been this week. There are no words, just know that you aren’t alone.
Moobs says:
I wish I had better words to use to tell you how sorry I am.
Andrea's Sweet Life says:
No, no, no, nooooo. Oh God, there just aren’t any words. Heather, Mike, I just, I don’t know what to say. I love you both!
Andrea’s Sweet Lifes last blog post..NYC: The Skinny
Anissa@Hope4Peyton says:
Heather and Mike,
I wish there were words to comfort right now. All I have is my love for you guys and my prayers for your entire family that loved Maddie so completely and perfectly.
Anissa@Hope4Peytons last blog post..Maddie Spohr
Sheila says:
I am so sorry to hear this. You are in my prayers.
Cat Benner says:
Heather and Mike,
Adi and I are at a complete loss for words. Having celebrated with your amazing family only three days ago, seeing your amazing daughter so full of joy, we can not even begin to understand what has happened. Everybody commented on how happy, smiley and joyful your little angel was.
I will send you photos if you would like to show them to all of your supportive blog readers. Just have somebody contact me.
Xoxo love you. Cat and Adi
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Susan (5 Minutes for Mom) says:
I am shocked. Devastated. Speechless.
I am so unbelievably, desperately sorry.
Please let me know if there is anything I can ever do to help. I am praying!!! I am praying so hard for you and your family. I can’t even begin to imagine your suffering. It is unbearable.
I will keep praying.
Maura says:
There are no words right now. But with every tear I’m thinking of you and that beautiful, precious girl’s smile. And it is ripping me apart. All my love to you and Mike.
kim/chicago moms blog says:
Ia m so very sorry for your loss.
TigereyeSal says:
I am so sorry- what a sweet little girl.
Angela says:
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers
lindsay says:
nothing can be said or done to provide a modicum of comfort to you, mike, and everyone who loved maddie dearly.
your blog brought her story to life, and strangers felt connected to a darling little soul. and in thousands of hearts she will remain. thank you for opening a window into maddie’s story.
prayers are with you.
aibee says:
I’m so very, very sorry.
Lenka says:
I am so so sorry. A new angel has her wings.
Barbara Hauck says:
Peace and eternal love for your precious angel, Maddie.
May thoughts of comfort and support carry you through these days as you walk through the shadow of death, for God is with you.
His strength will be with you each step of the way.
Blessings unto this child and to her loving and devoted parents, family and friends.
Hip_M0M says:
Heather & Mike,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Madeline will not be forgotten and you have been truly blessed to have had her in your life. Thank you for sharing her with the world.
R.I.P. Madline.
http://happyhealthyhip.blogspot.com/2009/04/there-are-no-words.html
Hip_M0Ms last blog post..Beautiful You
pillarr1 says:
Oh God please no – I am so sorry Heather and Mike. Even though I didn’t know Maddie, I loved her so much – we all did
Alison says:
Saw two mentions of Maddie being ill on Twitter tonight. The Internet is a strange and wonderful place.
I don’t know you at all, but I am sending you my love right now. I’m so, so sorry.
3boys1mommy says:
I was completely captivated and touched by your darling Maddie. Please accept my sincerest condolences. May God bless you during this time and always.
luna says:
I am so very sorry the loss of your beautiful little girl. there are no words.
lunas last blog post..show and tell: new ride
Karyn says:
I’m so very sorry about the loss of your darling Madeline.
Janet says:
Dear Heather, I’m so very sorry. There are not words… Peace to you and your family
kat says:
this is so sad. i am so so sorry.
kats last blog post..grace in small things
Marcy says:
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, peace and strength to you and your family. God bless.
Lori in the TX says:
I am so sorry. many prayers sent your way from texas. My heart breaks.
Maria says:
Heather and Mike, my heart breaks for you tonight. I just woke up and opened my computer and I’m shaking and sobbing. Thank you for sharing your journey with us all this time, thank you for sharing Maddie with us. She will never, ever be forgotten and we love you all so much.
helena says:
I am so deeply sorry for your tragic loss of a beautiful girl. As a parent, I can only imagine the pain you are enduring, and I am lifting you up and sharing your grief in thought and prayer.
ingrid says:
I am so truly sorry. My heart goes out to you.
jessica says:
I… I never know what to say. I’m so terribly sorry. I wish I had the perfect words. But I know nothing I could possibly say, even perfectly, could help. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Tina says:
NO NO NO!! How?!?! How can this be??
I am SO sorry Heather and Mike.. I am in shock, I don’t know what to say!!
You are in my prayers and my thoughts…this is SO wrong
Sweet Maddie, rest in peace, play with the angels and look over your mommy and your daddy… amen
Sarah says:
I’m so very very sorry.
Sarahs last blog post..Where I go
tanyetta says:
I’m so sorry to hear the news.
tanyettas last blog post..Wordless Wednesday
binkytowne says:
Heather and Mike, thinking of you and Maddie and am so very sorry. We are here, holding you up through this terrible time and saying a prayer for you.
binkytownes last blog post..Wordless Wednesday
Kelley @ Magnetoboldtoo says:
what? What? WHAT?
But I was following on Twitter.
And she wasn’t that bad.
Oh God.
Tear and hugs for you, not that will ever be enough.
Jeremy says:
I am sorry this happened to your family.
Catherine says:
I’m so very sorry for your tragic loss. My thoughts are with you and your famiily.
Cinthia says:
I am dumbfounded and shocked and I can’t believe this. I am so incredibly sorry. This is horrible. I will pray, but I don’t know for what.
Rebecca C says:
My family and I are praying for you, you don’t know me and I don’t know you. I do feel for you though, and hope that God folds you into his arms and gives you what peace you can have.
I am so sorry.
Rebecca Cs last blog post..Giveaways 4/7
Chris says:
Oh no, I am so very very sorry. My heart is breaking for you and your family to have lost such a wonderful amazing child. I know words can’t even begin to touch your pain and loss but please know there are millions of people holding you and Maddie in their prayers and thoughts.
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Ange says:
I only recently found your blogs/Twitters, but have been touched by Maddie’s story. I am so, so sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl. I wish I could say something to take the pain away, but I know it’s impossible. Please know that there are so many friends (both real life and internet) thinking and praying for you both during this difficult time.
Anges last blog post..Too Close For Comfort
Jen says:
I am completely devasted. I found you through Matt Logelin and have been following you guys. I know we dont know each other personally, but I feel like we do. My thoughts are prayers are with you at this time.
slouching mom says:
I’m awfully sorry.
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Al_Pal says:
So terribly sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.
maya says:
Oh Heather. My sweet sweet warrior. Oh how i love you. So much.
mayas last blog post..Madeline Alice Spohr 2007-2009
blueviolet says:
I am so incredibly sorry. You and your family will be in my prayers and may God wrap you in his loving embrace.
Mae says:
Just read your beautiful blog today. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I cannot even express how sorry I am for your loss.
Betty M says:
I am so very sorry. I have only been by here a few times but your story touched me as it has so many others. Thinking of you all at this time.
Kristen@nosmallthing says:
I don’t have any words of comfort. I don’t believe there are any words to comfort. She was a darling little princess, and you are blessed to have been her mom.
May God wrap you and your husband in a blanket of His love and may you find peace in this all someday. I am so very sorry for your loss. So very sorry.
Kristen@nosmallthings last blog post..Peekaboo!
T@SendChocolate says:
I am so sorry.
I wish I could say something else, something that would make it better.
Please know you have my prayers.
T@SendChocolates last blog post..When The Zombies Show Up With Boatloads of Cash…I’ll Be Waiting
Peggy says:
I am praying for you guys. There are no words. I am so sorry for your loss.
Peggys last blog post..Random Tuesday Thoughts
Musing says:
I am so very sorry. My heart goes out to the family.
Danielle says:
I am so shocked. speechless. sad.
I am so sorry. I keep re reading this hoping that I’m wrong. That this isn’t true. Not Maddie.
There are no words. I’m just crying, praying, sending love.
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Marinka says:
I am so sorry. My heart and prayers are with you.
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Renee says:
I’m so very sorry. I don’t know you personally but have been reading here for a while. Your family is in my heart and thoughts.
Miss Britt says:
No way. No freaking way.
I am so sorry. Thoughts and prayers.
Miss Britts last blog post..When families collide.
Kelly says:
my heart and my prayers are with you.
Kellys last blog post..Wordless Wednesday
Karla says:
There are absolutely no words to describe what you are feeling right now. Sending my deepest sympathies and wishing you much strength as you navigate such a heartbreaking journey of loss.
Karlas last blog post..Paralyzed
Heather says:
I have been reading your blog for a while now and I’m just in shock. Words cannot properly express how sorry I am for you and your family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Melissa says:
I am so, so, so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
amanda says:
So incredibly sorry for your indescribable loss. My heart is with you and your family.
amandas last blog post..blogiversary!
Sylvia says:
I wish there were words that I could give.
Sylvias last blog post..First there was a buzzing sound and then a loud crackle…
Matt says:
Kristen and I are crying with you and praying for you tonight.
Sarah says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish I had something to say that might help, but words can’t express how my heart is hurting for your family.
Sarahs last blog post..Yellow Cars Everywhere – Or, What I’m Reading Now
jkewilliams says:
I’m so sorry to hear of your great loss. Words can’t express, or console, but please know our thoughts, our hearts and our prayers are with you all at this time. Madeline made a huge impact in her short life, and she will be lovingly remembered by so many.
Joe @ Irrational Dad says:
I really felt like I’ve gotten to know you and Mike and Maddie through your blog. As much as this is breaking my heart, I can only imagine the effect this has on you, Mike, and your family. My thoughts are with you and yours.
Joe @ Irrational Dads last blog post..Great, so he can’t hear then?
Angie @ A Simple Kinda Life says:
Heather & Mike,
God bless you and the rest of your family as you get through this tough time. I’m so sorry for your loss!
Angie
Angie @ A Simple Kinda Lifes last blog post..Wordless Wednesday
Janeen says:
I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family. My prayers are with you and your angel.
Janeens last blog post..HR 875
cara says:
Oh my goodness, Heather, I am so, so sorry. My heart is breaking for you.
caras last blog post..The Moral of the Story
Jody says:
I’m so sorry. You will all stay in my prayers. No words
Callie says:
Words fail me. I am so incredibly saddened and sorry to hear about your incredible loss. I will keep you, Mike, and beautiful Maddie in my prayers.
Kristin says:
Oh Heather and Mike I am so, so sorry. My heart breaks for you.
Kristins last blog post..The sporting child
Betsy says:
I am so very sorry. You’ll be in my prayers
Frozen Star says:
I couldn’t believe it when I first read it. Still can’t. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Frozen Stars last blog post..I don’t have words
Amy says:
There are no words, absolutely no words…my heart aches for you and your entire family. I feel as though I know Maddie after reading this blog for about a year now. I am so very sorry for your loss. You will be in the thoughts of all the MANY people that you and Maddie have touched
Domestic Extraordinaire says:
my heart is breaking for your family.
I am so sorry.
tutugirl1345 says:
I am so so incredibly sorry. We are all thinking of your family today.
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Jacinta says:
I’m horrified. And I’m shocked. And I’m angry. And I’m sure none of this is the right thing to say, but please know that my thoughts are with you, even though that might not be terribly helpful. Your hearts must be in shreds.
ali says:
oh, Heather and Mike, i just don’t have the words right now. i cannot wrap my head around this. i send lots of hugs your way.
alis last blog post..where I taste the rainbow…of BROWN?
