In the waiting room at Dr. Risky’s office yesterday, I noticed that a lot of people were looking at me. At first I thought it was the, “Holy Crap She’s About To Pop” look, but then I realized it was the “OMG THERE IS SOMETHING MOVING IN THERE” stare. The Acrobat was particularly wiggly when I sat down and was doing full-body shifts, and the dress I was wearing did a great job of amplifying his every movement. A few minutes later, when I was on the exam table, Dr. Risky’s nurse was standing over me to measure my fundal height when The Acrobat performed a move that could only have been a jumping jack and she exclaimed, “Oh my goodness! That looked like it hurt!”
Yes. Yes, it did.
My appointment yesterday signaled the beginning of the end. I had my Strep B test, and Dr. Risky and I discussed tapering off some of my drugs. I’m done with blood thinner #1 (aspirin), but I still have a few more days blood thinner #2 (lovenox injection). It’s a relief to be off the aspirin since it takes about five to seven days to get out of your system, and since I had Annabel in my thirty-sixth week of pregnancy I am a bit nervous. I desperately want to be awake for my c-section, and if I go into labor before all the blood thinners are out of my system, I have to be put under general anesthesia. Luckily, the shots are out of my system in 24 hours. It’s a tricky balance because it’s risky being off the blood thinners, but you know…I want to be awake. I will continue to trust Dr. Risky, and also listen to my body. The night before Annabel was born, I didn’t give myself a shot because I felt…off. Thank goodness I followed my instincts that night.
All my pregnancy complications are also starting to make going further into pregnancy less desirable, for lack of a better word. My personal goal for this pregnancy is a week from yesterday, when The Acrobat will be the same gestational age Annabel was when she was born. Ideally, I’d love to carry him as long as he needs (and I’d really love to finally be able to say I carried a baby to term), but Dr. Risky’s goal is looking like something in the 37-38 week range. Next week I have an amnio scheduled to check The Acrobat’s fetal lung maturity, and depending on how that comes back I could have a baby “any time after that,” according to Dr. Risky.
So. I could have a baby as soon as next week. Whaaaaaaaaaaaat. I need to pack. I need a crib. I need a name.
Get in those last jumping jacks, little boy. You’re getting evicted soon.
Becca Masters says:
Eeeeeeeek! He is nearly here!
My fingers are crossed for a quick and safe birth and that you get to stay awake!
In the UK 37w is considered term (is it not the same there?)
So once you hit 37w then whoopie!!!!
I can’t wait to meet him!
Heather says:
Yep, 37 is technically “term” here, too. Under normal, healthy pregnancy circumstances the goal is 39+ weeks!
Becca Masters says:
Fingers crossed for 39w then!
I’ve got very thing crossed! It’s really hard though cause I’m so excited! Ha ha!
Heather says:
oh well, I am not considered a “normal” pregnancy, but my fingers are still crossed!
TracyKM says:
I have heard that the UK dates from conception, not from last period. In North America, 40 weeks from last period is considered “term”, and less than 37 weeks is “pre-term”, so from 37 weeks, you are still considered full term.
TracyKM says:
I’ve heard that in the UK, they date from conception, while here, the EDD is 40 weeks from last menstrual period. Is that true?
Becca Masters says:
In the UK they date from LMP. Well they did for me anyway.
Unless its IVF then they can date from conception.
Lilian says:
I just know everything will be fine, and you will have the acrobat appearing healthy and handsome in the next week!! Rooting for you all. xxxxx
Lynn Kellan says:
Best wishes when you deliver your sweet baby!!
Sue says:
I am sooooo anxious to “meet” him!!!!
amourningmom says:
So exciting! Wishing you all the best. xo
Belinda says:
Ok, I will give you my boy’s names. I may never have one, but even if I do and you choose my favourite, Sydney is a long way from you so I can live with it. My husband hates every one of them, even his which I would love to slip in as a middle name. I don’t have many, but you know – one might be THE NAME.
Rex, Linus, Gus, Reuben, Ewan/Euan/Ewen, Hugo, Cadmus and Rory.
I do teach at a boys high school and I have some pearlers of names there. Most of the kids are first generation Australians with Asian parents. We have Bonaventura, Mond, Tiger, Bright and Marvel.
Heather says:
I love your names!
Auntie_M says:
I read an article yesterday that 2 of the up & coming popular boys names here in the US are Messiah and King…..ummmmm….kinda random!
