I had my weekly OB appointment yesterday. Binky is doing great and Dr. Risky is very pleased with his/her growth. There are no blood clots! Unfortunately, MY PLACENTA!!! is still the rub. While it is forming really well, its position is still cause for concern. It’s the kind of thing that would normally be a complete non-issue, but because the most common side effect of low-lying placenta is bleeding, it’s an issue for me. If I bleed at ALL I have to go to the emergency room. Thanks, blood thinners! So I have to keep my activity level very low for the next week, until my next appointment. NOT bed rest, but no unnecessary activity allowed.
Dr. Risky gave me her weekly lecture about my weight loss. You see, I have this problem when I’m pregnant – I CAN NOT gain weight. Why can’t I have this problem when I’m NOT pregnant? Normally I walk by the bakery in the grocery store and I gain two pounds, but now I can’t buy an ounce. A lot of it has to do with my nausea levels. So far, my morning sickness has mirrored my pregnancy with Madeline. With both, I had CONSTANT nausea for the first nine weeks. After that, the nausea would come and go but I had major food aversions. Eating is a struggle for me. I’ve started drinking protein shakes and Ensure (which sucks, because it reminds me of Maddie’s bottles of pediasure) every day to help me with the calories. Of course, they only help when I can keep them down.
We discussed my migraine and what possible treatments we could explore should I get another one. I’ve suffered from migraines my whole life. When I was in junior high and high school, I got them multiple times per week. As I got older, I got them with less frequency, and now I only get them about twice a year. Except for when I’m pregnant. Dr. Risky asked what medicines I’ve tried for migraines (ALL of them) and what worked (NONE of them). She doesn’t want to experiment with migraine drugs while I’m pregnant, but the next time I get a migraine we’re going to talk and evaluate if I should come in for fluids and pain medicines. Blerg.
I really love Dr. Risky. She treats Mike and I like the veteran patients we are. She doesn’t talk down to us, she treats us with respect, and she takes the time to explain and answer any questions we might have. It’s so wonderful to deal with a doctor like her. I feel safe in her hands.
When we came home I spent some time looking through photos of Madeline, and I came across an ultrasound picture of Maddie that was taken at the exact same gestational age we’re at with Binky. It’s fascinating to me to see how the body develops. It’s also really cool to see the similarities between the two of them. They have the same profile!
Madeline
Binky
Same cute nose, same giant head. I don’t know where these kids got their giant heads. My head and forehead are completely average. Oh wait…
Ah yes. They have their daddy’s Spohr Head.
Jenny says:
That is one giant head.
(Congrats on the good news!!)
Lauren says:
I actually lost weight during my first trimester because I was nauseaus all the time. I didn’t barf but I was almost afraid to eat. Sorry about the migraines – never had one but my mom gets them and it doesn’t sound pleasant at all.
I can’t wait to find out what ya’ll are having! Hooray for babies!
.-= Lauren´s last blog ..My anus is bleeding! =-.
Annagrace says:
I just love you so much. Even though I’ve never met you, and didn’t get to meet Maddie, I don’t know… Everything about her story, your story, this new baby, completely has my heart. Sending you love and good pregnancy thoughts and prayers for less headaches and calmer tummy. I do know that part, the sick beginnings part, and it is not my favorite.
.-= Annagrace´s last blog ..Happy Birdie Day =-.
Janeen says:
WOW!! so AGREE with Annagrace. My sentiments exactly.
Oh, and the fact it is so hard to lose weight outside of pregnancy. I think even in bfeeding, I was the only one not to lose all the preg. weight and really to pack on some more over the long bfeed. haul. Geez. I wait until after bfeeding is over to go on Weight Watchers to then lose my baby weight. Vicious cycle.
OH, and wondeful pic of the kids’ proud parents!! .
catherine lucas says:
On the couch you go, it’s an order. Limiting movements can only be done on the couch. Amazing how you see the similarities between the echo’s, while I think that the second one almost shows a face.
They are advancing techniques so much year by year…
glad all is OK, and I hope that your migraine stays away.
Yes, the guy has lots of head, but that is a positive!!!!
On to the next appointment I would say…
.-= catherine lucas´s last blog ..With love from Russia… =-.
Loralee says:
I had the same issue with weight gain with all my other pregnancies but this last one. I gained 27 pounds
I was so happy to put it on.
I am not so thrilled it WILL NOT COME OFF, though.
Bleck.
.-= Loralee´s last blog ..OOPS! I did it again. =-.
kristeneileen says:
Heather, Mike, Maddie, Binky, Rigby – Kristen, Chris, Miles & Bella love you. Times eight zillion for eternity
Jenn says:
Hey Heather,
It’s 4:08 a.m. my time – woke up so I thought I would check to see how you were. I love the pictures of both babies. How many weeks are you? Do you have a mommy instinct as to what you’re having…boy/girl? Do you have a preference?
I am so very happy you love your Dr and am as equally happy there is no blood clots and you are both doing well!!!!! YAHOO!!!!!
With my 2 sons ( I have a boy, girl, boy – all were high risk since I lost 5 babies before them), I was so so sick from day 1 up to week 13/14 with both of them. I also hemorriaged to the point of being rushed to the hospital with them and taken off of work and put on rest. With my daughter, I threw up only 1 time and I spotted only 1 to maybe 2 days with her. It will be interesting to see if your baby is a girl since your pregnancy is so similar to Maddie’s OR, if this is just the way your body reacts to being pregnant.
Either way, I for one could NOT be more thrilled for your family!!! When the times comes closer, I would love for you to send me your address so I can mail Binky something from Canada.
As always….thank you for sharing your news, awesome pictures and for being as amazing as you are!! Maddie and Binky are very lucky to have you and Mike as parents!!!
Take Care my friend! Never far from my thoughts or prayers.
Your not so “Stranger” friend anymore,
Jenn
Noelle says:
I had round the clock morning sickness for 20 weeks, and I’m also a lifelong migraine sufferer so you have my sympathies! Thanks for sharing the ultrasound photos. I’m praying for you every day.
.-= Noelle´s last blog ..Conversations with Tracy: Buttercream =-.
Liz says:
sweet!!
.-= Liz´s last blog ..What a relief! =-.
Becky says:
Loves the gigantic melon.
.-= Becky´s last blog ..When “He’s My Father” Makes Everyone Feel Awkward =-.
Sally says:
I can’t gain weight either this time around! But now that I’m well in to the second trimester, it is creeping on, bit by bit. Like you, I wish I could keep weight off this easy when I’m not pregnant.
Great scan pics, for both your kids. I have been doing the same, comparing this baby to his missing big sister. And the similarities, even at this early gestational age, are amazing.
Also glad you have so many amazing medical professionals taking such good care of you. Makes such a difference when we have far more concerns than the average pregnant woman out there.
Keep taking care of yourself Heather. Riding this crazy, scary ride with you all the way!
.-= Sally´s last blog ..Blooming =-.
Katrina says:
So very happy and excited for you! Dr. Risky sounds like a wonderulf doctor!
