When Madeline was in the NICU, my Aunt Kathy sent her a card every day.
Kathy finished four weeks of full-brain radiation last week. She was incredibly weak, sleeping almost round the clock. The doctors remained optimistic.
Two days ago, Kathy watched a movie with her sister, my Aunt Terry. The next morning, she was in the hospital. And today, she’s gone.
She was only diagnosed six weeks ago.
We are all in shock. My mom is with her other sister, and my brother and cousin are with Mike, Annie and me.
I love my aunt so much. She’s always been such a supportive force in my life. I can’t believe she’s gone.
The only comfort I have is that someone my Maddie knows is now on the other side, and I hope they are together.
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I am so sorry, Heather. There are no words…sending you lots and lots and lots of hugs. ((((((Hugs)))))))
Love,
Erika
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I am so sorry. I am praying for your family.
Oh, my heart breaks for you. I am so sorry. I read your post when your aunt was first diagnosed. I cannot believe how quickly this all happened. My heart breaks for you. Have peace that she is with your dear Maddie.
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Heather,
I’m so sorry! My condolences go out to your whole family. Sending you lots of love and hugs.
I’m so so sorry for your loss. There are no words.
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I’m so very sorry, Heather. I hope they are together too, hugging and laughing.
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I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful aunt.
I am so sorry for the lost of your beloved Aunt Kathy.
Oh, Heather. I am so, so sorry for the loss of your beloved aunt. I am sending my love and prayers to you and your entire family.
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To Heather and the rest of your family,
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
I am so sorry.
I am so so sorry. There is nothing more that I can say. My thoughts are with you and your mother and aunt, as well as Kyle, Mike and Annie.
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I am so sorry. Thinking of all of you.
Heather, how terrible for you and your family. One more stranger sending hugs and kind thoughts.
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I’m so so sorry about the loss of your aunt. I read a lot of blogs, but have never commented. You are an amazing family who has already been through so much. I’m sending all of my prayers and well wishes towards your family
This kicked me in the stomach. She looks like she had such a wonderful spirit. What a lovely lady. My thoughts are with your family.
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It is truly inconceivable that your family could be asked to endure so much heartache and loss in such a short, short time span Heather. Inconceivable.
I know you know that I’m sorry – I am. So deeply, deeply sorry. All my thoughts are with your family in these dark hours.
“If I should go tomorrow
It would never be goodbye,
For I have left my heart with you,
So don’t you ever cry.
The love that’s deep within me,
Shall reach you from the stars,
You’ll feel it from the heavens,
And it will heal the scars.”
I’m so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Aunt Kathy. Her cards to Maddie are so special and loving, Kathy must have a beautiful soul. No doubt she is together with your precious Maddie.
There are no words. May you find comfort knowing we are all here thinking of you and your family. Hugs.
I am so sorry Heather, my thoughts are with you and your family.
Nelly x
Heather, I feel like someone just punched me in the stomach. I’m so so sorry for your loss. Sending love.
I’m so sorry Heather! She seems like such a vibrant woman and those cards…so touching. Your family has been through so much and I will keep you guys in my prayers. I hope Aunt Kathy is cradling Maddie right now!!
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I am so very sorry for your loss. Her and Madeline are together now. ((hugs))
You and your family are in my thoughts. I am so sorry about your aunt.
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I’m sorry, and I love you, and I love your mom and if there is anything any of you need ever, call. Always.
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I have no doubt they are together.
xxx
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They are together, count on it.
God bless you and your family. Thoughts and prayers.
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I lost my Aunt shortly after I lost my son, too.
My cousin said something so comforting to me & I thought I’d pass it along.
She is up there with Maddie cuddling with her & playing with her. She is not alone anymore & they are watching over you together.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
I am sure her and Maddie are enjoying one another again now.
They are definitely together.
So sorry for your loss.
this isnt fair. giant hugs from australia. xxxxx
Dear Heather,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you and your family. Please receive my deepest condolences.
Sincerely,
Lorena
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Oh, my gosh. I am so sorry for your loss. The only blessing is Maddie and your Aunt Kathy are most assuredly together right now, celebrating their reunion. My thoughts are with you and your family.
My heart is so heavy for you. The world is a better place because of the Aunt Kathy’s and because of people like you too Heather. Thank you for once again sharing with us how powerful love can be. To have touched someone’s life the way she obviously touched yours in the best legacy anyone can leave. I will always remember the legacy of Madeline and now the legacy of Aunt Kathy too.
I am so sorry Heather. So, so sorry. Praying for peace for you and your beautiful, kind family who don’t deserve this loss.
And of course my heart goes out to her sisters, husband and absolutely everyone affected by this tremendous loss.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Hug everyone.
Heather, I am so so sorry for your loss. Your family has been through so much and I can’t imagine your sorrow and exhaustion from it all. Huge hugs.
I am so very very sorry. I am sending love and hugs and prayers your way. I am sure Maddie welcomed her with open arms. She seemed like such a wonderful, caring and loving aunt.. Cherish all those cards, all the memories…
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I’m so sorry. How very sad.
I believe with all my heart that she is holding Maddie in her arms right now.
Hi Heather
My sincerest condolences to you and your family…
“..its obvious you are one tough cookie and are clearly meant to do great things in life..” how true your Aunt’s words are!
I am so sorry for yours and your entire family’s loss.
I am sure Maddie is being held in your aunts arms right now.
Bless you and your family.
Much love from Missy in Mississippi <3
I am so so sorry. I wish I could take some of your pain away. You and your family have had too much. My deepest condolences to all of you. XX
I am very sorry for your loss.
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Oh Heather, I am so, so sorry.
Heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May your beloved Aunt Kathy rest in peace.
Sending much love you & your family’s way. Please know how much all of you are in our hearts and how much we all wish we could do more.
So Sorry! (((((HUGS)))))
Oh Heather, I am so sorry for you loss. Sending you and your family love from the other side of the world.x
I’m sorry for your loss and for the world’s loss of a person as wonderful as your Aunt Kathy sounds. You just have to know the first thing she did was give Maddie a hug and say “Kiddo this one’s from your Mommy.” I know that’s what I’ll believe.
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My heart and my thoughts go out to you and your entire family, Heather. Your Aunt Kathy sounds like a wonderful, wonderful, lady, and I’ll truly believe that she’s up there watching over your little Maddie, too.
I’m so sorry for your loss. It has to be a little comforting knowing she is with Maddie and they’re watching over you and your family.
Heather,
I started reading your blog back in January right after Annie was born. Since then I have read religiously through everything and check daily Monday through Friday for new posts.
I have never commented until now.
You are so open and honest with all of us that I feel like I know you personally. Which is why it broke my heart to read the unfortunate news of your Aunt’s passing. My heart goes out to you and your family.
I am so very sorry for the loss of such an amazing woman who has always been such an enormous cheerleader for you, Mike, Maddie, and Annabelle.
Godspeed Aunt Kathy, Godspeed.
no doubt in my mind that she wrapped maddie in her arms, held her close, and told her how good it is to see her again.
i like to believe that time moves differently for those on the other side. that we are the ones who hurt and wait, but for them any moment they will turn around and we will be there. i believe maddie would somehow know her aunt was coming, and while those here will grieve for her and long to see her again, maddie clapped her hands when she knew, because she does get to see her again. and now they will never be apart.
and someday, it will be like that for everyone.
beautiful words…
I am so sorry Heather. She sounds like she was a wonderful woman and a loving aunt. Love to you all.
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Oh heather!! I am so sorry. I am literally sitting here with tears streaming down my face… Oh how I wish this didnt happen. What wonderful letter she wrote maddie moo… I have no words.. just that I am so so so sorry.
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As I began to read this post, I hoped it would not end the way that it did. I am so very sorry. Your aunt seemed to be beautiful inside and out. So caring and thoughtful. I’m sure she’s up in Heaven, cuddling Maddie, and watching over you all.
I’m so incredibly sorry! Sending lots of love and strenght to your family. I’m sure she’ll always be in your hearts and minds! >>>Hugs<<<
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I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Heather, Mike and Annie,
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was something that I can do today for you and your family. I am thinking of you all and especially Maddie and Kathy. I am so sorry.
I am sorry for your loss. Your aunt’s fun spirit shines through the first picture. The last picture, where she so obviously loves and takes great pride in your Maddie, is heartwarming. I am sorry for your loss on earth but hopeful that Maddie and your aunt are holding each other up and watching over your family.
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So sorry for your loss. I know how you feel, I have lost two very specials aunts over the past 4 years. My thoughts are with you and your family.
I am so sorry!
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They are together – I truly believe they are together. Very sorry for your loss. Will continue to keep evertyone in my prayers.
Oh Heather! I am so very sorry that you have lost your Aunt. I am sure that Maddie was waiting for her when she passed and they are both together looking down on you and your family.
sending lots of hugs your way. x
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I am so sorry
I’m so sorry for your loss and so sorry that it’s the second your family has had to bear in such a short space of time. So unfair.
I truly believe that Kathy is playing with Madeline right now.
All my love to you and yours, particularly your Aunt Kathy’s husband. xxx
I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. You’ll be in my prayers.
Oh Heather… I’m so sorry. I believe that Maddie was the one who greeted your aunt as she passed. Sending tons of prayers and love and hugs from NJ on this painful day.
Oh, Heather. I don’t know what to say other than I’m so sorry. Kathy seemed like an amazing person and I’m sure her and Maddie are somewhere together now, smiling upon you. I’ll be thinking about and praying for your family today.
So deeply sorry to hear this.
Sending much love at this terribly sad time.
xo
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I am sorry for your loss Heather. You and your family have been through soo much. Please know that many are thinking and praying for you. ((hugs))
Oh heather. Thinking of you.
Sorry to hear of youe loss. Thank you for sharing your aunt with us through your memories. Thoughts and Prayers go out to you and your family.
Jenn
Heather,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers even more today. I have no doubt in my mind that those two strong amazing people are together hugging and laughing. I love you Buchanan and sphor family!
I am so very sorry to hear this devastating news. My thoughts are with you all during this sad time.
Oh, Heather, my condolences go out to you and your family. Your Aunt Kathy sounds like such a special person. Hugs to you and your family.
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Oh, Heather, I am so sorry. I choked when I read this. My heart is with you, your mom, and all of your family.
You have her smile!! Almost identical! I know Maddie greeted her. From reading those cards I can only imagine the sweet things she is saying to Maddie right now, while I am sad for your loss, I am smiling just thinking abt that
I am so very sorry for your loss. I really do believe that Kathy and Maddie are together, and that Maddie may have been the first one to greet Kathy. I am sending tons of thoughts and prayers to your family at this very difficult time.
Incredibly sorry for your loss, H. Just think of the fun that she and Maddie are having-I bet there’s dancing and singing and tons of hugs and kisses! I can only imagine that as they get to know one another in the most heavenly way, they will experience joy beyond what we know. Sounds like Maddie has a special caretaker in heaven and your aunt has the love and happiness of being around sweet Maddie. Thinking of you.
Casie, your words express my thoughts exactly.
Heather, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Love and support to you and yours -
Heather, I am so sorry for your loss. I am thinking of your whole family and sending all the kove in my heart your way.
I’m so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you. My Uncle John went from a diagnosis of liver cancer to passing away in only 6 weeks and I know how shocking that can be.
Oh Heather, I am so sorry for your families loss. But, I am sure your Aunt and Maddie are running around and having grand adventures with God.
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You bet they are together! I am so sorry for your loss.
I’m sorry to hear this and am so sad for all of you left missing her. I am sure you are right about her and Maddie though — they are definately together.
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They are together! Happy, smiling, healthy and no doubt watching over you and your family.
Take care of each other and know that your family is in many prayers for peace and understanding.
