I had my usual appointment with Dr. Risky today, and I went in feeling like absolute crap. Normally my morning sickness follows a good day/bad day pattern. I consider it a good day if I keep down more than 50% of my food and liquid intake. A bad day is less. But, for the last week-ish, I’ve had more bad days than good. This morning I was nauseated and couldn’t keep anything down, even liquids. Right away, Dr. Risky’s nurses were concerned. I had trouble producing enough urine for my usual sample, and I was showing other signs of dehydration (dark urine, ketones, chapped lips, headache) (I also threw up in their office – twice). The nurses immediately started talking about me needing IV fluids.
Unfortunately, Dr. Risky was in an emergency delivery so I had to wait a while. Her nurses let me lay down in an exam room instead of sit in the waiting room, which was so nice. Eventually (three hours later) Dr. Risky returned from the delivery and gave me an ultrasound.
The baby looked great. Perfect growth, strong heartbeat, and s/he was flipping around like an acrobat in there. It was like the baby was waving hello to us. Mike later joked that the baby was actually saying, “HELLO I AM THIRSTY!”
Dr. Risky was concerned by my dehydration, and sent me to the ER for IV hydration. No one likes IVs, but I was kind of relieved because I knew it would make me feel better. Luckily, I was taken back quickly and was soon shivering under four blankets while cool saline and zofran flowed into my bloodstream.
wonky angle courtesy of my hospital bed
After the bag was done, the resident and attending came in to check on me. They asked me if I had to go to the bathroom…I didn’t. So, another liter of saline was ordered. Once that bag was finished, a nurse came into my room and walked me to a bathroom for a urine sample. I managed to squeeze out a small bit for the sample, then climbed back under the blankets. The doctors and nurses were shocked that after two liters of saline, I had hardly any urine output. At this point, they started talking about admitting me.
Dr. Risky was consulted, and she asked them to give me one more liter of saline before she’d even think about admitting me (I love her). Luckily, that last bag of fluid made the ER doctors happy enough with my vitals that they discharged me. They weren’t thrilled that I didn’t urinate even after the third bag, but we all agreed that the hospital was too germy a place for a pregnant lady. They were also certain that the fluids would catch up with me on our hour-long drive home. They didn’t, but I have peed twice in the four hours since arriving home so maybe it will be a delayed reaction.
Severe morning sickness can be really frustrating because it’s not often taken seriously. For example, the admitting nurse at the ER said to me, “Why don’t you just drink more water?” I explained to her that I drink plenty of fluids, but I can’t always keep them down. It was only after I told the doctors my history of morning sickness throughout the lengths of both of my pregnancies that they realized I wasn’t just some dumb lady who doesn’t drink enough liquids. The ER attending, however, was very understanding, and explained to me and the ER residents that my dehydration was a build up of several days of not getting enough fluids, and that it’s a common symptom for women with hyperemesis gravidarum.
I have my fingers crossed that this morning sickness will be typical and go away soon, but I am prepared for it to linger like it did with my first two pregnancies. I have my zofran and will continue to do everything I can to keep down food and liquids. It’s not fun but in the end, it will all be worth it when we get to meet that little acrobat.
Becca_Masters says:
Oh Heather!
I’m hoping that your HG goes really soon.
Morning/all day sickness is horrid.
At 22weeks I still vomit most days. Thankfully I’m able to keep about 90% of stuff down, but at the beginning I lost so much weight and after 8 days of no eating, barely drinking, my local health care provider basically said, if you’re still not keeping any liquids down by tomorrow we will admit you. It was a massive shock and it was like my body suddenly went “ok ok!” and starting keeping fluids down.
Despite being 22 weeks pregnant and clearly getting bigger, I’ve still not gained back a pound of the weight I lost, which is good for me because I’ve been trying to lose weight for the last 5/6 years with no luck!
Good luck with keeping stuff down!
Johanna says:
This is my first pregnancy and I suffered terribly from Hyperemesis Gravidarum (several admissions for fluids, vomiting blood etc) which persisted up until about 21/22 weeks – I still have to be careful at 36 weeks what I eat and what I do after eating to not set me off.
Its pure hell but by as I’ve been told (ad nauseum) throughout my pregnancy, its thought to be because of super high levels of pregnancy hormones which means a strong pregnancy! Fingers crossed that this is the case for you and that super sick mama=super healthy baby
Kayla says:
Oh no, so you do have Hyperemesis? I thought it was just really bad morning sickness, not that – I’m sorry. ):
Best wishes for you and that precious little acrobat!