Viera Aarts says:
With my son, I threw up 2 times.With my daughter ? I dont even know, I have lost my count. It was from the week 6 up to week 24+
P.S.Great pictures.
amanda says:
My friend is pregnant right now – she is prone to migraines, and because she’s preggo, can’t take her regular migraine medicine. She’s been having a rough go of it – but did find that drinking a can of dr pepper (or whatever caffeine you like) helps to ease it. Maybe that’s just her, and maybe you tried that, but I thought I’d through it out there.
xo from CT,
Amanda
.-= amanda´s last blog ..ants in the pants =-.
Al_Pal says:
Aww. Darling. I’m so glad things are [almost all] good, and that you feel so safe with Dr. Risky!!!
Kate in NZ says:
Lots of sympathy here – I had nausea (but no vomiting) 24/7 for the first sixteen weeks or so each time. I found that constant eating (plain crackers) helped me – odd, because I really didn’t want to eat but it made me feel better. And I also get migraine, sounds like a very similar pattern to yours. It’s great that you’ve got a doctor who treats you like a real person! Fingers crossed for no more headaches and a drama-free, healthy pregnancy.
.-= Kate in NZ´s last blog ..Knee-walking =-.
Kim says:
I, too, had major food aversions my first trimester and also all day sickness. I threw up 7-8 times a day. I was so frustrated because it was the one time in my life I could eat and gain weight and I couldn’t seem to-I was expecting twins, too! My girls were born at 28 weeks due to other complications but by then I’d only gained 15 pounds and I tried so hard to put on the weight. Hang in there, honey! Love the ultrasound pics!
AmazingGreis says:
So, sweet! I love seeing ultrasounds. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I’m sure it’s hard, but I feel so connected. Like a part of the family.
XOXO
.-= AmazingGreis´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday – The BlogHer ’09 Edition =-.
Sarah says:
Aww, Spohrhead! It’s cute,
.-= Sarah´s last blog ..Postsecret =-.
Scary Mommy says:
You know what is great for morning sickness? Food! Though I was nauseas for 9 months, I still managed to gain 60+ pounds by stuffing my fat face– it was the only thing that made me feel ok! Croissants especially.
It was a pleasure meeting you last week, for two seconds.
.-= Scary Mommy´s last blog ..Invasion of the body snatchers =-.
bokker says:
Lovely wee babies! Both of them. With lovely proud heads!
I’m pregnant (14 weeks- about the same as you I think) and also suffer from migraines which are becoming depressingly regular since the start of my pregnancy. I think it’s because I’ve got low blood pressure, but that doesn’t help much when I can’t take anything to get rid of them!
My heart goes out to you.
And you’re dealing with terrible grief, and medical issues too… my heart goes out to you even more. You’re doing fantastically well!
.-= bokker´s last blog ..Faking It =-.
In Due Time says:
lol Smiling at the heads. Adorable. I hope Binky has the same beautiful smile!
I think about you (and Mike) every day.
.-= In Due Time´s last blog ..Show & Tell – Hermit Crabs =-.
dysfunctional mom says:
That’s at least a FIVE head! =)
Wishing you the best as always.
.-= dysfunctional mom´s last blog ..Blog With Integrity =-.
lilfootsmommy says:
Congratulations on the wonderful news! I am so happy for you! So cute!
.-= lilfootsmommy´s last blog ..Top Ten Signs I’ve been potty training too long… =-.
Shannon Kieta says:
Heather…
Not sure if ou even read these replies, but I know in my heart this baby is going to be great. How do I know this? Because I asked God to bless you and Mike with a healthy baby just once, because you are so deserving and wonderful people. And he answered me by giving you Binky. I ask for this right when Maddie passed, and isn’t it ironic, here comes Binky. God and I have a unique relationship. You see, he owes me one for taking my sister. So there you go Heather…Happy belated Birthday!!1 Shannon
Lynn from For Love or Funny says:
Big heads mean big brains!
I’m relieved to hear that there are no clots, chagrined to hear that the placenta is slightly problematic. Fortunately, writing requires very little activity!! Thinking of you!!
.-= Lynn from For Love or Funny´s last blog ..Does this roll make me look fat? =-.
Jocelyn says:
I used to get migranes a lot too… Check out tragus piercing… It’s a little part of your ear that supposedly has a migrane-related nerve in it, and many people who get it pierced say they stopped getting migranes. I got mine done over a year ago and haven’t had a single migrane since! Good luck.
.-= Jocelyn´s last blog ..justJKing: Says @mll0929 "are we dating, or are we just friends who… touch eachother?" (to clarify this question was not directed at me) =-.
Krissa says:
too funny! … I love the ultrasound photos. It is just so amazing to see babies when they’re still in there. And Maddie and Binky are already cute at that stage. Thanks for sharing and I’m glad to hear that all is progressing well. At least you’re in good hands and it sounds like if you get a little extra rest that’s all that’s needed. Sorry about the migraines. I’ve had one in my whole life and I remember it to this day. So I sure feel for you. … Great to see you back posting after Chicago! (((Hugs)))
Courtney in FL says:
Yesterday, when you posted the ultra sound on twitter I was going to comment about how much Binky looks like Maddie but I didn’t want to over step in any way. It is the nose, such a perfect little nose!
Take care and enjoy the rest while you cane (I hated it when people told me to get rest when I was expecting but as you know it is so very true.)
Courtney in FL says:
cane = can.
Dana says:
Heather,
Wow, our pregnancies sound so identical right now. I’m 15 1/2 weeks and I do have this stupid placenta problem! As of right now I was told I have placenta previa I’m actually quite scared about it. I’m also on blood thinners and told to go to the hospital at the first signs of bleeding….thank god I haven’t had any yet. I’m praying the placentas move for both of us! The ultrasound pic is beautiful! Dana
.-= Dana´s last blog ..Sun, Jul 19, 2009 =-.
Assertagirl says:
I lost weight in my first trimester, too, because of my gall bladder issues. I’m at 24 weeks and still just four pounds above my pre-pregnancy weight (I’m totally smiting the pregnancy gods by putting this out there, aren’t I? I’m going to put on fifty pounds in the next two weeks now that I’ve said this out loud.). Sigh.
Glad you have such awesome health care!
Christine says:
Yay for Binky! Adorable. I think the little baby “fiveheads” are so cute! I think of you guys daily and wish you nothing but a healthy happy pregnancy and healthy Binky.
.-= Christine´s last blog ..Titles =-.
Amanda says:
I think, overall, there is way too little time allowed to just kick back on the couch and expect doting. I would say with all the support in the world, “Get on that sofa, put’em up and enjoy it, woman.”
Smiling at the magic you’re making
Lindsay says:
I just wanted to stop by and say I think/pray about you and your family daily. Can’t wait to see baby Binky! *air hugs*
Linz
.-= Lindsay´s last blog ..My 101th Post…Feel special girls =-.
Maria says:
You guys are such a beautiful couple.
I love your updates and that you’re sharing this with us. My mom asks about you almost every day and I love being able to give her the Spohr News.
.-= Maria´s last blog ..Girl Talk Thursday – How do you unwind? =-.
ali (adil320) says:
Oh the dreaded five head. I have one of those. When I was a kid my brother would make my cry at dinner by yelling “With our foreheads combined…she is CAPTAIN FIVEHEAD!”
Worst.Ever.