I say name him Doctor, or Judge, or President! LOL
Hillary says:
Right after the word name, you wrote Jack. Just sayin’
Bampa says:
I’d say “Jack” is a dark horse. What we’ve observed is that Mike’s leaning towards one name and Annie has both her brother’s first and second names picked out. This might be a “leaving the hospital” decision.
Steph says:
Thanks for the inside scoop, Bampa:)
AJ says:
Our fourth baby (third boy) we couldn’t agree on a name until he was like 12 hours old. I never wanted to be those people, but we just couldn’t decide. (He’s Cole Emmanuel.)
Julie says:
Goosebumps!
Heather Wittman says:
You have a beautiful baby belly! Where do you get all your cute maternity tanks/camisoles? They are very flattering.
Heather says:
Oh, thank you!!! The majority of my maternity stuff is from the “traveling maternity wardrobe,” aka the bags of stuff passed from friend to friend. But, 99% of the things in the wardrobe are from Old Navy Maternity or Target. The top in this photo is from Target Maternity and it’s so soft and comfortable – I wear it ALL THE TIME.
Diane B. says:
We had it down to 2 names when our second was born with my husband leaning towards one. When she was born, he took one look at her and said she looks like a Geneva (his 2nd fav name)…do you want to be named Geneva? And she let out a distinct “yeah!” right on cue so that was it. The entire delivery room laughed. Of course, we didn’t get her middle name (it was a race of 3) until just before we left the hospital a few days later.
Michelle says:
I was on Lovenox, too, for all three of my pregnancies. At some point toward the end — probably around 36 weeks — I was switched to Heparin because it doesn’t stay in your system as long. Ask about that. I think I had to take at least two shots a day.
Heather says:
Oh, that’s interesting! Did you deliver vaginally or via c-section (sorry if that’s a personal question)? I will ask my OB about this!
Michelle says:
Vaginally for all three. Nope, not too personal.
Nat says:
Yep, same here…c/s. It’s pretty standard / common to switch to heparin around the 36 week mark. I was put under general anesthesia for my first c/s and really just wanted to be awake the second time around. Heparin is out of your system in 12 hours. And they’ll do a blood test once you’re at the hospital to make sure anyway.
Heather says:
I think this option has never come up for me because I’ve never made it farther than the 36th week! I have a call into my doctor, thanks you guys!
Kelly says:
When I was extremely overdue with my oldest daughter, I would lay on the couch watching TV with my cat lying on my belly. Chloe would get so pissed off with each kick and jostle, but actually tried to bite my belly, and smacked it with her paws when Mack once pulled a “jumping jack” and rolled from one side of my belly to the other.
Chloe never forgave Mack’s existence.
Can’t wait to meet your little guy.
Annalisa says:
That’s a brave kitty. Mine just ran at the first kick they each got and wouldn’t sit in my lap the rest of the pregnancy.
Annalisa says:
37 Weeks *is* term, even for a normal pregnancy. That 40 weeks business? An educated guess, from a medical standpoint. So if you make it to 37, give yourself the credit you’re due! If not, it sounds like the Acrobat is already doing great! Good job!
Mommy says:
Oh I remember those stares toward the end of my pregnancies! I’m a teacher and when I was ready to pop the kids were so distracted by my moving belly, they didn’t hear a thing I said. It was like my sons were dancing in there!
Side bar: it’s super fun to watch the “human growth and development” films with your students while you are hugely pregnant and they keep staring at you all like, “I know what you did!!” Lol.
So excited for you, mama Spohr! I have a feeling your boy will be stubborn and stay put longer than you think!
xoxo
Issa says:
I still think what your were going to name Annabel if she’d been a boy is a fantastic name. Then again, I understand wanting something new. I hope it comes to you soon. Yay for baby boys!
Stephanie A. says:
Remind me what they were going to name Annie! I can’t remember!
Issa says:
I don’t know if they said it on here. Sorry. I’d hate to ruin anything for Heather and Mike if they do end up using it.
Heidi says:
I was in the same situation with you in regards to aspirin and blood thinners and I was able to deliver at 39 weeks and 1 day with both children. They didn’t want me going into labor both because of the blood thinners and because of fear of uterine rupture due to a surgery on my uterus before having children. Luckily all went well in both deliveries (first a daughter then a son) and although they thought my son would be big because I also had gestational diabetes with both pregnancies, he was only 7lbs 1 oz. Wishing you a happy, safe delivery. Can’t wait to see the pictures and find out the name. He’ll be gorgeous, no doubt and you will soon discover the joys of being a mom to a son. There really is something special about that relationship, just as there is something special about a mother-daughter relationship. How lucky that you get to experience both.
