I showed up for my appointment yesterday with Dr. Risky feeling the worst I’ve felt in months. My hyperemesis was raging, my sciatic is pinched, blah blah I felt really awful. Dr. Risky came up to me while I was being weighed, saw that I was down two pounds since last week, and said, “Hey Heather, how are you feeling?” I was actively trying not to puke right when she said that, so I only managed a grunt in response. Sorry, Dr. Risky.
In the exam room, Risky Nurse listened to The Acrobat’s heart and measured my fundal height, and proclaimed The Acrobat a “happy baby.” Then she said, “Do you have any questions for Dr. Risky, other than ‘when am I having this baby?'” Mike laughed and I told her that was the only question with an answer I cared about.
When Dr. Risky walked in, she dropped my chart on the counter and said, “Want to have this baby on Thursday?” I replied “YES!” Then she jokingly said, “Want to have this baby right now?” And I watched Mike turn pale. I happily would have let her take the baby out right there, in her office, with no anesthesia. Dr. Risky and her nurses made a few calls, and now I am officially on the books for a c-section on Thursday late-morning.
Since the appointment I’ve had several uncomfortable contractions, but nothing regular. I’m determined to make it to Thursday morning so I can experience a “normal,” non-emergency c-section. I can do two more days of feeling like this. I might have to crawl or limp over the finish line, but I’m going to finish.
Annabel is beside herself with excitement. She says she can’t wait to “hold his tiny hands and see his eyes and give him lots of kisses.”
I can’t wait to finally have two of my children meet each other.
Sarah G says:
Hallelujah! So happy for you all! Fingers, toes, etc crossed for a nice, normal non-emergency c-section XOXO
Sacha says:
The end of the tunnel in sight! I am so happy for you and wish you a `good’ delivery with the best outcome possible for all of you.
Panni says:
Yay! On my birthday. Will celebrate his arrival with cake! You are in my thoughts and I just know that all will go smoothly.
Lilian says:
So relieved and happy for you. Can’t wait to read the post announcing the Acrobats arrival!!! xxxx
CarrieB says:
Sadly the Acrobat missed my son’s birthday last Thursday, but tomorrow is my niece’s birthday, so that seems a good omen. Almost there: excited for you… xx
Hayley says:
The end is in sight love that he’ll born on a Thursday and he has a travel themed nursery – Thursdays child has far to go!
Wishing you lots of positive vibes for a normal c section can’t wait to hear of his safe arrival!
Jennifer Dawn says:
Love this! How fitting!
Molly says:
Awesome! How fitting
Auntie_M says:
And everybody says hallelujah! There’s a date and a time!!! Yahoooo! May this pregnancy treat you kindly in its last 36-48 hrs!
Can’t wait to read the news that The Acrobat has broken free and joined us on the outside! And definely can’t wait to see pictures of him being cuddled by his loving family!!! XOXO
Callie says:
That’s my birthday! It’s a great day to be born.
Hope everything goes smoothly for you!
KittyKat says:
Just wanted to send my warmest wishes to you all from Australia!
I have been along time reader but have never commented, but thought now was appropriate!
I know everything will go smoothly and I look forward to hearing all about the sister/ brother meeting! I will never forget meeting my brother for the first time, I said he could be sent back!
Xoxo
Jenn says:
The last line in your post brought tears to my eyes. I’m with Annie!!! I’m soooooooooo EXCITED!!!!! I wonder what he’ll look like….his sisters? Will he have dark hair like Annie or more light like Maddie?!? How much will he weigh? What’s his name? WHAT’S HIS NAME?!?! OMG – I AM SOOO EXCITED!!! It’s probably a good thing for you guys I live so far away!!! I drive my friends crazy when they all had their babies!! SUCH EXCITEMENT!!! I bet you & Mike are all smiles!! Ooohh and Gramma & Bampa must be through the roof!!! YAHOO!!! ONLY 1 MORE SLEEP!! I am so HAPPY for you all!!
Jacquie Holley says:
I think he is going to have red hair!
Antonia from the UK says:
That is brilliant news! You have done soooooo well and although you’re clearly deeply uncomfortable, you’ve obviously provided a lovely, comfortable environment for the Acrobat. Can’t wait to hear his name and to see what he looks like – I’m almost as excited as Annie!
KDot says:
I’m so happy! I’ll be thinking of you tomorrow!
Longtime Lurker says:
Wow, this is exciting news. The world is itching to meet the Acrobat and hear his name. Love to you all.
sky says:
Looks like in about 26 or so hours you will be heading to the hospital! Hold on – that glorious moment is almost here.
