Comments on: Abnormal http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/ Thu, 24 May 2012 04:17:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: MissMish510 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/#comment-12901 MissMish510 Wed, 03 Jun 2009 21:04:34 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=999#comment-12901 Happy Birthday Heather!! It was my 28th birthday on the day you posted this....I know times are hard and birthdays are usually so special for us... Especially if you're on the Gemini side of the line ;-) hehehe....None the less....I will celebrate for US this beautiful month of JUNE.....I will remember you with every cheers ....birthday wish ....and blessing.......Your life is to be cherished even in these hardest of times....You are beautiful....You are strong...YOU are to be celebrated...!!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY HEATHER!!! :-D Happy Birthday Heather!! It was my 28th birthday on the day you posted this….I know times are hard and birthdays are usually so special for us… Especially if you’re on the Gemini side of the line ;-) hehehe….None the less….I will celebrate for US this beautiful month of JUNE…..I will remember you with every cheers ….birthday wish ….and blessing…….Your life is to be cherished even in these hardest of times….You are beautiful….You are strong…YOU are to be celebrated…!!!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HEATHER!!! :-D

]]> By: Paul / Palabuzz http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/#comment-12829 Paul / Palabuzz Wed, 03 Jun 2009 15:43:38 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=999#comment-12829 It is really tough to loose someone who is close your heart. Time is the only one that could heal it and by sharing it to others you won't be feeling alone. It is really tough to loose someone who is close your heart. Time is the only one that could heal it and by sharing it to others you won’t be feeling alone.

]]> By: tara http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/#comment-12804 tara Wed, 03 Jun 2009 13:16:15 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=999#comment-12804 heather - i think of you every day and will be thinking of you so much this month. xoxo heather – i think of you every day and will be thinking of you so much this month. xoxo

]]> By: Liliana http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/#comment-12794 Liliana Wed, 03 Jun 2009 06:02:22 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=999#comment-12794 Hi Heather! As people always says. Maddie wouldn't want to see you like this on your birthday. I know you don't feel like celebrating just try to make the best out of it and smile for Maddie. She'll be kissing you noon stop all day. By the way when is your birthday? I would like to know. June is my bday, my daughter's bday,my brothers, best frieds...so many special people in my life were born this month and I would like to add you to the list ;) Hugs Liliana Hi Heather! As people always says. Maddie wouldn’t want to see you like this on your birthday. I know you don’t feel like celebrating just try to make the best out of it and smile for Maddie. She’ll be kissing you noon stop all day.
By the way when is your birthday? I would like to know. June is my bday, my daughter’s bday,my brothers, best frieds…so many special people in my life were born this month and I would like to add you to the list ;)
Hugs

Liliana

]]> By: Lisa http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/#comment-12781 Lisa Wed, 03 Jun 2009 03:08:42 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=999#comment-12781 I can't even imagine how hard it is to keep going. You are so brave. I am praying for you and Mike daily. I can’t even imagine how hard it is to keep going. You are so brave. I am praying for you and Mike daily.

]]> By: Christine http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/#comment-12759 Christine Tue, 02 Jun 2009 20:32:55 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=999#comment-12759 It's been 8 weeks! Are you kidding me? She's in pain. Obviously you've never had a child or a heart! It’s been 8 weeks! Are you kidding me? She’s in pain. Obviously you’ve never had a child or a heart!

]]> By: Katrina http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/#comment-12719 Katrina Tue, 02 Jun 2009 14:57:37 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=999#comment-12719 Belinda-- SUCK IT! Heather (and Mike) you blog about whatever comes to mind-- Grief is grief-- it is messy and hard and devastating. Girl we will be there to hold you up. I can only repeat what others have said but hold your memories close and share them when you can. All those videos you share with us --That little angel is a wonder. Always in my thoughts! Katrina (the other one) Belinda– SUCK IT!
Heather (and Mike) you blog about whatever comes to mind– Grief is grief– it is messy and hard and devastating. Girl we will be there to hold you up. I can only repeat what others have said but hold your memories close and share them when you can. All those videos you share with us –That little angel is a wonder.
Always in my thoughts!
Katrina (the other one)

