Back in February, I got an email from a person who works for the TV show The Doctors asking me if I would be interested in talking to them about my hyperemesis gravidarum. I emailed back with answers to the questions, happy for the opportunity to help raise more awareness for HG. Then the producers called me and interviewed me, and after a few more phone calls they scheduled a film crew come to my house to film me, Mike, and even Annabel.
Luckily, on the day the crew arrived I was having a fairly good day, sickness-wise. The producer asked me a ton of questions, then interviewed Mike about being the partner to someone with HG. After all the questions, we were filmed playing with Annie, and they got some really cute shots of Annie talking to my belly.
When I thought they were done, the producer said, “Actually, we were hoping to get a few more shots…have you seen how we do reenactments on the show?” And I was like, “Oh, sure, okay.” Totally not even realizing what they would need reenacted.
It started innocently. “We’d like a shot of you eating and then putting the dish down and running to the bathroom.” Okay. Seems easy.
Then the producer was like, “I want to film you opening up the bathroom door and running in.”
…okay. Getting a little weird but fine.
Then he said, “How about you opening the toilet lid and bending over?”
Obviously this is where the rational part of my brain shut off. BECAUSE I DID IT.
I like that they put REENACTMENT in bold letters over the “vomiting” scene.
He had me film that over and over…and you know, when you have HG, you can only pretend to vomit so many times before you actually do it. That footage was hopefully burned.
What’s that photo? Oh, just me laying on the floor of my bathroom. As I am wont to do when a camera is at my house.
I am seriously reevaluating my life choices right here.
After the producer had enough footage (pretend and real) of me the crew left, and a few days later Mike, Annie, my mom, and I went to their studio to film a segment with the studio audience. It was cool getting professional hair and makeup done (I think Mike enjoyed his makeup application, too), and everyone that worked on the show was really nice. The producers were going back and forth about having Annabel be a part of the taping, and they decided at the last minute not to include her. She seemed bummed for like five seconds, so a producer told her she could have all the cookies she wanted from craft services, and she got over it real fast.
I’ve been to a few TV and talk show tapings (the perks of living in LA) but it was a different experience all together seeing it from the front row…and then seeing my lovely reenactments for the first time along with the entire audience. I pretty much wanted to melt right into my chair.
So maybe you’re thinking, “Heather, when is this comedy sketch going to air?” Well, it aired yesterday. I didn’t know it was airing until it already happened, but luckily The Doctors puts all their segments online. Watch and laugh:
And that is the beginning and end of my career as an actress.
Lilian says:
hahahaha, I just cracked up at both you and Mike’s faces while the female doctor was telling all the ‘wonderful’ things that could happen! I think you may have missed your calling, because your acting skills were very apparent both during the aforementioned segment, and the scene with you running to the bathroom to throw up and collapse on the floor! I’m still laughing now!
Kerry says:
I was amused at that part, too. Heather and Mike, you were great sports. It was kinda hard listening to the doctor going on and on, talking to you like you were a clueless first-time mom and hadn’t read a single pregnancy book or dealt with any complications. Make sure their OB keeps an eye on them…. Wow, awesome suggestion!
Colleen says:
What?! They cut Annie? They obviously no nothing about t.v. You do look good though!
Jenn says:
OMG – You’re so COOL!!! And you thought I only wanted to be your neighbour just b/c of LA weather!!! Ha ha
Caroline says:
Oh Heather! You are so wonderful to be so willing to help get more information out there about HG! You did a great job. I felt sorry for you during the reenactments. I even said, poor Heather! Then that Dr. listing every horrible thing that can happen. I know it is your reality, but really? Knowing what I do about your history,from this blog, it all made me cringe a little for you and Mike. Bottom line though, you were amazing on your “The Doctors” premier!!!
Stephanie says:
You look AMAZING! I’m 23 weeks and thought I was going to pass out listening to the doctor’s list of things that could go wrong but I guess you could tell her a thing or two about high risk pregnancies and how to cope. Great job!
Norma says:
You and Mike looked y’all were ready to run out of there screaming…oh my gosh! You did great and the whole family looked wonderful!
Lisa says:
Heather and Mike the super stars!! Yah’ll did great and Heather you look so thin for how far along you are.
Brooke says:
Shut the front door! You met Travis Stork! Did you at least tell him that looking at his abs would help the nausea subside?
Excellent segment!
Nellie says:
You make looking and feeling sick very glamorous! If they asked me to do a reenactment, I’d look like Scarlet O’Hara with the overboard dramatization. Great segment and you look killer gorgeous with your shiny red hair (my favorite caolor!) and beautiful dress! I think my favorite part though was watching your Annable pat and talk to her baby brother in your belly – utterly preciouis!
Melinda says:
I could see it in your eyes while she lectured on and on about the dangers of HG, you were thinking “DUH!”
I’ve had HG too and I have to say you were super brave to do this show, reenactments and all. Thank you for sharing info on HG so that others understand it isn’t just us being extra sensitive, it is truly awful.
twingles says:
As I was reading this I was thinking “How many times can she pretend to puke before she actually does?” LOL. Having suffered from HG with two pregnancies, I should not laugh, but this post was really funny. And I just want to say how impressed I am by the cleanliness of your bathroom. I know how important that is when your head is in the bowl all.day.long.
