James is sleeping soundly next to me while I write this, but he really gave us a scare this weekend.
On Saturday afternoon, we were getting ready for Easter. James had taken a nice nap and I’d changed him into a fresh shirt and shorts. Annabel had been waiting for my cousin Leah and her husband Ted to come over so we could decorate eggs. Since I knew they were about to arrive, I started setting things up in the kitchen. Mike was sitting on the couch with a suddenly whiny and clingy James, so I told Mike to bring him into the kitchen so he could help with the eggs. When they walked in, I saw that James had his head resting on Mike’s shoulder. I thought that was weird, since James had just taken a nap. I moved so I could show James an egg (one of his favorite things) and that’s when I saw that his eyes were rolling back in his head and his face and lips were completely grey.
I grabbed James from Mike, and discovered he was limp and unresponsive. Right then, Leah and Ted walked through the front door and I ran James over to them. “Something’s wrong with James, can you see?” They both tried to get James to wake up and failed, so I turned to Mike and said, “Call 911!” Leah quickly went to distract Annabel while Mike, Ted, and I took James outside to meet the ambulance. While we waited, we kept shaking, tickling, and talking to James, trying to wake him. I listened for the ambulance. It felt like it took forever to arrive, but in reality it was about six minutes.
A fire truck and ambulance showed up, and at that point, James was awake but not alert. His color was still terrible, with little pink to be found. Even his hemangioma was grey. The fire crew ran up first and started assessing James and asking questions. They listened to his chest, put on a pulse ox, and started trying to get his attention to see if he could focus on them.
We answered all of their questions: he’d been awake for at least 20 minutes, he hadn’t been sick, no fever, his body hadn’t become stiff, he hadn’t seized. We told the crew that James had been eating Pirate’s Booty with Annabel, thinking that maybe he’d choked, but the EMTs didn’t think that was likely since he’d been whining but hadn’t coughed. I kept repeating that James was healthy and strong, at first for the benefit of the EMTs but eventually to remind myself.
After a few minutes of questions, James started to come around, although his color still hadn’t returned. An EMT said that it sounded like James might have fainted, but since fainting isn’t common in kids his age they wanted to transport him to the hospital. The next thing I knew, James and I were strapped onto the gurney in the ambulance and we were rolling toward the hospital, with Mike close behind. I tried not to think about the last time I’d ridden in an ambulance and focused on James, rubbing his hands, kissing him, smelling his hair. I’d given him a bath earlier and he smelled so good.
Because James arrived via ambulance, he was admitted to the ER and seen right away. The doctor examined him and had him attached to the pulse ox and ordered blood tests and an EKG. He was still pale and clingy, although when he saw Mike he said, “Dada!” and reached for him, which made us all happy. A tech soon arrived to administer the EKG and James started crying as the electrodes were placed on his chest. We did our best to calm him, but I was also so relieved to hear him cry.
As we waiting for all the test results, James slowly came back. His color returned first, then he started chatting, and finally started asking for food and drink. The ER doctor eventually returned to tell us that all of the tests came back normal. We were relieved, but apprehensive because that also meant there really wasn’t an explanation for what happened. Though the ER doctor didn’t have a definite diagnosis, he did suggest a few possibilities. One (the best one) was that this might just have been one of those strange, isolated incidents that happen to kids and never happen again. Another was that James might have had a vasovagal episode, which I’ve experienced several times. He also couldn’t rule out the possibility that James had a seizure, even though he didn’t display the typical signs/symptoms. As he discharged James he reiterated that he hoped this was an isolated incident, but urged us to take James to see his regular pediatrician, which we will be doing this afternoon (Monday).
Ever since the incident, James has been completely normal. He’s been eating and drinking like a champ, and had a great Easter yesterday, running around all over the yard looking for eggs with his sister. Mike and I are both recovering from the experience. I half-jokingly said to Leah that I’m really not emotionally equipped to deal with something like this this week, of all weeks. There’s never a good time for your kid to completely scare the crap out of you, but this is certainly one of the worst times! But, I have so much confidence in Dr. Looove, and I know she’ll check him out thoroughly. I’m not looking forward to walking James into the office exactly 6 years to the day I brought his oldest sister in for the last time, but I will just keep reminding myself that he is healthy and strong.
I’ll be sure to update later this afternoon, after we visit Dr. Looove.