LD says:
Ah, Zofran— The gift of the gods. Only thing that got me through my second preg.
sue says:
So glad that everything looks fine with the little acrobat, Heather!! I hope that Mama gets to feeling better, tho.
Kristen McD says:
Veteran of three hyperemetic pregnancies here. During my last one I got a zofran pump – which was a huge pain, but kept me out of the hospital. It might be worth talking to Dr. Risky about if this happens again. I hope and pray it doesn’t.
Gail says:
HG is horrible, I had it with all 3 of my pg’s. I know you said you have zofran, but what about the zofran subq pump, is that not an option with your clotting disorder? Or what about home health, where you could get a liter of IVF’s a couple times a week? Dehydration makes the nausea/vomitting worse as you know. It’s a vicious cycle. Hang in there bc the prize at the end is more then worth it!
Babbalou says:
My thoughts as well – maybe you could have a home health care nurse give you IV’s at home if you’re going to need them regularly.
Jenn says:
AAAwww!!! Your new baby is so cute!!! I’m so happy he/she is so SPUNKY!!! I think that’s a GREAT a sign!!! There is NO Dooubt in my mind you will do whatever it takes to deliver a healthy baby!! You are an exceptional Mama – even when your babies are in the womb!!! xoxo
Erin W says:
I, too, had Hyperemesis Gravidarum with my 2nd pregnancy. Reading your story today was an exact copy of what I went through. Zofran is your friend. It got me through 27 weeks of being sick ( and I pray that doesn’t happen for you!)…but it’s amazing and doesn’t do any harm to the baby or you (well, except for trying to crap boulders). You weren’t that sick with Maddie or Annie, were you? I wasn’t with my daughter…they do say sometimes with BOYS, the mix of estrogen and testosterone can trigger HG. My little BOY was the result! FEEL BETTER!!!!!!
Heather says:
Yes, I was this sick with Maddie & Annie. With Maddie, it peaked when I was already in the hospital on bed rest, so it wasn’t a big deal to give me IVs. With Annie, there were a few times when Dr. Risky thought I might need an IV, but I always managed to avoid it. I think I managed to string together more good days with her pregnancy. The Zofran was also more effective with her pregnancy. This time it’s only working about 50-60% of the time, unfortunately.
Melli says:
So sorry you’re having a tough time. Hope it gets better soon!
Annie Hall says:
Oh Heather. Sending best wishes for you and the tiny acrobat. May hydration and vomit-free days be yours today.
Kim says:
Ugh you poor thing! 3 litres before you could pee. You must have been VERY dehydrated.
I didn’t have HG, but I was pretty sick and had to be on Diclectin throughout my pregnancies. You have my sympathy.
A day at a time Heather.
Lisa says:
Zofran is sooo fantastic. Glad that you have that and that it hopefully makes your belly hold everything in. Everything! My daughter also looked like an acrobat in my belly at about 6 weeks. She was sliding up and down in there, as soon as she got to the bottom she would slide back up for the ride back down. Was pretty awesome to see a tiny little peanut sized baby having such a blast! And she is still an absolute blast. Glad that they took care of you, you are in great hands! And sounds like you will be a OBGYN assistant after all of this, without even needing a degree!!
Tammy M. says:
Sounds like you are getting good care. I’m so looking forward to seeing another gorgeous Spohr baby.
Jen says:
If it makes you feel better, my doctor told me (after spending a week non-stop vomiting and being taken to the er twice) that HG can be a good sign of a very strong, healthy pregnancy.
Of course, the HG itself can be dangerous, so it has to be taken very seriously. But, (and this is just my docs opinion, it doesn’t necessarily mean anything) having that amount of hormone in you, to cause you to be so sick, means everything is working really well.
DefendUSA says:
Well, as a former Maternal Child health consultant, can I be geeky about that Ultrasound? I swear I can see Maddie’s features in that little face!! Baby looks great and yes, your doc is spot on. I bet you could have gotten another litre and not peed any faster…Those dehydration headaches suck. Can you drink Propel mixed with some ginger ale? Or a wee bit of regular coke? Sometimes it does help the nausea…even though docs may not agree.
My cure was…tsp of A-1 sauce or green olives by the handful.
Grow baby, grow!
Heather says:
I will try the propel, that’s a good idea. My doctor actually likes me to have one caffeinated drink a day – it really helps me with my hormonal headaches and seems to help with my morning nauseousness. I will try some regular coke and see if it helps!