Black Hockey Jesus says:
Stunned.
Black Hockey Jesuss last blog post..Seed Song
tonya cinnamon says:
oh my god….im in shock.. my heart is breaking for you.there is no words only a deep void..
sending lot of love and hugs your way..
catnip says:
I just can’t believe it. Words cannot express how very sorry I am.
Cheryl says:
Grieving with you…and wishing you a keen awareness of all the thoughts and prayers you all are in today and always.
Cheryls last blog post..Way Back When-esday: Mini-Martial Artists
Lee Anne says:
I am so, so sorry for you and for all of the people whose lives Maddie has touched. So sorry….
jen says:
There are no words to be said that haven’t been said a thousand times already and saying “I’m sorry” just doesn’t feel like enough. Just know that if there were anyway we could each take a piece of your pain we would. My heart is with you and Mike and your family today and in the days and weeks ahead.
jens last blog post..Random Tuesday Thoughts…Things I Don’t Understand
amy says:
I am so very sorry. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Deb says:
Oh my goodness. I just met you guys through other Twitter friends, and your story touched my heart. I do not know what to say other than that I am so shocked and saddened for you and am praying for you all.
Debs last blog post..Fun with Karen and Bob, part 1
DesignHER Momma says:
Heather,
I want you to know I heard the news, I have noting to say right now – I’m so upset.
DesignHER Mommas last blog post..Keeping it Classy with the Classics
Jamie says:
I don’t understand how God can take such a beautiful child. Maddie has touched countless hearts and brought smiles to many in her short life. My heart hurts.
Jamies last blog post..Wordless Wednesday: GoGo Goggles
Renée aka Mekhismom says:
My heart just broke into a million little pieces. I am sending love and my thoughts and prayers to you. Renée
Renée aka Mekhismoms last blog post..EA SPORTS Active Weekend – Day 2
Laura says:
I just wanted to say that I am so very sorry for your loss.
Lauras last blog post..Keeping Sane as a Working Mother
Shannon says:
thoughts and prayers with you…
Beverly says:
I am here from 5 minutes from mom. Words can’t express my sadness for you. I am so, so sorry.
Beverlys last blog post..Ever Striving
Lesley says:
Angels are forever
We were chosen to become the family of a very special child.
Who would come to earth from Heaven and visit for a while.
There are mothers who give birth to babies, too good for this world of men.
They touch our lives for a moment, then travel Home again.
This was to become our destiny. And, Why? We need not know.
For a parents greatest gift is to nurture and love a child with a perfect soul.
Our baby was born an Angel and stopped to pause this way,
Blessing us with sunshine, as we thanked the Lord each day.
Our child was like a ray of perfection and could not journey long,
The source of power being God Himself, quietly called our Angel Home.
As we walk in Springtime meadows, with nature posing all around,
We see the beauty of our little one in every sight and sound.
Whenever I gaze at this beautiful world, or look at a blue sky above,
I know that Angels are Forever
Warming our hearts with their light and love.
I am so so sorry….and nothing I could say would ease your pain….it doesn’t make sense…and I’m just so sorry….
Lesleys last blog post..Newest Editon to Noah Baby Boutique
Jamie says:
I am so so sorry to have to be sending my condolences. I didn’t know Maddie but I had her on my mind all day yesterday. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
g~ says:
I have never read your blog…I wish I had so that I could “know” Maddie. I just happened to stumble here during my second cup of coffee and now there are tears in my eyes. I am so sorry. She is so beautiful.
sam {temptingmama} says:
Oh no! No! NO! Oh Heather, Mike, I am so very very sorry. Words cannot express how devestated I am for your loss.
Oh my God, I am so very sorry!
sam {temptingmama}s last blog post..I Don’t Normally Ask for Help, But PLEASE! HELP!
Karen MEG says:
I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your beautiful Maddie.
Karen MEGs last blog post..Picking up sticks
lani says:
I am sorry.
lanis last blog post..The Hunt
Bridget says:
no words to say…sending love and prayers…
Bridgets last blog post..That’s a big ol’ drink!
ryanandjoesmom says:
heather and mike – i am at a loss for words. i am sending up prayers for your family.
ryanandjoesmoms last blog post..Plans
katie says:
I am so sorry, so very very sorry. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Audrey - Mom Generations says:
My heart is with you all right now. I am so sorry. So very, very sorry. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying for you all right now. xoxo, Audrey
Mom Generations
Amy says:
Even though I don’t know you and you don’t know me, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I have followed your blog for a few months and I have fallen in love with Maddie’s sweet face. I pray for strength for you and Mike. My heart aches for you.
caitlin says:
I am so sorry to hear about your terrible loss.
caitlins last blog post..I Think I Am Going To Try To Be a Little Bit Prettier.
Spring says:
My heart has broken and my eyes are filled with tears. There are no words I can offer, I’m in shock. I just came here from the twitter and I hadn’t checked until this morning. My heart goes to you, Heather & to Mike; and my prayers are with both of you. Your blog has been an incredible blessing to me & Maddie was such a wonderful joy, her memory will live on. Giant hugs.
Ali says:
I am so, so sorry. So sorry.
Alis last blog post..I’m dreaming about bank loans and interest rates
Kim says:
So, so, sorry. Sending you and your family hugs and prayers.
Kims last blog post..Hello
diana says:
I had so hoped to hear good news this morning on Twitter. I am so sorry for your loss, words just fail me. You and your family are in my prayers.
Drew G says:
I know that all your friends off and online will remain strong and supportive for you in this difficult time, including myself.
Em says:
Dearest Heather and Mike – your stories of Maddie were among the first to suck me into this Blogworld – from her sweet smiles to her celebrated milestones.
Words cannot express my feelings. You and your family are in my prayers.
Sincerely – Em
Ems last blog post..The being-productive gods are having a good laugh.
Tiffany says:
I am so so sorry Mike & Heather, my prayers are with you both.
NYCWD says:
There are no words.
Just know that you are in our thoughts… and she is in our hearts.
NYCWDs last blog post..DisCountessed
DawnS says:
I just heard of your loss through Sassymama’s and I wanted to come over here and tell you how deeply sorry I am for your loss. My prayers are with you.
DawnSs last blog post..Laughter Lives Tuesday! & Serious Life Magazine!
Amazing Greis says:
OMG! There are no words. I’ve never met you in “RL” but I feel so connected to you and Maddie through your blog. I am so, so, so sorry to hear the devastating news. Though I never knew her my heart breaks. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless!
Amazing Greiss last blog post..I &hearts Faces – Week 13
Lora says:
This is devastating! I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. Prayers to you all.
Scary mommy says:
There are no words… Sending the warmest thoughts to you all, and sitting here in tears.
Scary mommys last blog post..Before I was a Mom…
Brittany says:
I am so incredibly sad, and my heart breaks in a million pieces for you. I am so very sorry. I wish there were better words for such a tragedy. You are all in my prayers.
Brittanys last blog post..Am sexy, y’all.
natalie says:
i don’t even know where to start. it is all such a shock. i am so very sorry. our thoughts and prayers are with you. sweet sweet maddie…
natalies last blog post..A whim
kerry says:
Oh, no. While I don’t know you personally, I have been following your blog for months. My family is keeping yours in our thoughts. We are saddened by this news, and our hearts ache for you.
kerrys last blog post..Whimsical Cookies: Cookies for a Cause
kim says:
i came here through joyunexpected and wanted to tell you all how terribly, terribly sorry i am for your loss. i’m thinking of you and your family…
Amanda says:
I am so sorry.
Amandas last blog post..Bogarting the Easter Bunny
rachel-asouthernfairytale says:
Heather.
Oh my god honey. Oh Heather.
My prayers, my heart, my love.
To y’all.
I am here, always.
rachel-asouthernfairytales last blog post..Bedtime Stories
Becky says:
Heather, I am so, so sorry. Mike, I am so, so sorry. Please, please, please accept my deepest condolences.
Fuck.
Beckys last blog post..This Secret Place, The Land Of Tears
Monica says:
I am so sorry. You’re in my prayers right now.
oh amanda says:
Never read your blog but I’m crying with you this morning. Praying more.
oh amandas last blog post..Top Ten Tuesday: Musical Movies
TUWABVB says:
I’m just in shock. Maddie brought a smile to my face whenever I read about her – even though I had never met her and she was thousands of miles away. I have not words for you, except – your family is in my thoughts and prayers. She was, and is, an angel.
Overflowing Brain (Katie) says:
Oh my God. I don’t think I’ve ever commented here, but I’ve been reading daily for a while now. My heart breaks to read this. And today the world just seems a little less bright.
Our prayers are with you and your family what I’m sure will be very trying days ahead. No parent should have to make the walk you’re on.
I’m so sorry.
Overflowing Brain (Katie)s last blog post..Turbulent Tuesday: The not really turbulent edition
maggie, dammit says:
Ohgod ohgod ohgod. This can’t be happening. I am SO PROFOUNDLY SORRY. Ohgod.
Oh
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April says:
I read your blog and love it. My heart is breaking today. I never met Maddie but she touched my heart with her story and especially, her smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you all through this tragedy no parent should ever have to endure.
Stimey says:
I am so sorry. I cannot imagine how horrible this is for you. I am so, so sorry.
Stimeys last blog post..Miscellaneous Monday
Karalyn says:
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so, so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter.
Karalyns last blog post..Did You Just Say Meow?
Jenni S. says:
Hi Heather,
You don’t know me and today is my first day on your blog, but I found out about your loss through 5 minutes for mom. My family has also lost a preemie child, though it’s been a few years now and I immediately felt a desire to respond. Please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss and know that you and your family will be in my prayers. I’m so, so sorry.
Jenni S.s last blog post..Sydney, part 4. My favorite part.
JustShireen says:
Oh Heather, I am so so sorry. My thoughts are with you and Mike.
MBKimmy says:
I am so so very sorry – I don’t even know the right words to give, say or even think! I am in shock. I will be praying for comfort in the horrible horrible time!
MBKimmys last blog post..Camping … but not in the rough
Kate says:
I only just recently was introduced to Madeline through your blog, but I immediately fell in love with her – what a delight she was. I wish I had any words of comfort for you at this terrible time. Please know I am thinking of you, and sending my deepest condolences.
mamatulip says:
My thoughts are with you and your family; my heart aches for you. Words can’t express how sorry I am for your loss.
Heather B. says:
Oh God Heather. I am unbelievably sorry. Thinking of you, Mike and your family. xoxo
Heather B.s last blog post..Lesson Learned
Tami says:
My heart dropped when I read this post. I am so sorry for your loss. I cant believe it!!! Mike and Heather, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary Beth says:
My heart is breaking for you guys. I am so very sorry.
Mary Beths last blog post..OSPREYS
Deidre says:
A moment of reflection….Thank you for the small things if life. Twitter being on of them. Matt L. said he was devastated, so I had to find out what the heck was going on. Now my dear new friends, you will have so many new people that are praying for you and supporting you in the best way we know how with this loss. Please trust that we will walk through this grief with you, you can touch many lives through your loss…not that that is what you signed up for. I have looked back through many posts and seen how full of love, and life Maddie was. Her essence has not changed. She is still who she always was. A child is the worst loss, I know from my mother-in-law who lost her son who was my husband. But a small child is like an angel. Everyone needs and angel in their life and you had an amazing angel. One hour at a time. We are all holding our arms out to you.
Deidres last blog post..thren-o-dy
Burgh Baby says:
I am so, so sorry for your loss.
