I got my roots done yesterday. Incidentally, a good way to convince your husband that you need your hair fixed is to post a self-portrait on the internet with an arrow pointing to your gray roots. Everyone Mike came into contact with said, “why won’t you let your wife get her hair done!” which of course befuddled Mike, because he has no control over it, and finally he said, “get your hair dyed or whatever so people will stop bugging me!” Gladly.
I went back to my stylist and told her to fix up my roots. We were chatting away, and then I told her that my eyebrows don’t match my hair color and it was frustrating me when it came to makeup. She gave me some tips and then I finally said, “Can you just dye my eyebrows?”
My laziness, let me show it to you.
She paused. “Well, I could but I don’t know…your eyebrows are blond.”
“So they’ll take the dye then!”
“Yes…but they will really take they dye. They will be…red.”
“Perfect! Sign me up!”
An hour later when I looked in the mirror, I realized what she was talking about.
For reference, here are my eyebrows before I went to the salon:
(that is my shocked face, if someone shows me something shocking, I often take a picture of my reaction and send it off.)
And here they are now:
We got a little too close to the web cam on this one:
Bright. Red. Caterpillars. Like I have a sunburn ONLY UNDER MY EYEBROWS. I have Bozo the Clown’s eyebrows.
Why didn’t I listen to my stylist? WHY WHY WHY WHY WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYY?!?!
Heidi says:
Don’t worry, pretty lady, they’ll fade! Maybe you can color over them with an eyebrow pencil? You and Annie are such cuties!
Gemini-Girl says:
It will totally fade.
Totally.
Ha Ha (ala Nelson)
catherine lucas says:
I think they go wonderwell with the color of hair you have in the last photograph… Don’t worry. You look smashing to me…
Anna says:
Ok you have phenomenal hair!!!! It is just gorgeous. In those pictures you posted with Annie you kind of look like a teenage mom. You seriously look like 17. And WOW does little Annie look like Maddie in some of those pictures.
Lynn from For Love or Funny says:
Wait a second….how can you look so beautiful after you’ve been nursing Annie to health for the past couple of weeks? I’m jealous – even of the red eyebrows!
molly says:
My mom dyes her eyebrows and it always chills out pretty quickly. Once it does, your natural color will be fine. I’m a natural redhead and my eyebrows are blonde – granted my hair is more red-red and yours is more brown with a little red… but I think the principal holds? The principal being that lots of people have blonde eyebrows, regardless of hair color?
Which I pencil the HELL out of… so jealous of people with dark, full eyebrows, I can’t blame you for trying the dye!
Penbleth says:
This is the best laugh I’ve had in a while. Watch out World indeed. Fab eyebrows.
I know, I’m a horrible person.
Colleen says:
Your eyelashes look fine, I see no problem
edenland says:
And now I feel like a burger because you look like Ronald McDonald.
Jenn says:
Hey Mama,
No worries….just shampoo them when you do your hair and they will fade. I do it all the time only when I do my eye brows I usually look like Groucho Marx!!! No kidding!!! I have brown hair!
BTW – I had such a vivid dream with yourself, Annie, Mike, your mom & dad & brother in it. It was sooo cool!! ha ha
You should check out the blog called – 2 kids, a mimi van and a mortage. What this family is going through is terrible and truly makes you count your blessing.
Have a good day Sweetie and no worries, I think you look beautiful! You will ALWAYS be a SUPER STAR in my books!!!
Jenn
Gina says:
Don’t fret – red fades the fastest of all color. In the mean time, just use an ash-blonde, or similar, brow powder to mute the red a bit.
You are beautiful. You just aren’t used to seeing it in the mirror.
kbreints says:
LOL!! I would be washing them with shampoo just lie I so my hair so they fade quickly…
Reminds me of the friends episode when Ross when to the tanning bed… lol
Connie says:
maybe i have questionable taste but, i dont think they look bad at all. i certainly wouldnt be staring at you if i saw you on the street–i mean, i would cuz your hair looks so pretty, but not b/c you have red caterpillars or anything!