Hugs!
What a beautifully, heartbreaking post. My thoughts, prayers and sorrow are with you and your family.
May the courage, love, devotion, faith and happiness your Aunt bestowed on her family and friends live on in your hearts FOREVER!
I’m so sorry for your loss… my heart breaks for your entire family.
Oh my gosh, Heather, I am so so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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So quick, so so sad! You are always in my thoughts.
I’m so, so sorry for the loss of your precious aunt…
Heather and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your Aunt. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
I am SO sorry for your loss. I do believe she and Maddie are together, and I hope that thought comforts you all in some way. Prayers for your entire family.
Oh Heather, I am so sorry. It is so hard to lose someone close to you. But it is nice to know someone gets to see Maddie and keep her company on the other side.
Sending prayers.
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Words fail. Please know that across the country people are holding you and your family in our thoughts.
Your Aunt Kathy seemed pretty stinking amazing.
I”m so sorry for your loss Heather…thinking of you all.
Heather
I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Yes, you Aunt and Maddie will be together.
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I am so sorry for your loss. My mom has three sisters and when one of them passed many years ago, I felt like I had lost a mother. Like many of the previous posters, I am also convinced Maddie and Aunt Kathy are together watching over all of you.
I can picture your Aunt Kathy scooping up Maddy in her arms and swinging her around in a giant hug….what a reunion it must have been!! Still, it is so painful to loose those we love. Her family and her friends are left to mourn a beautiful life and will miss her everyday. Peace and love to your family as you grieve your loss.
I am SO SO sorry, Heather. You are all in my prayers.
My mind reels to think of all you have been through in the last few years. I wish you nothing but the best. xoxo, ALexandra
So so so sorry Heather and family!!!! Another angel to watch over you, before you are ready!
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Oh, Heather, I’m so sorry for your loss. I remember your post regarding her diagnosis, doesn’t seem possible that she had just six weeks.
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Oh my goodness, Heather. I am so, so sorry.
I’m so, so, so sorry.
I am so sorry for you loss. It seemed like your Aunt Kathy had a heart of gold. I will continue to keep your family in my prayers.
Heather,
I follow your blog religiously and have never commented but I wanted to tell you how very sorry I am for your loss. In the past year I have lost 4 grandparents and my 18 year old brother in law and I can’t even imagine the type of pain you must be in. I’m so sorry. Your Aunt Kathy sounds like she was an amazing woman.
this just breaks my heart….how much loss can one family endure?
you are in my prayers.
I’m so sorry. I am sure she and Maddie are together. You are in my prayers.
i am so sorry for your loss.
I read your blog every day. My heart just breaks for your family. I know that your Aunt is taking great care of your sweet girl.
I am so sorry to hear about your family’s loss. Even in just reading her words to Maddie, her vibrance shines through.
I’m so sorry for your loss… I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
OH Heather I am so, so sorry. I am thinking of you all, your dear Aunt, and your darling Maddie.
Sending you love and strength.
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Heather, I am so, so sorry. I think your aunt and Maddie are somewhere taking good care of one another now.
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So sorry to hear about your aunt. Praying for you and your family.
Poor Aunt Kathy…how terrible. I am so sorry to hear that. I hope she is playing with Maddie today…and everyday!
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Oh Heather, that is absolutely terrible news. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I will be thinking of you and your family. There is no doubt that your Aunt Kathy and Maddie are hanging out together watching over the family during this difficult time.
Oh no. I am so sorry to hear your news. So, so, so sorry! Love and peace to you and yours.
Thoughts and prayers are with your family. I bet you Maddie met her with open arms and lots of kisses.
oh honey. I am so sorry. Maddie is well taken care of now that Aunt Kathy is there with her. I bet they’re hanging out, writing postcards to you guys to tell you that they’re ok and that they love you SO much.
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What an incredibly sweet and special person your aunt must have been writing all of those letters to Maddie. I am so sorry for your family’s loss. I bet she and Maddie are hugging and laughing together in heaven right now.
I’m so sorry. Those cards — what a special, caring and wonderful woman. They are together, somehow, somewhere. Love to you.
I’m so very sorry to hear of your loss. I once received a sympathy card that read that stars are the windows where our loved ones watch us from Heaven. So of course your Madeline and Aunt Kathy are together. Maddie has to show her where all the best stars are!
thinking about you and your family during this time.
peace,
jenna
I’m so sorry for your loss. Just think that now she is in heaven with Maddie, playing together and she is telling Maddie all about her little sister. Now you have two angels watching over you family.
God Bless your family, Heather.
I’m so sorry for your loss
Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
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God, Heather. I’m so sorry. I feel like such an idiot for sitting here crying bc I don’t even know Aunt Kathy.
She is with Maddie, there is no question about that.
i knew when there was nothing on twitter this morning that it couldn’t be good. i am so sorry to hear this. sending hugs your way.
I have been reading (and usually crying from your loss to tears of laughing at your Annabell movies) and I never wrote here before. I had a very close Aunt that also died of brain cancer, but unfortunately she suffered 6 long months. It is a blessing that your Aunt didn’t suffer too long as brain cancer can be very cruel. And you are right to know that your Aunt is with Maddie and she is enjoying holding her again. Try to be strong AGAIN and know the HE never gives us more than we can handle.
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
so sorry for your family’s loss. she seems like such a special lady…what a legacy of kindness and love and inspiration she left behind with those beautiful cards to maddie. i’ve no doubt they are together now…
wishing you comfort,
kristen
xo
So so sorry to hear about your Aunt. From your posts she was an amazing woman. Prayers for you and your family. I am sure Maddie is taking good care of her now.
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your aunt, an obviously wonderful woman. My deepest heartfelt sympathy to you and your family as well as Aunt Kathy’s family and friends.
Heather and Family
I am so so sorry for your loss. This happened so soon, I am sure you are all spinning. What a wonderful person, so thoughtful of you and Mike and Maddie with her cards.
Knowing she is with Maddie and they are hugging each other.
I am sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
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Oh, Heather. I am so terribly, terribly sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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I’m so sorry to hear this news today. Cancer has not been a good friend of family either. I was really hoping your Aunt Kathy was going to kick some cancer ass. Hugs all around to you guys today. I’ll be thinking of you all.
I am so so sorry. Im thinking of all of you taoday.
*hugs*
I am soooo sorry for your loss! I just lost my grandfather from a brain tumor in February that he was diagnosed with right before Christmas. You and your family are in my prayers! *HUGS*
Thoughts and prayers for all of you. So sorry Heather.
So hoping Aunt Kathy and Maddie are together again, waiting to see all of you again someday.
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss! I was hoping and praying your aunt would pull through. Take care!
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Think of your beautiful aunt Kathy and Madeline walking and playing together. She will care for Maddie until you can see her again.
So incredibly sorry about your aunt. But what a beautiful thought of her and Maddie being together
Prayers to your family during this time and always.
Heather – I am speechless. My heart breaks for you. You’ve been down so many tough roads and the loss of such a beautiful woman and amazing Aunt will not be any different. Just know that we are here for you and your whole family. Stay strong – just like your Aunt Kathy. And know that she is without a doubt cuddling Maddie and giving her all the hugs and kisses she’s missed since she’s been gone.
Oh Heather, I am so sorry for your loss.
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Oh, Heather, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. That picture of you aunt holding Maddie just made the tears flow, I imagine they are sharing a great big hug on the other side, and in the velvety black night sky a new star twinkles softly next to the one that appeared when Maddie left us.
Hugs to you and to your whole family. I’m so sorry.
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I Know they are together.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family during this difficult time.
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I am so very sorry for your loss.
So sorry, Heather.
My condolences go out to you and your family. What an amazing woman she was to be so supportive! I hope thinking of her with Maddie, on the other side together, will bring you comfort.
Heather and family:
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your aunt sounded like a wonderful woman.
I’m certain that she is with Maddie now looking after her and giving her all the kisses from you and Mike.
Hugs!
Heather–
I’ve been reading your blog for about a year or so, and I have been constantly amazed by your strength and truly admire your ability to put into words even the tiniest bit of the pain that you and Mike have experienced. I am finally delurking because, for the first time, I have a very personal connection to your reality that I think might be mildly interesting and possibly even a comfort to you.
My Auntie Nancy, one of my mom’s two sisters, my godmother, mother to my cousin who is the only sister I’ll ever have, and just one of the best people I know, started full brain radiation three days ago. She’s been fighting colon cancer for a few years now (after losing her husband to non-hodgkins lymphoma at 43), and on July 1 got word from her doctors that she was finally clean of the tumors that had popped up in the non-colon parts of her body. But on the morning of July 4 she got dizzy, and scans revealed that the cancer was not gone, just hiding in her brain.
I was on vacation with my mom & dad (and my husband and 4 month old son) that weekend, and we rushed back to the cottage to pack up and head back to the city, since she was going to have emergency brain surgery to remove one of the three tumors that was bleeding. I lack the talent to put into words how scared we all were, and how we knew we had to be there for her. She made it through surgery great, but there is a long road ahead. For the first time in her struggle with cancer she’s losing her hair, but at this point it doesn’t even phase her–she just wants to get well, but it gets harder and harder to stay strong in the face of this terrible disease. She is truly an inspiration, and I love her so much.
She doesn’t yet have grandkids, so my son is truly the light of her life these days, and I want more than anything for him to have her in his life for a long time. My heart aches for you because I don’t know how we’d all survive losing her (although I know, of course, that we would). I also know that sometimes people don’t understand how having an aunt in this situation can be so devastating to me…I find myself having to justify it more often than I’d like. She’s essentially my second mother (the third being my mom’s other sister).
So I just wanted you to know my story, for whatever it’s worth. I am so very sorry, and while I really do understand what you’re going through, I hope you’ll forgive me if I say that I hope that I don’t want to have to share it with you any time soon.
@victorinemeurent best wishes to your Aunt for a full recovery. I’ll hold a good thought for her.
Heather, I am so sorry for the loss of your aunt. I hope she and Maddie are together, too. Thinking of you all at this difficult time.
xoxo
Heather & family,
I am so sorry to hear about your Aunt Kathy. I remember you talking about her when Maddie was in the hospital and how wonderful her support was to you and Mike.
Know that I am thinking of her today too and wish you all peace in time.
Oh, Heather. My heart is with you, your mom and your family today. I’m so incredibly sorry.
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I’m so sorry, Heather. Just too much for one family to have to bear. It does seem like Kathy and Maddie had a strong connection from the start. I hope they are watching over you today and always.
I’m so sorry to hear about your aunt. I have been reading your blog for a while, and I feel like you and your family are part of my own family. You and your family are in my thoughts.
so sorry for your loss.
Heather,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure that your aunt and your Maddie are together again.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family–you have all endured way more than anyone should have to in such a short time.
You are right, though; take comfort in knowing that Aunt Kathy is with Maddie now, and the two of them are without pain. May they dance together until it is time for the rest of you to join them.
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I’m just so sad to hear this.. prayers and hope for some peace and comfort for your family during this time. I’m very, very sorry..
Your family is in my thoughts as you go through this horrible time.
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I am so sorry, my prayers are with your family!
I’m so sorry for your loss, and will be thinking of your family.
xoxo
heather, i am so sorry for your loss! know that i’m sending lots of hugs and prayers your way.
Oh I’m so sorry to hear that. Your Aunt Kathy seems like a beautiful person inside and out.
Oh, Heather, I’m so, so sorry. Your family will be in my heart and in thoughts. I hope you and your family are able to find comfort in each other.
Love and hugs.
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I believe they are together too.
Keeping your family in my prayers.
Midwest Mommy´s last [type] ..That Mom
Unbelievably sad. My sympathies to you and your family.
Dear Heather,
I am so sorry for your loss.