Burgh Babys last blog post..Spring Flowers on the Brain
Kyla says:
I visited your blog for the first time yesterday evening, when I heard what was happening with your sweet girl. This morning I woke up, came to check on things, and my heart is just broken for you. I know there are no words that can even touch the pain you must be experiencing, but we’re all holding you in our thoughts and prayers out here…I hope somehow that can help carry you through.
Kylas last blog post..It’s nothing…and that’s okay.
ashley says:
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in my prayers.
ashleys last blog post..A Much Needed Visit From a Dear Old Friend
S says:
I am very sorry.
Ss last blog post..Cautiously…
Monica @ Paper Bridges says:
praying for you all. My deepest condolences.
monica
Shannanb aka mommy bits says:
My heart goes out to you. I will def. have your family in my prayers.
Shannanb aka mommy bitss last blog post..Wordless Wednesday – The Three Amigos
Donna S says:
I was told about your story on Twitter…
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I can and can’t imagine, I had my son at 19 weeks as well, but they told me they couldn’t do anything. My husband saw him take one breathe and that was it…I’m not sure if it’s harder not to have known him or to have not spent some time with him.
Just remember…there are others out there for you and your family to help you through this.
PsychMamma says:
There really are no words that work here. My heart is breaking for you. I’m thinking about you and sending love and more love.
PsychMammas last blog post..Success
Heather, Queen of Shake Shake says:
To say I’m sorry seems so inadequate. There are no words to express this kind of sorrow. So many prayers and love to you and your family, Heather.
tony says:
I am just a few short months from becoming a father for the first time. It is almost impossible for me to understand your grief.
You have my sincerest sympathy. My heart breaks knowing you lost your child.
Julia says:
sending you hugs, strength and love in this difficult time!! praying for you and your family.
Mommy_Grrl says:
My heart goes out to you, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know there are no words right now.
Heather says:
So very, very sorry. I will absolutely keep you in my prayers.
@TraciKnoppe says:
My prayers are with you. I’m so sorry for your loss. {{gentle hugs}}
Bailey says:
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Baileys last blog post..Then and Now
Mom24@4evermom says:
I hope that you can take some comfort knowing that you two were amazing parents to Maddie. How much you love her and how hard you worked to make the most of hard situations shone through in every post. She was a very loved, very happy little girl, and I hope that can bring you some comfort. I am so sorry for your horrible loss. I hope that it helps to know so many people are surrounding you with well wishes, love and prayer.
Jenna says:
Words can not take away any of the pain right now but my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jennas last blog post..Yup, my kind of birthday song
patois says:
So many prayers coming your way. I realize that doesn’t change a damn thing. But I hope it gives you even more strength.
patoiss last blog post..Wordy Wednesday #55
dawn says:
Heather and Mike, my heart just breaks for you. Your precious girl was such a beauty, and I can’t begin to make sense of it all. You have my prayers and my shared tears.
Jillian says:
She should be driving her little car, wearing leopard print, singing Beyonce. Not this, never this. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss Heather and Mike. Thank you for sharing your sweet girl with the world. I am certainly better for it. So, so sorry.
TheDreamer says:
I am so very sorry about the loss of this beautiful little girl. I know that no words can take away this pain, but please know you are in my prayers.
Velma says:
My heart is broken for you and Mike. Your Maddie was a very special child, and I’m so sorry for your terrible loss.
Lisa says:
I’m so, so, so sorry. I have no words right now, just tears. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you right now. Maddie was a beautiful, incredible little girl, thank you for sharing her with us.
Lisas last blog post..Arts and Crafts for Easter
Shannon says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Your daughter’s story touched my heart, and was such a beautiful little girl. I am just so sorry
Kris says:
A world without that wonderful, sweet little gal doesn’t make sense!!
I’m sorry doesn’t begin to cover it. There are no words that will take away the hurt but please accept my deepest condolences. So many virtual hugs coming your way.
Lesha says:
I am so so so sorry.
My heart is with you both.
habanerogal says:
Words cannot express my sadness for your family.
habanerogals last blog post..Happy sweet 16 Suzie
Kristin says:
I am so sorry.
Aimee Greeblemonkey says:
Heather, I don’t know if you knew this, but Declan was born 8 weeks early – so this is the hardest news of all for me to take. My deepest sympathy is with you and your family. Thank you for sharing Maddie with us, she was an amazing, beautiful little girl.
Aimee Greeblemonkeys last blog post..April Greeblemix Winners!
Must Be Motherhood says:
Oh my god. I am so sorry. I send you all the best and love from Indiana.
Must Be Motherhoods last blog post..Springtime in Indiana
Jen says:
I am so very sorry for your lose. Your family is in my thoughts.
Jens last blog post..Joseph saves the planet
Quart says:
My heart is breaking for you. Thank you for sharing Maddie’s life with us.
Babybloomr says:
She was loved and loved well every single moment she was on this earth. That kind of love doesn’t just disappear. Maddie never will.
Babybloomrs last blog post..Wherein that whole “my mom has a blog” thing bites Madi in the butt.
Kara says:
I am so sorry for your loss, how heartbreaking. I will be praying for your family.
Amy says:
My heart and prayers are with you & your family. Maddie’s spirit was so much larger than her tiny body. She has touched so many people with her beautiful smile. Thanks for sharing her with us.
Amys last blog post..Fat Chicken
bklein34 says:
I am so, so sorry for your loss. Please know your family is in so many people’s prayers.
bklein34s last blog post..Excuse me!
Rachel says:
I am sorry for your loss. I wish I could comfort you is some way. I will miss the Maddy stories and the hilarious pictures. I will keep you and your family in your prayers.
Rachels last blog post..Gone
Cindi says:
I am so sorry. I know there is nothin anyone could say to make you feel better, still I want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Her Bad Mother says:
Heart, breaking for you. No other words. Just: heart, breaking.
Her Bad Mothers last blog post..A Story Not My Own
Meg says:
You have my sincere sympathy. I’m so so so sorry.
Megs last blog post..Mac’s Breakfast
Wife an Mommy says:
I’m so sorry. It doesn’t seem enough to say I am sorry. You are in my prayers and I will be thinking of you all.
Wife an Mommys last blog post..And so it begins…
Ellen says:
When I read this post, it seemed as if the earth cracked open. Tears. Beautiful, beautiful Madeline.
Patti B. says:
Heather & Mike & family…I am so sorry for your broken hearts. We are all thinking of you and praying for some peace for you. I’m so so sad.
Vintagesquirrel (Michelle) says:
I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet baby, Maddie. I cannot begin to imagine how it fels to lose a child. May God hold you in His hands as you grieve for her. Your family will remain in my prayers.
-Michelle
Vintagesquirrel (Michelle)s last blog post..The No-Good, Horrible Day
nina says:
I cannot believe this has happened……I am just so sorry
hugs and prayers to all of you
ninas last blog post..Significant……..
Sarah B says:
I am heartbroken and in tears. I will be praying for your family.
Amy says:
Maddie’s beautiful spirit has touched so many. My prayers are with you & your family, Heather.
Amys last blog post..Fat Chicken
Anna says:
I know this isn’t much, but my deepest heartfelt sympathies are with you, Mike, and the rest of your families. Just to repeat what others have said, Thank you for sharing Maddie with us. Those curls and that smile have made our world a brighter place.
Carrie says:
I am so, so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts.
Carries last blog post..Parenting Fail #3,896
Haley-O says:
I am typing through tears to tell you how incredibly sorry I am for your loss. Sending you hugs and love, blessings and healing….
Jenn says:
I am at a loss for words. I am so very sorry for your loss. May you find some sort of peace in the following days. Nothing any of us say will make you feel better, but I hope that you find comfort in knowing that we are all praying for you and your family.
Jenns last blog post..SPRING SPECIAL!!!!
Christina says:
I am crying right now, feeling like I was just punched in the gut. I am terribly at a loss for words or understanding of how this world works. Such a stunning little girl, gone far too soon. You’re all in my thoughts, and if there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.
Christinas last blog post..I Won’t Leave You Hanging
Melissa says:
I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine this kind of heartache. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Melissas last blog post..Two
Anonymous New York says:
I wish I could say something to alleviate the pain you and your family is feeling right now for the loss of your beautiful baby girl. My heart and prayers go out to you.
Tiffany says:
I am speechless – I cannot imagine what you are going through. To say I am so sorry is an understatement.
Fiona says:
I’ve never commented before but I wanted you to know that my heart is breaking for you and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Fionas last blog post..Wordless Wednesday ~ Queen Of The World!!!!
Kristine says:
Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god.
I can’t even comprehend this.
I have no words. Just know I am sending my love your way and grieving for you and beautiful Maddie.
Amy says:
So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Tina says:
I do not have the words to take away the pain or express how sorry I am that this has happened. Please know that your family and Maddie are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tina
Tinas last blog post..Happy Birthday to J
Marie Baker says:
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family and my deepest condolences.
Middle-Aged-Woman says:
Hold each other tightly. There is a piece of Maddie in each of you, forever.
Middle-Aged-Womans last blog post..Broken Hearts
Mermanda says:
My heart just broke in a million pieces. Mike and Heather, I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby girl. The world will never be the same without Maddie. Just take comfort in knowing that this angel will be looking over you for the rest of your lives.
Mermandas last blog post..It’s snowing.
Magda says:
Mike and Heather,
I can not find words to even begin to express my sorrow for you and your family. Please know that though I never met your sweet Maddie she touched my life in way that I don’t think I can even begin to understand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. May you find some comfort in each others arms.
Magda
mothergoosemouse says:
Just heartsick for you. So terribly sorry. Wishing you peace and comfort.
Amanda says:
I am so saddened to hear about Miss Maddie Moo. My heart goes out to you and your family. Try and hang in there as best as you can.
Laura says:
My heart goes out to you and your family. I am Marching for Babies on May 3 and will march in memory of your sweet Maddie.
Linda says:
I can’t imagine the pain you must be going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you to find peace. I am so sorry for your loss.
feefifoto says:
I just read this terrible news on the Peapod Squad blog. I’m so sorry for the loss of your precious child. Please accept my condolences.
Briana says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve contributed in memory of sweet Maddie. I can’t imagine your pain. My prayers are with you.
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Tricia says:
Oh God Heather, I just can’t believe it. I thought I had read it wrong. My heart is breaking for you both (and the rest of your family) right now. I am so so so unbelievably sorry…I wish I had some words..the right words to say but there aren’t any. If you need ANYTHING (besides the obvious that I wish with all my heart I could give you) please call me, email me, whatever. 951-905-9315 She was such a beautiful, sweet girl. Meeting her was an honor and I will never forget that little angel with the prettiest eyes I have ever seen. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Sending Big *HUGS*, strength and whatever else you may need to get through this. God, I am so sorry.
Love always,
Tricia
Upstatemomof3 says:
God Bless all of you!! My heart goes out to you and you will all be in my prayers. I do not even know what else to say but I am sending all the love and concern that I possibly can.
Upstatemomof3s last blog post..Mama!!!
Molly Allen Giesen-FIelds says:
Heather and Mike,
I am stunned and have no words. You two have displayed heroism and have been a source of inspiration for me since the moment Maddie was born (actually, before she was born). You are a true example of how to be wonderful wonderful WONDERFUL parents, and I mourn your loss very deeply. Please lean on family and friends during this time – my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Karen says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I never met Maddie — or you — in person, but her beautiful smile would bring a smile to my face whenever I saw her on your blog.