I’m glad things are looking good you! Thanks for the update, your the bestest!
xoxoxo
.-= ali (adil320)´s last blog ..I’m Going…For Me. =-.
Anna says:
Heather,
I also suffer from migraines. When I was pregnant they actually got worse. I am so sorry you don’t get any relief from migraines meds. Imitrex has been my life saver!!!! I know your doctor said she didn’t want to try any meds but I took Butalbital/APAP/Caffeine Tabs – it is also called Fioricet. They worked pretty good for me if I took it in time. I guess it is worth mentioning. But I know it might not be possible for you to take. I hope you start feeling better soon.
Anna
Heide says:
Ha! As my smart-ass husband would say, that’s a five-head. Get it? Hilarious, right? Ugh, I married a 9-yr-old.
.-= Heide´s last blog ..CEiMB: Baked Onion Rings =-.
Jenny says:
So happy for ya’ll.
.-= Jenny´s last blog ..I need a nap =-.
Kristina says:
My 5 yo daughter has my husband’s extra-large head. She wears adult-sized hats. Which is convenient when I need a hat and can grab one of hers.
Congratulations and good luck. Sounds like you and Mike are in awesome hands.
Hope says:
So glad to hear things are going well. The only non-medical treatment for migraines that works for me is regular massage therapy and going to the chiropracte regularly. I have friends who swear by acupuncture as well. Maybe one of those could help. Or at least give you some relaxing quiet time.
Kristen McD says:
Spohrhead. lol. Brilliant.
Cute, cute little baby. It’s amazing to me how quickly they look like themselves.
nic @mybottlesup says:
WOAH!!!!!! minimize….. QUICK!!!!!
MINIMIZE!!!!!!
:)~
.-= nic @mybottlesup´s last blog ..earplugs, twitter, and wine =-.
Diane says:
I’ll keep my fingers crossed your placenta starts scooting up. I had a scare with that, but it moved up in time for my 22-week ultrasound. Hopefully yours will cooperate much sooner!
Wishing you all the best, and hoping your nausea subsides soon. Binky is beautiful!
.-= Diane´s last blog ..Just 4 quick takes, because the baby is eating my flip flop aga– BRB =-.
Susan says:
Big head=big brain your child will be a genius!
.-= Susan´s last blog ..Step a Half. =-.
Alli says:
Oh geez girl, we are so similar in our backgrounds. I have suffered from migraines since I was young. Awful. Thankfully, mine too have decreased with age. I was so worried about getting one during my pregnancies, and amazingly I never had one. Whew! And I had the same problem with nausea. Reading about the protein shakes you drink brought back awful memories. I hated them! I finally found a pina colada one I liked and added pineapple juice to help make it more bareable.
Sending vibes and prayers that your pregnancy gets smoother, no nausea, and NO bleeding!
~Hugs from TX
.-= Alli´s last blog ..Flip Flop Exchange =-.
Amber McN says:
Hi Binky! Good to see you!
.-= Amber McN´s last blog ..My 10 Month Old… =-.
Amanda says:
You just gave me the biggest morning belly laugh ever!!!!!!!!!
LOVE THE PICTURES!!
PB and Jazz says:
I was like you Heather, sick all the time. I was put on meds for it. I had no problem gaining weight after that! I never have unfortunately. Cute baby pics. I am hoping to see you on Twitter since you have to be inactive. So cute!
.-= PB and Jazz´s last blog ..BlogHer @ Home =-.
Erica says:
Dear Heather,
I’m so pleased to hear you are in such good hands with Dr Risky. Please continue to take very good care of yourself. Thanks for sharing the ultrasound pictures of Maddie and Binky, such precious pictures. The photo of the proud parents is so lovely, you and Mike are such wonderful people and such wonderful parents.
Thinking of you all as always.
With love
Erica in Luxembourg
Gillian says:
My husband also has a giant head, and passed it on to our child.
Wives of Giant Head Husbands, unite!
.-= Gillian´s last blog ..Genuine Question! =-.
AnnD says:
I’m so glad to hear you say you love your OB. That is a fantastic sign. You are a good judge of docs and their qualities so I’m sure she/he is fantastic!
And Mike does have a rather large noggin….but he’s as handsome as ever!
I hope your placenta issues clear up. I am currently 24 weeks pregnant and had placenta issues from week 8 until I was cleared of them at 20 weeks. But, I still am paranoid about it and try to take it easy most days even though I technically have been told I don’t have to.
If you aren’t a member of Netflix, it might be a good time to join…you can veg out in front of the movies.
Cara says:
Heather,
So many congratulations to you & Mike. I hope that things with Binky continue to go as well as they have been & that you are able to eat something & gain some weight soon.
Love to you, Mike, & Maddie.
Cara
.-= Cara´s last blog ..Iz haz computer again =-.
Rach says:
Hi Heather-
I am a new poster- I just started reading your blog a couple weeks ago and i love it- pretty addicting! You are in my prayers for a healthy pregnancy.
Hugs
Rachel
Kasey says:
Again, I don’t know you, but if I ever meet you, I’d like your permission to squeeze your baby’s cheeks.
That’s just how much I love babies.
And that’s just how happy I am that you’ve got one snuggled up inside your belly.
Oh, and I’d love permission to give you and your hubby a hug. I am so happy for you and what the future holds. Your story is precious … and has touched my heart more than you can imagine.
Keep smiling. You’re blessed in so many ways. Even if it’s hard (surely it’s impossible) to see through the haze.
Congrats and best of luck for a BORING pregnancy. That’s the best you can ask for.
Kasey
.-= Kasey´s last blog ..feeling blue =-.
Cute~Ella says:
What cute little giant heads! Glad to hear that it’s mostly going well. If ginger helps at all with the nausea you might find it interesting to know that Ginger icecream is very tasty.
.-= Cute~Ella´s last blog ..Because I know you like to share your opinion as much as I do! =-.
stephanie says:
Daddy’s spohrhead!
.-= stephanie´s last blog ..Photo Wednesday: Let’s make art in a kitchen the size of a closet! =-.
Sara @heartmychloe says:
I’m so glad everything is going well with the pregnancy! I’ll make sure and cheer on that placenta too: move em up move em up waaaaay up!
Good luck with the weight gain and migraines, too.
I read each and every one of your posts, although I rarely comment. Thank you, as always, for opening yourself up to all of us so we can continue and follow along in your life.
.-= Sara @heartmychloe´s last blog ..stick it where the sun don’t shine =-.
Jen says:
AHAHAHA, Spohr head. I’m glad to hear that Binky is doing well!
.-= Jen´s last blog ..The day Erin came to town =-.
Sabrina says:
not sure how i stumbled on your blog, but i did, & i’m so grateful.
high five for a good doc appt. fist bump for a healthy pregnancy.
.-= Sabrina´s last blog .. =-.
Midwest Mommy says:
Wow, they do look alike. Especially the shape of the nose too (not just the forehead
I hope things continue to go well.
