I almost died leaving the gym today. There have been many times where I thought I was going to die in the gym, but this was a legit nearish-death experience.
I was just about halfway across the cross-walk that leads from the gym to the parking structure when it happened. There was an SUV-type car stopped on my right, and just as I stepped in front of it, the driver revved its engine. I stopped and looked up at the driver, only to see the real-life version of the Maxine character from Hallmark cards:
Seriously, down to the hair, glasses and sneer.
I thought to myself, “Oh, it’s an old lady!” I love old ladies. I hope to be one some day. So I smiled at her, which was apparently the wrong thing to do.
“WALK FASTER!” She yelled at me. And then to drive home her point she honked.
I am pretty sure I looked like a confused dog at this point. My face was like, “Whu?” I was certain that I’d been walking at a normal pace in the cross-walk. Leaving the gym is my favorite part of the gym experience, so I usually have a spring to my step even after a hard workout. Plus, the cross-walk is only crossing two lanes of traffic (one in each direction), so it probably takes me maybe ten seconds to cross. What I’m saying is, Mean Old Lady had probably been stopped for maybe eight seconds at this point.
Mean Old Lady did not like that I took an extra second to stand there with my mouth hanging open, so she took her foot off the brake. You know, with me still standing in front of her car. For a split second I thought, “Of course I’m going to die all sweaty and red-faced.” She honked again. “MOVE!” She yelled. I had to make a decision – I could either dive forward and roll out of the way, Indiana Jones-Style, or I could be a normal person and step back. I took a giant step backward, and luckily there wasn’t a car coming from the opposite direction. There was, however, a person there, and I slammed into him and almost knocked him to the ground. As I turned to make sure he was okay, Mean Old Lady sped away.
I asked the guy if he’d seen the whole thing with the Mean Old Lady, and he confirmed that the woman had acted totally crazy.
When I got home Mike and Annie were sitting at the table eating. I told Mike that I almost died and we need to finalize our will, and he replied, “You say that every time you go to the gym.”
Mijke says:
I’m sorry, but I just laughed out loud at that last line…
Sorry you had such a nasty encounter with a mean little old lady (in a huge big car). What was she in such a hurry for, anyway? Afraid she’ll miss her own funeral…?
shannon says:
Mean people suck!
Sue says:
Thank goodness you’re safe & she didn’t slam her car into you, Heather. Wouldn’t you have liked to had the time to ask her just what the F… her problem was, so you woudn’t have to spend the rest of the day wondering? I live in Florida, and if people cross against the light; they’ll bang their cane on the hood of your car to make sure you don’t move while they’re in front of it!! Makes you wonder just what the rest of her trip was like (and who else she terrorized) before she finally took herself back home!!!!
TonyaM says:
Ugh. I don’t deal well when I’m at the receiving end of crazy. I’m crazy enough by myself. I would have torn into the old bat (verbally) before she knew what hit her. As funny as this story may seem, it’s too bad you didn’t get her license number. Granny needs to be taken off the road. Her little display of taking her foot off the gas could have easily killed you.
Casey says:
OMG, I think people like that just wake up being mean. NOT.COOL.
Marie says:
I so totally hear you. I didn’t die but the encounter left me bewildered and feeling bad.
My first trip to the big town – Fargo ND. I went to apply for a job at Gate City Bank. I finally got within range and I could see it but I was stopped at a one way and it was going the wrong way. I paused at the stop sign and wondered how I was going to get the opposite way. Meanwhile a little old lady in back of me honked, gave me the finger and then swerved around me. She had trouble seeing over the top of her steering wheel. So she was little and old and mean! I detained her by possibly 15 seconds. It left me speechless and wondering. I was about your age and it was many years ago but I still wonder at that old lady. Kids, yes, they give you the finger if you are too slow. I don’t like mean people either. I often wonder when I am on the freeway why people are driving 75 mph about 5 feet from the back of my car. Yes I know you are back there and yes I know you are in a hurry but I can’t get over until that car to my right is gone! Duh!! They want you to know how busy they are. What I always wonder is if it’s worth killing yourself and the driver in front of you and possibly your children if they are along?