Karens last blog post..That’s an interesting perspective…
the weirdgirl says:
I am so so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Elisa Camahort Page says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I just can’t imagine what you’re going through, nor what to say. Thinking of you.
Elisa Camahort Pages last blog post..No job? Start Your Own Business
melissa says:
i am so sorry for you and your family.
melissas last blog post..I Think I May ACTUALLY Have A Legitimate Reason To Visit My Psychologist.
Krissy says:
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.”
No words can express my deepest sympathy to your family. I can only pray that you find peace and God comforts you with his loving arms.
She was a angel on earth…now she is a angel in Heaven. I have secretely being reading your blog and even though I have never had the pleasure of meeting Maddie, I still feel a saddness that makes my heart hurt for you. You are not grieving alone.
Fly High Maddie. You earned your wings sweet girl.
Jen Berger says:
Heather and Mike,
I am so devastated for you and your family. I felt like I knew you guys and am so sad and sorry to hear about Maddie’s passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
Jen
Jen Bergers last blog post..Big Girl Bed
Bil Simser says:
Heather and Mike,
Our deepest condolences for your family. This is a wonderful record of Maddie and your journey and will be an awesome record forever on the internet in memory of her.
Bil and Jenn
jenni says:
I cannot even imagine. I am so, so sorry.
Mandy says:
I am so very sorry for your loss. There are no words, I am just so sorry.
Blessed says:
I am so sorry to hear about the end of your time here on earth with your beautiful little girl. I pray that love, memories and the support of your friends and family help you through this time.
Rachael says:
I haven’t been a regular reader, more off and on. But today I have hit refresh waiting and waiting for your blog to reappear. I have spent the day in tears, overwhelmed by your loss, and by the number of people wanting to lift your family up today.
It’s not just the sadness, the grief, the loss. As a mother, even imagining this kind of loss can bring me to me knees in a second. I know it’s not enough to say I’m sorry, but I truly am. It’s not the way it should be to have to grieve your baby. I’m so sorry.
As if that’s not overwhelming enough, to see this outpouring, to have 22 posts about Maddie in my feedreader today, to see that 150 people have written about Maddie today and linked at A Mom Two Boys… it’s absolutely amazing. What else could THAT be than God’s work?
I hope that in some way it helps. I hope that at least one thing someone says today brings you a tiny grain of peace, a tiny point of light on your road to normalcy. I know you will never recover, never forget, but it will be easier over time.
You will be in my prayers, and I will share your story. I’m so, so sorry for your loss. Maddie, let our tears lift you up. You were amazing and beautiful.
Rebecca (Ramblings by Reba) says:
I’m so sorry. Maddie’s life was such a miracle.
Carrie says:
You are in my prayers.
Susie says:
May you find some peace and comfort in the memories of your sweet beautiful Maddie. Let them warm you. She was very blessed.
PB and Jazz says:
I am so sorry! You are in my thoughts and prayers.
whoorl says:
Thinking and praying for your family. I am so incredibly sorry.
Christy says:
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I will be continuing to keep you and your family in my thoughts.
Stacey says:
I loved looking at pictures of Madeline, who was obviously adored by everyone she came into contact with. I checked for new pictures of her daily and enjoyed her bright eyes and smile. I am deeply deeply saddened and cannot imagine the pain you are feeling.
Please know that I am praying for you.
Pam says:
Maddie is in the arm of Our Father, but I know mom & dad’s arms are just aching.
A stranger in Michigan is praying for peace and comfort for you.
dysfunctional mom says:
I have no words to express how much I hurt for you all. My prayers are with you.
xoxo
Melissa says:
Words can’t heal your hearts…nothing probably can. Ever. I will pray for you to find the strength to continue living, while missing your most precious gift. I’m very sorry.
Marci- Ontario Canada says:
Heather and Mike- I don’t know either of you- I somehow stumbled across your website a few months ago and was just smitten with sweet Maddy- she brightened my day with her beautiful, soulful eyes and her toothy grin. I loved coming on daily and seeing what she was up to- and waking up this morning to this awful news, my heart broke for your whole family. I haven’t been able to get Maddy out of my head today and wanted to come and send my condolences. I have been on your friend Meghan’s website a lot today and the outpouring of love has brought me to tears- such a small little person can touch so many lives- and I hope that thought can carry you through these very very difficult days.
Stephanie says:
She will live on in your hearts and minds and those of your family and friends. I am so sorry for your loss.
Arcadia says:
The glimpses of Maddie’s life you’ve shared with us all have been a blessing and this record of her life has touched the lives of hundreds of strangers. Your beautiful baby girl is not gone – she will live on forever through these memories you’ve shared, and through the love you shared as a family. Treasure the times you were blessed with and take comfort in that while you and your family will suffer for a long time, your daughter has found true peace.
Corinne Cooper says:
words cannot even begin to express my sadness over the loss of Maddie. from the moment I connected to your blog through Matt Logelin’s I fell in love with the sweet, beautiful little girl with a HUGE smile & lashes to die for. I did not wany to believe what I was reading was true, Maddy was fine…she is a fighter. I am still in shock. I too had a premie (Sienna Grace Cooper born at 34 weeks 8/27/07) & went through the once a month RSV shot last winter, so I was able to understand your struggle. Thank you for working so diligently with March of Dimes. The skies have gained a bright new star. You are in my prayers.
Kerry says:
I’m so terribly sorry… my thoughts are with you and your family.
The Yummy Mummy says:
I am so sorry. So sorry. I can’t even imagine.
I’ll keep you in my prayers.
Kim
Trish says:
I wish I had something more meaningful to say than I’m sorry. My heart is truly broken for you..
Bethany says:
My heart dropped as I heard of Madeline’s death. I have been following your blog quietly for a few months, admiring the pictures of beautiful Madeline. I am so, so sorry and will be praying for your family.
Randi says:
I am so sorry for your loss. From your words and pictures she looks like she had such a sweet, amazing spirit. No parent should ever, EVER have to lose a child.
My heart is with you.
bikerchick says:
Oh dear G-d, Heather and Mike. I don’t know you, but I grieve with you. I am sorry that I have no sufficient words. Just so, so, so sorry. Sending healing thoughts.
Shelley Moore says:
Oh dear Lord, I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers – I am just so sorry to hear of your loss.
steph anne says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. Even though I don’t know you and your family all of you are in my thoughts and prayers!
tonya cinnamon says:
my heart and thoughts are with you all.
(Maddie , I may not have ever met you, But you touched my heart all the same.A beautiful blueeyed girl with a happy smile.There are no words to even begin to express the pain that slices through ones mind and heart. The grief doesnt even begin to comprehend the meaning behind it. The understanding,? There is no understanding. The love that bound you here continues onward always .Thank you Maddie for teaching us.May we learn more one day when the bridges meet again )
Holli says:
I wish I had something wise to say, or at least something that would make you feel better. The truth is I do not. Please just know that I am so, so sorry for your loss. Maddie was a beautiful baby.
Connie says:
I wish I could comfort you, but losing your sweet baby is something no one can fix, how I wish I could. I loved reading about the three of you – she was so very loved.
I’m thinking of you both.
Connie
Amy Elkins says:
Heather and Mike,
I have enjoyed reading about you and Maddie. it sounds silly, but through your posts, tweets and pictures, I too have come to love your little girl. My heart is broken you, Maddie and your devastating loss. Your happy Maddie will be greatly missed.
Tarasview says:
My heart breaks for you. I’m so sorry.
Suzie says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Maddie was a beautiful little girl and she is missed. I hope that you, Heather and Mike, find some peace knowing how much she is still loved.
Fairly Odd Mother says:
I am so sorry. So, so, so sorry. My heart aches for all that you are going through right now.
Alaina says:
I possibly cannot say something that has not been said, so all I will say is…
I will pray…for you, your family and everyone touched by Maddie and her story.
FireMom says:
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. Wish we could do or say more.
Neil says:
Grieving with you on this sad day. Your family’s love has touched so many around the world today.
Shannon Vieau says:
I just recently started following you on twitter and reading your blog, i spent a lot of hours catching up and slowing falling in love with maddie, such a beautiful child. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and I am keeping your family in my prayers. She will be greatly missed. Keep your heads up, it will get better I can promise that.
Shauna says:
Oh Heather. I have been in tears all day. I just can’t wrap my head around it. I can’t express how sorry I am, or how much I wish I could do something to help. Lucy and I are going to release some purple balloons for your sweet Maddie tomorrow. Your beautiful girl will never be forgotten. She has affected my life more than you know. I’m praying so much for you and your family.
Jesica says:
You don’t know me. I’ve never seen your blog before, you’ve probably never been to mine. I’m here from Ordinary Days. http://methemama.blogspot.com/
I just wanted to add my voice to the rest … I am so very sorry for your loss. My nephew is a preemie (2.5 pounds) … Maddie’s story has broken my heart.
I’m praying for all that loved Maddie. I’m so sorry.
Heather says:
Here via Flotsam…I am so sorry.
Praying for your family.
Veronica says:
I’m so sorry. I know nothing I can say will help so (((hugs))). I only started reading your blog a fortnight or so ago, but I’m crying for you. She will be sorely missed, even by internet lurkers.
(((more hugs)))
Dave P. says:
I can’t imagine going through this, or what it would do to me to lose my daughter. My warmest thoughts, prayers, and well-wishes are being sent your way. I am so sorry for your loss.
Kelly Olonoh says:
Heather & Mike, I’m so so sorry about dear sweet little Madeline. I know your hearts are broken. I want you to know that your precious baby has brought sunshine to so many lives and many, many people are deeply saddened by her passing. Cling to each other during this difficult time and may God grant you peace, comfort, contentment and strength in the midst of this nightmare that we cannot begin to understand.
Vixen says:
I wish had words that could console you. I wish I didn’t know how you feel. But I don’t and I do.
These times are hard, but I remember the love and support I received from what some call ‘strangers’ was what got me through. I hope that the love that was shared today throughout the internet, here, on twitter and everywhere helps you in some way.
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We just want you to know, we feel your pain and we wish we could take some of the burden of it. Maddie was so loved and cherished. God bless you all.
Amanda says:
Heather and Mike,
I do not have enough words to tell you how sorry I am for the loss of your sweet, beautiful little baby girl. My heart was crushed when I read the news today. I am shocked and cannot believe that this is true. I cannot imagine what you must be feeling. Maddie was gorgeous and full of life and it blows my mind to try to imagine that she is gone.
I pray that God will give you peace and strength to get you through these dark days. I pray that those who love you will hold you up and be strong for you when you cannot. I pray that you will be able to rest….that God will hold you the way that you held sweet Maddie.
I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I wish I knew why things like this happen. I wish there was something I could say to take this hurt from you or bring your baby back.
I know that Maddie is everything to you, your whole world. I want to thank you for letting us share in her beauty for the past 17 months. She made the world more beautiful and the pictures of her smiles and big bright eyes always brightened my days. I feel fortunate to have been able to “know” Maddie.
Love,
Amanda and Brooklyn
PS – I am donating to March of Dimes and I hope that everyone else will too. I am going to find out when our local walk is also. Maddie is making a huge difference for so many other babies.
Christine says:
I’m so sorry for you loss. I’m thinking and praying for you guys.
Brenda J says:
Dear Heather and Mike,
I am so sorry to hear about your dear Maddie. She obviously had a big impact on the world in her short time here.
My thoughts are with your family.
Love lots,
Brenda
Rick says:
From Whitetail Woods our condolences go out to your loss.
robyn says:
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. The power of your friends is amazing to witness. We are so very sorry.