.-= Midwest Mommy´s last blog ..TMI? Oh well! =-.
pillarr1 says:
That morning sickness is a real downer. During my second pregnancy, I was on a steroid called dexamethasone for the first 12 weeks. I had IVF so they put me on that so I would not reject the fetus (as far as I can remember tat is why). I had NO sickness at all! And, I was able to eat. After I stop taking them, my appetite really went down. I hope yours gets better. Someone told me to breath really fast through your mouth if you get nausea. Maybe it works?
tiff says:
Big heads are cute. Especially when they have button noses to go with them.
My mum asked about you both today.
She’ll be happy to know that things are going okay with Binky.
.-= tiff´s last blog ..The tale of two doctors. =-.
Louise says:
I know Maddie is sharing your excitement of your new little one.
That is a great picture of you and Mike!
Jennifer says:
LOL–I see where those giant heads come from!
I’m so happy to hear there are no bllod clots!! And I am hopeful that the placenta will migrate soon and not be a problem for long.
Hoping your morning sickness abates soon and the weight gain starts soon!
.-= Jennifer´s last blog ..Adding Insult to Injury =-.
Amy says:
Have you tried a chiropractor? Or maybe even just a really good massage? (Be sure to get someone who’s trained in pregnancy massage). I’ve had migraines my whole life, too. Thankfully I never got them when I was pregnant (which makes me want to have like 100 kids).
One of the things that works best, for me, and is 100% drug free, is running my head under the coldest water I can stand under the bathroom faucet. It contracts the blood vessels, and I think the overly-large blood vessels cause the pounding. Just be really careful when you stand up – do it slowly, you’ll be dizzy. A massaging shower head is nice for this, too, if you have one.
If you’re afraid of falling (and I can’t stress enough that you WILL be dizzy and you should be very careful – when I can I have my husband standing by to help me get up), an ice pack to the back of your head and neck is a fair substitute. Not as good, probably because of the massaging action of the water, but decent.
Usually cold-water-to-the-head is enough to stop the pounding long enough for me to go to sleep. The sleep is probably what really fixes things.
Your reading at BlogHer was amazing – so raw and heartbreaking. I’m sorry I didn’t get a chance to tell you in person.
.-= Amy´s last blog ..Dedicated to Gramma Denna =-.
Stacey says:
Heather,
I feel your pain on the migraines. I used to have them once a week and they were so bad I would throw up and only be able to lay in bed. They’d also conveniently happen in the middle of the night, so I would always miss work the next day. I went to a neurologist who put me on Sumatriptan injections (horrible) and I HATE to give them to myself, but they do work. I have to be able to detect which is a migraine and which isn’t (not so hard when you’re a migraine veteran!) and then give myself the shot before it progresses. If it hits a certain stage, nothing will make it better. The shots do have horrible side effects… My migraine is gone within seconds, but I get a sudden urge to throw up (where I pop some anti nausea pills they gave me) and get all hot/cold, shakey and feel like my heart is going to pound out of my chest. HA! Now that I listen to myself I think, why would she take my advice? Who knows… You just have to know what you prefer: Those awesome side effects for a few hours or a migraine for 3 days straight.
Wish you the best!
sarah says:
what great news to hear that things are going well….fingers crossed for continuing good news. Have you tried acupuncture for your migraines? It’s done wonders for me…it was also tremendously helpful with my morning sickness. good luck with everything!!!!
Melissa says:
Great pictures!!!
I lost six pounds during my pregnancy. Not because of nausea but because I was so overweight when I got pregnant. All that healthy eating and moderate exercise made all the difference. 16 months post pregnancy I’m down 40 lbs. from where I was the day I found out I was pregnant. I keep telling my husband that if we have one more I might get back down to my high school weight!
Regarding the migraines, have you tried journaling? I saw a migraine specialist in Chicago (after trying EVERY DRUG ON THE PLANET with no luck) and she had me journal (food intake, sleep amount, stress level, hormone cycle – you name it). Turned out that I was getting migraines at very specific times due to very specific things I was doing. I was able to adjust for almost all of my triggers and now only seem to get a migraine or two a year, down from 3–5 a month.
You are so brave and so fabulous Heather. Such a tough lady and such an amazing Mama. Hugs
.-= Melissa´s last blog ..Those little moments =-.
Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] says:
heh – Spohr head
I have a ginormous ‘Spohr’ head and used to have it smacked by jackass boys in high school. Really. Just walk by me and smack my forehead. assholes.
.-= Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing]´s last blog ..Stuff I learned at BlogHer 09 about myself & more & stuff =-.
Kim says:
Hey Heather,
Just thought I would pass this on to you, rub lemon rind on your top lip to help with the nausea. It sounds dumb but it works. Also eating some crushed ice helps too. These two things were about the only things that worked for me. My friends told me about this when I was pregnant. Hope it helps.
Hugs
Kim
Mary in AZ says:
My DH blessed my sons with lovely large heads as well. Luckily they have balanced out with their bodies as they have grown. As babies, it was the first thing everyone noticed.
Blessings to you and Mike both. You are in my thoughts often!
Hugs!
moosh in indy. says:
So what if you prop your placenta up in the air and walk around in a bubble suit?
Hey, someone suggested I take antihistamines with my next pregnancy so I wouldn’t be allergic to the baby and barf so much.
I wish I were kidding.
.-= moosh in indy.´s last blog ..some fire, way more fizzle. =-.
Kylie says:
Oooh Heather I feel for you my dear! Both of my pregnancies, morning/daytime/nightime sickness… eeek for the whole 9 mths… even sick in labour! I am also one to suffer migraines and especially more frequent when pregnant… saw a chiro… worked well for me… I was desperate and was willing to try anything. Sometimes the migraines can be a withdrawal from food that you are so used to having then you go off it when you feel sick… ie. think mine was coffee!
Anyway great shot of the massive head!!!
Good luck with the pregnancy and hope you can get the migraines under control! xxx
Annie says:
Heather- have you ever seen a chiropractor for your migraines? I had them nonstop for years and no drugs helped. A coworker suggested I try a chiropractor. I am usually totally about “mainstream medicine”, etc but I was desperate. I went and found out my neck vertebrae are all jacked up. I got some treatments It totally helped!! I rarely get headaches at all anymore but when I do, an adjustment helps almost instantly. Good luck!
Liz says:
Wow I can’t believe how much Maddie and Binky’s profile are a like!
I’m so happy to hear that the pregnancy is going well! I’ll say a prayer for your placenta to stay in check!
Trisha says:
Thank goodness for Dr. Risky. I am so glad you have found doctors that treat you with kindness and are watching you like a hawk.
You rest now and prop those feet up.
(((HUGS))) from Deltona,Fl
bessie.viola says:
You have two very adorable babies. Crazy how alike they look even in ultrasound.
.-= bessie.viola´s last blog ..grammy =-.
Erin says:
Adorable!!!!! Glad Binky is growing well….
.-= Erin´s last blog ..Flying right on by….. =-.
Christie says:
That is so sweet! Take it easy mama =)
Meg says:
So happy for you and Mike. Best wished to you both!
Jodie Brooks says:
LOL!! Gotta love the forehead!! More space for kisses! Congrats on Binky! Can’t wait to find out if Binky is a girl or a boy!! Now, GO REST!!!
Notesfromthegrove says:
LOL! That’s funny. I really hope my kids don’t get my husband’s head and shoulders. That’s really going to suck for me.