Jessica says:
Sorry…had to chuckle!
Totally been there…done that.
Do not try to fix them with more dye!!!
They’ll fade soon enough.
Tamara says:
Heheheheee…
That is all.
adena says:
So, uh….natural redheads tend to be stuck w/ the bozo the clown eyebrows all the time!
Alas, I have them.
I’m used to them by now, but I do use a darker copper eyebrow pencil on them. Maybe try that? That way they still match your hair, they’re just a bit darker.
Mommy says:
They don’t look that bad at all! Your gorgeous hair and eyes are what stand out, so don’t worry! They will fade super fast anyway!
I did my brows once (tried to make them lighter) and while they looked pretty good, once I started getting eyebrow “roots”, I threw in the towel and decided my natural brow color was just fine!
You still look like a hot mama, even with red eyebrows!! Promise!!!
Cathy says:
Just keep holding that adorable baby everywhere you go. Then maybe nobody will notice your eyebrows!
Sara Mc. says:
They will fade, trust me. My nana has her eyebrows dyed (not sure why) black and she has stark white hair. Pretty funny when she gets them done, but after a couple of days, it starts to fade. At least now you know what not to do the next time you are at the stylist! Have a great week.
Jan says:
Wow you still look pretty awesome & so does Annie….but my solution to eyebrow color is just get some brown eyelash mascara, take the top off for about 3 days to dry it out some, then gently apply to your eyebrows! My brows are very light blond & it just gives a slightly darker soft brown look to blend with my highlighted hair. No hair color, no fuss solution! Good Luck !
Gertie says:
I think the only solution is to shave them off and then draw them on with eyeliner and/or a washable marker until they grow back.
Melissa says:
Thats just mean! (made me laugh though)
AJ says:
They aren’t that bad, but if you are worried about them, get yourself a brow pencil and you’ll be all set!
Megan says:
Actually…I like them. I mean, I really do. I don’t think they look unnatural.
But, as others said, they’ll fade.
Snarky Mommy says:
But your hair looks FABULOUS! Annie is cracking me up in these pictures. She’s all, “Mom, my eyebrows are lighter than my hair, too! Please don’t dye them.”
LBA says:
Yikes! You’re NEVER supposed to dye your eyebrows- the dye can severely damage your eyes! Your stylist should know better!
Ms. Moon says:
Oh honey, you’re just gorgeous.
deb says:
I’ve heard that head & shoulders shampoo is very good at removing dye from hair. Eyebrows are hair, just sayin’.
wonderchris says:
It just makes you look like a natural redhead, which in my opinion isn’t a bad thing.
You look fabulous. Rock it!!!
Lisa says:
Oh my!
Julie says:
They’ll fade fast, like in days. Mine are very blonde too, in the summer they pretty much disappear off my face (and my hair is NOT blonde so go figure!) so I have to “pencil” mine in with a little brown eye shadow. It works great. I’ve tried the dyeing thing too and ended up looking like Groucho Marx. Not a good look…
Lisa_in_WI says:
Oh no!
My stylist puts some red in my brown hair, and says it’s always the first color to fade, so I agree with those above who said it should fade pretty quickly.
The good news is that Annie looks like she’s feeling better!
Jana says:
I think they look good! Seriously… I didn’t think it looks bad AT ALL.
Elizabeth says:
I don’t think they look that bad. I’m sure they’ll fade soon!! You and Annie look GREAT in the pictures!!!
AmazingGreis says:
It’ll fade! And for the record, you’re hair looks amazing!
Laurin says:
I actually did look like Groucho Marx in high school when I let a hairstylist dye my eyebrows for the first time. They were black. It was incredibly traumatic.
Maybe I can help. My eyebrows are blonde, too. I use Revlon Colorsilk in dark brown (super cheap) and dye my eyebrows once a month. I use an old mascara wand to apply the dye and then wash off after 20 minutes. It works perfectly for me.