Mommy In Pink says:
My heart just breaks for you right now! Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Maddie is such a precious little girl and reminds me so much of my own daughter..I am deeply saddened to hear this. I am so, so sorry. I wish there was something I could say…I am so sorry to hear this.
Beth at I Should Be Folding Laundry says:
I am so sorry for you loss. Your entire family is in my prayers and in my heart.
Maddie will always be remembered.
Karishma says:
I am so utterly, utterly sorry. I learned of your blog today, and of Maddie’s story today, through the waves in blogland. I wish I had been able to witness your journey as it had unfolded before, but be sure that I will be reading from now onwards, hoping that the blogland can make the least bit of a difference through this time. Maddie was such a beautiful, beautiful child, and she is just as beautiful of an angel. I cannot even imagine what you are going through, but I give you, for what it’s worth, my deepest, deepest condolences.
Vanessa says:
I am praying for your whole family. I just found out about this heartbreaking news and I am sitting here shocked and typing in tears as the world has just lost such an inspiring and beautiful little girl. I can’t imagine how you feel. Your whole family has captivated me since I first started reading the blog especially little Maddie and her big blue eyes and I will never forget her. May God be with you all.
Mama Kat says:
Dammit. What happened??? How can this be????
I am so sorry.
Tina Hosko says:
My heart is broken. I am ill. How could God take this beautiful baby. I am so angry. So,so angry
Abby says:
Mike and Heather, I have no words that will do any justice. I am still in shock, I cannot believe that this has happened. Know that through this blog, your daughter inspired thousands of women and their families who have had children in the NICU. I miscarried a year and a half ago, and I can still feel the sickness and grief washing over me when I think about it. I know that my pain cannot compare to what it must be like after having 17 months with your beautiful, sweet baby girl. Maddie will always be close to my heart, since I’ve been following this blog for almost a year now and have read every post. God be with you. The March of Dimes will make more money this year than ever before thanks to you and Madeline Alice. Take comfort in the fact that your daughter’s brief time on this earth has touched so many hearts and brought so much joy.
RzDrms says:
this sucks. i am so very sorry to learn that your baby is gone from you. no words typed from my meager keyboard could ever convey my utter sadness at reading about the passing of your beloved Maddie. i’m really sorry she’s gone. i think this sucks. MANY hearts are aching for you and your family.
Elaine says:
Heather & Mike,
I’ve been a reader of both of your blogs for the past year, and have continually been awed and inspired by your warmth, your strength, your humor, and above all else, your love for Maddie. I checked Heather’s blog daily for new updates and pictures, always delighted by Maddie’s smile and her eyes so full of joy. Like so many others have expressed, I was shocked and devastated by last night’s news. In sharing your lives with your readers, many of us have come to feel like extended members of the Spohr Family. You are extraordinary people — and remarkable parents — who filled Maddie’s life with love and laughter. My thoughts are with you, and will be with Maddie always.
Jodi says:
I have only learned of Maddie and her untimely end today– yet, I am sitting here sobbing at my keyboard. There are no words, nothing that I can say to provide any comfort– but know that she will never be forgotten, even by those not lucky enough to have known her.
Heidi says:
I am so very, very sorry. What a beautiful little girl.
anymommy says:
I want to add my voice to the chorus of love and support and devastation. I am so, very sorry. Maddie is so loved and she will be so missed.
alison says:
Heather & Mike I am so so sorry for your loss. Maddie was such a beautiful little girl who always seemed so happy and full of spirit. She touched so many lives with that smile. I’ve been following your story for a little while now, she was such an inspiration. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time, I can’t imagine what you must be going through. God Bless You.
EmilyInCocktailLand says:
May you find peace. Praying for your family, from Dallas-
Emily
The Carrolls says:
Can’t stop thinking of you guys today, and sending all our love.
HeatherPride says:
I’m so, so sorry. You have all been on my mind all day. Words cannot express how sorry I am. I can’t believe this happened. I just want you to know how beautiful I think little Maddie was, and how my heart aches for you.
Leslie says:
I am so sorry for your loss. You’re in my thoughts.
Mel says:
Hugs.
Alison says:
I haven’t read your blog before tonight but I just wanted to tell you anyway how very, very sorry I am for your loss.
Debbie says:
So shocked and so sad. I would check in every day to see what the beautiful
Maddie was up to. I am so sorry for your loss, my heart breaks. Praying for
your family.
Em says:
I am soooooo sorry,
my thoughts and prayers are with you. I pray for comfort, peace, strength and faith for you all.
Em
from Australia
Rachel H says:
I’ve been reading your blog for months and always looked forward to a new post with stories and photos of your beautiful baby girl. I’ve been heartsick all day since I read the news. I’m so very sorry for your loss.
anita says:
Oh Heather. Mike. I’m so, so sorry. And to the universe I shout bullS^&%*!!! What in the hell is that about!!!!
Maddie is such a beautiful precious little peanut. It’s not fair. It’s just not fair.
Kari A. says:
I have just learned of your story – as I have so much in common, I just can’t stop but feeling such sorrow for you all. She IS a beautiful girl and the world is a little less bright without her here.
Kim says:
I so terribly sorry for your loss. My daughter died 5 1/2 years ago. I remember that pain, the raw pain, the intensity of it. My heart aches for you. Your family is in my prayers. Maddy is a beautiful girl.
Miss Grace says:
I’m so very sorry. Maddie has been in my heart all day, and she will continue to have a place there. There are no words.
Amy Stone says:
Heather & Mike-
First time I’ve been able to get on your site today. I met and fell in love with Maddie exactly one year ago today. I can’t believe she’s gone, I don’t believe she’s gone.
All I can say is that Maddie mattered. She made a difference in the world, she made a difference to me. Heather you have been so open and honest and I think of you as my friend. Your reply emails to me over the past year have meant a lot to me, they show that you care about your blog and the people who read it.
May peace be with you and your family, and although I won’t be there for the service, Purple I will wear in Maddie’s honor. Coincidentally, it is my favorite color, so no problem finding it in my wardrobe!
Amy Stone (Oregon)
P.s. I donated to MOD today as well.
Jodee says:
I just learned of your story today and I am so so sorry for your loss. I have been really touched by this and my thoughts and prayers are with you both… Maddie is such a beautiful little girl and her birthday is only 2 days after my little girl Kyra… I don’t think I will be able to look at her again without remembering your little angel…. I am so sorry……
usedtobeme says:
I know there are no words that will bring comfort right now, but know that your family is in the hearts, thoughts and prayers of many right now. Peace be with you.
Christy says:
Maddie was such an inspiration and had such a fighting spirit. She brought such joy into our lives. I am praying for you and want to help and be there for you in any way possible. Love you.
Mandy G. says:
I have been reading your blog, Heather, for many months now, although I hadn’t commented. I wish I had. I lost a son earlier this year, 24 weeks into the pregnancy. It doesn’t compare to your loss, but I have been crying off and on all day. Losing a child is indeed the worst thing parents can go through.
My truly heartfelt condolences to you and your husband.
Backpacking Dad says:
I see her angel eyes in my dreams. I’m so sorry.
Secret Agent Mama says:
I don’t know if my previous comment was left. That being said…
I’m so sorry for your loss. I just started to get to know you and Maddie, and I will never forget her…
Rest In Peace, Precious Angel….
Eli Grubman says:
There is no rhyme or reason over this sad turn of events. If only…
Ritch in Love says:
My heart is torn open for your family. I know the Lord is watching over your family and is holding Maddie in His arms.
kay says:
I am sorry for what you are going through. I want to thank you for sharing your precious daughter with all of us that was such a gift. I will not be able to attend sevices but I will be wearing my purple and I donated in Maddies name to MOD.
Scott says:
No!
My wife and I are in tears. Thinking of you guys. BIG HUGS!!!
Emily says:
I am so sorry . . .
christina says:
I first learned of adorable little Maddie on the TodayShow blog and her love for Matt Lauer. I am so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
L. says:
I have been reading through your archives hoping against hope for a different outcome. It is so +ainfully clear how fiercely you loved Maddie, this is obscene, parents should never have to face this sort of pain, I’m so sorry, so very sorry.
scrappysue says:
so sorry for your loss
Jennie says:
This is something that no parent should have to endure. My prayers are with you at this time, and I pray that you find comfort in how loved Maddie was.
xxx
Suzie G. says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain your family is going through right now. My prayers are with you.
maryann says:
I am so very sorry for your loss,words can´t express how much…
missi says:
i am so sorry. i have no words.
Rachel says:
My heart goes out to you both – I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl. I have only just learned of your story today via a link from another blog, and in reading your posts I can see that you were a gorgeous lovely happy family, and that Maddie was an incredible little girl. You are all in my thoughts and prayers xxxxx
Rachel (Hampshire, UK)
Amanda says:
You don’t know me but I just read about Maddie on another blog I read.
I’m just so so sorry. My heart breaks for your precious girl. I’m just so sorry.
X from Amanda in Oz
suze says:
I am so, so, very sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful girl.
Atom Heart Father says:
Having never read this blog before, I followed Burgh Baby from Twitter to this post. The only words of comfort and condolence I can offer are those of Numbers 6:24-26:
The LORD bless you and keep you
The LORD make his face shine upon you
and be gracious to you
The LORD lift His countenance upon you
and give you peace
Pamela says:
my thoughts and prayers are with you I cannot even imagine the pain you are going thru.
Rest in peace sweet little angel.
Anna says:
I am so, so sorry for your loss. I already wrote on your facebook but my heart breaks for both of you right now and the entire family circle. I didn’t really know you or Maddie but I still felt a connection there. Maddie touched so many lives and she will never be forgotten.
I wrote a post about Maddie here:
http://metamorphosising.blogspot.com/2009/04/rest-in-peace-sweet-little-madeline.html
I hope that by doing this more people can see and hear about your wonderful little fighter!
jen says:
I am so sorry..
I have no words to express how badly my heart is breaking for your family. I have been following your blog for some time now and was always in awe of that little angel Maddie and her wonderfully loving parents. Please know that your family has touched many.
You are in my thoughts and prayers..
rachel says:
my friend told me of your story today. a stranger in australia is crying for your family tonight. may you find peace.
Krista says:
I’m very sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you and praying for you.
Kellie says:
No words can take away the pain. I’m very sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl. Just know that so many people are keeping all of you in their prayers.
Virginia says:
Dear Mike, Heather and Rigby,
Please accept my deepest condolances during your time of grieving. No one ever expected this least of all you. Her beauty, innocence and love for life, her joy, has touched many hearts throughout the world. Take comfort in knowing she touched so many lives in her beautiful life. Peace be with you.
Jenny, bloggess says:
I love you and I miss her already. She brought so much light into the world. She will always be in my heart.
Cassie says:
I am so, so terribly sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Praying for peace and comfort for you.
Chris says:
My heart is breaking for you and your family. Please know that you are in my thoughts.
JoAnn says:
My heart aches for you. Thank you for sharing her with us through your blog.
Karly says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I seem to be one of the very few people that didn’t read your blog, but it’s easy to see how much Maddie meant to so many people. She’s a beautiful little girl and I’m so sorry for the pain your family must be feeling.
chefmom says:
I am SO sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. What a beautiful angel…
Kati says:
This is actually my 1st visit and it is under terrible terms. I want to send my sincere apologies to the family. I just cannot even begin to imagine what they must be going through.
I thank my lucky stars everyday that I have 2 healthy children and love my job caring for those who are not well. It truly breaks my heart.