Sue says:
Heather, if you find you can’t keep the coke down (carbonation on an empty stomach isn’t always great), try boiling it first, then cooling it down to room temp. Sounds weird, but a friend suggested it to me when my kids had the flu, and it really works. I also used it for bad morning sickness during my third pregnancy, and it was a godsend. Wishing you and baby Elmo Spohr all the best!
Janette says:
I didnt have hyperemesis gravidarum, but during my first pregnancy I had a stomach flu, you know the kind where you cant keep anything in either end… Anyway, I went in dehydrated and I started having contractions, and it took like 4 bags of fluids for them to be happy with my vitals. I hope you start feeling better soon
Skye says:
Oh my gosh, I can’t imagine being that dehydrated- I am so sorry your symptoms are so severe! Glad you at least got a glimpse at your little one. Best wishes for decreased nausea.
Rebecca says:
Lots of love and prayers for your tummy to settle and things to go smoothly. I’d love to read about a boring pregnancy and delivery from you.
Randi says:
Oh Heather, I feel for you! I realized during both of my successful pregnancies that “morning sickness” should actually be called “OMFG ALL DAY SICKNESS”. If your zofran isn’t working, ask Dr. Risky about an anti-enemic suppository. I had one for both of my pregnancies and while putting the suppository in was oh so much fun (read the sarcasm there), it worked. For some reason the pill version didn’t, but the suppository one did. Good luck!
Heather says:
You know, that doesn’t sound awesome, but if it works I would happily put one up there!
Randi says:
Heather – not awesome, no. Made my hubby laugh his butt off – I’m shocked I didn’t divorce him then LOL. But I am serious about the suppository – for some reason it just works SO much better.
Michele says:
I was so sick with my first that I was admitted for hyperemesis gravidarum. I remember throwing up about 18 times in one day and being viciously sick until week 27. It was horrible. When I would try to drink more water (love *that* comment, Miss ER Nurse…) it would still be cold.
I agree with Randi about suppositories. I had to go that route and they worked wonders.
I have to say though for as sick as you were in the ER, impressive you managed to take a picture. LOL
Heather says:
ha, my mom was with Annie and she kept texting me on Annie’s behalf asking to “see pictures of Mommy’s room.” I spared you my self-portraits.
shan says:
I’m sorry you are going through this Heather. But I’ll admit, I was happy to see the picture of the baby. It put a smile on my face.
twingles says:
Uuggghhhh….I had hyperemesis with both pregnancies – did home IV with the first and went to the ER twice for the 2nd (1st trip to the ER needed 5 bags of fluids and 2 potassium pills).
THe idea that someone would say to you that you should just drink more fluids is so irksome – especially coming from a medical professional.
I lost 20 pounds when I was pg with my DD – and when I went to a party and was explaining how sick I was another mom said “I was so nauseous too!” – ummm….you don’t lose 20 pounds from nausea.
At any rate I am sure you are sick of hearing this but the sickness is a sign that your body is doing exactly what it’s supposed to! Hang in there.
Melissa says:
UGH. I could have written this post 6.5 years ago. I was hyperemetic with my first son (turning 6 Saturday) and that pregnancy made me never want to have kids again. Luckily, I forgot about that part (sort of) and had another – not hyperemetic with that boy. But the IV fluids, being unable to pee, shivering under a blanket from the cold saline and getting all loopy from IV Zofran….oy. Have you had zofran before? May I make a suggestion that you get a stool softener. I have never ever been constipated in my life, but zofran made me feel like I was giving birth. It was worse than the post-csection opiate-induced constipation. Apparently, zofran does not do that to everyone, but just wanted to give you a heads up. Also, it stopped working for me after about a week. I HOPE it keeps working for you. Let me know if you need to commiserate. Love to you.
Heather says:
Yes – I was on Zofran with Annie’s pregnancy. I have a HUUUGE bottle of stool softeners, and I pop them liberally because um…yeah, had the same problem as you, and I totally agree – it was worse than post-csection. And also like you, the Zofran only works for me about 50-60% of the time.
Melissa says:
Ugh, sorry to hear that. I will be thinking about you
Johanna says:
Sadly we talk about this a lot on my HG support group! When I was at my worst, my fiancee and I used to high five if I managed to ‘go’ LOL, the joys of Zofran!
Pattie says:
I’m sorry the morning sickness/HG is so awful, but I’m *so* happy that Baby Spohr is doing somersaults. Keep taking care of yourself, Heather.
