Aaahh, Justin Timberlake, so astute.
The summer between my sophomore and junior year in college, I finally had it figured out. “It” being what I wanted to do after college – I wanted to work in the record industry. I wasn’t really sure how to go about it. My brother suggested I look at the UTA Job List (something familiar to anyone who wants to be in the entertainment industry), and on it I found a listing to be an assistant to an unnamed musician. I set up the interview at a random Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf, and it turned out that the musician was someone who was very, very famous in the 90’s. She was nominated for a Grammy for Best New Artist in 1993, and she had a hit song where the title was something along the lines of “Shoot, I Yearn To Be Your Sex Partner.”
Anyway, I interviewed with her outgoing assistant and I got the job. I showed up for my first day, nervous but excited. When I arrived at her house, I discovered that I wasn’t just going to be Musician’s assistant, I was going to also be assisting her manager, Bebe. Oh, and by the way, Bebe? PURE EVIL.
NOTHING I did was OK as far as Bebe was concerned. She was the type of boss that expected you to know exactly how she wanted things to be done WITHOUT explaining it to you. If you’ve read the book or seen the movie “The Devil Wears Prada,” you know what I mean. She was the type of boss that would fixate on small mistakes – and when you have a boss that looks for the little mistakes, you MAKE little mistakes. Especially when you’re 20 and you can’t even take care of yourself, let alone two needy adult women. She constantly yelled at me and made me feel stupid, and I cried on my way home every day.
I didn’t do ANYTHING music related for them. Well, I think I picked up Musician’s fan mail, and I might have mailed a couple demo CDs, but that was it. Even when I was 20 and fairly stupid, I realized that life was too short to live in fear of a boss. So I quit about two or so weeks after I was hired. I just told Musician and Bebe that I clearly wasn’t a good fit for what they were looking for, and I wished them the best.
Well, Bebe wasn’t happy with that. Even though it was very obvious that they needed something different, she couldn’t just let me quit. She sent me a scathing email, telling me what a terrible, unprofessional worker I was, and that she would see to it that I would NEVER, EVER work in the music industry because I clearly was crap and didn’t deserve it.
I deleted her email, and – whaddaya know! – I quickly got an internship with a major record label.
That internship turned into a temp job, which turned into a full-time job, and eventually that job moved me to New York City where I worked in Artists and Repertoire. A & R is the department that handles the signing of new artists and the production of their records. One of my many responsibilities was to manage all unsolicited submissions. Every day, we would get dozens of demo CDs. I usually passed those CDs off to my interns (man, I used to be so cool – I had an office off of Broadway in New York, and I had a bunch of interns. Sigh.) because there were simply TOO MANY for me to listen to on my own. And also? 99.8% of them were terrible – think the WORST of American Idol. Yeah. BAD.
I was opening up my mail one random Tuesday when I noticed the return address on a large envelope looked familiar. I couldn’t place it, so I ripped the package open with curiosity.
Low and behold, it was a submission from Bebe on behalf of the musician. It seemed the musician had been dropped by her record label and she was looking for a new home.
A smile slowly crept across my face.
Instead of the usual form letter that my interns sent out on my behalf, I took the time to write a personalized letter.
Dear Bebe,
After so many years without thinking about you two, you can imagine my delight when Musician’s unsolicited submission came across my desk. Instead of passing it off to one of my interns (as is the custom in the music industry, I’m sure you understand how busy we are), I held onto it! No need to thank me, it was absolutely my pleasure.
I have decided to PASS on Musician. There is no need to appeal as I have already spoken with Mr. Label President, and after hearing what I had to say, he agrees with me.
I am so terribly sorry that your inability to follow through on your promise to prevent me from EVER working in the music industry again is what is now preventing Musician from being signed by our label. What irony!
With little regret,
Heather Spohr
The president of the label was in on the whole thing and backed me up so completely that he also signed the letter.
If only the great Philosopher Justin Timberlake had been sharing his words of wisdom back then, perhaps Bebe wouldn’t have treated me so poorly.
Domestic Extraordinaire says:
That is friggin awesome! Can I be like you when I grow up? Please?!!?
P.S. so excited that Maddie surpassed her goal! YEA!!
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CourtneyRyan says:
Oh Heather! LOVE IT.
Is it bad that stories like this make me smile? Even giggle a little?
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ShellyD says:
That’s a FUNNY story, and of course, I had to Google with the clues you gave. I have never head of Sophie. Maybe there is a reason?
BTW, I have been stalking your blog for a while now and I have to say I lurve Maddie. That cutie will bring a smile to my face every time. I was telling some of my friends about your blog and they were all “yeah, we read her too”.
Headless Mom says:
So cool that you got to do that. Satisfaction!
misfithausfrau says:
What a gift that was! I can think of so many instances when I would have given ANYTHING to be karmically blessed like that. Good for you!
So, um, will you be seeing SBH play at the next art fair near you?
ms. changes pants while driving says:
ohmygod. that NEVER happens in real life!!
Kathy says:
Karma, Karma, Karma! Why is so difficult for people to be nice to others especially when they are “famous”? Although I don’t think you can claim it as his quote, I once heard Roger Federer say, “It’s nice to be important, but it’s more important to be nice.” I couldn’t agree more, I hope Bebe learned her lesson, but something tells me she probably hasn’t.
