A lot of athletes are known for being superstitious, but I think baseball & softball players are the nuttiest. When I was playing softball, I was on a traveling team with some of the most superstitious girls ever. We’d put our shoes on the same way before every game, sit in the same seats in the car on the way to the game, listen to the same song over and over, and even stop chewing gum once we got to a certain point in our warm up. I’m not as superstitious as I used to be, but I have a few lucky charms that make me feel better when I’m feeling anxious.
The Christmas after my grandmother passed away, my aunt Kathy & Uncle Bill gave me a locket with my grandmother’s picture in it. I wear it all the time, but especially when I am flying on a plane. I don’t really know why, but I feel safe with it on, like my gramma won’t let the plane crash. I clutched it desperately when I was pregnant. The doctors tried to get me to remove it for my emergency C-Section, but I kinda sorta freaked out so they let me keep it on.
When Maddie was transferred to a different hospital, one of the NICU nurses at my hospital came into my room and handed me Maddie’s first hat. “I thought you might like this,” she said. I CLUNG to that hat. I smelled it, rubbed it on my cheek, even kissed it. For the 68 days Maddie was in the hospital, I had that hat with me. It was my connection to Madeline when I couldn’t physically be with her. I treated it almost like rosary beads – I would turn it around in my hands as I thought of my baby.
My gramma wore a guardian angel pin on her shirt every day. She had a bunch of the pins, and when I went to college, she gave me one. I still have it, and I keep it in my wallet. I like to think it guards my finances!
My friend Lissa is a jewelry designer (and if you want to contact her, let me know), and right after Maddie was born she came to the NICU to give me a necklace with Maddie’s monogram and a guardian angel charm. I wear it all the time (on the same chain as the locket), but someday I will pass it on to her. If she’s a good girl. And she gives me a really awesome mother’s day present to replace it.
Lissa just put together another charm that I’ve added to my chain (yeah, it’s a little crowded, so what?). Last month I made a “No Turk” symbol that all of Jackie!’s friends could put on their Facebook pages, desktops, etc. Lissa took the symbol and turned it into a tiny charm. I am soooo going to put “jewelry designer” on my resume now! (click on the picture for a better view)
At 7:30 pacific time tomorrow, July 28th, Jackie!’s brain surgery starts. I will have ALL my talismen with me as I sit at work, starving for an update, heart in my throat. Please keep Jackie! and her family in your thoughts. I mean, how can you NOT think about a woman who wore this shirt to her pre-op appointment?
A super awesome shirt that a super awesome person made her, I might add.
Mike thinks I’m loony – I’m not the only one with lucky charms, am I? Well, if you have ’em, grab ’em. Jackie! Needs all the lucky ju-jus she can get.
Anissa@Hope4Peyton says:
Lots and lots and lots of prayers for Jackie!, for all you who love her and while trying not to, will let your mind wander through every possible outcome. Be strong and faithful, she has an amazing friend in you.
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Bec says:
I might still be a little early (time difference and all) but I wanted to pop by and say that I’m thinking of you Jackie! and hoping that your surgery goes as well if not better then is expected.
PS. I wear two silver hearts on the same chain. The big one is mine and the small one is Miss Erins’. My mum gave them both to me, the big one when we announced I was pregnant and the small one two days before Miss Erin was born. I wore them the whole time she was in the NICU (in my pocket most of the time) and will continue to until Miss Erin is old enough to wear it herself.
Susie says:
You’re not the only one. I have a small silver rosary (one of those tiny ones with only ten beads) my mom gave me. Whenever I’m doing something important, job interview/exams/whatever, I always keep it close. I like to think it helps me.
PS. Prayers for Jackie!
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Bridget says:
I kind of can’t believe it’s already time for Jackie!’s surgery! But we’ll be thinking about her all day long!!
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Kristin says:
Thinking of Jackie! today. Please keep us posted.
I listen to the same piece of music before anything really, really big (which were usually just law school exams for some reason). It’s a bit from one of Mozart’s operas. I have it on a CD a friend from Germany sent me.
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CaraBee says:
We all have our talismen. I know I have mine and they do give me a sense of comfort. You know we’ll all be rooting for Jackie!