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
With much love, Angelica
I am so so so sorry to read this Heather! Lots of prayers for your family. I am one of 4 sisters and can’t imagine something happening to one of them. My heart breaks for your mom and your Aunt Terry.
Sheila
I am so very, very sorry Heather. I can’t imagine what a blow this must be to your family. Please know that I am thinking about everyone in your family today. You are all always in my thoughts.
(((extra hugs)))
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I’m so sorry for your tragic loss. I can’t imagine what your family must be going through.
I am so deeply sorry. Thinking of you all.
I am so very sorry about your aunt, Heather.
I’m glad that you imagine Aunt Kathy and Maddie together…I’m sure they are…and I hope it is of some comfort to you. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
I am so very sorry to read this. You Aunt was a lovely person and I know she will be missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Heather. I pray she is holding your Maddie right now.
Sending lots of virtual hugs,
Jocelyn in the STL
I’m so sorry Heather.
Sending my deepest sympathies, Heather…
Lynn from For Love or Funny´s last [type] ..How to stay fit
I am so for your loss. My heart goes out to all of you.
So sorry for your loss. She sounds like an amazing person, and we all need those people to surround us. Thoughts are with your family.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Those letters to Maddie were so sweet and show the what kind of person your aunt was. Sending you lots of hugs.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
Mandi Bone´s last [type] ..Why I showed my boobies
Oh, I am so sorry. What beautiful notes she wrote to Maddie and what a special person. I’m so sorry for you and your family.
Heather, I am so very sorry for your loss. I believe your aunt Kathy is now rocking Maddie and they are watching over you, Mike and Annie together. God bless.
Heather, I am so sorry about Kathy. My heart is breaking. I hope that you can take comfort in the fact that she is now playing with Maddie.
{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}
Soooo, sooooo sorry.
Sending all the {LOOOOVE} and ((((HUGS)))) i can to you and your family.
XOXO from GA,
Nikki
I am so sorry, Heather. Your Aunt Kathy sounds like such a wonderful, amazing person.
I’m so, so sorry for your loss. Aunt Kathy sounds like a great lady.
There are no words, but just know that people are thinking of you and your family and praying for you guys. I bet Maddie was so happy to see your aunt Kathy. They are looking down on you now giving you strength. Hugs
Oh Heather, I am so very sorry. Sometimes life is just ridiculously unfair, and profoundly sad.
I was thinking of Maddie, picturing the joy on her face when she saw your aunt. I see her little arms going wide, her face lighting up. I see them hugging and laughing.
The loss here is great, but the joy in heaven must have been staggering. What an amazing reunion it must have been. Your beautiful aunt has gone before to hold Maddie, love Maddie, and be her companion until you are reunited.
Thinking of you and your family.
I am so sorry Heather ((((HUGS))))
I am so very sorry for your loss. I am sending your family lots of prayers and hugs.
Nicole´s last [type] ..All is good in the world
they are together, i just know it…she and Maddie are holding each other…
i am so so sorry. i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Thinking of you and yours and praying. My goodness.
I think they’re together as well. And what a bright, blessed meeting that must have been.
Elizabeth @ Miss Wisabus´s last [type] ..Review – The Red Letters Project
Oh Heather, I am so sorry, this is so unfair. You are all in my thoughts and prayers <3
Oh my gosh. Words can’t express my feelings. I’m so so sorry. I too hope that Kathy is now holding Maddie, and they’re playing together, and happy.
Big hugs to all of you.
Mary @ Holy Mackerel´s last [type] ..The wisdom-filled post is coming- I promise
Thinking about you and your family today. <3
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Heather, I am so incredibly sorry for your and your family’s loss. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
I am very sorry Heather.
In that first photo, her spirit is obvious, contagious even, and it made me smile. Having read your blog when you posted about her diagnosis, I was afraid for what was coming and I am so, so sorry.
So sorry Heather.
I am so sorry… I don’t know what to say so I will just send lots of love and hugs. xoxoxoxoxo
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Dear Heather,
I have no doubt that your precious aunt celebrated her first day in heaven with my beloved Mom who just happened to turn 70 years young in heaven yesterday. I am hoping they had an awesome birthday celebration for Mom and that your aunt was able to join in the festivities free of pain and sadness as she held your Maddie. Please know my prayers are with all of you. We still haven’t “gotten over” losing Mom to cancer like so many people have told us to do and it’s been almost four years now. Just know you are in my thoughts as you grieve what surely must have been a very special angel in your life!
I’m so sorry for the loss of your aunt. She was obviously a very special lady and I know your family’s hearts are breaking. She and Maddie must be so happy to see each other again, though! I’m glad they are together but wish that all of you were together HERE. Hugs to all of you. ~Ginny
Dear Heather,
I am so, so, so sorry… You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sweet Maddie has somebody who loved her so deeply by her side.
A million hugs to you.
I’m so sorry Heather. Her cards to Maddie are so beautiful and kind, they made me tearful. I know she and Maddie will be having wonderful times together. My love to you and your family.
I am so sorry for your family’s loss. Aunt Kathy was obviously a very special person. Though they should both be here, now you have 2 guardian angels watching over you.
No words, just prayers and sympathy for you and your family!
I’m sorry. She seems like she was a very special, loving aunt. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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I’m so sorry, Heather & family. Please know that you’re in my thoughts & prayers.
freckleonthenose´s last [type] ..Butterscotch- Failure and Redemption
Heather,
I am so sad for you and your family! I know how much your Aunt meant to you. I am so sorry you are going through another unimaginable loss.
You all have my prayers!
(((HUGS))) from Florida
I’m sorry, but F**K cancer!
I’m crying. This just sucks. This is just wrong. Life is just WRONG sometimes.
Ms. Moon´s last [type] ..Those People To Whom The Aliens Talk Theyre On To Something
“F**K cancer!”
I completely agree. My mom died of gall bladder cancer nine weeks after she was diagnosed. So cancer can pretty much kiss my ass.
Lisa_in_WI´s last [type] ..Ginger the Goofball
Fuck cancer, indeed.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Heather. My thoughts are with you. She sounds like a wonderful lady.
i’m so sorry for your loss! xoxo
There are no words…..I’m so very sorry for your loss. Love to you all.
I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family today. <3
Hugs from NY
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Oh my goodness. I am so very very sorry. She is of course with Maddie. ((hugs)) my thoughts and prayers are for your family.
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my guess would be that maddie was the first person she sought out when she got there.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your aunt seemed like a wonderful person, you were very lucky to have such a great person in your lives.
I am so sorry, Heather. =(
Chantelle @ photo mommy´s last [type] ..Bump on a Log
xoxo
Love you all.
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I’m so sorry. I know only too well what a bitch brain cancer is…my aunt died of brain cancer in August of 2007.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kelly´s last [type] ..One Hundreth PostOne Hundred Thingamagigs About Monkey Soups Mama
Hugs, hugs, hugs. Wishing you all peace and comfort in the coming days, weeks, months. I believe that Kathy IS with Maddie right now, holding each other and laughing with joy.
I am so very sorry for your entire family’s loss. She sounds like an amazing woman, the letters to Maddie were gorgeous and inspiring.
OMG Heather I am so sorry. Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. I was so hoping she could beat this or at least fight it longer. At least Maddie has another strong lady up there taking care of her. That makes me sad that there goes another strong lady Annie will never get to fully know. Bless you all. Jennifer
Oh, Heather.
I’m so, so sorry for your incredible loss. Unfortunately I can empathize: My mother died of gall bladder cancer nine weeks after she was diagnosed. It’s a blessing of sorts for the loved one who is ill, because usually pain and suffering is at a minimum.
But it’s torture on those they leave behind, because there isn’t enough time — to say everything, to spend with them. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
*hugs*
Lisa_in_WI´s last [type] ..Ginger the Goofball
Heather, I’m so very, very sorry. I remember reading your post when she was diagnosed. Please accept my condolences for all your family. I’m sure Maddie is with her.
I am so sorry. Praying for you and your family.
Heather, Mike, Annie and family.. I’m so so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what it would be like to have such a wonderful aunt… I’m so shocked that this happened so soon. She and Maddie must be together now, trading kisses and stories.
So very sorry for your loss.
Oh Heather and Mike and Family,
Words cannot express the deep sympathy I have for your family. I am so so sorry for your loss. Take comfort in knowing Maddie probably welcomed her with that beautiful smile and a great big hug!
I am so sorry to hear about your aunts passing. My heart breaks for you and your family. I am sure she is up there now holding your sweet Maddie and watching you all from above.
((Hugs to all of you))
Love,
Kim
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh Heather! I’m SO sorry! My heart hurts for your family. Cancer is so ugly and so not fair. My prayers and thoughts to your family. Again, I’m SO sorry.
I am so sorry for your loss.
So very sorry for your loss, Heather. I’m thinking of you and the rest of your family. The picture of your Aunt Kathy & Maddie is precious and I picture them snuggling together right now.
Thoughts & prayers,
BMom
Heather, I feel such heartbreak for you and your family. I cannot imagine the pain that you are all feeling, but I have to tell you that I am also SO excited to know that your precious Maddie is the one that welcomed her to eternity! God could not have planned Aunt Kathy’s “Welcome Home” party any better! What a wonderful moment that must have been when the two of them were reunited! When you think of Maddie you now have the joy of knowing that Aunt Kathy is right there beside her having the best times ever!!!! Lots of love and hugs for you and your family!
Condolences on your loss.. My husband lost his best friend/mentor to cancer last fall after 6 weeks of the initial diagnosis. It’s amazing how fragile our lives are, how even the strong can become weak seemingly overnight. And 6 weeks isn’t even long enough to wrap your brain around the diagnosis, let alone the death. I am very sorry for your family’s loss.
I am so sorry, Heather. I can picture her like she is in the photo you posted today, holding Maddie!
I am so sorry for your loss!
crying at my desk this morning. this is all so incredibly unfair for you and your amazing family. sending you healing light and love.
I am so sorry. Thinking of you all, especially today.
Oh Heather–I’m so sorry.
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I am so sorry. Thinking of your family and sending love and support across the air.
I am so sorry for your loss. Lung cancer is a little bitch. A f#*!ing bitch. I hope your aunt was not in pain. My thoughts are with your entire family.
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Heather, I’m so sorry! I think it’s been covered there aren’t any of the right things to say, just know we’re sending love and prayers to your family.
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I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I’m so sorry Heather. For what it’s worth, I’m sure she and Maddie are having a heck of a good time together.
Gale @ Ten Dollar Thoughts´s last [type] ..Weekly Allowance and Blog-cation
Heather, I am so very, very sorry you lost your loving, wonderful Aunt Kathy.
((((Hug))))
I hold you and your family in my heart every day.
(((HUGS))) I’m so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry, Heather. I do believe that Maddie was waiting to welcome her Great-Aunt when she arrived!
I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
I’m so sad for you and your family. You have all been through way too much loss. I absolutely believe that she and Maddie are together. I have no doubt that cute little Maddie bounced right up to her and gave her a huge hug, and told her she’s been waiting for her. Sending love to all.
I am so sorry for your loss. I know it must be such a shock and such a heavy burden on your hearts. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of your family and I hope that she and Maddie are together. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Hugs from NC.
Kristen
This is terrible news. I feel heartbroken for you and your family. Sending positive thoughts your way….. xoxoxo
Heather,
You have been through so much in such a short time. I am sorry for your loss and I feel comfort as well that Maddy has your aunt Kathy now and Kathy is no longer in pain. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
My dad died a few years ago and the only spark of happiness was when I realized that my siblings who had already died (4 as children), were with their dad! I am glad Maddie has someone with her now. I have said a prayer for you and your family, I am so sorry.