Annalisa says:
Ahahaha! I had to laugh at the “Mike turning pale” line.
That’s pretty much how I ended up in L&D last time. My OB went “I know we were scheduling your C-section in 2 days, but I think that baby is ready to come out today. How would you like that?”. I was speechless (pretty hard to come by), since my brain was going “holy crap! Yes! No! Wait! Am I ready?”, but the OB was like “I see a big grin! Let’s just get this baby out!”
I drove next door to the hospital, checked in and called my husband, who was like “wait, what?” and then just went silent for a minute or so before saying “okay, you stay put, I’ll be there soon” (as if I could go anywhere…). I later found out he was in the middle of a department meeting, and had briefly debated whether he should take the call before answering.
(The little stinker still made me wait until her due date before she got yanked out of there, though. I should have guessed by then it’s just how stubborn she was going to turn out. She’s a Thursday child, btw ;))
Courtney says:
Eee! He’s almost here! Wishing you an easy and joyful experience on Thursday!
Jill says:
I can’t wait for you to have them meet each other either…
XO
Maddie says:
Yay! Fantastic news, I hope it all goes well xx
MissyK says:
WOOT! Can’t wait! So happy for you guys.
Jenni says:
I’m so excited for you all! I just love Dr. Risky, back when your insurance company was able to work with her again, I knew she’d see you through to the big day!! I’m sorry this has all been so hard, but you did it, and you’ll be holding that sweet boy in your arms soon!
Jenni
P.S. Can’t wait to hear his name!!!
TammyC says:
YIPEE!!! I’m as excited to meet this little man as you all are!! Good luck Heather ?
Stephanie says:
Yay! So happy and excited for you! Can’t wait to see pics and find out his name! All the best!
Elizabeth says:
Woo hoo!! So excited for you guys!! Fingers crossed for a boring c/s!
Kristen says:
Yay!! Tomorrow (May 30) is my daughter’s 3rd birthday. I’m thrilled she’ll share the day wit the Acrobat – it’s a wonderful day to be born!! Congrats!!
Tracy says:
Yay!!!!!
Sue says:
Oh my gosh,,,I can hardly wait. I hope that everything goes perfectly!!!!! All my best to you sweetheart!!!!
Jessica says:
Oh I can’t wait for this for you too. You deserve an uneventful healthy delivery.
Melanie says:
So exciting?!
Melanie says:
I did not mean to add a question mark. There is no question… it IS exciting!
Margie says:
OMG! OMG! OMG! Can’t wait!!!!
amourningmom says:
Yeah, a plan!! Sending hope and hugs. xo
Kim says:
Oh lady, I am praying for you. The end is the WORST and you have it worse than most. One more day, one more day, one more day. Can’t wait to see this sweet boy and find out his name! Love you!!!!!
Christen says:
AWE! My ODD’s birthday is Thursday as well!! I hope everything goes smoothly!!!
Aubrie says:
Yay! So excited for you. I hope baby has a name!!
Cathy says:
Fabulous news!! Will be thinking of you all on Thursday.
Julia says:
Great news, hope you make it! Lots of people will be thinking of you and wishing you both well on Thursday. Looking forward to seeing Annie and the Acrobat together at last. I hope everything goes well for you and Mike tomorrow. Sending hugs xxoxx
Kim says:
Wonderful!!! Hang in there — only a few more hours to go before you can hold The Acrobat in your arms!
Lisa says:
Yay!! A date, you have a date! With a handsome boy. Can’t wait for tomorrow. And for the name. Good luck!
giselle says:
Omg I can’t wait! Yay!
Jess Z. says:
Thursday is my nephew’s birthday too! I’m so happy and excited for you!!!
Jane says:
Well I am elated that you have a plan. And I will be more elated when I read that everything went as you planned!
I think it will be amazing to read about how Annie meets her little brother. To see siblings meet one another is magical and I am so glad that you will see this.
Sending my very best wishes for things to go smoothly for you — for your little man’s happy and healthy arrival, and for you to be able to enjoy the (non-emergency) experience.
Just can’t wait to “meet” him.
Jan says:
So happy tomorrow is your day! Hope all goes beautifully & you will have a happy, healthy boy! That last line was the tearjerker for me….can’t wait to see Annie and the Acrobat together!
Jill says:
Hooray for a plan! I can’t wait to hear his name!
Donna P says:
Hang in there, Mama. The world is waiting!
Linnae says:
Someone said it perfectly “The world is waiting for the good news!” May your day go smoothly and uneventful aside from meeting your long-awaited for son and may Annie be as excited four weeks from now as she is today! Rest assured you will have countless prayers and positive thoughts as you enter into your day tomorrow, as well as countless hits on your blog waiting for the big news! Congratulations to you, Mike, Maddie and Annie!!