5:45 PM UPDATE:
Just arrived home from Dr. Looove’s office. She thinks that James’ episode on Saturday was likely an isolated incident, but wants James to be seen by a pediatric neurologist for follow up. That is scheduled for ten days from now. We’re feeling very relieved. Thank you everyone for all of the prayers and good thoughts!
samatwitch says:
My heart was racing whole I read that; I can only imagine how stressful that was for you to live through. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you, especially James.
Katrien says:
I hope you get the answers you want from the doctor and will be thinking of your family today. That is an awful thing to happen to you all.
Pam L says:
OH Gosh! How terrifying for you all. I couldn’t read fast enough to find out what happened. I hope it was a one time only episode. Will be thinking of you during this difficult week.
Laura says:
Been there, done that–with never Maddie’s outcome. Mothers are the best in tune.
Vicky says:
That was terrifying to read, I can’t imagine how you and Mike must have felt. Hope everything checks out fine with the little guy and hope you get some answers.
Lauren says:
This was so scary to read. Thinking of you and will keep checking back for updates today.
Kay says:
I started crying just reading that. I can’t imagine how terrified you must have been. Good luck and I’m sure your doctor will figure it out!
Sue says:
Oh, Heather,,my heart is pounding, and I have tears rolling down my face. I’ll be waiting, anxiously, to hear what his doctor had to say. Please, please, please let him be alright,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Give that sweet, little guy a hug and kiss for me.
Sue says:
My thoughts are with Annie, too, Heather, if she realized what was going on…with the brother that she loves so much,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Jennifer L. says:
Holy crap, Heather. I admittedly skipped to the end to see that he was ok now, before going back up to really read it all. My heart was racing, although I know that’s nothing compared to how this must have affected you and Mike. Yeah scary stuff happens but this week it is NOT OKAY. I’m so sorry you’ve got to pay a visit to Dr. Looove today. I hope she has nothing but good news for you. Thinking of you guys, as always.
KDot says:
Thinking of you and James today
Lee Cockrum says:
Thoughts and prayers with you all.
Lisa S says:
What a scary thing to experience with your child any time, but especially this week, it has to be a million times worse! I hope his doctor can give you a definitive answer and I will for sure be watching for an update!
Suzanne says:
Definitely so scary. The worst is when you don’t have an explanation. Hope the doctor can figure out what may be the cause and it doesn’t happen again. Poor little guy.
Debbie A-H says:
Love and prayers and good vibes being sent for you all.
Jerilynn says:
Heather, I had my heart in my mouth reading this. I don’t even know what to say to you. You have been through so much already. I admire you for the calm and strength you showed in handling the situation. Please keep us posted. I am praying for all of you and sending good thoughts.
Auntie_M says:
Oh Heather! And Mike! My heart hasn’t stopped it’s over active pounding yet! Your sweet family has been on my mind so much the past few weeks. To even see the title of your post made my hands shake.
Thank goodness everyone jumped into quick action. Including the ER docs.
But I cannot imagine how you handled being in that ambulance with James and now having to go see (the competent) Dr Loove on today of all days…
You, Mike, James, and Annie will be in my constant thoughts over the next few days for MANY reasons. I know updating us may not be a top priority, but when you can, please do!
So much love covering your precious family. And, as always, sweet Maddie is included in that love and she is especially remembered over the next week.????
Auntie_M says:
Apparently the hearts on my phone translate into question marks in your blog making me appear delusional.
MH says:
I’m so sorry Heather! This must have been so terrifying for you. I’m hoping it was a isolated incident too.
Patti B. says:
I’m so sorry that happened, for all of you. Hoping Dr. Loooove can ease your minds.
Johanna says:
Wow, that is so scary. So glad to hear James is OK. Fingers crossed that it was a one time only incident.
Jen T. says:
That is so scary and I’m so sorry you had to go through it! You’re right though, James is a strong, healthy boy. Hoping for all of you it was a one time freak incident.
Stacy says:
Oh wow… I’m so glad that James is okay and hope that you can get a definitive answer as to what happened. Hugs to both you and Mike, I can’t even imagine your fear.
Jana Frerichs says:
So sorry that I are having to deal with this. I’m so glad James is okay and his test came back normal. Hugs to you guys and lots of thoughts and prayers are coming your way.
Jana Frerichs says:
meant you, not I. Monday mornings are never good for me!