Charlene R says:
I apologize – I laughed – but they sell eyebrow pencils – you could darken them up a little bit!! Good luck!!
Stacy says:
On the plus side your eyes looking stunningly blue, and your hair looks mahvalous! I’m rocking the same red hair and have been struggling to make my brows match. Thanks for the warning not to go that path! It’ll fade, and you’re gorgeous to boot, so simmer down! Pretty girls…sheesh.
Betsy says:
I think they look beautiful! Really.
Elle says:
I think you should put bandaids over each eyebrow and add a fake black eye or use a black eyebrow pencil so people know how badass you are and step out of your way. You can totally use this to your advantage until the color fades. I wonder if clarifying shampoo would work on your eyebrow like it does on bad color jobs which I’ve had plenty of.
You are rockin’ that hair though. See, you just have to look on the bright (red) side.
Tara. says:
OMG! You goof! I’m sure it will wash out quickly. Try some rubbing alcohol on them once a day, scrub REALLY hard!
And then go find a good make up counter somewhere and have them show you have ti blend it with a pencil so they aren’t so OUT there. Good Luck!
You crack me up.
cori says:
You look phenom!!! I think your eyebrows will chill out in a day or so.
I once asked my stylist to go with a little red in my color and it was like “LUCY I’M HOME”!!
Christina says:
I don’t know why the stylist didn’t just make them a little darker… browner maybe with a hint of red. That would have matched your hair better. She should not have done that to you.
[wagging my finger] No! Bad stylist! Bad!
Amanda G. says:
I actually love your eyebrows dyed. You look so youthful!!!
jenn says:
I don’t think they look bad at all! Looks good and so does cutie pie Annie!!
Kristin (MamaKK922) says:
They will fade fast. But they do look good on you honestly. I have seen bad eyebrows. I had a friend go platinum blonde and insist her eyebrows match she looked creepy I couldn’t talk to her till the eyebrows went away. But I really like yours and the hair.
mosey says:
To be honest, I think you look adorable. I get my brows done too, but over time have learned I need to have her wipe off the dye within three minutes or I have the caterpillar look. Plus I get home and my seven year old tells me my eyebrows look creepy, and you don’t want that….
Drew says:
Don’t worry about your eyebrows. When I had red hair I dyed my eyebrows and the first 2 days they look wild but in a day or two they fade and look normal. Promise
Kelli says:
Purple colored shampoo takes the edge off. They are a little shocking, but make your eyes stand out sooooo much :]
Sandra says:
I once heard a rule that you should never dye your eyebrows no matter what shade they are compared to your head hair. I don’t know why but it stuck with me. So whether my hair is red, brown, blond or green, my eyebrows never change. (I don’t really do green hair).
Brittany says:
Ohhhhh sweetie.
Been there. Only it was bleach. I had blisters.
http://barefootfoodie.com/2008/07/01/when-things-go-painfully-wrong/
Melissa says:
BWAHAHAHAHAHA!
Melissa says:
Yeah, I have done it too. And no, it doesnt look good. BUT like everyone has said, eyebrows fade FAST. Just keep scrubbin. And the brow pencil. just dust it over your eyebrows. Do NOT draw a line or press hard. Lightly brush the pencil over the brows.
PS – I only laughed for a minute. Until I saw Brittany’s picture.
Megan@TrueDaughter says:
You look great! Just pencil a slightly darker color over until it fades a bit.
Miss Annie’s cheeks are thinning out! Form sickness, or just growing up? If she is starting to walk, it’s probably a combo. Gorgeous kiddo!
My baby never got chubby cheeks, he just got tall and skinny really fast, because he never held still, not even when he was tiny!
Amanda M. says:
I like them! Does that make me weird?
Sue says:
Awwwww, those life lessons….fun, aren’t they? Like when I decided I HAD to cut my own hair before senior prom. Only I kept going to even it out and before you know it…..I had a hair style in the shape of the head of a penis. Good times.