Amy says:
So exciting! My daughter is excited that Annie’s brother will be sharing her birthday. She turns 6 tomorrow! She asked if there was going to be a video of Annie and her brother. Lol!
I am do very excited for you to see Annie and the Acrobat meet. Seeing your babies meet for the first time is a memory you will hold dear forever. It’s been almost six years since my babies met and I remember it vividly. Hugs and good thoughts for tomorrow!
Joelle says:
Yet through all this…your hair looks amazing! I can barely get myself to do my hair on a daily basis…
can’t wait to meet little brother!
Susanmig says:
Beyond excited for the four of you!!!!
Lisa says:
Hooray! So excited for you all!
Brooke says:
YAY!!!!! I’m so happy for all of you but especially you, Heather. I’m sure you’re miserable and just want to hold the little guy already. Can’t wait to meet him! Can’t wait to see Annabel with him! YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Michelle H says:
The last line. You have that kind of hidden below the picture of you and Annie. It’s such a small statement but so incredibly powerful. It put me in tears. I can only imagine how it makes you feel.
Sara says:
Oh, that last sentence. What a wonderful moment that will be when Annie and Acrobat meet face to face. Looking forward to “meeting” him as well and will be keeping y’all in my thoughts tomorrow!!!!
S Meaders says:
Exciting!
Lisa Ash says:
Aw, the Acrobat on my birthday; it’s been super good to me – I’m sure it will be to him as well. Enjoy your Gemini!
Steph says:
I’m so happy for you! The most precious moment of my life was when my older daughter held her newborn sister. It is impossible to put the sweetness into words. Wishing you rest and peace (and of course a perfect delivery of The Acrobat).
Ashley says:
There’s nothing I can say that hasn’t been said already, but I just wanted you to know that I am rooting for you and baby boy Spohr and your whole family. Tomorrow’s the big day! I can’t wait to keep reading and watching he and Annie grow up together. Thank you for sharing your lives with us!
Leslie says:
Keeping you all in my thoughts … soon your baby boy will be here!
Trisha says:
Yay! You’re almost there girl! Will be keeping you all in my prayers and can’t wait for the name reveal
Lesley says:
Hurray!! That’s wonderful! Only a little more than 24 hours of being pregnant for the rest of your life!
Rachel says:
Sending you good wishes for a smooth delivery! I can imagine how nice it is to have an end date in sight. You don’t know me, and I don’t keep an updated blog for you to even get to know me, but you and your family have been in my thoughts lately. I hope everything goes smoothly and I am dying of curiousity to find out what name the Acrobat will soon be known by.
Jacquie Holley says:
I am so happy for all of you. Heather you have been one tough cookie through all of this. Your blog has been the one I look at every morning before going to work to see if Annabelle has a brother yet. Good luck and we are rooting for you here in North Carolina.
SJ says:
The last sentence — that got me! Good luck.
Laura says:
“I can’t wait to finally have two of my children meet each other.” Oh man – this got me teary-eyed. I will be thinking of you and your family!!
Molly says:
Hooray! Only one more sleep! Sending so much love to you all. X
Deborah Pucci says:
Great news….I can’t wait to meet him. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. ((HUGS))
Bianca says:
Brilliant news Heather! I have been thinking about you guys loads these past few days. I’m sure everything will go swimmingly
miriam says:
You did it! You made it! Amazing.
And the last line of your post was just beautiful. Can’t wait to read his birth story and find out if he has a name.
Jaime says:
I’ve been following your blog for quite some time, and I’m so happy for your family. I’m excited that The Acrobat will be here very soon and I am hoping for a “regular” non-emergency c-section (and a quick recovery for you.)
Karen says:
So excited! Great news!!
sallie says:
Blessings for a safe arrival of your new little man.
Lisa says:
So excited for you, Mike and Annie! I hope the next several hours treat you well. Can’t wait to see pictures of your little guy!
Candice says:
So exciting!! Best wishes on Thursday! Can’t wait to “meet” him!!
Kelly B says:
Is it ok that I love Annabell? Because I totally do. I can only imagine the joy her little Annie-isms bring during all this stress. Sending you the best of everything for the big day!
AmyG says:
Yay! You’re at the finish line! So excited to “meet” the little guy. Praying through your c-section!
Mary Brock says:
I’m so excited for all of you! I can’t wait to see what he looks like and find out his name. He will be one very loved little boy! Congratulations in advance!!
Ritha says:
Good luck from Norway.