TracyKM says:
The “being big with GD” issue is not just about weight. GD also tends to cause broader shoulders and bigger heads. A normal pregnancy with a 9lb squishy babe is going to be a gentler delivery than a GD pregnancy with a 8lb babe with a big head or broad shoulders (of course, not an issue with c-section).
It’d be great if Heather can make it till 39 weeks too….though it sounds like she doesn’t want to, and who can blame her, LOL! The end is so nice in some ways, and so cruel in other ways!
Heidi says:
Tracy, I didn’t know about the big head and broad shoulders with GD!! That’s interesting. But yes, I had a C-section anyway, so that wasn’t an issue. And funny about the big head because we laugh all the time about the small heads my kids have! LOL And yes, 39 weeks might not be optimal for Heather. Whatever is best for the mom and child is most important.
I also was on heparin, not lovenox, so I just had to stop my blood thinners 24 hours before the c-section.
Deborah Pucci says:
I’m excited and keeping you in my prayers.
Julia says:
So excited too to meet your little boy. I was on Heparin for both my second and third pregnancies, one injection a day and the last one the day before my going into hospital for the delivery. And I agree with Annalisa, if you get to 37 weeks you HAVE gone to term.
We’re all thinking about you and wishing your lovely family some good news very soon xxx
Rachel says:
You should name him “Acrobat”.
miriam says:
Almost 36 weeks is amazing – you have done fantastic!!
The end is in site.
I agree with Rachel, you should name him Acrobat, since Pilot Inspektor is already taken by Jason Lee. (C’mon, you know it was on your list!).
miriam says:
ugh… “sight” not “site.”
ella says:
DAMN that stomach is big. Oy, I pity you and your poor back/bladder/stomach/everything. This kid better be a good sleeper!
Leighann says:
How about Jackson Maddox Sporh to honor both Jackie and Maddie? Just adding my thoughts to the mix. :). I’m sure you will come up with the perfect name for your little guy! Best of luck in the remaining days of your pregnancy. Exciting time…
Auntie_M says:
Love!!
kakali says:
The last weeks are always stressful but when you see your acrobat you will forget all about it. Acrobat will look like you and I know it from my heart. He will look like Maddie because Maddie was your clone.Good luck Heather!
Rebecca says:
I’m so happy for you to have made it this far along. Congratulations
Courtney says:
I know you are probably sick of people volunteering baby names, but I have a few that I think are so cute: Griffin, Elijah (Eli), Avery, Ian, Grant…just my suggestions I can’t wait to “meet” him!
Stephanie A. says:
I am SO. *FREAKIN’*. EXCITED!!! I can’t wait to see him and hear his name and see all the gushy adorable squishy baby pictures! EEEEK! So happy for you Spohrs… truly, from the bottom of my heart. It’s been a long, treacherous road and you are long overdue the unrelenting joy that little Mr. Spohr will add to your family. So much love from up the coast (GO GIANTS – yeah Mike!!).
Stephanie A. says:
Also – again, I’m sure you’re tired of baby name suggestions but what the heck – I’ll jump on the bandwagon here. My husband and I have struggled with infertility for several years, so naturally all of our future children have at least 3 names each for us to pick from. Our top boys names are Owen, Rory, Liam, Ronan/Ronin, and Jackson (Jack – which, again on the bandwagon… I think Jackson Spohr sounds amazing, regardless of whether you choose for it to be in honor of Jackie or just because you like the name. I it big big). Regardless of what first name we choose, our first boy would have my husband's middle name, McFarland (after his Scottish clan, and oh BOY is he very obviously ginger-as-all-getout Scottish) and if we had a 2nd boy, his middle name would be Clinton in memory of my father-in-law and grandfather-in-law. My best friend's 3-y/o step-son is named Memphis, which I hated at first but now love because it absolutely suits him. He's a little rock star.
AudNoL says:
I check your site each morning with my coffee, to see how you are doing. Hope you don’t mind that somewhere in Maine, someone is calling your boy-child “Jack-robat” and wishing him safe passage to your arms.
Auntie_M says:
Check you out! Almost 36 weeks!!! Have Annie kiss that beautiful belly!