Lisa says:
My heart was racing while reading this. I am so sorry this happened.
Kristen says:
The only thing I know to say is that I am so thankful that James has gotten back to his old self, and that you, Mike, Annie and James are ALWAYS in my thoughts and prayers! Best of luck today with Dr. Looove…hugs and kisses all around for your family!!
Terri says:
Oh Heather that’s so scary. I’ll be thinking about you guys all day. I know you’re in the best of hands with Dr. Loooove. Great big hugs! My son did that to me once, he’s 15 now. I remember it like it was yesterday. Ugh!
sirena says:
Wow, like other readers I can say I was racing through this to get to the part where your beautiful son was OK. One good thing about how you share this online is maybe one of your readers, or more than one, can share similar episode and help you figure out why this happened!!! I too hope this was one of those random things and that you never experience it again. Thinking of you and your beautiful family and i’ll bet you are kissing that beautiful boy a million times more than you even already do happy he is ok.
Stacey says:
How terrifying. So glad he’s better! Thinking of you all.
TamaraL says:
I am so sorry you all had to go through that but SO glad for you all that he is okay!! I was a nervous wreck reading that so I can only imagine the sheer terror you went through. Good luck at the dr today!!
Sara says:
I am so sorry!! Hopefully you get some answers later today. Glad James had a good rest of the weekend. xo
Rachel says:
Will be thinking of you guys all day, and all week. Thank you so much for sharing this story and making us all aware that crazy things like this happen. Sending you love, support and a virtual hug!
Rachel says:
Adding extra prayers for your family this week (you were already on my list!!)… hoping for good results & that this was an isolated incident.
Nicole says:
That is terrifying!!! Prayers to you all!
Karen says:
Sending thoughts your way for his visit today, hope everything checks out! I popped over all eager to thank you for the confetti eggs, my kids LOVED them yesterday. And now I’m all teary and heart-poundy. Good thoughts to sweet baby James.
Coley says:
That is so scary!! I’m so sorry that happened, and I hope you get some answers, and that Jamesy continues to be well. Thinking of you and all your babies. xoxo
Kate says:
I was just shaking my head the whole time reading that. I hope Dr. Love can get you some calming answers today. Thinking of you all this week. How crazy that this happened this week… Hugs to you all!
Jackson says:
I’m sure I can speak for everyone that we will be glued to your blog with our fingers crossed waiting to hear that the doctor says it was nothing serious. I’m thinking of you today.
Stacey says:
I’m so sorry that happened, Heather! So scary! Something similar happened to my niece a few times (twice when she was with me and once with her mom) and the doctors didn’t know why. They had the same ideas your doctor did – fainting, vasovagal. I was so concerned because I didn’t like the idea that there wasn’t a reason for it (meaning we couldn’t prevent it somehow) but it only happened three times in about a year and a half span and now she’s a healthy seventeen year old and we laugh about how she freaked out her aunt and mother! Wishing you all the best and good news at your doctor’s visit!
Miriam says:
So scary!! Hope you get some explanation today. Sending positive vibes and wishes y’alls way.
Melissa says:
Oh my gosh, I’m so glad James is okay! I can imagine that would scare the crap out of any parent, but most especially you and Mike. Thoughts and prayers that they can figure out what happened, even if it’s an isolated incident. I hope Annie is doing okay too, I know at her age I was so protective of my little brother and she seems the same!
Teresa says:
So scary! I’m happy he was okay and will trust and pray that it was an isolated incident!
Alyssa says:
Scary is an understatement I bet!! Last year my step daughter had an episode (on the morning of her 5th birthday!) similar to this, although thankfully she hadn’t turned gray. The hospital found that she had severely low blood sugar. Trying to wake your child and having them not wake up and be unresponsive is on of the scariest things for any parent to go through. Even though its been a year, if she is extra sleepy in the morning and doesn’t stir right away I still go into a bit of a panic. I am very glad that James seems to be doing fine now and I hope that nothing like that ever happens again! Sending loves of love to you & the family today!!!
Anna says:
Oh, Heather. That would be terrifying for anyone, but knowing what you’ve been through, I can’t even imagine. I’m glad James is feeling better, and I hope you make it through this week ok. This internet stranger’s thoughts will be with you.