.-= Notesfromthegrove´s last blog ..Writer’s Workshop: The Post Where I Say "Poop" A Lot. =-.
Lyndsey says:
My doctor told me that the morning sickness was a good sign because it meant that my pregnancy was progressing well, and after two miscarriages I needed that kind of good news. So every time I threw up I tried to look on the bright side
So glad things continue to go well. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
Lyndsey
amy2boys says:
I’m so glad there are no clots! Yeah!! It’s great that you’ve found good doctors who are watching so closely.
I am a migraine sufferer as well, since high school. For me, they GO AWAY when I’m preggers. With each baby (I have 3 kids) they did, except with #3 I had a brief 1st trimester bout of them, then poof! Gonzo. It,was.awesome.
have you looked into any holestic therapies for them? Acupuncture? I’ve never had to try that myself, but it seems like it might be worth a shot and if something worked — you’d not have to experiment with any drugs.
(My second son has a big head too. The other two are normal.)
Alison says:
Big heads for big brains, as I’m sure Mike will agree with. Maddie of course was very smart. I believe the term “wicked smaht” was thrown around quite a bit.
xoxo
.-= Alison´s last blog ..Gred and Forge =-.
Adriane says:
Ha ha! My husband has a giant head, too. I’m always amazed by it’s size. (that’s what she said)…
Amy says:
The ultrasound pictures are so sweet… I loved looking at them!
Ari says:
Awwww love the ultrasound pics!
So glad that you have Dr Risky around who is treating you right, that must be such a relief!
.-= Ari´s last blog ..From heel to toe: what I’ve learned about wearing high heels =-.
Stacey says:
So happy for you and your big-headed husband (I have one of those, too — and my baby son inherited the melon)! But promise all of us you WILL take it easy . . . bleeding during pregnancy is frightening and awful and you have had enough horror without something new coming to play. I’m pretty good about calling these things, so I’d say that Maddie is going to have a brother!!! We’ll see if I’m right! My heart is always with you and your family . . . and I thank you for sharing and letting us know how you’re doing.
Jessi says:
“I just love you so much. Even though I’ve never met you, and didn’t get to meet Maddie, I don’t know… Everything about her story, your story, this new baby, completely has my heart. Sending you love and good pregnancy thoughts and prayers for less headaches and calmer tummy. I do know that part, the sick beginnings part, and it is not my favorite.”
I was just thinking the EXACT same thing.
Wishing you guys the best.
Aurelia says:
Ok, sorry if this is not needed, but I just thought you could ask your doc to check this out.
http://www.motherisk.org/women/index.jsp
This is the internationally renowned center for safe drugs in pregnancy and they also have an entire section on nausea and vomiting in pregnancy. They have a lot of good info you could use on what meds to take to help you eat and also natural things you could do to help your nausea. (extra B6 for starters. Also many many small meals throughout the day. Never let your stomach get empty, or overful.)
They are located in Toronto, but they do international consults and they can tell your doc which drugs are safe. FDA pregnancy categories for drugs have not been updated in 27 years at this point, and really have absolutely no scientific validity, which is incredibly sad for women in the US.
Take care, and you know, don’t worry about that placenta. They really do move higher as time goes on, all of mine did anyway.
As for bleeding? Please stop worrying, for clotters like us, heparin makes our blood flow normal and is really the best thing we could do. It’s not like when normal people take heparin and bleed. Sort of like–I’m not diabetic, at all, so if I took insulin it would be dangerous, but for a diabetic, it’s lifesaving. Hope that makes sense?
.-= Aurelia´s last blog ..BlogHer blogging =-.
Amber says:
I am SOOOO excited for you and Mike! Binky looks like a beautiful baby already. I too have suffered from migraines my whole life, and have tried EVERYTHING. I know you’ll get tons of advice, and whatever your doctor recommends is best. But for what it’s worth, while I was pregnant the only things that took the edge off the pain for me were Lortab or Tylenol PM (not together). I have no idea why they worked, but I was thankful they did so that I didn’t have to suffer for 9 months. I’m thinking of your little family everyday, and sending good pregnancy vibes your way. Thankyou so much for sharing your story, you have no idea what an impact it has had on my life, even though we’ve never even met!
Jess says:
Big head babies are just more to love.. (i’m speaking from experience, Max’s giant head caused me to have a c-section)..
Hope YOUR PLACENTA!!! stays in its place, and doesn’t act up!
Carly says:
This is my first comment, I actually wrote you an email earlier this week..but then also read you are just up to the end of April in backlog…
good to hear such positive news about the new little one!
i know this might sound totally off the wall, but do you get your migraines after eating a lot of bread or crackers? I use to get horrible migraines like you are describing and I found out I’m a celiac and once I cut out gluten they disappeared for the most part…you might have a gluten sensitivity…:)
angeline says:
How exciting! To see the progress of Binky on a weekly basis! Amazing how much he or she resemble Maddie in the womb! Strong daddy genes is right!!
Domestic Extraordinaire says:
I also lost lots of weight when I was pregnant. When they finally found a medication to help me stop barfing when I was pregnant with The Chicken I put on too much weight.
Thanks for sharing Binky with us. xoxo
.-= Domestic Extraordinaire´s last blog ..Leaving the Bright Lights & Big City to Play Amish =-.
monika says:
Love your blog.
I too got horrid migranes while pregnant…I know its hard with the nausea, but I found really balancing my diet really helped. Limit sugar and have some protein with every meal…never have anything sugary on an empty stomach. A bit of fresh air…slow early morning walk if you can, really helps!!
Wishing you ALL THE BEST…
Monika
mythoughtsonthat says:
Oh! I see the resemblance! They are BOTH little dolls! Peace!
.-= mythoughtsonthat´s last blog ..It’s REALLY HOT Here…. =-.
Christa says:
Not sure if this has been mentioned up above, but a girlfriend of mine had really bad migraines. She started getting botox injections to help. And it has. Not sure how safe that is to binky, but just a fyi for ya.
.-= Christa´s last blog ..Heartbeat =-.
Rachel says:
Haha, as someone with a big head (seriously, I don’t think it LOOKS that big, but hats are always too tight) I love big-headed babies.
I hate that you are so nauseated; I’ve never been pregnant so I haven’t experienced that sort of nausea, but whenever I am sick to my stomach, sucking on the mint lifesavers helps tons! xoxo
.-= Rachel´s last blog ..Baby Days =-.
Candice says:
Wait. You have doctor’s orders to lounge around on the couch and eat? Luckiest pregnant lady ever! LOL
So glad that you’re sharing your experiences with Binky with all of us. Hoping for a completely happy and healthy pregnancy!
Kristi F says:
For some peppermint tea settles the stomach. Have you tried that?
Thanks for sharing the ultrasound photos. With heads that big you might want to count your lucky stars for
c-sections! Both of my kids had big heads too, and I was grateful for c-sections when I saw those heads!
Hope all continues to go well.
Christina says:
Oh my gosh the FIRST thing I thought of when I saw the ultrasound pic was…”Well Binky has Madeline’s head alright!”
Glad the everything is progressing well and that you have a wonderful Dr. You and Mike deserve to be in the best hands possible.
I’ve suffered from migraines for the last 3 years and they suuuuuuck! Had one yesterday as a matter of fact. Ugh.