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Memphislis says:
I am praying for her, and praying for her friends.
moosh in indy. says:
Her name is in the temple and I’ll be praying for her ALL. DAY. LONG.
Kick Turk’s ass Doctor Steamy.
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Molly says:
Came over via Christy at Heavy on the Caffeine because she shared with all her readers about your courageous friend, Jackie. So just to let you know, even though you don’t know me and Jackie knows me even less, I am sending all my good positive thoughts her way (and yours, because as a good friend I know you will be worrying yourself silly) and praying that all goes well with her surgery and she makes a speedy recovery.
Good luck Jackie!
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AMomTwoBoys says:
I’ll wear my lucky pair of underwear today for Jackie!
And I’ll send you goofball emails all day to keep your spirits up. You. Are. Welcome.
Jackie!’s in my thoughts!
threeundertwo says:
Prayers right now. I’ll be thinking of her today. Best wishes from my family to hers.
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Maria says:
So many thoughts and prayers for Jackie!
I love your talismans.
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tenakim says:
She will be in my thoughts today- gotta luv a gal that has a sense of humor!
Renee says:
I read about you and your friend Jackie! in a post at Heavy On the Caffeine that directed me here. I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.
Midwest Mommy says:
I will keep her in my prayers. I will be checking back tomorrow for updates. Please let us know how is she doing.
BTW-love the shirt!
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ali says:
if i were the praying type, i’d be praying. since i’m not…i will be thinking of you and Jackie and her family today.
hugs, Heather.
gabe has a soccer medal that his great, great grandfather won like a million years ago. he inherited it and NEVER takes it off. i think it’s such a touching sentiment. i have NOTHING like this. i think i need something.
also? softball? really?
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amanda says:
Sending the strongest, purest wishes for your beautiful friend. Blessings on you all.
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Andrea's Sweet Life says:
I used to be kind of OCD so I refuse to “repeat” like an athlete these days. Hey, that rhymed! I’ll be thinking about Jackie! and sending super-supportive thoughts and prayers to both of you.
insane mama says:
My thoughts are with Jackie! Love the shirt
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sam (temptingmama) says:
Thinking about Jackie! today. I hope all goes well!
Xytrex says:
It’ll all be right. My prayers are with you.
manager mom says:
I am sending all good thoughts and prayers.
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Christy says:
LOVE HER T-SHIRT! I think we all should get one! I am sending all of my best to Jackie! and you (b/c I know you’ll be sick with worry all day.) She’s amazing–that shines right through this blog of yours!
Becky says:
I have a lucky necklace that I wear.
And I’m sending all the good vibrations I have to Jackie today.
heartache heartburn says:
Our thoughts and prayer are with Jackie! I’ve really enjoyed getting to know her through you. Thanks for introducing me to an awesome person!
Go Jackie! Go!
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anymommy says:
I’ve been reading for a while and I had to comment today. I’m sending tons of thoughts and prayers to Jackie! I have a lucky necklace charm too, going to put it on now.
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Black Hockey Jesus says:
Hi Jackie!
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catnip says:
Sending my best wishes and thoughts to Jackie. Now I’m going to dig out some talismans and stick them in my pocket.
preTzel says:
Lots of strength and best wishes vibes headed Jackie! and your way for tomorrow.
Suzanne says:
I’m nobody important I just wanted to say I’m praying foe Jackie!
cindy w says:
Ok, so the movers are here packing, and I’m on the phone with the car insurance company getting our address changed, and I got to the part about Maddie’s hat and I just started crying. Thanks a lot.
Sending lots of prayers for Jackie! today.
Amy says:
Thinking Jackie! today…..
I have a lot of little lucky charms that belong in various places as you do. I have a necklace that was my great grandmothers, that stays in my car at ALL times. To protects us from car accidents.
Update us when you can on Jackie! I’ve been thinking of her since I awoke this morning.
Kellee says:
Well, it started at 7:30, and it just occured to me it’s been 8 hours right about now. I hope she’s out of there. I’ve been thinking of her constantly all day, I hope you’ll update us soon.
Rebecca says:
Go Jackie! Love the shirt, what style.
amanda says:
Still thinking of you all!
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