Tricia says:
Man!!! Sending you guys love and looking forward to the update about healthy, happy James. Hang in there mama, we all love and are with you guys.
Jessica Stringer says:
How scary! I’m so sorry you all had to experience that! Prayers for James and the rest of you! Glad he was able to enjoy Easter, though.
rachel says:
Thank you for letting us know that he’s ok at the beginning of your writing! I was thinking the same thing as the previous poster: low blood sugar episode, but that would have shown up on blood tests. I’ve had students have absence seizures that make them go limp and unresponsive, but they only last a few seconds to minutes, from my experience timing them. (Completely the opposite of the Grand Mal seizures that we all picture). Some kids are triggered by illness and completely outgrow them without any lasting effect. I hope Dr. LOVE can sort it out for you quickly. I’ll be thinking of James and all of you. Especially during this week.
Kat says:
Apparently you’re not allowed to relax and have faith that your kids will be “just fine” in this lifetime. Sweet Jesus this must be terrifying for you! He IS healthy and strong and I am so proud of you for being strong for him too. Hoping you get some answers today!
Kymmi says:
Wow – that would be terrifying under any circumstances, but given the time of year my heart dropped for you. Hope James continues to be his normal self and this never happens again.
LD's Mom says:
Heather, I can’t imagine the strength it took for you to handle the situation so well. I’m hoping Dr. Loove can give some useful answers today. I’ll be thinking of you and all three of your beautiful babies this week especially.
Annalisa says:
How scary! I also know (from taking a tot to the ER) that it was probably very confusing and scary for James. Hope it was a one time thing. *crosses fingers for you*
tray says:
Saying a prayer right now for James.
Mommabird2345 says:
That is so scary! Glad he’s feeling better. Hopefully the Dr will be able to figure out what happened, so it will prevent it from happening again.
Lindsay says:
Oh dear, how frightening that must have been. Glad he’s better than he was, but still worrying. Hope all is and will be well.
xo
Lesley says:
Oh, goodness! How awful! I hope you get some more info or at least reassurances from the doctor!
Lisa says:
I hope so much that it was just an isolated incident, and that you’ll never have to experience such an awful scare again. My heart goes out to you all, especially this week.
Nanette says:
Oh no! So glad he’s alright. I hope today’s appointment goes well. xoxo
Emily says:
Sending positive, healthy thoughts to you and your whole family!
Cristy says:
Ugh!!!! How terrifying for all of you. Hope today goes well. Positive thoughts are headed your way.
Payal says:
Wow, what a terrifying experience. So glad he’s ok and hope his appointment goes well.
Rita says:
Oh Heather. Sending you and Mike and the whole family a huge virtual hug.
Mikaela says:
Soooo scary! Thinking of you today and sending you positive thoughts.
Brooke says:
Reading this made me cry. I know what you guys have been through and I can just imagine how terrifying that had to be for you. I hope so much this was just a freaky, isolated thing–or at the very least that you can get a clear explanation and understanding of how to prevent it.
The anniversary of loss is such a tender time. I’ll be thinking of your entire family this week.
Amy says:
Hoping all is well Heather and Mike. This terrified me, heart racing! Can not imagine how worried you must have been. Hoping of course that this was an isolated event and little strong and healthy little James is just FINE
Allison F. says:
Oh Heather,
I am so sorry you had to deal/are dealing with this today of all days. Tears are in my eyes as a type this. I was a nanny in college and the one child I cared for had something like this happen when she was around 3-4 years of age. It scared the daylights out of me! But, it NEVER happened again. She is now in high school doing quite well for herself!!! My thoughts are with you…from one mama to another.
Kate says:
OMG. How ridiculously scary. I am so sorry you all had to go through that! Poor James. Sending you positive thoughts and prayers!
Cheryl says:
You are in my prayers. My little brother used to spike fevers and go unresponsive and I remember how scary it was racing him to the hospital with my mom trying to wake him up. (he eventually outgrew it and has a PhD so no long term affects)
Glenda says:
Thinking of you guys and waiting for an update! My heart aches and was racing reading this post! Positive thoughts!
April says:
Oh, God, I’m so sorry that happened. We’re all having positive, hopeful thoughts for you all.
Laura says:
Oh, this made me cry. Can only imagine what it did to you guys! Sending you all the best thoughts in the world.