.-= Christina´s last blog ..Christina B.C. *(before children) =-.
Emese says:
It’s a girl…. I am calling it…I have a gut feeling. =) I am so happy to hear there are no blood clots! Now sit your butt on the couch and don’t go anywhere. I know easier said then done… But seriously if you need anything, please let me know. I am only a hop skip and a jump away I’ll be happy to bring you guys dinner or something.
.-= Emese´s last blog ..Kinda Creepy =-.
IzzyMom says:
Have you tried ginger for the nausea/upset stomach? I think it’s safe, although your doc would know best. I think about you guys every day and I’m so happy to hear there are no clots. to both of you
.-= IzzyMom´s last blog ..Despite the Drama & Swagwhoring, BlogHer 09 Didn’t Suck =-.
Creepy Mommy says:
What a beautiful little babies you guys make! Sending peaceful loving vibes to guys for a happy, healthy pregnancy!
.-= Creepy Mommy´s last blog ..my baby daddy and the ocean, and stuff that makes me cry =-.
maya says:
You are lucky you are having a c-section and you dont have to push that head out of you. My head is HUGE and B has a tiny almond head. Neve got my head, but since she weighed 3 pounds, I wouldnt have felt it anyway if she came out the old fashioned way.
Did you ask about acupuncture?
fyi- i spell like shit
.-= maya´s last blog ..My Two Diamonds =-.
Melissa says:
It’s nice to see you and Mike with a smile. I’m glad things are going well.
JMF says:
big noggin = big thinker
Stacey B says:
When I was pregnant with my 1st they thought he had spina bifida and sent us to a genetic counselor. They did a Level2 and decided no there was none (although he has a small dimple right at the base of his spin…which always makes me wonder) Anyway the counselor, not wanting to tell us he was fine (fear of lawsuit don’t ya know) began to tell us about his extremely large head…and it could be this or that bad scary thing…or “it could be genetic” She continued to read from her list looking not once at us. So I said “uh…excuse me…genetic..he’s sitting right next to me” She looked up, looked at my husband (size 8 3/4 baseball hat” and wrote genetic on the report!
.-= Stacey B´s last blog ..Trying to be pretty has its costs… =-.
Brie says:
I was pretty sick during my second pregnancy so I went on dicletin. Thank god! I was still nauseous sometimes but I wasn’t throwing up so I was happy. Has that been considered as an option for you? It might help by allowing you to eat.
That’s my unasked for advice.
.-= Brie´s last blog ..Tell me what to read =-.
Marti from Michigan says:
I love ultrasound pictures!
Ask Dr. Risky if it would be OK for you to take the chewable vitamin B Complex – it’s a raspberry flavored gummy by the company “VitaFusion” and it is all the B vitamins – called “Boost B”. These are helping my migraines immensely, of course I’m not pregnant.
Prayers continue across the states from Michigan to your family.
Leslie says:
Seeing the ultrasound pics – that was amazing! So sweet! And the “daddy’s Sphorhead” thing seriously cracked me up – his head is like 50 times bigger than yours in that picture. He he!! Anyway, I am super happy for you Heather and you and Mike are in my thoughts as usual!
.-= Leslie´s last blog ..As promised…… =-.
Glenda says:
I’m so happy for you and Mike! I’m happy that Dr. Risky is staying on top of everything for you and Binky and making sure you get the utmost care. I love, love the resemblance of the ultrasound pictures. Sending you hugs! XX and continued prayer thoughts your way! Take care of yourself!!!! When I was pregnant of myself I was about 5 mos when the DR told me I had to gain weight. I was eating but for some reason not gaining. (fast metabolism) needless to say my son was 8lbs 7ozs. :o)
Jenny says:
Another reader said it best, even though I’ve never met you, your family has my heart, my thoughts, and my prayers. I care for you all so much.
Does caffeine help you at all with the headaches? I’ve had similar migraine probs dating back to Jr high, and during my pregnancies. After the first trimester, my dr was suggesting coffee milkshakes both for weight gain and headache daily treatment. Um. OKAY!!
Wishing you the very best, every single day. Lots of love, Jenny
.-= Jenny´s last blog ..BOY, oh BOY =-.
Cara says:
Hi Heather! I completely sympathize with your nausea–in my first pregnancy I lost 12lbs by the time I was 11 weeks pregnant! It was not fun. I’m 24wks with my 2nd and have had a much better time but still have food aversions, nausea and slow weight gain even now. Thinking of you and wishing you all the best for a healthy pregnancy. Loved seeing the ultrasound of Madeline & Binky side by side.
rayshell says:
Spor head…Cute! Congrats!
I had placenta previa and was on bed rest for the last 10 weeks of my pregnancy and now have a happy 2 Y.O. boy! You will do great no matter what!! IF it does happen (which I’m thinking positive thoughts…it will not) it stinks, but just be reminded of the reward!
BTW, great pics of Maddie and Binks!
.-= rayshell´s last blog ..Really?!?! =-.
Jen says:
I love that you have a comparison photo! Maybe it means you’re having another girl! Which I really hope you are!! I am So happy for you and so glad things are going well so far! Reading your blogs makes me SO grateful for everything I have and for the healthy happy child I have! You are a wonderful person I wish you nothing but the best!
Tiffany says:
That’s not a forehead, that’s a fivehead! Congrats on Binky, sorry about the nausea and migraines.
Have you ever tried seeing a chiropractor for your migraines? When I was a teenager I had severe migraines after numerous pain meds, doctor vists and such. My mom took me to a chiropractor at the suggestion of a friend. It worked! I have not had a migraine since I was 16.
bpower says:
Try accupuncture! I’ve had headaches all my life and taken meds-OTC and prescription. They help but nothing “cured” me until I started accupunture. It’s a lifesaver!
My accupunturist is acutally a Doolah as well and specializes in fertility, pregnancy and birthing. We are in NYC unfortunately but perhaps there is someone in your area with a similar focus. It could help not only the headaches but also with the morning sickness.
Good luck!!
Snarky Mommy says:
Bedrest sucks it (as you know). I did four solid months of it with Baby1 and cursed every person who said, “I sure would like to lie around and do nothing for a few days.” So I surely won’t say that to you. Instead I will wish you hours of good web surfing and hope you have tons of reading material because summer TV sucks ass!
.-= Snarky Mommy´s last blog ..Someday she will kill me for this post =-.
Kate says:
amazing how similar the ultrasounds look. also amazing how Maddie’s looks EXACTLY like Maddie at such an early stage.
thanks for sharing!!
Amanda says:
I love Dr. Risky.
I also wanted to tell you that I LOVED bedrest. I know, I know, I’m the only one in the free world who loved but honestly…
No choosing what to cook.
No cooking (yea me!)
No cleaning up
No washing clothes
No folding clothes (no wait, you can do that sitting down…damn)
Ahh…it was bliss.
All this to say that placenta *better* just…just…
Well, it just better hang out where it is….right now.
Thinking of you today and wishing you and Mike hugs.
.-= Amanda´s last blog ..An Open Letter To My Friends =-.
Lady Lemon says:
Lookit that melon! Ha!
Glad that you and the Binkster are doing well.