I am so deeply sorry that your family is having to endure this pain, along with the others.
I know this doesn’t ease anything, but please know that the willingness with which you share your life story says such pure, perfect things about love. Love is beautifully expressed in your family (the picture of your aunt and uncle in the post you linked to is gorgeous); it is shared (the letters to Maddie are joyful and uplifting); it is enduring, even when the person is no longer present.
And you have love coming from all of us as well.
I just wish that were enough to take away the hurt.
All my thoughts are with your whole family.
Oh Heather, I am so sorry. Wishing your family peace and love right now. xoxo
Oh Heather–I am so so sorry for the loss of your Aunt Kathy!! I know how very important she was to you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, as usual. Im always thinking of you all, and praying for you. But now, it will be extra thinking and praying. Big big HUGS!
Oh no. Oh Heather, I’m so sorry for your family’s loss.
I hope she and Maddie are together too.
She seems like she was quite an amazing (and beautiful!) lady.
Oh Heather, my heart just aches for you and your family. I’m so sorry. Sending you all so much love.
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i’m so very sorry for your loss. i cried when i read this post. i don’t have much else to say except that i’m sorry and am thinking about you and your family in this exceedingly difficult time.
I am so sorry. She sounds like an incredible woman. I am sure that Maddie lit up with the biggest smile when she saw her aunt.
I’m so sorry to hear about your Aunt, Heather. You and your family have been through so much and it is heartbreaking to know that there is still more to endure. Know that we are thinking about you and praying for you and your family.
I should know better than to read posts like these at work. They always make me cry. I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. It IS a comforting thought to think that maybe Maddie and your Aunt are together somewhere…
Lessons in Life and Light´s last [type] ..Monthly Manifesto – July
Heather, I’m so sorry for your loss. Kathy sounds like an incredible woman and I’m glad she was in your life.
I have no wise words. Only that I do understand – I lost my grandmother to a similar cancer – and it breaks my heart for you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss, Heather. Your love for your family members is clearly evident. This is a heartbreaking loss for everyone in your family. You’re all in my thoughts and prayers.
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Oh, Heather. I am so so sorry. My thoughts go out to you and your family.
xoxo
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I am so, so sorry for you. Love to you, your mom, and your whole family. xoxoxo
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I’m so sorry Heather! I know your aunt meant the world to you.
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am crying for you all.
Capital Mom´s last [type] ..Marked
So sorry for your loss, Heather. May you all find comfort in each other and may your beautiful Aunt rest in eternal peace.
Heather,
You’re aunt sounds like she had a beautiful heart. I love the picture you posted at the top of this posting of her. You were so blessed to have someone like that in your life. I pray for healing for you and your family. I bet she is with Maddie in heaven.
I’m so sorry for your loss, my condolences go out to you and your whole family. Maddie and Aunt Kathy are keeping each other company now, they are both in great hands. Much love to you in this time of grief.
Your beautiful aunt is cuddling Maddie right now, wrapping her arms around that sweet body and telling her how much she is loved. Sending out prayers to you, I am so very very sorry.
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Heather I am so unbelievably sorry your family has again suffered such a devastating loss. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and I’ll be sending much love your way.
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Heather,
Sending love and hugs to you and your family. So incredibly sorry.
So very sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Heather, I’m so sorry.
This is such a sobering reminder of how quickly life can change.
I believe that your aunt and Maddie and snuggling right now.
Love you lady.
Maria´s last [type] ..Trajectories
Awe Heather.
Your Aunt sounds like she was such an incredible woman.
I’m so sorry that you and your family have to endure another devastating loss. It’s obvious that you are all such a close and loving bunch.
I’m sure that wherever they are, both your Aunt Kathy and Maddie are together again playing and cuddling.
Heather, there are no words that can fully express my thoughts. It seems so small, but I’m so sorry for your loss. Your Aunt Kathy sounds like an incredible person. Hugs to you and yours.
Kelly´s last [type] ..I Dont Know Much- But I Know I Love You
I’m so sorry Heather. My love to you and your family. xoxo
Heather, I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs.
Heather,
I am so very sorry for the loss you and your family have suffered. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
I am sure that your aunt and Maddie are together again cuddling, laughing, running about and watching over everyone they care about.
Heather, I am so sorry for your entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. But I must say it smiled when I read that now Maddie and Aunt Kathy are together.
Whitney´s last [type] ..Salt
My heart is broken for you guys. Much love, I’m nearby, let me know if I can do anything. Even bake an odd colored cake.
I hope they are together too.
LOVE YOU.
alimartell´s last [type] ..Camp Mommy Itinerary
Heather – I’m so so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kerri´s last [type] ..God Wont Give Us More Than We Can HandleRigh
thinking of you & your family ((hugs))
Domestic Extraordinaire´s last [type] ..Shes got some Keys to Safe Driving Now
I’m so sorry you lost your aunt. It sounds like she was a very kind and special woman.
Heather,
I am so sorry for your loss and hate that you have to endure more pain. From everything you have written about your Aunt Kathy, she seems like a pretty amazing (and fun) woman. I’m sure her and Maddie and together having a great time.
Thinking of you.
XOXO
Annie Y´s last [type] ..Wordless Wednesday
So very sorry for your loss.
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Heather,
My heart is breaking for you and your family. I’m so, so, so sorry for your loss.
There is no doubt that Maddie and your Aunt Kathy are looking down on you all.
Lots of love XoXo
I’m so sorry. My father was diagnosed with lung cancer when I was 18. He was gone in 3 months. The unexpectedness of it is a whole separate thing to deal with. I’m sure your Aunt Kathy and Maddie are together and looking out for you, Mike and Annabelle.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Oh no. I’m so sorry for your loss. She sounds like an amazing woman.
xxx
serenity´s last [type] ..Unconditional
I am so sorry for your loss! You look a lot like your aunt! May she never be forgotten!
Colleen´s last [type] ..The Many Faces of Jackson-Part 2
There are no words to comfort. But I do believe that just as the last picture shows of your Aunt Cathy holding Maddie, she is doing the same thing up in heaven now.
Believe in that and keep strong.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Your aunt sounds like an amazing woman. <3
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Faith….Hope….Love….Peace.
And your girl and your aunt, they are having a fine time together.
mythoughtsonthat´s last [type] ..One-Oh!
Oh, Heather. I’m just so sorry. So much love for you and your family. <3
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I cannot fathom the feelings of loss and pain you are going through right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your aunt, Madeline and your family today.
Peace to you and yours.
No one has the right words to say for such a loss. Just know that many of us are out here shedding tears for you today, supporting your family in any way we can, and sending you love from all over.
May you find comfort in grieving and may your family always remember the treasures that your aunt and your precious Maddie gave to this world.
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Heather, Mike, Annabelle and Rigby and the whole family….
So incredibly sorry for your loss.
I feel so bad for your mom and her sibling(s?) as well.
Such strength in your entire family..from you to your parents to your extended family. You are a huge reason why I find hope amid chaos.
I wish we could ease the pain for you. I hope these comments help. I am so very sorry.
I’m sure it is of little comfort since they aren’t with YOU, but I am positive they are together.
So sorry for you and your family.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss, Heather. She sounds like quite an amazing lady.
I too lost an aunt to cancer, just a few weeks ago. Even when you’re prepared, it’s not easy. I’ll definitely be praying for you and your family.
God bless.
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I am so very, very sorry for all of you loss.
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss
I am so sorry.
My heart goes out to you and your family during this sad time. Maddie most certainly greeted your Aunt Kathy at the gates, and the two of them are probably laughing and getting into trouble.
Keeping you all in my prayers – Julie
My heart breaks for you all. You have endured so much. Nothing will make this any easier… but I hope you can feel the the love and care of so many people. Keep holding on!
I am so very sorry for your family. Only time and the good memories will make it better – my dad lost two sisters this year and my generation lost two aunts. As I am sure you know – enjoy the memories.
I am so sorry for your loss and pain. These are words I wish you never had to hear once, let alone twice in less than two years.
Sending you a million hugs from NC.
Heather –
Good morning. I am sharing tears with you and your family today. I am truly sorry for the loss of your dear Aunt. She seemed like a beautiful and loving soul. Please know that I am thinking about you all.
Of course they are together.
I am so sorry for your family’s loss. From her letters to Maddie, I can tell she was a wonderful woman.
I’m so, so sorry.
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So very sorry to hear that such an amazing person was taken from you and your family so suddenly. Your Aunt Kathy seems like she was one in a million with all the amazing letters she sent to Maddie.
Maddie is so lucky to have such a wonderful aunt joining her in heaven. I am sure they are playing and hugging and dancing away up there!
Thinking of you all today.
Meg´s last [type] ..Beach
I am so sorry for your families loss, even when you know or suspect it’s coming, it still is a punch in the gut.
And I think for sure she is now with Maddie having a great time.
Lots of love,
Melissa
Heather & Family: I am so very sorry for the loss of your Aunt Kathy. What a shock, indeed. Know she is holding your sweet Maddie and cuddling her for you and Mike. Prayers for peace and comfort to all of you.
I’m so sorry Heather. Your family is in my prayers.
I’m sorry for the loss to your family. You are all in my prayers.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you…
Dear Heather,
My condolences to you, Mike, Annie, and your entire family for the loss of Aunt Kathy. I am sure Maddie and Kathy are together sending all of you love and strength for the days ahead.
I hope they are together too. I am so sorry for your loss.
Oh Heather.
I am so very sorry for your loss. I’m so sorry she had to endure so much before she left. It isn’t fair.
What a wonderful, caring person she was to send Maddie a letter every day.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
I’m actually crying while reading this at work.
Which is just crazy – I never met your Aunt Kathy. I’ve never seen her from across the street or sat next to her at a lecture. I don’t even Internet-know her. A single post, about her sending Maddie cards, is Aunt Kathy’s only entrance into my life.
I’d read that post. And I’d been in awe of her – I can barely send out letters to loved ones once a year. And that includes emails. Yet, when she knew she could do something to make your and Maddie’s life better, she did.
I’d read that post and made a wish that Aunt Kathy would pull through, that’d she survive to shower her innate kindness for many more years.
Then I moved on – onto other blogs, other sites, other things in my real life pulling at my attention.
Yet as I read today’s post, I realized I hadn’t moved on as much as I’d thought. Aunt Kathy had taken up a small place inside of me.
I hope that it’ll help me be a little bit more like her.
Dear Heather,
It’s so sad to come to your wonderful blog and read this heart-breaking news.
I am sure, as so many other people, that your dear aunt is now in a wonderful place with sweet little Maddie. Now you have one more angel to look over you. Don’t forget that one day, you’ll see them again <3 even if you have to wait what seems like an eternity… that's the hard part about being human. But hold on to that thought, it'll help in difficult times
Love,
Marcela
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i’m so sorry heather. my thoughts are with you. I hope she and maddie are hugging, somewhere, just like in that picture. hugs xo
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I feel the same as Megan (330).
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Heather.
I’m so, so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you, but it’s comforting to think she’s found Maddie and is with her right now.
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I am so sorry.
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What a beautiful person, inside and out. My condolences on this deep loss.
I am so so sorry. I totally believe she is up there with Maddie right now.
*hugs*
Life can be so hard.
I’m very sorry for the loss of your Auntie. I know that she and Maddie are together laughing about everything that Ms. Annie is doing.
Oh Heather, I’m so sorry. I can only imagine her aunt running towards little Maddie and giving her a huge hug for you and Mike.
My heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry.
Tiffany´s last [type] ..Dear Mama
Heather, Mike, Annabel and family: So sorry for the loss of your Aunt. Thinking of all of you and sending prayers. I’m sure your Aunt and Maddie are together. XX
I’m very sorry for your loss of such an amazing person in your life.