Damita says:
Had tears in my eyes by the time I finished reading this. So scared and yet so relieved that James is okay. I pray that everything checks out at the doctor’s office today. Extra prayers to you, Mike and your family, just because.
rachel says:
How terrifying!!! And the timing…I really do hope they find out what caused this – so that you can be prepared if it happens again (or can be reassured that it was a one-time thing).
Jordan says:
sending all the love today to you Spohrs. xoxo
divrchk says:
That is scary. It sounds very similar to my Sunday. My 12 year old (OK, 12 on Tuesday) had a seizure in the afternoon. He’s never had one before and we had to call an ambulance. The hospital did an EKG and a little blood work and it all came back normal. Like you, I was told this could be a one time thing that never happens again. We followed up with his pediatrician today, will be taking him for an MRI on Wednesday and to an neurologist in a few weeks just for piece of mind. I don’t like things that can’t be diagnosed! Good luck to you!
Lenora says:
Wow,that was so scary! My 9 year old nephew was hit by a car recently, he’s ok, just bumps and bruises but it got me thinking, I don’t know how you parents don’t wrap your kids in bubble wrap all the time! I will be thinking of your whole family today.
Jessica says:
Sending well wishes to James and lots of love, hugs and strength to the whole Spohr family today and everyday this week
Nadinsche says:
That was scary to read! Not to mention what it was to you when you experienced it! I hope everything is well when James is checked through by Dr. Looove!
Anna says:
Oh, I cried reading this and am still teary-eyed thinking about the panic you must have felt! I’m so glad everything ended up okay and I’m sure Dr. Looove will give him a clean bill of health and give you some reassurance.
Heather says:
Sounds so scary! Sending some positive vibes your way. I hope you all are ok.
Charlie Marcotty says:
Oh, that sounds terrifying! My older son, who will be going off to college this year, has had fainting episodes since he was a child. They are still incredibly scary, but less so now that I know to expect them. I have learned some of the triggers, and after multiple doctors’ appts, all kinds of testing, and a lot of worry, the doctor has pronounced him “a fainter.” I have not come anywhere close to the heartache and trauma you have with the loss of your sweet girl, but I do have medical event PTSD, so I thoroughly understand the way one’s heart clutches. Hope everything goes well for James at the doctor’s today.
Christine says:
Oh I can relate. My 17 year old has had vasovagel fainting since age 13. So scary to see her face go pale white and lips turn blue. We have learned triggers…mainly dehydration,and unfortunately, hormonal. Ha g in there and hopefully a one-time thing.
Jeanie says:
Oh, Heather, how awful for you and Mike. I can just imagine how frightened you were. I was on pins and needles and holding my breath just reading about it. Prayers that the little guy’s okay.
Vee says:
My thoughts and prayers to your family.
Giselle says:
Heather, thank goodness he’s OK. I sat here with tears rolling down my face as I read this. I can’t even. Just so grateful he’s OK. Sending hugs and love.
RzDrms says:
I’ve had James and your family and his Saturday scare in the back of my mind all day long. That freaking sucks that this happened to you, and at an already intensely emotional time. Thank God for quick actions and a quick recovery, and hopefully only light and running marathons and smiles for Jamesie. So grateful….
Auntie_M says:
Just saw your update with a breath of relief! And thankfulness! Thanks for letting us know and I look forward with hope to the specialist reconfirm ming her diagnosis of a “one off weird thing”!!!
Your family remains in my thoughts and prayers during this period of sorrowful remembrance.
Much love. ????
Auntie_M says:
Darn those question marks were supposed to be hearts! ?
Auntie_M says:
Argh! Forget the darn heart. Use your brilliant imagination! LOL
Lanie says:
Hoping that the pediatric neurologists sends James home with a clean bill of health too. I am so sorry you all are going through the this – especially now. Sending lots of hugs and hope! xoxo
Jeri says:
How scary! Said prayers for your family today!
Annalien says:
O wow! I went cold all over just reading about this, so I can only imagine what you guys felt! Praying that James is 100% fine.
lauren says:
That must have been very scary and stressful. I am happy to hear he is doing well.