April says:
Thoughts and prayers for a smooth delivery tomorrow! You have done such a great job with this pregnancy. Someday I hope the Acrobat will read your blog and know just how wanted and loved he was from the very start. Can’t wait to see pictures and hear all about it!
Glenda says:
Best wishes and the best of luck for a normal C-section!
Yay! Great news! can’t wait to read all about Mr. Acrobat! I’m so excited for you!
KaraB says:
Exciting!! You are almost there! We’re all here to cheer you on to Thursday! Yay Acrobat!
Jeanie says:
I’ll be on pins and needles. Can’t wait!
MG says:
hugs
Kat says:
Wow you look so pregnant and skinny in that last picture!
I’ll have everything crossed tomorrow but I am so proud of you, FULL TERM MAMA! Xx
Vanessa says:
Yay! im happy that you can finally see the finish line
wishing you a healthy and happy delivery with a speedy recovery!
Vanessa says:
So excited!! Can’t wait to meet The Acrobat and see Annie and him together. Wishing you the best for tomorrow.
Nikki says:
So excited for your family! Best wishes for a normal, uncomplicated tomorrow. Can’t wait to hear that the Acrobat is here safe and sound!
Mary Ann says:
What wonderful news! I am so excited for you all of you and can’t wait to see the baby. Wishing you an easy delivery and speedy recovery. Annie is going to make a fantastic big sister, and I have such a feeling that the Acrobat is going to be a true mix of his two big sisters.
susie says:
Congratulations on making it all the way. I will be thinking of all you tomorrow. Can’t wait to hear all about it and to meet the acrobat!
Katrina says:
Oh my gosh, your end comment just about did me in. I’m weepy right now, anyway, with all the hormones raging in my 40th week of this pregnancy….but yeah, I can’t wait for two of your children to meet, either. I can’t wait!!
Wishing you the BEST delivery tomorrow! I will be thinking about you all day. What a happy day it will be — so happy for you, and GREAT JOB with this pregnancy. I know it hasn’t been at all easy! But you DID IT!!
Stephanie Moore says:
Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers as you prepare to meet your little Mister tomorrow morning!! Wishing you the easiest and best delivery! I can’t wait to hear he is here and see the pictures!! Congratulations!!
Rachel says:
YAY! That’s TOMORROW! I’ll be thinking of you. Lots of luck!
Beth says:
Did you ever know that you’re my hero? With my third pregnancy, I was so miserable – I remember saying. “I don’t get through one day at a time, I get through one hour at a time.” And now you are down to just hours left. I’m so happy for you for so many reasons.
Mary says:
You are awesome! Way to go!!! Wow-what a pregnancy! Now the payoff!
nami says:
the best news ever!! can’t wait to meet the acrobat!! sending u happy happy thoughts — will be checking the blog minute by minute tomorrow!
Lindsay says:
I really vividly remember “meeting” Annie on your blog three years ago (I hope that doesn’t come off as creepy, it was just such a beautiful post after all you and Mike had been through that it really stuck with me.) Now, I can’t wait to “meet” the Acrobat tomorrow!!!!! Best wishes to you, Mike, Maddie, Annie, Rigby, and your entire extended families as you welcome the newest member!
Meg says:
Thinking of you guys and sending LOTS of good vibes your way tonight — and tomorrow, especially! We can’t wait to meet The Acrobat, and I’ll be thinking of y’all all day until we get the good word!
JT says:
Heather, that last line was beautiful. I can’t wait for you and Mike to get to experience that!
Good luck! Best wishes to you and your family!
melissa says:
Good luck tomorrow. Can’t wait to “meet” your son and see Annie as a big sis!
Lisa says:
Yay!!! It gonna be awesome…and pregnancy will be over soon. I can’t wait to find out his name. This time tomorrow you will have a son…just delicious I tell ya
Bonnie says:
Good luck Heather! I loved your last line. But I have to say I believe that all your children have already met each other. Maddie met them in heaven before their little souls came to earth. God bless your family!
Rachel says:
So excited for you guys!! It’s almost over! Try to get a good night’s sleep tonight, and you’ll be holding your baby before you know it!
staci says:
yay for baby day in 30 minutes EDT!
sending lots of prayers your way for a safe and speedy delivery of your perfect little boy.
Mommy says:
That last line makes my heart ache. Love to you all!
Amanda says:
Awesome! Wishing you a wonderful day tomorrow filled with lots of excitement and a great delivery. You are such an inspiration, Heather and family.
Rachel (sesame ellis) says:
And I burst into tears with your last line… I am so happy for your family to read of the safe birth and beautiful boy!