]]> By: Kristine http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/#comment-12701 Kristine Tue, 02 Jun 2009 13:27:53 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=999#comment-12701 My boss says stupid stuff like Belinda. She has a huge heart, but is lacking a filter between her brain and her mouth. I know she doesn't intend to sound mean and malicious. Let's hope Belinda was just typing without truly thinking... As always you are in my thoughts! Thank you for sharing Maddie with us! She really has had a huge impact on my heart and life. My boss says stupid stuff like Belinda. She has a huge heart, but is lacking a filter between her brain and her mouth. I know she doesn’t intend to sound mean and malicious. Let’s hope Belinda was just typing without truly thinking…

As always you are in my thoughts! Thank you for sharing Maddie with us! She really has had a huge impact on my heart and life.

]]> By: Childwoman http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/#comment-12664 Childwoman Tue, 02 Jun 2009 11:17:06 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=999#comment-12664 @ Belinda - Its looong process, to mourne and grieve. And it hurts really bad...Heather and Mike are grieving their beautiful daughter please respect that. And it looks like that you dont really know what profound intense grief and loss is?? Empathy is virtue.... <abbr><em>Childwoman’s last blog post..<a href="http://symphonyofthesoul.wordpress.com/2009/06/01/happy-deal/" rel="nofollow">Happy deal.</a></abbr></em> @ Belinda – Its looong process, to mourne and grieve. And it hurts really bad…Heather and Mike are grieving their beautiful daughter please respect that. And it looks like that you dont really know what profound intense grief and loss is?? Empathy is virtue….

Childwoman’s last blog post..Happy deal.

]]> By: Katrina http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/abnormal/#comment-12663 Katrina Tue, 02 Jun 2009 07:40:22 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=999#comment-12663 Belinda and Sue must be friends -- or perhaps the same person? Hmmm. Seriously, though, what's the deal on that comment? Wow. Heather, for what it's worth, I think you and Mike are doing an amazing job processing your grief. I think it's healthy to write about it, and I think you are incredibly gracious to share your words and your memories of Maddie with all of us. I wish so badly that Maddie were here to enjoy this June gloom we have been having. I wish she could help you blow out your birthday candles. And I'd give all the money in our family's savings if she could be here with Mike on Father's Day. I'd give even more than that -- I'd take out a second on our mortgage if I had to. Just anything to get her back here with you guys. It's so darn unfair. So unfair. We are not in control, no matter how much we wish we were. Life is just like that. Sometimes it's great, and then sometimes it just really, really sucks. And here it is past midnight so that means another Tuesday is here. I seriously hate Tuesdays now. They just remind me all the more... I'm sorry this comment isn't more uplifting. I'm just pissed mixed with sad right now. I hate that you are going through this. I hate that you are forced to continue on in life without your daughter. I hate that your new normal is such torture right now. I do believe that one day your new normal won't feel as awful as it is right now. I know you will have joy again one day, in this new normal. You will. ((((Thinking of you guys always.)))) Belinda and Sue must be friends — or perhaps the same person? Hmmm. Seriously, though, what’s the deal on that comment? Wow.

Heather, for what it’s worth, I think you and Mike are doing an amazing job processing your grief. I think it’s healthy to write about it, and I think you are incredibly gracious to share your words and your memories of Maddie with all of us.

I wish so badly that Maddie were here to enjoy this June gloom we have been having. I wish she could help you blow out your birthday candles. And I’d give all the money in our family’s savings if she could be here with Mike on Father’s Day. I’d give even more than that — I’d take out a second on our mortgage if I had to. Just anything to get her back here with you guys. It’s so darn unfair. So unfair. We are not in control, no matter how much we wish we were. Life is just like that. Sometimes it’s great, and then sometimes it just really, really sucks.

And here it is past midnight so that means another Tuesday is here. I seriously hate Tuesdays now. They just remind me all the more…

I’m sorry this comment isn’t more uplifting. I’m just pissed mixed with sad right now. I hate that you are going through this. I hate that you are forced to continue on in life without your daughter. I hate that your new normal is such torture right now. I do believe that one day your new normal won’t feel as awful as it is right now. I know you will have joy again one day, in this new normal. You will.

((((Thinking of you guys always.))))

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