I made a MOD donation, I wish it could have been more, but something is always better than nothing.
Well wishes.
Heather says:
I’m so sorry for your loss…I have no words to express, but please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy M. says:
I am so, so sorry for your loss. I hope that somehow you can find a sense of peace in order to make it through your days.
Brea's Mommy says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Maddie was a beautiful girl. I am at a loss for words and know that nothing anyone can say right now can take your pain away. So I will leave you with . . . You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
Brea’s Mommy’s last blog post..Post Your Giveaways! #3
lilfootsmommy says:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I can’t begin to imagine what you are going through. I can’t stop thinking about your little girl.
lilfootsmommy’s last blog post..Bad Laundry Basket…
Jennifer says:
Dear Heather and Mike, I am so saddened and devastated to hear about Maddie. You were lucky to have her for the time the you did. I am so sorry and will be thinking of you.
Jennifer’s last blog post..Maddie Spohr
Mel says:
**hugs**
I found you through The Bloggess… and I just want to say that I am sorry for your loss, and you are not alone. Life doesn’t always make sense, and you did nothing wrong.
((hugs and hope))
melanie says:
I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter! My heart breaks for you. HUgs!!
melanie’s last blog post..Giveaway Thursday 4/9
Christine says:
i am so sorry for your loss…i can only hope that the love and support from all of us out here brings you some comfort. you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
i’m across the country, so can’t attend the funeral, but i will be wearing purple.
Emma says:
I heard she was sick from others this weekend on twitter, and started following the story, assuming that all would end well. So incredibly sorry that it didn’t. I hope that the March of Dimes can perform miracles with so much money raised in Maddie’s memory – though it’s such a small consolation when there is so much pain.
Emma’s last blog post..Dribs and drabs
Lindsay says:
Dear Mike and Heather,
I’m so sorry for your loss. The world will never be the same without those eyes, that smile. I hold you all in my heart and thoughts. Your Maddie will not be forgotten. Thank you for sharing her with us. Much love- L
Lindsay’s last blog post..Metric Song and Catch Up
Susan says:
My heart is breaking. Prayers for you.
Jaime says:
May God be with you during this difficult and tragic time.
Jaime’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday with Barney
Cassie says:
My heart is absolutely broken for your family. I’ve been praying for you ever since I heard. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
Jem says:
All my love to you…I am so sorry to hear the news about your beautiful girl
Denise says:
The love you & Mike gave Maddie radiated through her beautiful smile. My unrelenting thoughts and heavy heart are with you. I hope you feel the love that has showered over you from coast to coast, we are here for you with open arms. Heather your an incredible woman. Much love.
Denise’s last blog post..Loss In The Blogging Community
Jenny in IL says:
My thoughts are with you in this difficult time. She was a beautiful little girl I am so sorry.
Tasha says:
Words can not express how sorry I am for your loss. Allow the Lord to be your strength during this time. I am so sorry!
Tara says:
My heart breaks for your loss. I am praying for peace for your family and everyone that loved such a beautiful little angel.
Tara’s last blog post..Names, again…
Liv says:
I’m here because when I opened up my google reader I saw three people post about Maddie and your loss. I just had to click over. (I tried yesterday various times but unable to get through – presumably b/c of the server issues)
I’ve never had the pleasure of reading your blog or your story before. I am so terribly sorry about your loss. It brings a lump to my throat and a heartache even though I’ve never known about Maddie before.
Prayers for you and your entire family.
Liv’s last blog post..Once Upon a Time… A Blogger’s Beginning
tracey says:
I am so incredibly sorry… Madeline has touched so many in such a short time. May your family find peace in whatever way you can….
tracey’s last blog post..Waiting for the last one to succomb…
fidget says:
Ive been a lurker on your blog for sometimes now… sometimes I just blow at making comments, but as jumbled as this may be i just wanted to tell you how beautiful Maddie is.
I am so sorry that you lost your lovely Maddie, as a mother and a human, my heart is just shattered for you. I wish there were not so many miles between us, in grief I feed people and hug them and offer one of my babies for them to hold and rock and love. I wish I could do that for you. I donated in maddie’s name. My last 2 were early birds too.
You and Mike will continue to be in our prayers
xoxo
Dorothy says:
Dear Heather and Mike,
Maddie was so unbelievably lovely. She was truly an angel that you got to enjoy for much too brief a time. I’ve followed your posts from the time she was born and rejoiced and sorrowed over every milestone and setback. I’ve never met you all but I am grieving with you. I will miss her wonderful smile and indomitable spirit. May the God of all peace and comfort wrap you in his arms and never let go. This is a long dark night, but joy will come again when you least expect it. Blessings to you.
Lori says:
I have no words for you, only love and prayers. May God comfort you during this unbearable time of sorrow.
Lori’s last blog post..An Open Letter to Feedburner
lemonologie says:
I am so sorry for your loss. As a new mother of a preemie, I cannot find the words to say how my heart aches for you. Your family will be in my prayers.
lemonologie’s last blog post..5 Days
GoteeMan says:
I just found your blog today, through a link on another friend’s blog.
I know during this time that no words can ease the pain and grief you are going through. I am so sorry for your loss, which is a tremendous loss of such a beautiful child. You are in our thoughts and prayers today. May you be surrounded with love, peace and light…
Jeff & Kim
Chattanooga, TN
GoteeMan’s last blog post..The reason for the cobwebs….
anonamommy says:
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know it is insignificant, but I just wanted to say it. I will have you and yours in my thoughts.
MommyTime says:
I am heartsick for you. I know no words can make this better, but perhaps an outpouring of love from across miles may slightly ease the burden. My deepest sympathies to you both.
Ronnica says:
I never heard of Maddie until today, but it’s evident that she was loved (and so are you, Mike and Heather). Praying that God’s comforting arms will surround you.
Jaina says:
Linked to your from Mr. Lady. My mind can’t quite formulate words, so I’m sending love and prayers instead. ::hugs::
Jaina’s last blog post..One Year
Rachel says:
Many prayers and much love to you and your family. The loss of your Beauty Full daughter Maddie is heartbreaking. I am so sorry.
Rachel’s last blog post..~Cherished~
Diana says:
Dear Heather and Mike:
I have visited your site and read your stories and I just want you to know you and your beautiful Mattie are in my thoughts and prayers. There are no words to express the sadness that many people feel for your loss and pain. I pray that the love and support of many friends and family carries you through this time. I am so so sorry.
Brynn says:
I just read through your archives and learned the story of your lovely family and the amazing Madeline. What a little star, so full of love and light. Your beautiful daughter lives on with everyone her story touched…so many people.
Please know that there are legions of us standing with you now, you are not alone on the path of grief. Sending your family love, love, love from NYC.
3carnations says:
I am so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss.
3carnations’s last blog post..24 hour spring break
Linda Duncan says:
Heather and Mike, I know because I’ve been right where you are that there are no specific words that will comfort you. I do remember how seeing their names is so bittersweet and that the love of people is what pulls you through. Know that you are loved and that we are praying for your strength. Maddie is such a precious angel, I can see how our Father wanted her home. Hugs and Prayers, Linda from RR
Not On Fire says:
I am sorry for your loss.
Not On Fire’s last blog post..The secret to training kids to sleep
Sugar Jones says:
Sweet Maddie… rest, beautiful angel.
Heather, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Much love.
Sugar Jones’s last blog post..Remembering Maddie
Leslie says:
I read Dawg’s post today and found out about your sweet, beautiful Maddie. My heart is broken for you. I am so sorry.
Leslie’s last blog post..Mom Has a Birthday
Regina @ Margarita Bloom says:
First time visiting….I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s a horrible thing to lose someone you love. My thoughts go out to you and all that loved your Maddie.
Valerie says:
My heart is breaking for you. I know your pain all too well and I will pray for you and your family.
Big Hugs to you!
Valerie’s last blog post..Sunday Funnies and Some Music Too
tara says:
there are no words big enough to say that i am so very sorry for your loss. since i learned of your story, i have been reading through your archives – i am humbled by the strength and beauty of your family, especially the incredible madeline. you are in my thoughts. sending much love.
Jessica says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Laura says:
I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. I have never read your blog before, but very briefly caught up on Maddie’s story. From her pictures, I can tell she was a deeply loved and loving child – there was such spirit in her eyes. My prayers are with you and I hope that the coming days, months and years are bearable until your are reunited with your precious one who has taken a piece of your heart with her to heaven. Tears for your family.
jasmin dey says:
I am so sorry for you loss..I have come to visit your blog many times and what a sweet little angel maddie is.My thoughts and prayers are with your family today.
Debbie in Memphis says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you. God bless you.
feistycali says:
Heather & Mike – I’m so so sorry for your loss. I’ve been following you since your plasticcandy days and even though I never met Maddie, she truly touched me. The light and life in her eyes was absolutely beautiful and I hope you can find some peace in the outpouring of love the interweb community has shown in the last 2 days. Maddie was truly one of a kind.
Miche@CoordinatedChaos says:
Oh I am so heartbroken for you, and wish I lived next door so I could give you a huge hug. I am so terribly sorry and our prayers are with you. My cousin’s little girl died years ago unexpectedly, and I know there are no words that can help. They are playing together now in heaven; much love to you all.
Miche@CoordinatedChaos’s last blog post..You Capture Fun
gretchen says:
My heart goes out to you. I am so, so sorry.
Maria says:
Heather and Mike, I can say with the utmost sincerity that I loved Madeline like she was my own blood. I came to this blog nearly every day, eager to read her latest adventures and Heather’s beautiful insight and uplifting humor.
I shared her pictures and stories with friends who didn’t spend time online. I’d always say, “My friend Heather’s little girl Maddie.” They didn’t need to know I only knew you online, from your blog.
My heart is broken for you both. It is absolutely broken. Although it is only a small comfort now, I feel blessed to have been able to read along with her life for the past year. Maddie will always make me smile. She will always make me believe in strength, in grace, in beauty. For as long as I live, Madeline Spohr will remind me to treasure those I hold dear.
And she will help me hold onto my faith, that when we all pass, there will be a line of admirers waiting to embrace a blue-eyed little angel in heaven.
All my love to you both, and to your families. God bless.
Maria’s last blog post..Girl Talk Thursday
Cam says:
Sending you love from afar from a heavy heart.
Cam’s last blog post..{love thursday}
Flicka says:
Here via Alexa of Flotsam.
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can’t begin to imagine what you must be feeling. You are both in my thoughts and prayers, now and in the days to come. I’ll be wearing purple on Tuesday, all the way across the country.
xo
Flicka
Flicka’s last blog post..Too tired to make it flow
Amanda says:
Heather and Mike,
I don’t know you, have only read your stories via your blog and have never been compelled to write before. I wanted to reach out and share my utmost sympathy on the loss of your daughter Maddie.
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Amanda’s last blog post..The Crazy Circus of Britney Spears in Vancouver- Concert Review
Boston Mamas says:
Words cannot express the depth of my condolences, so I will just say simply that I wish you and your family all the peace and strength that the universe can possibly generate in your direction.
I’m also a new fellow March of Dimes mom (as of earlier this week) so I hope that at some point our paths may cross; meanwhile, we’ll keep your family in our thoughts and celebrate Maddie’s life over in Boston at the May 9 walk.
Christine
Boston Mamas’s last blog post..March for Babies Boston
ailo says:
I am so so so sorry. Words cannot express how badly I wish there were a way to make it not so. All my best, all my love.