That is a beautiful picture of you!!!
.-= Lady Lemon´s last blog ..Ten Truths =-.
Cat says:
Sending well-wishes to you guys every day!
.-= Cat´s last blog ..Greedy Little Pig =-.
Andrea's Sweet Life says:
And what a Spohr head it is!
So glad things are going well and you fell safe in Dr. Risky’s hands.
I had trouble gaining weight with my pregnancies, too. Jeremy’d Grandma would come over around 16 weeks, when I stopped feeling so nauseous, and fatten me up with all kinds of goodies. : )
.-= Andrea’s Sweet Life´s last blog ..Foul Air =-.
Elise says:
Aw, the ultra sound pictures of both Maddie and Binky are so cute! Also, I swear it looks to me like Binky is smiling in his/her pic!!
Rachel says:
Heather, I hesitate to even mention this, because it sounds like you’re getting great medical care from Dr. Risky, but is it possible that you’re grinding your teeth while you sleep? According to some, that can also cause migraines. There’s a device called an NTI Oral Appliance… you could ask your dentist about it.
Still keeping you in prayer and thinking about you often.
Pam says:
I too have had migraines and had to inject blood thinners for both successful pregnancies. As for the migraines, have you tried accupuncture. I know it sounds freaky weird but it really does make a difference with no effect on the baby. I did try to let my husband give me shots in the fat on my back but it hurt for him to do it more than me so I did for both times. Hope this helps – just found your blog.
Pam
Ginger says:
I second Pam’s comment – acupuncture helps a lot, with pain and with nausea and you don’t bleed from the tiny wee needles.
I am a puker right up to the end. I did get some relief from Sprite with grated ginger (got that recipe on a boat in Hawaii) and the preggie pops and preggie pop drops helped too. I’ll send you my leftovers for you to try if you want – I could suck on one of those and sometimes not lose my cookies.
.-= Ginger´s last blog ..Hey, did ya happen to see the most beautiful girls in the world? =-.
Wagon says:
My big weight gainers during my pregnancies were: Hot & Sour soup, Starbucks Java Chip Ice Cream, and Molasses Crinkles cookies (they have ginger in them too). My morning sickness didn’t end until after delivery- my second time ended after the 2nd tri. Good Luck- I hope you can find something that stays down!
April says:
Is it terrible that after having two children, I still can’t read an ultra-sound? Great pic of you and Mike!
.-= April´s last blog ..Wrap-Up =-.
Erin B. from VA says:
Oh, I just LOVE the ultrasound pics. I got even MORE excited for you guys – which I didn’t think was even humanly possible b/c I was pretty darn excited before.
Continuing to send you many warm wishes and lots and lots of love.
Scott says:
Congratulations!
My wife and I are so excited for you. Our “Dr. Risky” was genius as well. Made us feel so comfortable after our first “horror show”. Boy, did we listen to every word she said. The best part is in the end after nine months of stressing we received a bundle of awesomeness.
So happy for you guys!
.-= Scott´s last blog .. =-.
Marisa says:
My boy has a big head too! Unfortunately, he gets it from my side of the family though. He is 10 months old and can basically wear his dad’s hats.
.-= Marisa´s last blog ..Bunny Bites is Now Taking Suggestions for the Husband’s Official “Blog Name” =-.
Amy Barlow says:
I have twins. I was very sick and had to be rehydrated at the hospital three times in the first trimester. Ginger snaps, ginger scented candles and sea bands became my salvation.
Also instead of a prenatal vitamin my doctor prescribed a flintstones chewable at every meal. Talk with your doc to see if any of this will work for you
Bec says:
I’m glad things are progressing well. I’m sorry about the morning sickness, I hope it improves.
.-= Bec´s last blog ..Happy Premmie Day =-.
cindy w says:
My net weight gain for my entire pregnancy with Catie was 1 pound. ONE. And believe me, I lost muscle mass during pregnancy, not fat. Boo. Suckage.
I think Mike’s freakishly large forehead is cute. (Hee. Just kidding! God, he’s totally going to un-friend me on Facebook now, isn’t he?)
.-= cindy w´s last blog ..karma =-.
Melissa says:
I am so happy for you and Mike. I pray everyday for you both to have good days,one day at a time,one second at a time.
love,
Melissa
Jocasta says:
Good growing Blinky!
What a beautiful ultrasound – thanks for sharing
Erin says:
So glad to hear things are going well with Binky.
And, Argh, i HATE myself for doing this as there is nothing worse than “have you tried” but your migraines sound exactly like mine. I was on EVERY treatment possible and none, NONE, of them ever even made a dent.
UNTIL (oh sweet day, until) Imigran in injection form. The Imigran pills don’t do anything, whatsoever but the injections!! Oh the sweet relief.
Here is a link http://www.life-extension-drugs.com/imigran.html
Of course you would need to speak to your doctor re: use while pregnant. And you may well have already tried it but over here (I was in New Zealand at the time) i REALLY had to push to get them to prescribe me.
I know how annoying this is – truely. Assvice! God i gave assvice!!!
.-= Erin´s last blog ..Gatorade & Your Life Partner – Don’t leave it too late! =-.
Beret says:
Your babies are so beautiful. I can’t wait to see what Binky looks like when she’s (or he’s) born! Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy.
denise says:
Binky Spohrhead – Looooove it!
Sounds like a character in a childrens book – one where Binky the main character has a guardian angel named Maddie.
Love n hugs,
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOO
Miss E says:
So glad that you and Binky are healthy and doing well. I just love the ultrasound pics! May Binky be as breathtakingly captivating as sweet Madeline.
Big hugs to you, Heather.
.-= Miss E´s last blog ..A Very UnBride Bride =-.
Lindsay from Florida says:
I love that there’s already a family resemblance with Binky and Maddie!!!
Bryn says:
Oh Heather, you can make me laugh. We have ALL been blessed with the SpohrHead! Thinking of you, Mike, and Binky.
xo
Bryn SPOHR Heathman
Marisol Moreno says:
I’m so happy for you! EVerything is going well, it’s odd we have been pregnant at the same time together both times. I’ve also had scares with both pregnancies. My first born premature at 31 weeks weighing 3lbs 15 oz. and my second some abnormalities in the ultrasound made me get an amnio. Still waiting for results. I pray for you and our little ones. Thinking of you everyday. I’m due in early Decemeber.
Pamela says:
Beautiful, absolutely positively beautiful!
Lemondrops were my saving grace with nausea.
.-= Pamela´s last blog ..Hard to believe… =-.
Kirsten says:
First…I haven’t given my official CONGRATS!!! I am very happy for you guys : )
Second…migraines are the worst. I have one now. I currently take Topamax daily to try to control them and it’s helped a bit but I still get ’em about once a month. I never had one when pregnant (don’t know how I got to be one of the lucky ones there) so I can only imagine how horrible that must feel to not be able to do anything about it. I hope they are able to figure out a plan for you for the next time because that is just misery.
Love the pics of little bitty Maddie and Binky : )
.-= Kirsten´s last blog ..And They’re Out! =-.