Amy says:
Oh my! Completely agree on the clean bathroom. I remember throwing up in the toilet…then throwing up more when I saw it was dirty…then throwing up more at the thought of cleaning it.
Becca Masters says:
I thought that you looked amazing, but then you know that already cause I told you yesterday!
Just think, not long to go now until you don’t have to puke 50 times a day!
Aubrie says:
I watched it! My husband was like “ummm why are you recording The Doctors?” I thought it was funny when she was telling you all that could happen and she told you to get a good OB. I told my husband that you probably know more about all that then both of the doctors on the stage. He loved the re-enactments, fyi. Haha.
Dianne says:
You looked gorgeous!
Ashley says:
Heather-thanks for continuing to share the message about HG. It’s a condition more people need to understand, especially for those of us who suffer from it. Awesome job-I loved it!
Steph says:
Yes, thanks for educating those of us who were lucky enough not to have experienced HG during our pregnancies. Before you explained the condition, I used to read your posts about feeling sick during pregnancy and not really have a clue to understanding the extent that it is debilitating. I can’t claim to truly know what it is like but at least I have a clue. And you looked beautiful the clip!
victoria says:
funny and serious. great job!
Heather says:
A friend of ours had HG during all 5 of her pregnancies. During two of them she participated in a McMaster Hospital study which found correlations between HG and children with higher levels of natural intelligence.
Probably doesn’t reassure you now, but maybe it’s a future silver living?
Kim says:
Great job you too — but it was hard not to laugh (just alittle) when the doc was listing the many things that could go wrong (but won’t) and they cut to you and your smiling and nodding!
Karen says:
You were awesome! I was very impressed and I think the “drama” of it all must seem worse to you than to all of us.
Great job, Momma!
Trisha says:
Was she trying to scare the Bejesus out of you or what? I think you did a great job with your acting skills and handled the audience segment with class.
I would have been like “Lady, tell me something I don’t know?” “Do you know who I am?” “I’m Dr. Google.”
I also liked how Travis interjected to soften all the negative Nancy stuff toward the end there.
Jeannine says:
That was awesome! I think you handled the whole thing incredibly well. Oh and by the way, holy jesus woman, you look amazing!
Krista says:
Hey Doc – way to freak out the pregnant lady! Sheesh!
You all looked great! And totally believable re-enactment.
Allison says:
Good job!! But nothing like her trying to scare the crap out of you!! Sheesh!!
Karla says:
Great job! You look fab (even though you don’t feel like it)!
I agree with the other commenters — funny how the doc was lecturing/scaring/reassuring you. You’re a freaking pro at this! You probably know more than she does.
Vera says:
You were awesome! That female doctor was kind of a nutjob, though.
Jennifer says:
That was bizarre. Watching you sit there while she lists all those horrible possibilities-does she know that you could have run the show yourself and talked about all the problems? Good Lord! Did she know anything about you????
You two looked a little freaked but maintained yourselves better than I could have.
Also Heather you look fabulous.
Erin W says:
AGREE! I was thinking the SAME. EXACT. THING!
Rebecca says:
Hey! At least your potty looks clean. And blue. We never turn our water blue. Ohh is it the ocean water? Yeah, just let me believe that one. One of the perks of living nearby the beach. Which reminds me, you really should do more beach photos. What a precious resource you have there.
Judy says:
you guys did great!!
Lisa says:
You all looked wonderful! Great segment!
JulieAnne says:
My friend had severe hyperemesis with her first pregnancy and was given a zofran pump (much like an insulin pump). I’ve heard of a few other women who had this condition, but none of them were given this option. It helped her a lot. I know very little but, I wonder if it would help more women?
Abby Leviss says:
Did she have ANY clue who she was talking to? Sheesh! You look BEAUTIFUL!
GreenInOC says:
Your reaction to your agreeableness to the reenactment reminded me of this anecdote from This American Life!:
http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/458/play-the-part?act=0#play
Erin W says:
LOVE IT! I’m an Hg survivor as well…and I have to say that when the lady was going over all of the potentially HORRIBLE things that could happen to you as a result, my anxiety was going through the roof! I’m glad she capped it off with ‘staying positive’. Sheesh! Definitely had a “good grief lady” moment! ;)Your acting is Oscar worthy!
Glenda says:
You look amazing! LOVE your hair! and Mike looks pretty dapper!
Courtney says:
Aw, you did a great job and you look beautiful!
Kate says:
You were fantastic!
The doctor on the other hand was so condescending. Like you haven’t lived with this condition for really years with all of your pregnancies combined. She should have been talking to the audience, not you.
Way to bring some good visibility to the topic!
Kelly says:
Thank you for sharing your story! That is so cool.
Your hair looked amazing! Love the color!
Snarky Mommy says:
You look so cute!
And I agree with others, WTH were they thinking sitting there telling you, of all people, all these bad things?! I would have been going “lalalala” in my head the whole time.