Keeping you and your family in my prayers during this difficult time with the loss of your Aunt. It seems you just posted about her being ill, another reason to live life as if each day were your last.
When I read the heading for your post and saw your aunt’s picture I was in disbelief. I was hoping that it was just a post just talking about your wonderful aunt and nothing else. I thought to myself, not yet, not to this wonderful family. However, as I read further my heart broke for you and your family. I know everyone is saying I am sorry and I am adding mine to the list. I am just speechless right now.
I do agree with you though, she is right up there with Maddie. I bet the first thing she did when she got there was give Maddie a big hug. Okay, here come the tears.
Take care Heather. You and your amazing family.
Heather, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family and my thoughts are the same as yours – Maddie has a loving great aunt with her now.
Oh, Heather. I am so very very sorry. I hope they’ve found each other.
Love you lots, my friend. If you need anything, please let me know.
xo
I have tears in my eyes for you and your family. I’m so sorry.
I grew up in San Jose/Cupertino area.
I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I hope so too. Thinking of you and your family.
Alicia´s last [type] ..Brad’s Words Upon Seeing This Photo
I am so sorry for your family’s loss, Heather. I have a special aunt too, and I love her like my own mother. This is heartbreaking. But just imagine how breathtakingly joyous was Aunt Kathy and Maddie’s reunion.
I’m so sorry ! Sending you lots of love and hugs!!
Oh No! Oh Heather, I’m so sorry to hear the news. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
As I sit here in tears for you and your family (again), just wanted you to know that there are so many of us out here who care. All I can think about is her holding your beautiful Maddie right now. I hope that brings just a little comfort. I am so sorry…
Heather,
I am so Sorry for your loss, Please take comfort in knowing that her and Maddie are together and are both watching over you, Mike and Annie. Right now the pain is Raw and hurts and I cant say it will be better soon, but each day the sun will shine a bit brighter, the wind will blow a bit softer, and the flowers will bloom a bit more, that is your aunt and Maddie showing you they are OK.
My thoughts and Prayers are with yo and your family at this difficult time.
Oh, I am so sorry about your dear Aunt! Hugs…
I imagine they are together, cuddling again. I’m so sorry for you and your entire family.
Words escape me, tears fall from my eyes, I am sad beyond the stars for a friend I never met but fell in love with. My only solace? Maddie waiting at the gates with her huge smile, arms wide open to be picked up. With a giggle she wraps her arms tightly around aunt Kathy’s neck and welcomes her with a great, BIG kiss!!!
Share by so many angels in the past months but now, she has her very own who loves her with all of her being with her own fabulous smile and contagious laughter. Together forever they’ll be until they visit the gate again and welcome another one they love so much!!!!
With Sadness, Sympathy and a Supportive Cyber Hug!
Your Friend,
Jenn xoxo
P.S. Please extend my sympathy to your cousin, mom, Kathy’s husband and EVERYONE who was lucky enough to be touched by her grace, and loved her,
I am so sorry for your loss. SAM
To be loved so much–what a wonderful testament to a life! Extra hugs & prayers your way.
So so very sorry. Maddie has her own personal guardian now.
Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing]´s last [type] ..I want you to love him like I love him Almost
I am very sorry for the great loss to your family.
I am so sorry. Crying tears for your aunt. It’s simply not fair.
Carrie
I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts & prayers.
Oh Heather, i just got chills reading this. My thoughts are always with you and your family. Maddie and your aunt will have lots of fun together where ever they are, and least you know that they are not alone.
Big hugs!
I am so sorry for your loss Heather. Your aunt seems like a great, great women… xoxox
I’m so sorry for your loss – you and your extended family are in my prayers.
I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your family. We should all be so lucky to have such an incredible, caring, and awesome Aunt. You were very blesses to enjoy her special love.
She and Maddie are together watching over you, Mike, and Annabel.
xoxoxo
Hillary´s last [type] ..just a real quick one
oh, heather. i’m so sorry. i don’t have words. i have two very supportive aunts, and i can only imagine what you’re going through.
sending you good thoughts and wishing you moments of peace.
Yo is Me´s last [type] ..hi
i am so sorry you have lost such a special person in your life (again), 6 weeks, so short.
What a special special aunt. I am sure that right now she is holding Maddie, just like in that picture. I hope that it gives you a little comfort. So sorry for you to have to deal with more grief. Sending you hugs. I will light a candle for her today. Rachel
What a shock. I am so sorry for your loss. Take care.
Elizabeth´s last [type] ..Sweet dreams
I’m so sorry. May you have peace, strength, and love as you go through this difficult time.
I firmly believe that the two of them are up there in Heavens Garden playing together.
lots of hugs to you all
aimee
This is shocking and devastating. I am so sorry, Heather. I can’t imagine how you must be feeling. I wish I could make sense of your life for you, and give you reasons why everything happens.
I am thinking about you.
I lost my best friend to cancer a year ago. She passed suddenly…only 16 days after being told she had terminal cancer. Way too short of a time to prepare…so unexpected. No room for hope. So sorry for your families’ loss…I’m sure Maddie greeted your aunt with hugs, kisses & smiles!
I’m sorry to hear that
You look just like her! thinking of you and your family.
Heather, I’m so sorry. Thinking of you and your family during this sad time.
Laura´s last [type] ..All Evil
I’m so sorry for your loss.
statia´s last [type] ..The one where I totally anthropomorphize cows
I’m so sorry. Thoughts are with you and your family.
Oh, I’m so sorry. Many hugs.
Steph
Adventures In Babywearing´s last [type] ..noir et blanc
I’m so sorry for your loss. Keeping your you and yours in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time.
Heather, I am so sorry. She went so quickly I feel like I just read your post about her illness yesterday. Keeping you and your family in my prayers. I am glad that Maddie has her, your aunt will give her all your love. ((HUGS))
Debby´s last [type] ..KETCHUP CATCH-UP THAT IS!
I’m so sorry…my aunt died today too…
Heather,
Once again I cry for you and your family–a group of people I’ve never met. You, Mike, Maddie and Annie are in my thoughts every day and since reading of your aunt’s diagnosis she has been added to the list. May the thought of many, many strangers praying and sending you all their love bring you even a small amount of peace.
wow that’s so quick. I can’t imagine what you and your family are going through. You are all in my thoughts & prayers.
Jen´s last [type] ..You Capture- black and white
Heather,
I’m so sorry. Too much pain.
Omigosh, I’ve been gone from blog reading for a week and I was just wondering about her as I clicked into your blog. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope it brings you some comfort to know she and Maddie are laughing and singing and playing together right now….
Oh Heather…I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. I was just wondering the other day when you would update us on your beloved Aunt….this was certainly NOT the update I was hoping you’d have to make.
My sincere sympathies to you and your family.
Oh Heather, I’m so sorry for you and your family.
But you’re so right. She’s on the other side and I know in my heart there was a joyous reunion.
Hang in there.
So, so sorry.
Lauren´s last [type] ..Im baaaaaaaaaaaaaaack!!!
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh Heather… I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Its not fair, so not fair.
In the picture of her holding Maddie I see lots of ORBS floating… some people believe they are “angels” captured on camera, I think they knew those two would be eternal friends together and were dancing around them when they were together on earth.
HUGS and even more love than before being sent to you.
Zandi
Oh Heather, I’m so so sorry.
Oh I am so sorry to hear this. Please just remember that she is now with your Maddie and they are having a grand time. Maddie will show her the ropes up there! Bless you and your family.
what a great tribute, but so sad and beautiful. your aunt sounds like an admirable soul. you can take comfort in the fact that she will be there with maddie.
Love you. XOXO
Kim´s last [type] ..Sixteen
Oh Heather, I am soo sorry for you, your mom and your Aunts.
I love to think that when she got up there, she ran right over to Maddie and hugged each other tightly. It is comforting to know that Maddie has your Aunt with her.
Again, so very sorry.
Jenn´s last [type] ..Daddys Boy
So very sorry. Wish there was more I could say. XOXO
punkinmama´s last [type] ..return to the dentist
I’m sorry for your loss. It’s sad that someone so vibrant can go so quickly. I experienced something similar with my Great Uncle, who seemed to be getting better and was suddenly gone. Family gatherings are so quiet without him.
While it’s sad, I can’t help but be a little happy that Maddie has someone with her that loved her so much. The next time you see a purple sky, her Great Aunt Kathy will have helped her make it for you.
Amanda M.´s last [type] ..Sims 3- Portrait of a Princess
I am so sorry Heather. Tears flow as I read this. I hope that Kathy has Maddie in her arms right now. Hugs.
Jenni Williams´s last [type] ..The Roller Coaster
Oh Heather…I have no words….please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Susan´s last [type] ..Fun Fact Friday
I’m so sorry about your aunt. It is beautiful to know that she is with Maddie now, that must have been the happiest of reunions.
Sympathy, hugs and prayers for you and your family. Loss like this is just heartbreaking.
Maddie and your Aunt Kathy are definitely together. I’m sure Maddie was there waiting for her and Kathy has been covering her in kisses and hugs from everyone still here on earth that loves Maddie. While I know you’d understandably rather have them both right beside you physically, I hope you get some comfort in knowing that they are right there with you as guardian angels to you, Mike and Annie.
prayers for you and your famly
sarah´s last [type] ..wordless wednesday with linky
Can I just say that I see so much resemblance between you and your Aunt in that first picture…both beautiful. I know she will live forever in your heart and you will be able to tell sweet Annie how much fun she and Maddie must be having together. Many prayers sent up for all you guys.
Jaynah´s last [type] ..Half a Decade Away
I’m so incredibly sorry for the loss of your Aunt Kathy.
Praying for you and your family. ((Hugs))
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss, but overjoyed that Madeline was there to greet her auntie.
I’m so very sorry for your family’s loss. My thoughts and prayers are always with you. Please give your mom an extra hug for me.
Love,
Karri
PS. Your title reminded me of these song lyrics….
All the stars have fallen
from the sky
and everything else in between
satelites have closed their eyes, the moon
has gone to sleep.
That is what she is doing, holding Maddie. May they be together forever in heaven. lots of hugs with love.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Mama Fuss´s last [type] ..Sick Kid
Just so sorry Heather. My prayers are with you and your family today.
xoxo
Heather,
I cannot believe it! So incredibly fast.
I am so sorry, for you, for husband, for her sisters, for the rest of your family. It’s unbelievable. Looking at the photo of her holding your little girl made a picture appear in my mind, of her, holding your little girl again. Could it be? I don’t know. I like to think so.
I’m so sorry.
Sirena´s last [type] ..Independence Day
God Heather, I’m so sorry for your loss. Many prayers for you and your family…
Karen´s last [type] ..Cake
I am so, so sorry for your loss.
Amanda´s last [type] ..Cookie Monster
I’m so sorry…I’ve thought about her often since you blogged about her diagnosis. I’m sure she was happy to give Maddie a big hug when they saw eachother again! Thinking of you and your family and everyone that loved her!
My heart is heavy for you and your wonderful family.
xoxo
Nanette´s last [type] ..Stuff
I am so sorry Heather! I lost my Dad in 2007 to lung cancer and I know how painful this is for your family. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I’m so sorry. My heart breaks for you and your family. I’m sure words are of little comfort, but I hope that the family you have around you provide pieces of joy amidst your grief.
Heather@Triple Blessing´s last [type] ..What was I gonna say
I am so sorry for your loss. She sounds like an amazing woman, sister and auntie. Your family seems to be full of extraordinary women.
Love and hugs to all. You will continue to be in my prayers.
I am truly so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Aunt. I lost my dad to lung cancer at the age of 57. Just know that even if we don’t know each other that I’m sending prayers up for you and your family.