MamaBearJune says:
I am so very, very sorry to hear about your sweet Maddie. I know there is no greater heartache than losing a child. May the Lord hold you in His loving arms and comfort you.
MamaBearJune’s last blog post..Least favorite commercial EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kirsten says:
I learned about you yesterday, through another blog I read… my thoughts are with you. I can’t offer more comfort other than that reading Maddie’s story has truly touched my heart… I’m not a parent, but I teach… so I’ll tell my little ones about a new star in the sky, named Maddie. I’m afraid it’s the only comfort I can give you.
Kirsten’s last blog post..For Maddie…
Rachel says:
May God bless both of you as you walk through this difficult time in your lives. I pray peace for your family. Your Maddie was a beautiful little girl who seems to have touched hundreds of lives in her short time here on earth. I pray that she will continue to touch lives and inspire people for years to come.
Wendy says:
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
~ Wendy
Wendy’s last blog post..Keeping the Air In
all things BD says:
Just started reading your blog recently, and my heart is breaking for you. I’m so sorry for your unimaginable loss of such a precious girl.
Stephanie says:
I have tears in my eyes. I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Those eyes and that smile ~
tash says:
I can’t claim to know what you’re feeling. But I do know what it’s like to lose a daughter, one named Maddy. This story struck particularly close to my heart. Please know I’ve come to know you and your daughter through blogs I read on a daily basis other than yours — she was much followed, and much loved, and well understood. I’m holding you all in my heart. I’m so very sorry.
tash’s last blog post..Socks! Lots of Socks!
CJ says:
I am so sorry.
mspivey2 says:
I am wishing your family unbelievable strength as you continue your journey through life. Just know that your little angel will always look down on you from heaven.
Carrie K says:
Heather and Michael,
I am so very sorry. There is nothing worse than the loss of a child. I have been following your blog for the past 6 months. Even though I have never met you or Maddie, she touched my heart. Her spirit was so bright here on earth, and I’m sure it’s beaming in heaven.
Words are so inadequate, but know that Maddie will be in my heart forever. My heart aches for you.
Hugs and prayers to you.
Kori says:
I truly, truly have no words other than I am so, so sorry.
Kori’s last blog post..This Is NOT a Birthday Post For Eli
KH says:
I’m so very sorry for your loss. No parent should have to outlive his/her children, and as a new parent I now realize this tenfold. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.
René says:
My heart hurts for you. I am so sorry.
Renee says:
I just found your blog through a friend’s blog and I want to say that I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers and my heart goes out to you all.
Lisa says:
Standing with all these others, praying for you. I am so sorry for your loss.
Lisa’s last blog post..I Always Wanted to be Considered an Artisan…
Michelle says:
I am so sorry for your lose! Your family will be in our prayers!
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CAM says:
I found your blog yesterday, after seeing the post on amomtwoboys and wanted to express my hearfelt condolences. I read the stories of the hard fought battle that was waged to bring her into this world. I’m so sorry that she was only with you for such a short time. I am amazed by the people that she has touched during her too brief stay with you. From the donations to MOD that have been accumulating, folks donating to PayPal to help with expenses, the overwhelming response from people which caused the servers to crash and the subsequent friends who rallied to ensure that your site was back online as quickly as possible, the other bloggers who have posted tributes to you and Maddie on amomtwoboys site, it’s quite clear that in her short life, Maddie made an impact and touched many lives. She leaves a legacy many people who have enjoyed a long-full life can only dream of. I pray that the outpouring of love and support will help you in the days, weeks, months and years to come. There are no words to assuage your grief; no answers to lessen your loss, just the well documented story of a little girl who was loved by so many.
Robin says:
I’m so sorry. You and she are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary Rose aka ToyGuru says:
I am so very truly sorry for the ache and agony your hearts must endure right now. I wish that I had the miraculous ability to tap you on the shoulder and wake you from this wretched nightmare. Your beautiful little Maddie has touched so many hearts and lives, and inspired people to make a difference for children. With a sad and heavy heart I send my humble but sincerest thoughts and prayers out to you, your family, and friends.
Marianne says:
I am beyond sorry for your loss. I just came across your blog a week ago and was rejoicing with you for the fighting spirit in your little girl. What an amazing little person she was.
God bless you and your family.
Lori says:
I know there is nothing to be said that will ease your pain or lessen your grief. Just know that there is a virtual community that is holding you close in our hearts and prayers right now.
I am deeply sorry and sad for you. Maddie’s smile was infectious. Your strength has been inspiring. Again, my deepest sympathy. God please hold them close.
Diana says:
I wish I had something profound and comforting to say, but with tears streaming down my face and disbelief in my heart all I can say is how I am deeply sorry for this tragic ending. I wish the family love, and my prayers are with you.
Mission Motherhood Mom says:
My heart is breaking for you. Sweet Maddie was beautiful.
Mission Motherhood Mom’s last blog post..Whatever Martha, It’s a "Good Thing"!
Louise says:
If there were any magical words to be said to ease your pain and feelings of loss, please understand that every single person reading this blog would say them for you. All we can do is offer our deepest sympathies and prayers of support.
Melissa says:
So, so sorry. Thinking of you and sending my love.
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Amy says:
sorry to hear… heart is breaking…
Sarah says:
I have no words. My heart is breaking. I have never met you but after hearing of your sweet little Maddie, I feel like I’ve been been run over by a truck. I cannot even begin to imagine what you and your family must be experiencing. I am so, so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.
Kelcey says:
I’m send you all love, including your beautiful little girl. I am so sorry.
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Julie From Inmates says:
I do not know you or your family personally, but I am a mother. And, I can’t imagine what you and your husband are going through. My heart aches for you. I honestly cannot think of a single thing to say that would ease your pain. I can only say that I am praying for you guys. May God wrap His great big arms around you and comfort you as only He can.
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Kelly says:
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet daughter.
MIchelle says:
My prayers are with and your family, your little girl has touched many, many hearts.
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Wendy says:
Much love to you and your whole family. One look in those eyes and you know that sweet baby girl is an angel. I wish you all peace.
Lisa says:
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Maddie was an utterly captivating, beautiful little girl who touched many hearts. May you find comfort and strength to get through this most tragic time.
Nancy says:
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. May you find comfort knowing that Maddie is with all the other little angles now watching over you.
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Shannon says:
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in my thoughts.
jessy says:
Im so sorry for your loss of your beautiful girl Maddie. Words cannot express how i feel for you. Please find the strength to help you through this sad time.
Sadia says:
Our thoughts are with you. We are so very sorry for your loss.
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LiteralDan says:
I have no idea what to say that wouldn’t sound totally hollow to you right now, but I couldn’t not stop by to even hint at how completely blown away I was to read about this. I am so, so sorry for your loss. Little comfort, I’m sure, but I just cannot believe this has happened.
Daria says:
No words can help at this time, but I am so so sorry to hear about that beautiful sweet girl. All our love & support from many of the prem mums from Australia who have followed Maddie’s journey lovingly. Maddie will forever be in our thoughts.
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:: jozjozjoz :: says:
My heart and thoughts are with you.
Michelle W says:
I’ve only just “met” Madeline after following a link posted by Matt Logelin and I am just heart broken for her family and friends. It is too difficult to comprehend the devastation they all must be feeling, the bottom has dropped out from beneath them and nothing will ever again be the same without their sweet and adorable Madeline lighting up their lives. As a Mom to 2 little ones myself I can’t contain my tears for the Spohrs.
Lucretia says:
Heather & Mike – I’m so very, very sorry for your loss. No parent should ever know that loss. Since the blogosphere and Twitter exploded with the unexpected news, I have kept you all in my prayers. I just didn’t know what to say, other than this.
I’m so very sorry.
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Jamie says:
Cannot think of anything other than I am so terribly sorry… You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Alison says:
I’m so sorry.
Sabrina in Philly says:
My heart and thoughts are with you and you family~ I have been reading your blog, but I never commented just laughed as I read about your Maddie and your life!!
Maddie was beautiful, those eyes were amazing!! I am not sure what else to say but, this is as I am sure a fear to every parent…losing a child. No word could express my sorrow for you and your family.
xoxox
AmyG says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you all.
billythekid says:
I have nothing more I can add other than to re-convey my heartfelt condolences and to let you all know you are and have been in my thoughts this week.
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Cindy says:
Sometimes life makes no sense at all………and this is certainly one of those times. My heart aches for your family.
Jill H says:
I have been reading your blog for a long time and was a reader of Mike’s blog and I am completely shocked and devestated over the loss of Maddie. She was an angel on earth! I loved seeing maddie’s face in your pictures and hearing about her daily activities. Her eyes and smile captivated my heart. Even though I have never met you, I feel like I know you and my heart is broken for your family. I have two children and can’t imagine what you are feeling right now. I wish I had the words to express how sorry I am. I hope you are able to find peace and happiness in your life as I’m sure that’s what Maddie would want for you. I will never forget her smile.
Karen says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you all may find comfort in the beautiful memories you have of your precious Maddie.
Debbie says:
I, too, am joining with everyone to let you know how sad I am for your family and that my heart is breaking along with yours and everyone that knows you.
Please, people who have been there are going to reach out to you– and please let them help you with this journey. I’m sure it’s the furthest thing from your mind right now, but know that walking the road with people who have travelled it already provides an amount of comfort that you just can’t find from somewhere else.
My heart is seriously in my throat right now. I’m so very sorry.
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Jodie says:
She must have been too much for this world.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lorena Hathaway says:
I am so sorry to hear about your sweet Maddie. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May God Bless You all.
Stacy L. says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. It makes my problems seem so miniscule. What a beautiful light in this world that has gone out.
I don’t know how this will make you feel, good bad or worse, but a friend of mine brought a beautiful baby girl into this world on the same day your baby girl left it. You may not be interested at all in seeing her or following her progress, but just in case you are: http://littlesomethingextra.blogspot.com/
I hope that doesn’t upset you. But to me it was just a ‘wow’ moment when I realized the dates coincided.
She will always be with you and there for you and your family.
Stacy L.’s last blog post..Happy Birthday to my love….
avonlea says:
I am so so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all, including your sweet girl who will be so very missed.
Paula says:
I can’t imagine anything I say helping, but I am so sorry for your loss.
mrsmouthy says:
Our own angel baby is welcoming Maddie to heaven with open arms. The hardest lesson I’ve learned is that death is a part of life, and yet it is also the most cherished lesson I’ve learned. My prayers are with you as your journey continues.
Megan from mommyesquire says:
I have no words, just tears. My heart is breaking for you. I am just so very, very sorry. I am praying for you.
DAP says:
It is amazing how many people you are touching through your loss. I am so thankful you took so many photos through her life. One hour at a time. I know you will spend many hours in her room and feeling her essence. But please remember her essence always remains. Nothing has changed that and nothing will. She remains exactly how she was. You two were amazing parents for all the medical stuff you had to deal with. You have been through so much, you know the meaning of love, and you gave so much and you got so much in return…Beautiful Maddie
Sammanthia says:
I am so very sorry. You and you’re family are in my thoughts and prayers. Many hugs being sent your way.
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Sally says:
I am here from Matt Logelin’s blog and I’m so very sorry. I have also lost a child, so I know your all-encompassing and soul crushing pain all too well. There is a warm and loving community of parents who have lost children here at http://www.glowinthewoods.com when you feel you are able to stop by. You are not alone in this.