Lex says:
My heart was beating out of my chest as I read this. I’m so glad James recovered. I can’t imagine how scared you must have been. Praying that it’s just one of those things that you’ll have a remember that time story for and never have it happen again. xoxo
mar says:
I am a parent to a fainter – her fainting is 99% triggered by pain or blood. She’s 14, and has probably fainted a dozen times in her life. Only once could we not figure out what triggered it. Tooth came out? Swoon. Have trouble putting in an earring? Out cold. Step on a stapler? Down for the count. We joke she was a southern belle in a previous life, and gets “the vapors”. Now, she got her ears pierced (2x!) with no issues. Took a couple of field hockey ball shots to the thigh and knuckles – no problem. So it’s not consistent. The worst is that afterwards, she gets nauseous, usually throws up, and often loses control of her bladder while she is out. So that makes me nervous for her – bad enough that she faints, but she would die of embarrassment if that happened in public. Afterwards, she gets all clammy and shaky, and then sleeps for 2 hours, and then she is fine. So far, except for one time when she was about 5, it’s always happened at home. We had her checked out when she was young – all test came back clear, and since she has a definite trigger (pain, blood) – they were not concerned (other than that she might hurt herself in the falling).
Kids – never dull! Hoping it was just a 1 time deal for James – and you!
Thinking of you all today.
Lisa says:
I just read this. My heart is pounding reading it. Tears in my eyes. And to think I sent you a cat/spider video-hopefully it made you laugh and not scream in terror!!!! We will all be waiting anxiously with you and holding your hands virtually. You will be held in our hearts always. Lots of love from this event and for Maddie.
alayna says:
This is so scary! I’m glad he is alright. When I was a baby I suddenly stopped breathing for no reason and my lips turned blue and everything. My parents panicked and were rushing to the truck to get me to the hospital (this was before 911). When they brought me outside I started breathing again and was fine. It only ever happened that one time. I’m thinking of all of you this week
Jean says:
Don’t rule out allergies. Allergic reactions happen in all types of ways. It’s not always swelling or hives. When I was reading your post, allergic reaction was the first thing I thought of. I am very active in the food allergy community and have some deadly allergies. I was also reading the ingredients in Pirates Booty. It has sunflower oil in it, something that I am allergic to. Has James eaten any since this happened?
Heather says:
He has! I definitely thought allergy, too, but it doesn’t look that way.
Jean says:
Did they take blood? If so, what was his blood sugar level? Sometimes doctors will say the sugar is fine but it’s actually low enough to get a hypoglycemic attack.
Heather says:
Yes, it was at 97 mg/dL, which the doctor said was “fine.” They still gave him juice to be sure, though.
Melanie says:
I happened upon this post and thought of how horrifying the experience must have been for all of you. Then went about my day sending you good wishes. Then it dawned on me…Pirate’s Booty!
I’ve stopped buying it because it makes me feel light headed and woozy. I just thought I was weird (and probably am for many other reasons), but your experience made me wonder if there is possibly something about Pirate’s Booty. Maybe in my big old adult body I just feel woozy, but a little body might have a stronger reaction???
Zero clue and just a weird connection, but maybe something to think about.
Wishing you all the best!
Heather says:
Is it the Trader Joe’s brand? My kids have been eating it for years with no reactions, and James has had it since with no ill effects, but that’s so interesting!
Melanie says:
Actually it was the real stuff, the Trader Joe’s one, AND the Sprouts one. I loved the stuff and was certain it was just with one brand and that I could continue my addiction with a different brand. Nope. Same response.
The weird thing was that it didn’t happen all of the time, but eventually I would have a bowl and it would trigger the woozy every single time. I’m not an allergy expert, but maybe allergies can build up???? I never got it checked out. I just stopped eating it and stopped experiencing it and didn’t think about it again until your post.
Jenny says:
Thinking of y’all and praying for answers soon. Best wishes for good health!
gorillabuns says:
I can not handle nor process this…. Xoxo
Betsy says:
Heather, this happened to my son a couple times when he was about James’ age. We were also referred to a neuro, and they found nothing wrong. One possibility the doc suggested was that he had been dehydrated– it was a VERY hot summer and he had been running around outside a lot. He is 6 now and hasn’t had another incident.
My 3-year old, on the other hand, likes to scare us with breath-holding spells. Sometimes when he gets hurt, he cries and lets out his breath and then doesn’t inhale again… turns blue, passes out, scares the crap out of us. It has happened probably 6 times now and even though I know it is not dangerous it is incredibly hard to see.
I am so sorry you had that awful scare and it’s probably just one of those weird things.