Glad you are ok and Mike was sympathetic!!! lol
Hugs from Minnesota
Marie
ColleenMN says:
I would have looked at MOL’s license and reported her, what ia beeeeotch.
S says:
Ha, Mike’s response was priceless! Also, I wonder what had that lady in such a mood? (The Little Mary Sunshine in me wants to believe it was a mood instead of her actual personality.)
Staci says:
I think we’ve all learned a valuable lesson here … road rage knows no age.
Be careful!
Sara says:
Are you sure it wasn’t Amanda Bynes? I work at a hospital and have a crosswalk just as you described and it’s the scariest part of my day. I guess if I get hit I’ll already be at the hospital.
Kelly says:
At least once per day, I am nearly run over in the parking lot at work. Every day.
People are crazy.
Lisa F. says:
I hope you got the old bag’s license plate and called the police on her. Some people suck!
Mary says:
I would have just stared her down, looked her straight in the eye and said, “REALLY,” very loudly as I crossed ever so slowly to the other side. And had she revved a bit more I probably would have stopped and put my hand out toward her car.
Then again, I’m the person who pulls up alongside of bicyclists who ignore the rules of the road (running stop signs/lights, no hand signals, etc.) and shout out “the rules of the road apply to you, too.” Hmm…there may be a reason that my husband dislikes being a passenger with me…
Hope the rest of your day was safe.
Heather Heasley says:
Maybe she had to poop?
Lanie says:
Glad you are ok. mean people suck! Just be nice (please). Take care.
Chris says:
I hate people who drive crazy in parking lots. I’ve been known to yell at them and say “really, you’re in a parking lot, slow down, and you don’t need to honk”. I hate people who honk. Really?!
ColleenMN says:
I would see if there is video available. If so, check it out and see if you can get a plate number. I would bet she’s done it before and you may save someone else’s life……
Jeanie says:
I might, just a teensy bit, resemble Maxime, but I swear I was nowhere near your neighborhood yesterday. What a whack!
Annalisa says:
“Do you have anyone who can confirm your alibi, Ma’am?”
Annalisa says:
Should I feel bad that Mike’s comment had me in stitches?
In my defense, it’s because that’s totally the sort of patter my husband and I have when we’re coming back from a hike.
Me: “Omg! *huff* *puff*. I can’t go on. I just can’t. Just go on down without me, and I’ll just roll myself down the hill after I’m done dying.”
Husband: “You don’t mean that.”
Me: “Buh?”
Husband: “… Because you say that on every hike, and you’ve yet to actually attempt it.”
Beckie says:
If my mother-in-law weren’t dead (and never lived in CA), I would say you encounter her. It took me YEARS to enjoy the Maxine character because she is the spitting image of my MIL… hat, sunglasses, cigarette and stinking attitude.
I am glad you weren’t hurt and lived to see Mike and Annie!
Laura says:
omg…I just laughed out loud through this whole thing! And I am that person who rarely ever laughs out loud, so that is quite an accomplishment. Great story telling…and I’m glad you were unharmed
Katrina @ They All Call Me Mom says:
I totally want to be an old lady, too, one day. But never a mean old lady! There are mean old ladies and grouchy old men all over the place. What makes them like that? Do they live each day remembering what it was like to be in a young, agile and beautiful body…and so they are bitter and angry everyday, disgruntled at their lost youth? Do they resent those who are still in their “youth” ? Or are these people simply acting the way they always have? Maybe they were mean and grumpy even in their 30’s and 40’s. Who knows.
Someone once told me that the elderly can appear to be grumpy and cross all the time because they simply do not feel good. Their bodies hurt, their minds are slowing down, their friends are dying, and maybe their family doesn’t visit them as often as they used to. I guess those things can make anyone a bit grumpy
JENN says:
Lol, she must be from TX because I see those little old blue haired meanies everywhere down here!