I am so sorry for you loss
My thoughts are with you and your family.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Lots of love from our family to yours.
Jessica Seuss´s last [type] ..STILETTO
I am so sorry, Heather!
Diane´s last [type] ..Blog writing is hard
I’m so sorry for your loss Heather. I’m thinking about you and your family
Jessi´s last [type] ..BEWB FEST
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll never get used to the fact that life can change in the blink of an eye, so unexpectedly. Wow…sending you hugs because I have no words. I can’t really even imagine the grief you must be feeling. Sad for you, your Mom and the rest of your family. Your poor Uncle must be heartbroken, too. My sympathy goes out to all of you.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Becky Mochaface´s last [type] ..You have a beautiful face
My thoughts are with you and your family. Heaven has the most beautiful people.
I am so very sorry. Blessings and prayers to all of you.
mrschaos´s last [type] ..Learn Something
I’m so sorry.
Oh honey, I’m so sorry. For you and your entire family. She had Maddie waving to her from the other side. I know wherever they are, they are most definitely together today.
Huge hugs Heather.
Issa´s last [type] ..My two year blogiversary
Oh my goodness, honey, do you feel the love that is surrounding you and your family? Each note on this post represents another soul that is holding you all close during this difficult time. Take solace in the fact that you have indeed impacted countless others with your wisdom and willingness to share your life. And by your words and the way you courageously live, the heart and love of your sweet Maddie and beloved Aunt Kathy continue on through you.
Their souls were ready to move from this lifetime and the pain only remains with those left behind. Joy is all they now know and they are sharing that joy with each other and shining it down you each of you knowing that one day, you will feel it again too.
Peace to you all …
Oh my gosh Heather! I am so sorry! I didn’t see this post going that way…I honestly thought it was just an update.
I AM SO SORRY…there are no other words.
Like you said though…Maddie and her will take good care of each other.
(((((((HUGS FOR ALL OF YOU)))))))))
Joie´s last [type] ..Rainbows and Tinkerbell Toesand meds
What a kind soul. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Fairly Odd Mother´s last [type] ..Hope
I am truly sorry to hear about your aunt. Thinking of you and your loved ones….
I am so sorry. You and your family have my heartfelt condolences.
I read a blog post several years ago that likened the afterlife to the International Arrivals gate at the airport. The reunions that happen are so heartwarming.
I imagine Maddie waiting, maybe holding a balloon, and jumping up and down squealing the second she sees Aunt Kathy.
What a terrible loss for you, your mom and the rest of your family. But what a gift for Maddie. Thinking good thoughts for all of you.
I have always been a lurker, but I just had to comment today. I am sorry for your loss. Just know that many people around the world have you in their prayers and their thoughts.
My Thoughts´s last [type] ..A little about me
And heaven has just earned another beautiful angel. Thinking of you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Oh Heather, I am so sorry to hear your sad news. I’m sure it’s a joyous reunion for Maddie and your aunt, but I know you’re all mourning the loss here on earth. You will all be in our prayers.
Carrie Y´s last [type] ..A great charity and an easy way to help
Heather I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. Please take some comfort in the fact that you bring a smile to the faces of innumerable people each day with your writings. Your aunt’s love and way with words lives on through you.
I’m crying now reading this. I know I don’t know you, but I am so, so very sorry for your loss.
Nina´s last [type] ..Plastic Shoes – Yay or Nay
Oh, no….what a terrible, terrible loss for your family
I am so sorry, Heather. I know you will miss her. She was a wonderful light in your lives. Now she can shine in Heaven and be a light for Maddie, once again. I have no doubt they are together.
Katrina´s last [type] ..Another Birthday!
Fuck, Heather. Fuck. I’m so sorry.
Dona nobis pacem. Give us peace, give us peace. I’m so very sorry. My heart is breaking all over again. She was a wonderful woman and I just know she is holding Miss Maddie now and they are laughing.
I have no doubt they are together and taking very good care of each other. My heart goes out to all of you.
adequatemom´s last [type] ..Wordless Wednesday- Busy
I’m so sorry for your loss, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. I know your Aunt Kathy and Maddie are together again laughing and snuggling, and Aunt Kathy is telling Maddie all about her wonderful little sister.
I am so sorry. My heart aches for you and your family
sensibly sassy´s last [type] ..Blast From The Past
Heather,
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mother in April to brain cancer, and like your Aunt Kathy she went very quickly. Take comfort knowing that Maddie and your Aunt Kathy are together watching you.
Heather, I am so sorry for your loss. It’s always a tragedy to lose some one we love so much. I am confident that Your Aunt Kathy is now in Heaven and is together with Maddie watching over you, Mike, and her baby sister Annabel.
I’m SO sorry to read this Heather. My thoughts are with you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. She is with Maddie, loving her up and taking care of her. Thinking of you and your family.
I don’t know when I’ll stop reading your beautiful posts at work, I get teared up and can’t answer the phone for a minute. I’m sorry your aunt passed.
So sorry for your family’s loss Heather. Now you have another guardian angel looking out for you. I hope her and Maddie are together again.
I’m so sorry… I’m sure Maddie’s glad to see her, though and I’m sure your Aunt is giving her a lot of hugs. (hugs)
I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your aunt. From your posts it is apparent what a huge force she is in your life and how much you love her. I know that there are no words to truly ease your heartache. Just know you have thousands of faithful followers holding you up in their thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Sheridan
Praying for her on her way to heaven and for all of her family and extended family, and friends.
Rebecca´s last [type] ..Things Always Change
I am so sorry Heather. I am sure your aunt is with Maddie now and smothering her with hugs and kisses. I will be praying for you and your family.
The Suburban Housewife´s last [type] ..Life in Coach
I’m so very, very sorry for your loss.
Becky´s last [type] ..WiW- Week 16
Oh, Heather, I am so sorry. It’s clear your Aunt Kathy was a wonderful woman, so full of love for her family.
It happened so fast, I can’t imagine what your family is going through. I have you in my heart (as always).
xoox
Last Girl Standing´s last [type] ..Biker Chic
Heather,
I am sorry for your loss, but I’m happy for Maddie. As much as everyone in heaven must love her, and dote on her, and play and cuddle with her, and brush her beautiful curls, and tickle her curled up toes, I know that it will make her feel so much better to be with someone she knows and loves. Don’t think of this situation badly, just know that your aunt will be much happier and more comfortable from now on. Just think! Being in heaven with Maddie must be exponentially better than dealing with sickness on earth.
Brightest blessings and warm wishes,
Andrea
Andrea´s last [type] ..Rainbow Pico De Gallo
my thoughts are with your family… so sorry for your loss.
Oh Heather, I am so sorry. Your family has been through far too much already to have this happen. I hope there is some small solace in that now she is playing with and teaching your Maddie. A big consoling hug from me to you and your mom and the rest of your family.
I am so very sorry that your family is facing another devastating loss. I’m glad that you can take comfort knowing that she and your Maddie are together. I will keep your family in my prayers in the upcoming weeks and months.
Oh Heather, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort in knowing her and Maddie are reunited.
Hugs to you <3
jen´s last [type] ..one more
I too am very sorry Heather. I love the last picture of your Aunt Kathy cuddling Maddie. I am certain that right now, your Aunt Kathy is cuddling Maddie in Heaven. She also is cuddling all the other millions of kids that are there – aborted babies, stillbirths, NICU deaths, etc, etc. Heaven must be a huge place for all those babies.
Still, I am very sorry for your loss. I too will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. It’s been very stormy in my area in Michigan, perhaps the angels are crying.
Thinking of you and your family in this time of renewed raw grief. Sending love to all of you.
Oh Honey, I am so very sorry. Sending you and the fam lots of love, hugs, strength and support. This sucks. xoxoxoxoxo
So sorry about your loss. I am sure Maddie met your Aunt Kathy and brought her great comfort.
I’m very sorry for your loss and your family is in my thoughts !
Michelle´s last [type] ..A Great Weekend !!
Sending you love. So sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss Heather. I am thinking about you and your family.
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That picture up top is remarkable. How great are those letters to Maddie? Love it. So sorry for your family’s loss. This is not something you should have so much experience with. May you find comfort in her memory and the thought of she and Maddie toegther. Hang in there.
Catherine´s last [type] ..Giddy up!
I am so heartbroken for you. There are no words so I am sorry is all I can offer. I imagine Maddie and your aunt holding hands on the other side sharing stories and laughing together.
Oh, sweetie. I am so sorry for your loss. *hugs*
I am so sorry to hear this very sad news. My condolences to you and yours and everyone who knew and loved her. She sounded like a wonderful, caring and loving person. I bet she is holding Maddie now.
Take care.
So sorry to hear your sad news. Prayers for you and your family.
Elizabeth McCarthy´s last [type] ..Conversations at my house
Maddie and Kathy, two incredible spirits who inspired multitudes in their too-short time on earth. Most people don’t accomplish that with long lifetimes.
That doesn’t make it any less fucking unfair.
Heather,
We are so sorry for your loss. After seeing the last picture on the post all I could think of was aunt Kathy running after Maddie in heaven…they are together now.
We’ll keep you in our thoughts.
So sorry and thinking of you and your family. She sounds like she was an amazing person.
Oh Honey they are soooo together and having a great time! So sorry for your loss.
LibraryGirl62´s last [type] ..Dead Mans Float
Heather,
I am so sorry that your dear Aunt Kathy has passed away, it is just terrible news. But seeing that picture of her holding Maddie–all I could think was that somewhere, up there, she is there with Maddie.
I am a quote junkie and when I read your post a favorite came to mind—its a bible quote (i’m not the religious type, but I do love this one).
“We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed;
perplexed, but not in despair;
persecuted, but not abandoned;
struck down, but not destroyed …
So we fix our eyes not on what is seen,
but on what is unseen.
For what is seen is temporary,
but what is unseen is eternal.”
Lots of love from NC…..
I’m so, so sorry for your loss.
Oh sweetie. It’s just not fair!! I am so damn sorry. Though yes, take great comfort in the fact that she is with your sweet Maddie now. You just deserve a break hon. Your whole family does. I am so sorry.
i am so very sorry, heather. all of my thoughts are with you and your family right now.
I have NO doubt that Maddie and Aunt Kathy are dancing in heaven. My condolences and hugs to all.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Rebecca Zhang´s last [type] ..im taking my p-u-d-d-i-n-g and moving to europe
I’m very sorry Heather. But yes, Aunt Kathy and Maddie are together, giggling and looking down on all of you.
Oh, Heather, I am so very sorry! I wish there was something else I could say. I have no doubt your aunt is holding Maddie in her arms right now. I hope that gives you the tiniest bit of comfort. God bless you all. Sending lots of love your way.
Heather and Family, My heart breaks for you all today, but yes, you are so right….Maddie has her Aunt Kathy with her, snuggling her, holding her so close and it was so apparent that your Aunt Kathy loved YOU and Maddie so, so much!! Take care, my friend. Big Hugs from Iowa tonight and always….Give all our best to your entire family from your friends in blog land.
I am soo soo sorry for your loss. i too lost my aunt one year 6 months and 14 days ago. she was my best friend. she meant more to me than anyone else. i still think of her and miss her everyday and i talk to her often. i miss her so much and so i understand somewhat how you feel as she was diagnosed with stage 4 lung and liver cancer and passed shortly after.
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. i do believe that she is with Madeline now and so they can laugh and snuggle all day long.
Heather, your Aunt Kathy sounds like she was an amazing and caring person…not many people would send sweet and thoughtful cards to a baby. My heart breaks for you and your family…you’ve borne more than your share of heartbreak in the past few years. Like you, I’m really hoping that your Aunt Kathy is up in heaven giving your sweet Maddie hugs and kisses for you. I’m keeping you all in my prayers.