Holding your beautiful little Maddie in my heart. Again, I am so, so sorry.
xoxo
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jen says:
This is a shock to my heart. I have no words…
Just know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
OXO
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Samantha says:
I am terribly sorry for your loss. I pray for God’s peace for you and your’s. God bless you all during this horrific time.
Samantha’s last blog post..Something’s missing
Melanie says:
I am Loralee’s sister…There are phone calls one hopes to never get…one’s that shake your core…no one should ever have to know that pain…my heart breaks for you and your family…
Angie says:
My heart aches for your sweet little family. I pray that you will feel wrapped in the strong and loving arms of our Heavenly Father. Your sweet Maddie angel will be holding you from heaven. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will continually be with you. My family and friends will all be wearing purple in honor of your sweet little one. Love from Idaho
Nicole M. Bateman says:
I am so sorry to read about your loss of sweet Madeline. Please know your whole family is in my prayers.
golden says:
I am so extremely sorry for your loss. I am in tears and am trying to be strong for you all. I just found your blog via Matt and Maddy’s blog. Maddie was a gorgeous little girl and as Matt says, smiles with her eyes. I felt compelled to comment when I read that Maddie called grampa “Bampa”, my daughter does the exact same thing. Although we don’t know each other, you are in my prayers and thoughts, and I mean that more than just as a line in a comment. Your story has left a mark on my heart and mind. Hugs to you all and strength to rejoice in the loving memories Maddie has left in your lives. xo
nicole says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Your daughter is beautiful. I pray that the love and prayers and support of those who know and love you have brought you a small measure of peace in the midst of your grief.
Jasmine says:
I know what you’re going through. I lost my son Tonie due to SIDS November 23rd, 2006. I’m so sorry and will be praying for you & your family. God bless you. She was absolutely breathtaking & you can rest assured that Maddie & my Tonie are up there playing and watching over us now.
Jennifer says:
Virtually Hugging on you……. Praying for you………. Believing for you……..
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Scott says:
I am so sorry to have heard this. I am the father of premie twin girls, one of whom just got released from the NICU. My heart aches to hear of this terrible outcome. You have my heartfelt prayers and thoughts, from what it is worth from a stranger.
Jayme Q. says:
I had never read your blog before yesterday, when I came here through Matt & Maddy’s blog. I was immediately captured by Maddie’s sweet face, and I’ve been reading archived posts all night and morning. My heart aches for your family and for your loss. I’ve been holding tight to my own 15-month old, trying to make sense of this, and remembering how truly blessed I am to have a healthy baby boy. I know this probably won’t mean much, but please know that I am thinking of you, hurting for you, and praying for your family.
duck_jb says:
My tears can’t help with what you are going through. They cant bring Maddie back. But know that they are heartfelt and I feel such deep sorrow. It must feel like you are alone in your dark pain. Most of us can not imagine what its like being there, but know you are surrounded by hundreds who read your blog, loved Maddie up close and from afar. We are encircling you with love and sharing in your sorrow.
Valerie says:
I have never ready your blog before but I heard about Maddie through other blogs and just wanted to send my condolences. She has touched many people.
jcgeerts says:
My heart goes out to you and your family.
My son and I will pray for you .Your child lives on within you.
Tam King says:
Half a world away your family has touched my heart. Im so sorry. So very sorry.
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Spruce Hill says:
So so sorry! I have visited your blog a few times from Matt’s
I am keeping your family in my paryers.
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carrie says:
my heart breaks for you. sending my thoughts your way.
Pam the MN says:
There are no words. she was a beautiful baby , I am in tears.
Kirsten says:
I only learned about Maddie and your family after her passing. I am so, so very sorry for your loss. May the love of your community give you strength.
Christi Benson says:
Oh God . . .
COME . . .
HERE . . .
Mama Duck says:
*hugs*
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Jackie says:
I’m just so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss.
Jean says:
There are no words that would comfort you, so I just wanted to tell you that I am praying for you and your husband. I am so sorry for the loss of your child.
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Kris says:
I am so very sorry. Thank you for sharing Maddie with us.
Mary says:
Sending love, sympathy and prayers.
Greg says:
We are so sorry.
Jennifer says:
I am so so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, who was born on my birthday.
I’m sure it’s small comfort in the face of your devastating loss, but I hope that part of Maddie’s legacy can be the deepened sense of appreciation so many of us feel for how precious our time here is. She will live on not only through the extraordinary love you shared with her as parents, but through the lessons of love she imparted to scores and scores of others, both friends and strangers around the world. I know I’ve been holding my own boys extra tight.
I wish you much peace and comfort at this unbearable time.
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dana says:
I am so sorry for your family. I pray for peace and understanding during this incredibly painful time.
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(another) karen says:
thinking of you.
(another) karen
Lucy says:
Heather, from the moment I stumbled across your blog, I have been taken in by Maddie’s spirit, her strength, her contagious smile, and the love that poured out for her through your words. My heart stopped this morning when I read the terrible news. I had to read it twice to truly believe it. I can not even imagine what you are going through right now. I can only hope that the thoughts and prayers of the hundreds of people around the world who have left their words here, helps to share a little of the pain. We will all remember her amazing life thanks to your blog. She touched many people through your words and we all grieve with you today.
Kelly O says:
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. It’s absolutely heart-breaking.
Sol from Argentina says:
I am deeply sorry.My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you.
mrschattypants says:
I am deeply saddened by your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Melanie says:
Heather, I have read your blog for a long time and, like many others, have Maddie, you, and Mike in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless and be with you all during this very difficult time.
Kate says:
Heather and Mike,
I learned of your sweet Maddie after her passing. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I had a pregnancy sort of like yours – we learned that our daughter’s kidney’s were not functioning at 26 weeks and that her prognosis was not good. Lilly wasn’t expected to make it to term but she did. She was born full term, but had teeny tiny lungs and zero kidney funtion. We were blessed with 15 wonderful days with her at home. I wish that the past 18 months would have taught me some words of comfort to give to other grieving parents. Unfortunately, those words don’t exist. My prayers are with you.
Kate
Laura Clark says:
hello-
I dont know your family but share in your grief.. I too lost my sweet baby girl sara in 2002. Please know that my heart is with you and yours. somehow I know all the sweet precious children who not not here with us are somehow together comforting all of us.
jessica says:
What a beautiful, joyful child. I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you during this horrific time.
Katie says:
I have been reading your blog for awhile and I have never commented before. I have laughed out loud with you and your amusing and clever Maddie tales and for the last few days I have cried for you and your beautiful angel. Life is so unfair and cruel at times. I am so sorry for your loss.
Jamie says:
I have no words to express my sympathy. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jamie’s last blog post..13 weeks.
Taryn says:
I have lurked for many months – your girl was lovely and beautiful and amazing. I am so truly sorry.
April says:
Thinking of Maddie today and wearing purple in her honor. Much love to Heather and Mike.
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Diane says:
Wearing purple in Florida today for Maddie…
Sail on, little silver girl…..
Christina says:
Heather and Mike:
I am a friend of Jordana’s and I have come to hear of your story through an email that she sent out. I am so very sorry for your loss. I did not know you or your beautiful little girl, but I have been sobbing since I read the email yesterday! My heart just breaks for you and your family. Your words, songs and pictures of your precious little maddie are so loving and the tribute is absolutely perfect! The pictures of her very long eyelashes…I am praying for your family and I will always remember Maddie!!!!! I am planning on walking in the local March of Dimes walk this year and for many years to come! I will always walk in memory of your perfect little girl!!! Peace be with you! Love, Christina Waldstein
Annonymous says:
So sorry. I am praying for you.
Debi Powell says:
Heather and Mike,
I was just getting ready to head to bed and for some reason clicked on the Matt, Liz and Madeline site that I’d heard about. He has posted a beautiful note on his site and I clicked to see what had happened. Two hours later, I’m still on your site. I’ve read almost every blog entry and fallen in love with your Maddie! She was obviously a special child in every way!! She was charming, beautiful, funny, and very loved by her Mommy and Daddy! I loved hearing your voice on your videos…. so much joy she heard in your voice every day!!
She had a tough fight… and I believe she is now free from all pain and has been given a perfect body in heaven (you may not believe that but I am sure of it) I’m thankful for her place in heaven today. She was a blessed little girl to have been loved so much while she was here. You’re an amazing Mommy and I’m inspired by you! Blessings to you and your husband…..
Debi Powell
1 hula girl says:
Across the black velvet canvas of the midnight sky, it was there. A falling star…gliding thru the vastness of time, on toward eternity, leaving a trail of golden stardust in it’s wake. That was her time here on earth.. a twinkling. But now the sky seems so dark and empty without her.. the heart void of reason or understanding to explain away the pain and unquenchable sorrow. If God would grace us with an explanation… would any reason ever be good enough to satisfy our desperate desire to know WHY? Mesmerized by her photo’s and the sound of her cherub-like voice.. captivated by her deep and colorful eyes.. those eyes…Can the sea ever be quenched of the color blue as our lives are now left without those beautiful, heavenly , ocean blue eyes. Eyes that were rich in expression and shined forth love that could be felt the instant you saw them. Eyes that gave us a brief view of the angelic.. Those eyes… and that smile….. A smile like the sun itself, bright and warm and welcoming. And now the sun sinks lower beyond the horizon, out of view, just as her smile now leaves us for the moment.. but like the sun, it shines elsewhere just out of view.. leaving us to mourn in it’s shadow. And how dark and encompassing that shadow is.. vacant of comfort and absent of the hope we once knew. Souls scream out with the ripping and tearing of the heart, screaming for time to turn back, for events to rewind and replay yet again… crumbling to the floor in utter anguish for the arms that now cradle no one and the crib that lies empty..silent..no more. Can anyone fathom this pain? Can someone with such a powerful presence like sweet Maddie.. can they ever leave us without bitter longings.. no never. It is only now in the moving on that the reality is too raw to embrace. The waves of sorrow sweep over the familiar.. the echoes of sounds that once danced in the room, the special routines and bedtime stories refuse to silent themselves as over and over they remind us of the loss. Empty shoes, empty chairs, empty arms, empty …. what will fill them again.. only time. In time there will come acceptance and remembrance and joy.. yes joy.. will return when winter has released it’s icy grip and we allow the heart to long for spring. Madeline’s life will bring forth a garden of love and from this place, great healing will come as well. God has hidden the spiritual realms of this world from our earthly eyes, for if we were truly given the vision of God.. we would have seen the wings that would reveal the true identity of an angel among us… Madeline was and angel and will always remain so as your pictures have creatively captured. No words spoken can possibly touch the pain you now feel.. but the hand of God and timelessness of His love… can reach down into the broken heart and plant a seed of hope and restoration if you will only allow it. Heaven awaits. and how much richer it will be, now that Maddie is waiting there for you. Thank you for allowing your gift to be seen by all the world… we rejoice in her life and celebrate the thousands of memories you made together in such a short time.. She was a gift. She was and is deeply loved.. She lives on in your hearts… sending warm Aloha across the deep blue sea.. 1 hula girl…
Michelle S. says:
What a beautiful, beautiful child. My heart breaks for you, but really, for those of us that never knew Maddy.
Jonathan says:
Heather and Mike, I am thankful for all your stories and photos that share Maddie and for the outpouring of support comment. I have never seen such a rich blog in celebration of a wee. Maddie was born a day after our third Eve. Our first Sasha died at age 2, almost 3 years ago. The pain lessons over time but the grief remains, along with smiles and deep thanks for every minute we had with our little peach. She will forever be in your heart and more – I conjure up my little one almost daily. Thanks for sharing Maddie with so many thousands of other people.