Sandi says:
I have to agree with you- your kids remind me of your hubby!! Mine have their dad’s lovely noggin too!! God bless!!
robyn says:
I’ve been praying for you. And yes, by those ultrasound pics you can definitely see that Maddie and Binky belong to each other.
.-= robyn´s last blog ..One Year Ago =-.
lisa wood says:
Gosh you can sure see where Maddie gets her gorgeous looks from!!!
Great to hear the baby is doing really well…for the headaches have you tried Acupuncture as it works really well for when I have a migraine? Thought I would see if that could help you?
Gosh its great to see baby photo…so similar to beautiful maddie.
have the best weekend and take it easy
Lisa
Emma says:
This might be the stupidest suggestion ever but my husband, who also suffers from migraines, swears by it….he ties a scarf in a knot right where the migraine is most painful. It doesn’t make the migraine go away but it alleviates some of the pain.
.-= Emma´s last blog ..At least someone loves me =-.
Heather says:
I’m the same with pregnancy and weight. Until the pre-eclampsia in the end, I never looked thinner or more fabulous. Would love for it to last, but alas…
So happy for your big news!
Issa says:
I’m glad to hear that Binky is doing good. I hope you start physically feeling better soon.
Dang, those are some beautiful babies.
eliza says:
You know binky is lying in the shape of a heart. Not sure if anyone else already pointed that out. Too many comments to read them all. But that’s a heart alright.
Tina says:
You two smiling makes me smile too!!!!
Congrats !!!!
merlotmom says:
Wow. I can actually see Maddie’s face in the ultrasound. Strange. Nice. Sad. I am happy for you and Mike and Binky and glad that you are in good, medical hands.
.-= merlotmom´s last blog ..Public School Answering Machine Teaches Parents A Lesson =-.
katadia says:
I tried foot reflexology with my migraines during pregnancy, and it really helped. The therapist said that the would prefer not to massage women in the first trisemester for some reason though. I also got a reflexology book and bought a wooden stick for acupressure so my husband would give me a nightly treat. All the best Heather.
.-= katadia´s last blog ..Happy thoughts =-.
Kelly says:
Grats again =))) Binky is such a precious gift, and I’m keeping everything crossed for you guys that you have a healthy and relatively boring pregnancy!
Beautiful scans of both Maddie and Binky =)
Hugs
.-= Kelly´s last blog ..Today I turn 1 =-.
Colleen says:
I’ve had you on my google reader for a while, but I don’t think I’ve ever commented. This was the first post since Maddie died that you sound truly hopeful, and I’m so thankful for that. I pray for you all the time!
*Hugs and Prayers for all three of you*
Haley says:
How interesting that they have similar profiles.
Genetics are so fascinating.
Glad to hear binky is healthy and growing well.
.-= Haley´s last blog ..BlogHer 09 Scrapbook Layouts =-.
Sarcastica says:
Ahhh genetics, how remarkable babies are amazing, I love looking at them and picking what features come from what parents. As it stands right now, my son only has my lips and nail beds, everything else is his fathers. He has Matt’s EXACT ears and I find it insanely creepy in a way, it’s almost like someone took Matt’s ears, shrunk them and put them on our son. Like I said, genetics are sooo remarkable and interesting!
Glad to hear that, despite the nauseous feelings and migraine, things are going good.
Lots of love to you guys! xoxo
.-= Sarcastica´s last blog ..When He’s Sleeping =-.
JennyD says:
LOL – you have the most awesome ability to make me laugh and cry within a single post!
.-= JennyD´s last blog ..The View from my Rear View Mirror =-.
Marisa says:
Carnation instant breakfast is great, and tastes yummy!
I had horrible migraines with my daughter, I used to drink coca-cola. It works wonders.
Jordy says:
Congrats Congrats Congrats from the heart! I just left you a msg and I just wanted to let you know how happy I am with the news! I just came here to catch up with the the latest posts (last time I came was a couple of weeks ago) and I just found out about Binky! <> I love you guys so much and I just wish we could live closer to you! Muahhhhh! Have a great weekend and no running around =)
Liz says:
Hi Heather,
I was thinking of you today as I was in my weekly acupuncture session. I began acupuncture 3 years ago when I was having difficulty conceiving my first child ( due to polycystic ovarian syndrome). I was desperate. In one month I was pregnant. I continued acupuncture in the hopes that it would relieve some of the very uncomfortable symptoms of pregnancy. Perhaps it could help you manage your discomfort, the migraines, nausea and overall health of yourself and little Binky! I’ll assume the idea of voluntarily subjecting yourself to additional needle pricks isn’t the most appealing idea, but it might be helpful! Just a thought!
As always, you, Mike and especially Maddie are always in my thoughts! Thank you for so openly sharing yourself and your family with us!
All the best for a healthy and full term pregnancy!
HUGS,
Liz and Alexa (my 2 year old who thoroughly enjoys videos and photos of your little Maddie!)
Kelsey says:
Hey, i have had problems with migraines as well. I cant take any preventative medicine because i get sick from it. So i can only take medicine once i get them. Which more lately has been high doses of Tylenol, which was prescribed by my doctor. But one thing that has helped a ton, is physical therapy. It was covered by my insurance and basically i get a massage on my head, shoulders and neck. Once or twice a week. It has helped so much. Because there is a lot of trigger points on your scalp i guess. If you haven’t already looked into it, i really recommend it.
ali says:
it’s amazing how similar their profiles are! binky is a cutie already!
Gabe has a giant head too…and Josh has the same big ole melon head.
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Maria Delgado says:
Yep. Elena (my 2 year old) has a HUGE head. She gets it from her dad (Jonathan). When she was born her head didn’t even register on the charts. It still doesn’t. Poor kid. No cute toddler hats for her.
*Maria E. Delgado*
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MommyNamedApril says:
love the ultrasound pics!!! i have the same problem when i’m pregnant. i’m almost 27 weeks now and have only gained a couple of lbs. it drives my OB nuts, but eh, i’m not going to worry about it unless it starts to affect the baby. which so far, so good.
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Childwoman says:
Maddie looks so much like Mike, although she has got your hair and soulful eyes..
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TracyKM says:
When I was pregnant and terribly nauseaous and at the end of my rope, I called “MotherRisk” hotline at Toronto’s Sick Kids Hospital. They pretty much saved my baby’s life because I was THAT desparate for the nausea to end. Part of the cause of it for me, was heartburn/indigestion even though I didn’t have the typical heartburn that I was familiar with. Gaviscon helped. With my earlier pregnancies SeaBands helped, but not with the last one. You can create your own ‘diclectin’ (since you’re in the States and it’s banned) by using B6 and allergy meds. I know there’s more detailed info on line about how to do it. MotherRisk had lots more tips too.
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Jennifer says:
Something that has worked great for me with migraines is to wear a baseball hat down low. It basically blocks the light enough. I feel better within an hour or 2, no meds required. It might not work for you, but it is simple, and seems to be worth a shot on the outside chance it could help you as well.
When I had m/s really badly, fresh lemon juice in my water made me feel closer to decent. Again, maybe won’t help, but worth a shot?
application essay says:
“Same cute nose, same giant head. I don’t know where these kids got their giant heads.”
You got that right…they got their heads from their daddy. It was heartwarming to see their ultrasound images. I will be praying for you and Binky.
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