Sonya´s last [type] ..Seven Quick Takes Friday-Hospital Edition
Heather, you are right. Maddie now has Aunt Cathy with her…Hugs and my heart goes out to you and your family.
Oh Heather I am so very sorry about losing your aunt! I do believe that she is holding Maddie now. My heart aches for your pain. Love from AZ, @mcmommmy
Patty´s last [type] ..Has it really been that long
I’m so sorry for your loss. You’ve had so much loss….
My hubby’s grandmother had something similar happen. In April, she was having massive headaches. She was diagnosed with a brain tumor a week or so later. One week after that, she couldn’t talk….a week or so later, she couldn’t walk and by early June, she had passed away.
May the memories of your sweet aunt bring your family comfort. I’m sorry, Heather.
Angela
I am so sorry. Love to you this evening.
So sorry to hear about the passing of your Aunt. You are SO right, she and Maddie are together and you will get to be with them someday again!
Heather,
I am so sorry for your loss. And I’m going through just about the same thing right now–my beloved Uncle Paul passed away on July 14th after having been diagnosed with adenocarcinoma (both lungs, liver, possibly gallbladder) on June 15th, less than a month before he passed. We’re all in shock, too. We’re heading down to Roanoke, Virginia for his memorial service on July 31st.
Lots of hugs to you and your family.
~from another Heather in Colorado
I send my sympathies
to your Uncle Bill for the loss of his beloved wife of 40 years,
to your Mother, Aunt Terry, & Uncle Tim for the loss of their dear sister,
and especially to you and Mike for another unexpected loss in your family.
Grief swells with each new loss and stirs everything up. May your family and friends offer some comfort and may you feel the love of your hundreds of followers who really care.
Maddie is not alone.
I’m sorry Heather and Family. Erika said it best, there are no words. Just so very sorry.
Deepest sympathies. What a special lady for Miss Maddie to have in heaven.
Andrea´s last [type] ..Celebrating Greta
So sorry for your loss, my prayers are with your family <3
I am so very sorry, Heather. I am positive that your aunt and your daughter are now rejoicing in once again being able to hold and hug each other. You and your family have my deepest sympathies.
Oh Heather. I am so sorry for your loss.
I am sure that Aunt Kathy and Maddie are together and comforting each other.
May her memory always be a blessing to your family and everyone she met.
Sending you so much love and strength,
Karen.
I’m so sorry. It’s not fair and I’m so so sorry. Thinking of all of you.
I am so so sorry for your loss. I just have no words. So sorry. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so, so sorry. My heart is breaking for you guys. Praying for you.
Heather … I am so, incredibly sorry. Losing such vital people so closely together is a special kind of hell. I’m wishing you peace and comfort today and always.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I am so sorry to hear about the grief that your family is going through. I will be praying for you and your family. *hugs*
Alissa G.´s last [type] ..A Year of Transformation
So sorry to hear about your Aunt.
I am so very sorry, I was hoping as I scrolled down it would end differently.
She was a gorgeous lady.
Love to you all.
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This is just horrible horrible horrible. What can anyone even say. We love you.
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I’m so sorry.. my condolences and support is offered to you and your family. All my love,
Oh Heather. I am so sorry. Thanks for sharing Aunt Kathy’s notes to Maddie and her story.
Much love and strength to you and yours.
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Oh Heather, sometimes one family has to bear so much. Sending prayers for you and prayers for strength for your family. I pray your load lightens. Blessings, Megan
Megan´s last [type] ..Is There Anything Better in the World
so very sorry for your family’s loss, especially your mom and siblings. after reading those post cards i can’t help but think what a treasure your Aunt Kathy was. i imagine she and Maddie are holding each other close right now.
God bless.
Heather I am very sorry for your loss. You, Aunt Kathy, Uncle Bill and family are all in my thoughts.
My sincerest condolences on the loss of your beloved Aunt Kathy. I’ll remember you and your family in my prayers.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
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I’m so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolensces go out to your family.
I’m so sorry, Heather. My thoughts are with you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. Your Aunt Kathy sounds like a beautiful person. My thoughts are with you all.
I am so sorry. Thinking of you and your family during this incredibly rough time.
Oh how this pains my heart to read….I’m so sorry for your loss, and the worlds loss of such an obviously loving and wonderful woman.
I hate how life seems to be continually showing you how unfair it can be.
Wishing you strength, love and the ability to remember all of the good, happy times as you make your way through the next days and weeks…
Erin´s last [type] ..Its Not Even Halloween
I am so very sorry to hear that your Aunt has passed. My thoughts are with you and your family.
So sorry for your sudden and terrible loss. Wishing you strength and peace.
Heather -
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. What a beautiful picture of your aunt and uncle dancing at your wedding….you can just FEEL the love they have for each other.
The only bright spot = she’s with Maddie now and I’m certain they are coloring Heaven all shades of PURPLE as we speak.
Heather, I am so sorry. Your aunt sounds like a wonderful person. My condolences to your family.
I am so sorry! I was so hopeful for your Aunt Kathy and your family that you would have a happy ending. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Heather, I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. (((HUGS))) <3
So sorry for your loss Heather! I will be thinking of you and your family! You are definitely right her and Maddie are up in heaven together once again! xoxo
So very sorry for your loss. I was so hopeful for a happy outcome for your Aunt, but it must be a comfort to know she and Maddie are together.
I am so sorry for your loss, Heather and Mike and Annabel. God bless.
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I am so sorry for your loss, Heather. It was very quick. This may be a small consolation, but she is with Maddie now.
((hugs))
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I am so sorry, Heather!! Thinking of you all!
sending good thoughts your way.
You’re all in my thoughts.
Heather, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
So sorry to read this – it sounds like your aunt was a lovely woman. Prayers for you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry Heather. Yes, take comfort that Maddie now has someone who knows and loves her with her.
All my thoughts & prayers for your family in this difficult time. ((hugs))
I am so sorry, Heather. I have no doubt that Maddie greeted her with open arms! You are in my prayers.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Aunt. Lots of prayers are with you and your entire family. 6 weeks. Wow.
I am so so sorry Heather. You have brought tears to my eyes. Please find comfort in your last sentence, knowing she will be with Maddie now.
Hang in there.
(((hugs)))
Michele Wallace
I read your blog pretty much everyday. I laugh and cry. Today is the second time I read this post and it made me cry again for you and your family. My heart is aching for you. I wish you peace and comfort during this time, I hope you feel all of your faithful reader’s love right now.
When my uncle died under similar circumstances, I offered this for his funeral:
“And when he shall die/Take him and cut him into little stars/ And he shall make the face of heaven so fine/ That all the world will be in love with night/ And pay no worship to the garish sun.”
William Shakespeare from Romeo and Juliet
Judy Larsen´s last [type] ..Happy Fourth!
((((HUGS))))
I am very sorry for your loss. My father’s sister and I were very close. We did everything together. She died 22 years ago, three days after my oldest was born. She never got to see him, but she knew that he was born. I wish she knew my kids. She would have gotten a kick out of my daughter who is a fiery force to be reckoned with just like my aunt was. I still miss her and always will.
OMG Heather, I just read this news and I am so, so devastated for you and your family. This is just NOT FAIR. Cancer is not fair. I lost my Dad just over a month ago to this incredibly cruel disease and my heart goes out to you and your entire family. I will keep you all in my prayers and again, myheart breaks for you. Maddie and her are together for sure.
Love and hugs and strength to you.
Tricia xxx
I am so sorry, Heather. There are no words. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Jen´s last [type] ..Freezeframe…
Heather, I am so so sorry for your loss.
I am so, so sorry for your loss. Your entire family is in my prayers.
And undoubtable she and Maddie are together now enojying many hugs and kisses.
Brooke´s last [type] ..Changes
Oh Heather. I am so so so sorry for this pain. I believe that your the two beautiful souls are together again, watching over your little family. May you find peace. Hugs from afar.
Soni
I’m so sorry. Thinking of you, Kathy, Maddie, and your whole family.
I am so sorry Heather. Sending you and your whole family love and support. I am sure your aunt is telling Maddie all about her sister Annie and how much she is missed here!
My sincere condolences to you, Mike, Annie and all of your family, especially Kathy’s immediate family who must also be going through such a difficult time. I know that Kathy is with Maddie, making her laugh and smile even more and watching over you and your family.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Krystle,
Ontario, Canada.
Krystle´s last [type] ..What they dont tell you
I cant believe I missed this post. Im so sorry to hear about the loss of your Aunt.
My prayers are with you and Your family. ((( hugs to you)))
I’m so sorry. What a beautiful woman.
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I am so sorry, and will, as always, be thinking about you and your family.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.
Karen´s last [type] ..Grilled chard
Heather – I’m so, so very sorry. I can tell from your writing how closely knit your family is and how important each and every member is to you.
My thoughts and condolences are with you, your mom and the rest of your family.
Hugs to you all!
XOXO
Jessica V´s last [type] ..Go White Boy- Go White Boy- Go!
Heather – I am so very sorry to read this. Your family has been through so much, my heart aches for you all. I have to echo the above comments, as well as your own words – I truly believe your Aunt Kathy and your Maddie are together and are sending you and yours love and light.
Sending love and prayers from NY.
Momma Lioness Michele´s last [type] ..Sums It Up
I am so very sorry for you and your family’s loss.
Heather, my heart is breaking for your family. I’m not sure what else to say, except that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry for your loss your family is in my prayers.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you and your whole family in my thoughts.
I am so sorry, Heather
Heather,
I am so so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. My love to all of you.
I don’t think I’ve ever commented before, but today I absolutely must… I’m so very sorry, Heather. So, so sorry.
I’m so sorry to read this. It seems like just the other day you wrote about her diagnosis. I was optimistic that everything was going to be fine. After reading through those thoughtful, loving cards your aunt sent, it’s clear that she was a very special person. Condolences from your internet friend in Albuquerque.
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I am so sorry Heather. I believe she’s there with Maddie cuddling her and showering her with love.
I am so sorry for your family’s loss, and that such a good woman was taken so quickly and too, too soon.
I am so very, very sorry to read this. Your family is in my thoughts.
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Oh my god, that is just awful. I am so sorry for your loss. May your Aunt rest in peace. My condolances to you and your family.
J from Ireland´s last [type] ..Edinburgh Rocks!!
Heather,
I am so sorry for the loss of your Aunt Kathy. She was clearly a loving and beloved aunt, sister, wife and mother, and I’m sure that love will carry on. I will be thinking of your family in the days and weeks to come.
Michele´s last [type] ..Over and Out
I’m so sorry, Heather. You and your entire family are in my thoughts. I hope she and Maddie are together.
Tears of sadness for you and your family.
Tears of joy for Maddie and Aunt Kathy together again.
thinking of you and your family heather.. and you certainly are right, she is right there holding your sweet Maddy’s hand!
Eva´s last [type] ..Summer Lovin
Of course they are together. I’m sorry to hear of your loss.
Heather,
I’m hardly one to comment but read your blog every day. I am so sorry. There are truly no words. I am in shock with you. I am keeping you, your mother and your aunt Kathy’s entire family in my prayers. Sending my deepest heartfelt condolences. My brother-in-law (my sister’s husband) has brain cancer…he’s currently on chemo. I feel your pain. Stay strong as you always have.
Of COURSE she and your Maddie are together. My mom passed away in December. She had an enormous soft spot for baby girls (I have two daughters, 11 and 6). I bet my mom is hovering over Auntie Kathy right now, waiting for her turn to play with and hug Maddie. I’m so sad that your aunt passed away. I am so awkward with words, even in the best of situations. Anyway, if there are any words that might comfort you, that’s what I’m trying to say. I bet a few extra hugs with Annabel would feel pretty good today. : )
Heather, I see a lot of your physical qualities in your aunt. I am sorry for your loss, but also feel that Aunt Kathy and Maddie are having a blast up in heaven!