Mary says:
I agree with all the other comments! YOu look beatiful and you were also very gracious when the doctor kept lecturing you as if you didn’t have a clue what was going on. UGH.
Katherine says:
Love the bright blue toilet water! Awesome segment, and I loved how it looked like you were going to laugh when standing in the kitchen and pretending to need to puke.
Tami says:
Oh my gosh.I hated that I missed you guys on TV. Thanks for posting it on your web site. You do look great and I hope everything goes well for the three of you!!
Karen says:
You looked gorgeous..and on a complete random note..I gave the top the lady behind was wearing but mine is cobalt blue.
I’m sure the Dr knew that yu know all those scary things but was trying to educate the folks sitting at home who might not realize the dangers of HG and toxemia. I had a friend who was pg with twins and was so swollen and had no idea it could be a sign of something so serious. I forced her to call the Dr and sure enough she had to deliver the next day b/c of toxemia. As crazy as it sounds, some women just don’t know thses things.
PS Travis is HOOOOOT
Jeanie says:
Good job!
AngieM. says:
THIS is pretty fantastic!
can’t wait to see little mr. spohr.
Maggie says:
I love you and your family so much! When I first watched the video I felt like there was something off about Mike…then I realized what it is. That was the first time I’ve ever heard Mike’s real voice….he is usually always doing silly voices for the characters in the videos. Heather, you looked great at the show!
Lisa says:
That was awesome…I particularly like the scenes where you are laying on the floor. In all seriousness you did great!
Bella says:
I had the show on in the other room and in just listening not watching I kept thinking Heather would really be interested in this episode. Then it hit me – it was you on my T.V.!!!!!!!!
kakali says:
Heather,
I try to see “the doctors” when I am at home. I love this show and I was so glad that you were in that show! I liked the videos where they showed you, Annie and Mike. You looked so beautiful! If you don’t have any problem to share (you share so many things with your readers) please tell what you do to your face from morning till night? What are the products you use and how you take care of your face? You told that you used “clarisonic mia” but really wanted to know what are the other things you do. I have been following your log last 4 years and you always looked pretty but now you amazingly beautiful. Stay well
Kakali
Heather says:
Hi Kakali!
Thank you! Yes, I use the Clairsonic mia, and I wear sunscreen on my face every day. I just started using a night cream (Aveeno). But really, I am very lucky to have genetically good skin. I get the occasional deep blemish but I can’t complain!
Skye says:
Don’t sell yourself short- I think you have quite a promising career as a puke reenacter.
I’ve never watched this show before, but it seemed like they were treating you as if this were the first time you had sought medical advice about HG… bizarre.
Carrie G. says:
Holy Crap. She might as well have said, “Basically, you are going to die. If the puking doesn’t kill you, your body will swell up like a balloon and you will die.” Way to take everything she said with a smile and a nod. I couldn’t ever be that gracious.
MG says:
Oh wow…that is awesome. We don’t ever get approached for fun stuff like that in WI! Although there used to be busloads of people that went to daytime talk shows in Milwaukee and Chicago (and I heard Price is Right is in Milwaukee right now?!?), this is so much better! I LOVE the re-enactment and descriptions!
Allison says:
I haven’t watched the video yet, but this entry brought a much needed smile to my face today. Too funny!
Lauriesl says:
I LOVE that show and I used to watch it when I was on maternity leave. You look AMAZING, Heather, even during the re-enactments! Awesome job, both of you!
Tam. says:
Bravo!!! And your hair = Fabulous!
Ashley says:
Thank you for trying to get more information out there about HG. I just had my first baby in February and suffered from HG. I have 3 sisters who have had 7 children between the 3 of them and none of them have had it. I constantly had to hear how it was all in my head and I just had to suck it up and eat for the health of my baby. DUH! I am trying to eat, it was impossible to keep things down. Even after multiple trips to the ER for fluids and tests and Preterm labor at 31 weeks, I still had family tell me that their pregnancies weren’t like that. They told me maybe I was overreacting with my trips to the ER. I was mostly hurt that people thought I could control it and that it was my fault. It seemed as though they were telling me I was purposely trying to harm my child. It was not a fun experience at all and I am just so grateful that I have a beautiful and very healthy little girl.
Kristen says:
Very informative!! However I am not sure I could have kept a straight face during the reenactment scenes.
Christine says:
Nice work! But seriously, nothing like scaring the S**T out of you!
Auntie_M says:
“Here’s a bunch of crap to scare you…but I’m sure everything will be fine with you….” they say to a couple who could stand up and teach about all the ups and downs of pregnancy, HG, preeclampsia, premature birth & it’s effects, and much, much more.
I hope you send them a picture or video of The Acrobat when he is born so they can do a quick follow-up on the family.
I can see why they decided not to have Annie on with them: they know the rules of show biz–the child ALWAYS steals show and mugs the camera and HOW VERY TRUE that would have been with Annie!!
I for one loved your re-enactment acting…especially when you cover your smile with your hand as you “rush” to the bathroom. Frankly, I think they should have shown you doing the real vomiting–and spent more time on HG!!
Thank you, Spohrs, for more educating television!
PS-You looked beautiful on the set!