Trisha says:
Sorry you are so sick Heather and hoping you feel better soon but super happy to see your little acrobat is doing well!
Debbie B. says:
Sorry you have been so sick, but love the picture of another gorgeous Spohr baby. Feel better.
Jen says:
Ugh. Good luck! If you need more info or support try http://www.helpher.org/ (hyperemesis education & research)
Shauna says:
That is one adorable ultrasound if I do say so myself!
So sorry you’re so sick I don’t think people fully concept that this ISN’T normal morning sickness/nausea! I really hope you’re able to keep more down!
Alexis says:
I hate that you are so sick! But, I love that Dr Risky listens to you and makes your life as easy and safe as possible. I’ve had HG with all four of my pregnancies. This last time I figured out my recipe for manageable nausea. Wanna hear? 1/2 a real coke with saltine crackers eaten super slow in bed before I stood up. Then Zofran. I only ate white foods (I know!). Mashed potatoes, bread and butter, etc. Oh, I can’t forget the Dulcolax because constipation one minute, vomiting the next is rediculously dumb. Good luck! Can’t wait to “meet” that sweet acrobat!
kakali says:
Hi Heather,
I have a feeling it will go away after 20/22 weeks. How many weeks are you now? I do think like other mom that your baby will look like Madeline. Annie wants her sister(Madeline) so much and it is going to happen. May be you will get your Madeline back.
Good luck with your pregnancy!
Courtney says:
So happy to hear that little acrobat baby is healthy and growing strong! I hope you can find some remedies for that nasty morning sickness ASAP!
Jeanie says:
I hope you’re feeling better soon and especially that you’re able to keep the fluids down.
Kat says:
I’m sorry you’re feeling bad but look at those little hands and feet.
Stay healthy mum and baby!
Jennifer says:
Although I’m sorry that you’re so sick, I’m glad to hear that the baby is developing nicely! I hope you get some relief soon and that this doesn’t last throughout the entire pregnancy!!
You are such a strong woman. After several miscarriages, procedures, and 7 months of sickness, I couldn’t bring myself to try again. (I also had my first one month shy of 42 so there was that as well.) I feel sad about it all the time even though I know there were many reasons why I couldn’t try again.
It just makes me admire you all the more. Hope the drugs provide some relief!
Stephanie Friant says:
You are not alone! I ended up in the ER with early contractions, and they asked if I had been eating and drinking! I was gaining TONS of weight but they didn’t believe me as the tests came back not in my favor. Oh, well. Pregnancy is a mystery!
Clare says:
I too have HG (first pregnancy, due May 8th) and while I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy, it is kind of nice to know I’m not the only one. Zofran has certainly helped, but it doesn’t make it go away by any stretch of the imagination. Also glad I’m not the only one who’s had to explain “this is not normal morning sickness, and if I could drink more fluids, I certainy would!” to Emergency room staff.
Hoping it eases off soon for all of us!
Lily says:
When I saw the title of this from your tweet, I was expecting a night at Circ de Solel followed by an emergency room visit! A healthy acrobat baby is much better!
By the way, when and if you find out the baby’s gender, will we know? Hope you feel better. I had awful nausea with mono before–try pepper mints!
Katherine says:
Don’t stick the Zofran in your butt! They make sublingual Zofran tablets that dissolve under your tongue if you can’t keep liquids down to swallow Zofran. I hope you feel better soon!
JT says:
Awwww, hi, baby!!
I’m sorry you are so sick, but I guess that’s a good sign for you, since you were sick with your pregnancies with Maddie and Annie. I know you said your last pregnancy felt different to you. Like others have said, I have heard too that bad HG =s strong pregnancy. Not sure how true that is or if it’s an old wive’s tale. I’ve also heard hard pregnancy =s girl and hard pregnancy =s easy kid!
Good luck and hope you feel better! I am so happy and excited for you all.
b says:
I can only imagine what HG feels like, but I sympathize with you Heather. I admire your drive. to keep your acrobat going even when you feel like shit.
keep it up darling.
Lamb says:
I’m reminded of Dr. Hibbert on The Simpsons, giving Marge an ultrasound and saying “If I didn’t know better, I’d swear he was trying to moon us.” Perhaps you have a Bart Simpson on the way…
victoria says:
Another HG veteran checking in!
Best tip I ever got was from an ER doc, who told me to eat candy. Lots and lots of candy. The reason? There’s nothing your body can break down more quickly, and right now you need the calories more than the nutrition. (Both would be great, yeah, but with HG you have to pick.)