Lindsey in the STL´s last [type] ..33 weeks49 days to go!
I’ve been out of the loop for a few days. I am so sorry about your Aunt. She seemed to be a really remarkable woman and she will be missed.
XOXO
AmazingGreis´s last [type] ..Tomorrow…
I am so sorry for your loss! Lots of (((((HUGS))))) for you and your family. May you have peace that she is up there playing with beautiful Maddie!
Oh, Heather. I’m so sorry to hear about your aunt! I know Maddie was waiting for her Aunt Kathy with open arms and a big smile!!
My prayers are with you and your family.
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I am so, so sorry.
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and there is no doubt in my mind that your Aunt is with Maddie.
Oh no! I’m soooooo sorry your family is going through this.
I have been praying for your aunt since you shared her diagnosis. I’ve been wondering how she is doing. At first, I was happy to see an update about her. Praying for you and your family.
And she is absolutely loving on Maddie! Now you have two beautiful angels watching over you.
so, so sorry heather. she sounds like an amazing person. that’s the only thing about having wonderful people in our lives, it hurts all the more when they leave.
thinking about your family
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I’m so sorry, the cards made me smile and I wasn’t expecting the post to end like this.
You know Maddie and your aunt are probably holding hands and running everywhere, your aunt teaching her all kind of things for the eternity
I am so, so sorry to hear about your beloved Aunt. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
I just wanted to say how sorry I am for you and your entire family. No words can touch your pain but know a stranger is thinking about you all.
Liz´s last [type] ..Pictures
I am so sorry for your loss. To repeat the truth that’s already been said, your Aunt an daughter are together now, watching over your family.
Much love to you.
*hugs*
Oh, Heather – I am so very sorry. Sending you and your beautiful family a whole bunch of love and gentle hugs.
We are thinking of you.
that is absolutely ridiculous news…i am so shocked and so very sorry to hear this terrible news. but you are right – they are together. i can feel it.
hugs to you and your family. and universe, this? is enough.
I am so very sorry for your family’s loss. What a sweet reunion it must have been for your aunt and Maddie. So sorry for the pain it brings those left behind.
I am sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry to hear this – my thoughts are with you and your family, Heather. This is really very sad news.
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I am so sorry for your lost Heather. I lost my grandmom ( She was 86) to a brain tumor this pass April. It was discovered Saturday April 2nd ( Day before Easter) and she was taken from us on April 15th. Not even 2 weeks to absorb the shock, and she was gone. My heart aches for your and your family. Your aunt looks like she was a wonderful person. I am sure she is up in Heaven singing songs and laughing with Maddie.
I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss! Your Aunt Kathy sounds like a beautiful woman, inside and out! I’m sure she is already holding sweet Maddie close, telling her stories and giving her thousands of kisses!
Love to you and your family!
God Bless You!
Michelle – Herculaneum, MO
I am so sorry for your loss. I’ve lost a few family members to lung cancer myself. I know how painful it is =(
Try to take comfort knowing that what is a very sad time for you and your family here on Earth is a very happy time for Maddy in Heaven. How happy she must be to see and be with her Aunt. And how happy your Aunt must be to be free of pain and weakness and to see that wonderful smiling Maddy all the time.
Dearest Heather,
There are no words i could say that could mend the hurt you are feeling.Just know you are in my prayers,all of you.
love siobhan
I am so, so sorry, H. I don’t even know what else to say. Love you, beautiful lady.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you.
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I am so sorry for you loss Heather. My thoughts are with you and your family.
mel´s last [type] ..what a week
The world has lost a special lady. Sending you & your family all my love. xo
I am so sorry to hear about your aunt. My prayers are with you and your family. Love to all of you!
Kate´s last [type] ..Happy Birthday Juliette
Knowing that Aunt Kathy is in a special place in Heaven, cuddling up to your sweet Maddie and awaiting the day you will all be together! Life on earth is but a short time, Heaven eternal! They will turn around and you will be there – a Heavenly, joyous reunion! Love and prayers for you all!
Dear Spohr family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your Aunt. My prayers are with you.
xoxo
sarah
I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m positive Maddie gave her a very warm welcome on the other side, but that doesn’t ease the hurt for those left behind.
Expat Mom´s last [type] ..Quick and Easy Bean Bag Game for Rainy Days
Heather, they are, without a doubt in my mind, together. Such bittersweet sorrow. I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. It seems like your aunt was such a wonderful lady. xo
My prayers are with you and your family, Heather.
Maile´s last [type] ..Mechanical
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Hugs.
Heather, I’m SO sorry! I take comfort in that she’s with Madeline and they’re playing together. Thinking of and praying for you and your family.
ohhh Heather. I am so sorry for your loss. I know for a fact they are together. I wish I could tell you why I think that in more detail but… it just would come out all wrong. I am hoping that you are coming out to BlogHer 10 in a few weeks where I can tell you in person!
May your family seek comfort in all the wonderful memories your wonderful aunt brought to all of your lives.
Aimee´s last [type] ..Print Worthy
I am so sorry, Heather.
i am so sorry for your loss.
Heather, I’m so very very sorry to hear about your aunt. I too believe that Kathy and Maddie are together, eating cookies and blowing out candles, while smiling down on you, Mike and Annabelle.
I am so sorry Heather, my heart cries for you, but the only way to look at it IS in fact what you wrote, that now Maddie will have her by her side.
Think about the eternal happiness they will have together, that Maddie will ALWAYS have her love now, to be able to experience it like you did growing up
You are a very strong woman, one of the strongest I have ever met, I hope that this message will give you at least one tiny bit of comfort during such a hard time.
Hugs,
Lily
@Militaryfamof8
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I am so sorry for your loss. From the pictures and descrption, your Aunt was as beautiful and radiant on the inside as she was on the outside. I am sure she and Maddie are sharing a big hug. you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry to hear of your dear aunt Kathy’s passing. I imagine Maddie and your aunt Kathy hugging so tightly right now. So happy to see each other! Please know we continue to pray for you and your family.
I wish I could just fill this comment box with light, twinkly purple and gold light.
Amanda´s last [type] ..Sinew of Time
Sphor Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Aunt and Friend. Your pain in shared in my heart as you grieve. I pray that you find comfort in the words of loved ones, and the knowledge that neither your Aunt Kathy nor your beautiful Maddie could never be TAKEN from you… for they will be with you forever.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your Aunt Kathy. From what you have written she sounds like a wonderful, warm, caring person and I am sure you and your family will miss her terribly.
I wish you comforting memories of her….
I almost didn’t say anything because I didn’t know what to say. Then I thought that saying nothing was worse than saying not enough.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I hope that you are right and that Maddie and your Aunt are cuddling just like that photo because it’s really only just if this is the way it has to be.
I am praying for you and your family. I am deeply sorry. Your aunt has been a great woman.
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Oh Heather. I am so very sorry for your family’s loss. I will keep you all in my prayers. Your aunt seems like a wonderful person.
Much love.
I am so sorry for you loss. But as you said Maddie has someone with her to read her stories, hug her and tell her about her wonderful parents and terrific baby sister. Love and prayers to all your family
Oh Heather. The postcards made me cry, I wasn’t expecting what was coming. I’m so, so terribly sorry. Love to you and your family… how lucky you all were to have her.
Oh Heather, I am so sorry for this tremendous loss. Your Aunt was a beautiful, kind, and amazing woman who was taken far too early, and quickly. You were very lucky to have had her.
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i am so very sorry.
Please know dear Heather/Mike/Maddie/Annie,
All of your blog followers love you and are thinking good thoughts of you, sending good vibes your way, and those who pray, are praying for you through this terrible time in your lives.
Love from Michigan
Marti B.
I am so sorry for your loss. You and yours are in my prayers.
So sorry Heather. Praying for you, Mike, and your entire family.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
I’m so sorry
I am so sorry for your loss Heather. You and Mike have been through so much. I am thinking of you..
Love, Catherine
From what you’ve shared, it is clear your Aunt Kathy was a magnificent person. I’m so sorry for the loss you have all experienced.
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss…may you find some comfort and peace knowing Maddie is now in the arms of your Aunt until you see them both again…
I have enjoyed your blog for a long time, particularly the videos of your sweet girls. Thank you for sharing them with us. I have never commented before, but I felt compelled to because I just lost my favorite aunt this past May very unexpectedly. She was my big sister and my second mom all rolled into one and she was an extraordinary woman. I feel quite lost without her presence in my life. I know my aunt is watching over me today and I hope you know that you now have two wonderful guardian angels watching over you.
Heather,
I have been a follower from the beginning; a lurker on the progress of your life with and without Maddie.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your Aunt Kathy.
There are no words to express how hard this is for a family to endure; especially all that your family has been through.
May God keep his arms wrapped tightly around your family and may you keep the memories of your Aunt with you everyday.
Love,
Cath
Cath´s last [type] ..The GLAM
Oh Heather!!!!! I am so incredibly sorry!!!
I am sure the two of them are cuddling and giggling together right now.
HUGS!!!!
Janice (5 Minutes for Mom)´s last [type] ..5 Minutes for Books- Friendship for Grownups by Lisa Whelchel
I am so sorry for your family’s loss. I think she is definitely with Maddie now.
Heather, my heart goes out to you and your family. I lost my mom to (brain) cancer about 4 months ago, and even with a lot of warning it still doesn’t always seem real. I’ll be thinking of you and your beloved Aunt Kathy, and sending my love.
Heidi´s last [type] ..Lives- Lost
I am so sorry for your loss.
I somehow missed this on he 21st, I am so sorry for the loss of your Aunt Kathy. I am sure she and Maddie are having a great time together on the other side. Your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh my goodness… I am so sorry, Heather. I was away for a week visiting my sister in NYC to help her and her husband with their brand new baby son, and so I have been out of pocket. I am so sorry for the loss of your aunt. I cannot believe that she passed away – especially so quickly after the onset of her illness. I pray for you and your entire family.
Oh my gosh I am so sorry to hear about another unexpected loss for your family, Heather. You all are in my thoughts and prayers today. *hugs*
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I’m so sorry to hear about your loss of Aunt Kathy. I’m glad though to hear that you can take solace in her being on the other side loving on Maddie.
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I’m so sorry, Heather.
Heather, I am truly sorry for your loss. Your post about Kathy a few weeks ago struck me because she sounded like such an amazing woman, writing those postcards to Maddie every single day and really being there for her family. I am so sad that she is gone already. This is so not fair for your family. You are always in my thoughts.
Heather, I hope you know that we are literally, truly hurting for you and crying with you when you suffer a loss. My heart is heavy. I feel like you have suffered so much, and yet, the universe bestows upon you more and more. You must be stronger than me to bear it. Although you don’t know me, I love you guys.
My Dearest Heather:
You and your family have my deepest sympathy.
Sincerely,
Montique
I am so sorry about the loss of your beloved Aunt. I can relate; I lost my aunt and godmother to cancer that was diagnosed on a wednesday and she died the following tuesday. (Lung) It’s been 4 years now and not a day goes by that I dont regret spending more time with her…all the holiday gatherings we skipped, all the times I could have just stopped by to have a cup of coffee. I hope you can find comfort in the fact that you were as close and loving with your Aunt as you were. She was a beautiful person.
I was thinking about your aunt just the other day. Wondering how she was doing. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you; as I get teary eyed.
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I’m so sorry, Heather. I just lost a good friend to brain cancer, so this is fresh for me, too. It sucks. I’m sorry.
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Just checking in after a few crazy weeks. I am so, so sorry for your loss. You and your family have been through so much….
Thinking of all of you,
Karen
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