Andrea's Sweet Life says:
What sweet, sweet justice. Man, I would have been able to live off of the adrenaline from that for DAYS!
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fish says:
That is my favorite story ever.
Revenge!!!
catnip says:
I enjoyed that waaay too much.
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Daddy Dan says:
Heather, that is the greatest story ever!
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Amy says:
Sweet Revenge! Paybacks are a bitch! What goes around comes around! Any way you put it, GREAT STORY!!!
maya says:
OMG I adore that story!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh, and Bebe? My current boss.
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maya says:
i meant my boss is just like her.
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Amazing Greis says:
That is great. I too also Googled to figure out who the said Musician was, yeah, never heard of her.
Amazing Greis says:
Oh, and did I mention that I love me some Mr. JT?!?!?!?
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AMomTwoBoys says:
I. LOVE. YOU.
And one of these days, we’re going to have to sit down, get liquored up and you’re going to tell me all these crazy stories. So I can live vicariously through you.
Kthanx.
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Loralee says:
Musicians are insane. Seriously, it doesn’t matter the genre. Also? Everyone thinks they can sing. (Again, doesn’t matter the genre). I used to screen all audition tapes for the music department I was in and DDAAAAAAAMMMMMNNNNN. My ears are still recovering.
Thanks for the reminder of why I walked away from the professional opera career to stay at home with my kids and gestate in my pajamas. (I totally needed the reality check right now).
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Velma says:
That is a totally delicious story. Just… yum!
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Tricia says:
Found ya! It was great meeting you two yesterday!
Love, love, LOVE this story…karma is a biatch…just like Bebe
cara says:
That might be the best revenge story ever. Good for you!
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Cinthia says:
This reminds me of Flores Magon’s ‘Para la justicia el tiempo’. I love revenge stories.
preTzel says:
Karma – A bitch to be reckoned with.
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tokissthecook says:
Just when I didn’t think I could like you any more…AWESOME.
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ali says:
best story ever.
you = awesome
Joe @ Irrational Dad says:
ok. That is just way awesome. Too bad you couldn’t have been a fly on the wall when she opened the letter up.
hahhahha…. I just ran off to google, wikipedia, and youtube to check her out. I totally remember her. Ahhh….. the ’90s.
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Dawn - Room 704 says:
I so don’t need to fake an O after reading that!
Anissa@Hope4Peyton says:
Can I just tell you that it tickles me shitless that YOU’re the reason she’s a one-hit wonder!! LOL
I worship at your feet, lady.
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Melanie @ Mel, A Dramatic Mommy says:
Ah, yes. SBH. One hit wonder indeed. Love this story. Karma Chameleon!
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lisa says:
HaHa! I am laughing so hard right now! I can totally see you sitting at your desk writing this letter! Can I just say that this place lost most of its fun when you left? Miss you!!
Erin says:
Oh my god – this is genius!!! I love our lovely little pres even signed the letter. That must have been the most satisfying day ever. The kind of day that makes all the days around it even feel awesome. And btw… we may have had some good days at that label, but you’re way cooler and more influential now with everything that you do with Maddie. Feel good about that one;).
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Mermanda says:
Long time reader here, haven’t commented before but I feel this is a good way to introduce myself:
What a cold hearted snake!
Snap, high five, girl. That was awesome.
P.S. Hi! I’m Amanda.
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Kellee says:
Seriously the best thing I’ve ever heard. LOL So awesome.
Mary says:
OH NO! I love Sophie B. ( I knew immediately who she was!). Was it her who was terrible, or just her assistant Bebe? I hope not her! Maybe she wouldn’t have been a one hit wonder had it not been for her demo landing in your lap that day! haha! But, I still LOVE that song (and hope she wasn’t too terrible to you!)
Mary
Amanda says:
LOL!!! I will never hear her song again without thinking of your fabulous revenge story.
Hey, didn’t she also sing that As I Lay Me Down to Sleep song? My husband calls it the Taco Song bc he thinks that the background singers are saying, “We love tacos. We really, we love tacos.” I can’t convince him otherwise.
Michelle says:
I don’t know for sure if that’s the same person or not, but my brother has insisted since we were young that she is saying “hola taco” and seeing your comment made me laugh out loud!! Too funny!!
Great story, Heather – it felt sooo good, didn’t it!
Bethany says:
Oh my gosh, how funny! I really like some of her songs, but will never listen to her music in the same way again!
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AlisonH says:
Discovered your blog today and have been reading and reading. But this one, I have to stop and just guffaw out loud. Wow. They karma-kazi’d!
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Lolla Moon says:
haha, this is absolutely awesome. this story made my day!
Kate says:
Randomly,I just read the Musician and Bebe are actually a couple! Another twist to the story…!
Poetic Justice says:
I too, worked for the people you referenced in your post. I had the exact same experience. It was a nightmare. Good for you, to project the Karma Bebe deserved. I sent you a personal email about this.
Still laughing at what you achieved in response to the treatment you received.
Awesome !!!!
Mary says:
This. Is. Fantastic.
Badassery!
Auntie_M says:
That is the best story ever!!!!!!! You are so cool!!!!!!!!!!