Sorry you’re feeling so crappy, and I hope the fluids help a lot!
Heather says:
This is so interesting and completely explains why I do SO MUCH BETTER when I eat sweets and pie. They are literally the only things I can keep down on a regular basis. I will be all over this until I have to start the gestational diabetes diet.
Johanna says:
Frozen coke. Seriously. And lemonade iceblocks!
Marin D says:
Been there, done that. I can completely empathize with you. I had horrible hyperemesis with both of my pregnancies – from conception to birth. It is the craziest thing to take a sip (not a gulp, but a sip) of water and then start throwing up like you’d over eaten. And where does all that liquid come from? I only took a sip. It was horrible. I am a tall, heavier person so I was lucky that my major weight loss didn’t put us in other danger. I lost about 40 pounds with each pregnancy. (I gained it back as soon as I stopped pumping – LOL.)
I was admitted with baby number 1 at about 9 weeks for severe dehydration and the start of kidney failure as a result. I spent a week in the hospital while they tried to get things under control. Needless to say it was rough. I was sick until the end of my c-section (I almost threw up on the table). I ended up on a Zofran pump which was intramuscular (and hurt like hell). It gave me the Zofran I needed 24 hours a day (with an extra dose here and there). I don’t know how I made it through that. I did it with both my pregnancies. I had lots of complications with pregnancy 1 that were both related and unrelated to the hyperemesis. I had preterm later and we were able to hold things off for a few weeks and I delivered at 35. Baby two went a little better and we got to the very end of 36 weeks. But we still had NICU stays and all that fun stuff.
As a result, after discussing with my doctors (yes plural – a nephrologist, my OB, and the perninate), I had my tubes tied during my second c-section. We decided that my body and mind just couldn’t take another pregnancy like that. I have some kidney damage from my first pregnancy. It’s a bummer. But in the end worth the sacrifice. I am immensely luck to have my two beautiful girls.
You are always on my mind. I hope you get some relief and can enjoy some of your pregnancy. I am so excited for you guys.
Jaimie says:
I saw this in an article and thought of you. Hopefully it will help you feel a little better about the puking.
Despite their discomfort, women can be reassured that their nausea may be serving as a predictor of good pregnancy outcome. A statistical meta-analysis of 11 epidemiological studies indicated a strong significant association of nausea and vomiting of pregnancy with decreased risk of miscarriage in the first 20 weeks of gestation (RR=0.36)(Weigel).
Source: http://www.fetal-exposure.org/resources/index.php/2001/02/01/the-treatment-of-nausea-and-vomiting-in-pregnancy-nvp/
Personally, I had HG with my first pregnacy, zofran does not work for me in pill form at all. Only IV works. Meclizine does work for me in pill form but I am not sure if you can take that while pregnant, the info is conflicting. Good luck
Lisa says:
Congrats on your pregnancy! Hadn’t been on your site for a while so I was pleasantly suprised to see you are expecting another! I’m currently pregnant with my first and Zofran has become my best friend. Best wishes making it thru the horrible morning sickness and can’t wait to see pics of your beautiful baby soon
Your stranger friend,
Lisa from WV
Expat Mom says:
I hope it doesn’t last! I had normal morning sickness with all my pregnancies except this last one, when I vomited at least a couple times a day throughout the entire pregnancy. I was terrified that I would be puking on the surgical table! So things might be different this time. Fingers crossed!
Auntie_M says:
Oh Heather!!! I’ll be honest & say I had to look up hyperemesis gravidarum…good grief, bless your poor, sick, lil heart!!!! Did you get that ER nurse’s name? Just telling her you had HG should have been enough!!! She’s medically trained (unlike me–but at least I looked up the term!!! and after reading it, I’d have admitted you, STAT!!!)!!!
But oh!!!! That beautiful bouncing baby!!! At least you had that gorgeous ultrasound picture to look at while you shivered under the blankets hooked up to the IV!!! Maybe it’s all those acrobats that’s making you so sick! Nothing like a spinning top on the inside to make your stomache turn upside down!
Here’s to a health baby & the end of HG & no Gestational Diabetes!!!
xo
jeanne says:
Try the pedialyte ice pops or make your own with Gatorade!
willikat says:
That is the lowest, grossest feeling. You poor thing. I had terrible morning sickness, but not nearly as bad as what you describe. Maybe you have tried this, but I did acupuncture and it did a WORLD of difference for me. I felt results after the first treatment, but continuing to go really, really, really helped. In case it might help you!