Rebecca says:
I didn’t notice anything strange or different…..all I noticed is that sweet little girl!
Lisa says:
Don’t worry you still look absolutely beautiful Plus, the color will fade.
vickie says:
been there. perhaps more then once but who’s counting? it fades quickly.
michelle in MO says:
They aren’t that bad. Seriously! Hide the photos from Annie though. When you drag out the naked ones of her when she’s going to prom, she’ll whip one of these out of her little handbag and chase you around with it.
Catherine says:
LOL.. I don’t think they look Bad at all Heather. I have red hair and do my eyebrows all the time. They will fade over time and then they will match perfectly No need to worry! Your hair looks lovely !!
Veronika says:
Well, that is… hilarious. I LOVE your face in the first pic with the red eyebrows. Made me totally LOL! It really does not look as bad as you think. I promise.
amy says:
I have been told that dish soap is good for getting dye out.. Love your hair!
Amy S. says:
I think it looks fine. The red looks natural. You can still use an eyebrow pencil if you want right?
thatgirlblogs says:
That’s it. Shave ’em off.
Kidding. They’re fine. Mine are grey and sparse, feel better?
Christine Hendricks says:
Um, ya WHATEVER girlfriend, you have the most perfect hair and skin tone ever so get over it…just sayin’. Meant in the most respectful way, of course!
katrina @ They All Call Me Mom says:
Oh you’re too cute. They don’t look awful, and they’ll fade out just fine. You are very brave to do something even though your stylist wasn’t too sure about it from the get-go. But maybe you knew you had a fall-back – the eyebrow pencils can be a life saver! Although in your case, you really don’t need it. They look fine
m says:
Looks like your hair girl made a novice’s error!
You never, ever, ever dye your eyebrows to *match* your hair. Your eyebrows are always 3-4 shades *DARKER* than your hair. Always.
So when you dye your eyebrows, you always dye them 3-4 shades darker than the hair on your head!
No worries — you just need to have her re-do them.
The red will fade — that’s the one disadvantage of dying red; it fades fairly quickly due to the chemical composition. But it’s not likely to improve their appearance. They’ll just look more strawberry blonde. (That shade of red doesn’t fade to brown; it fades to a muddy strawberry blonde. Sorry. Years of doing hair has me certain about this!) And they’ll fade at the same rate as the hair on your head, so they’ll continue to look strange because they should be darker than your head hair!
So just get them re-done. Don’t listen to the other comments, recommending washing, rubbing alcohol, etc. It won’t make a difference. It’s UV that causes red to fade (and it’s virtually impossible to expose your eyebrows to UV without exposing your head hair! Not to mention, it’s unhealthy!) You can wash it until the cows come home — you’ll just have really dried-out albeit clean eyebrows.
m says:
Almost forgot to mention…
That 3-4 shades darker rule only applies to non-black hair colors.
If you’re hair is black or very, very dark brown, your eyebrows are apt to be close to the color of your head hair. There are also ethnicity-related exceptions to the 3-4 shade rule (Contrary to popular belief, we do learn quite a bit when you go to a *good* trade school!)
But none of those instances apply in your case, Heather.
Amy says:
I think they look good! I made the huge mistake of dying my hair black in high school/college. Several times. I have naturally dark blonde hair, so you can only imagine the sheer disaster-ness of my hair. I dyed my eyebrows to match…I looked like Wednesday Addams & Eddie Munster’s love child. Could be so much worse!
eliza says:
I can’t really tell but you look good to me. It totally brightens up your eyes. And you do look super young. Maybe she could go more brown, like light brownish? And yeah brown eye brown pencil will tone them down.
Rebecca says:
I actually like em. Ya look good!!!
VDog says:
Get thee to a Benefit boutique. They will fix them for you.
Trust me, the only place to dye your brows. Deffo NOT the salon. (Cracker.)
Your hair sure looks pretty!
Noelia LEoncavallo says:
Awesome! lol
You & your Daughter are Gorgeous!