On Sunday my friends and I went out on a boat for a day of swimming and fun. I never know how I’m going to do on boats because I get pretty severe motion sickness. Luckily, a very strict regimen of Dramamine kept me illness-free and we had a great time.
When I got home from the boat ride, I felt like I was still on the water – that unsteady, swaying feeling, especially when I closed my eyes. I kept waiting for it to go away, but as the evening went on the swaying progressed into dizziness and I started to feel nauseated. Luckily the kids were asleep because Mike was at the Paul McCartney concert. I texted my mom that I felt like I was seasick on land, and then I spent the next twenty or so hours battling intestinal disruption.
Thankfully, my mom was able to help me out in the morning and take Annabel to her swimming lesson, but I was on my own with the kids for the majority of the day. I had to pull out every last distraction trick I knew to make it through the hours until Mike was able to come home. It was…not my favorite day. But I did learn some things:
~Annabel is a great kid. I mean, I already knew that, but she was just such so helpful when I was at my sickest. She would play with James when I was in the bathroom, offer to get me water, and she even brought me a cool washcloth and rubbed my hands.
~James is already trying to climb out of his crib. I had to toss him in there a few times on my way to the bathroom, and when I’d go to retrieve him he’d often have a leg up on the railing. I don’t know what to do about this other than scream internally.
~I limit how much children’s television we watch, not because I’m anti-TV (I’m definitely not) but because most of it drives me insane. But when Mommy is sick that TV is on and hoooo I’d forgotten how much I hate Caillou. Just writing that name put the theme song in my head, DAMN IT.
~Speaking of children’s TV, Older Dora freaks me out. Annie had never seen the Tween Dora and was like, “Mommy, Dora is older!…why is she older?” Um, I dunno, Annie. Market Share and merchandising?
~Mom laying on the floor = Let’s lay on mom!
~My phone is now full of Toca Boca kid apps. They are worth every penny.
~If it was possible for me to be even more done with having kids, this did it. There’s no way I could be that sick every day for nine months with two other kids at home. My hat’s off to everyone who’s managed HG with older children because DAMN.
I don’t know if I ate something that didn’t agree with me, or if I had a 24-hour bug, or maybe I overdid it on the Dramamine, but about an hour before I started writing this I managed to have some soup and water and kept it all in. Hopefully the bug is on its way out, whatever it is, and this will be the end of Intestinal Distress 2014…at least until school starts and Kid Germs find their way into my house.
Erin says:
Glad you are starting to feel better…. And I have to agree with the Toca apps!!! They are GREAT! We stumbled upon them when one was the free app of the week. I can’t believe how they hold my boys’ interest.
Cindy says:
That is so awful, but look how amazing Annie is. Empathy is hard concept for a 4-year-old, but she’s got it down, and that’s evidence of her beautiful spirit.
That being said:
1. Calliou is the devil. I don’t understand why kids love to watch him, because every single parent I know runs screaming at the thought of him.
2. Keep an eye on the Toca Boca apps in the App Store. They frequently go on “sale” and you can get one or two for free. I have a ton (the beauty salon is a favorite!) and I’ve never paid for any.
Glad you are feeling better!!!
Sue says:
Hope you’re feeling better, Heather, and I know it even gets kind of scary when you have little ones to watch, and you are so sick that you can hardly move. Tell Annie that I think she is just the best ever for helping mommy like that when she was sick.
Melanie says:
When my son was James’ age he started climbing out of his crib too. I ended up taking the bottom out of the crib and lowering the mattress all the way to the floor. I put a piece of plywood under the mattress to ensure there was no gap between the mattress and the bottom of the crib. This gave me a few extra months of containment before we just had to give up on the concept.
Casey says:
There is nothing worse than being sick. Alone. With young children to take care of. And the stomach stuff is harder than the “run of the mill cold” because, well, you can’t know when the stomach stuff is about to strike. I’ve done it once and it was the worst day/night ever. Hats off to you lady for surviving – and here’s to hoping it’s all gone!
Jenny says:
I hope that you’re fully mended and back to your old self soon. I read somewhere that 24 hour bugs are generally food issues. It’s a scary thought. My husband and I had a bad encounter with BBQ chicken pizza 10 years ago. To this day, neither of us can eat any sort of chicken pizza.
We banned Caillou. When the light bulb went off that my son whined more immediately after the show then we shut it down entirely. There are too many good choices to tolerate that show. I like to think the old Scooby Doo expanded his vocabulary.
Elizabeth says:
Are we the same person? Okay, not the BBQ chicken pizza part but the banning of Caillou and substituting Scooby Doo
JENNY says:
Jeepers! I think that we solved the mystery! I still love that show. Have a great day!
Rita says:
I hate that feeling of the waves after you’re off a boat! I’m a swimmer and do a swim in Lake Michigan every year and two years ago the waves were so bad that I “fed the fishes” during the race…twice! I felt pretty bad for the people around me! I’m glad you’re doing a little better!!
Margie says:
Caillou is the worst. Thank God the kid isn’t into him. Peppa Pig we like and we tolerate Dora but Boots, dangit.
I hope you are better today.
Libby says:
My three year old can put things down the toilet in toca town for days. Days! Feel better.
Madeleine says:
I can’t stop singing the Caillou song now but unlike most I love him. LOL Dora, my kids don’t really know. Didn’t know she’s a teen now.
Feel better Heather.
Jodi says:
I hope you feel better soon!
Vicky says:
Feel better!
Kristie says:
It could have been Vertigo, if you were still feeling dizzy. It’s the liquid in your ear getting out place. I suffer from this issue after boating and roller coasters sometimes. My cousin also does, he tried this method a few weeks ago and said it worked like a charm. Went from sick to fine in 5 minutes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1VWyPgfMuvM
Heather says:
Wow I’ll have to try that next time!
Ashley says:
Oh my….. I hate Caillou too!!! He is so damn whiney! Jax only gets to see him on his ipad. I refuse to hear that in my house.
I hope you’re on the road to recovery!
Kristin says:
I’m pretty sure there’s a 24 hour bug going around VC. I know several people who have been ill with it over the last few weeks, my family included. Not fun, but at least it’s over quickly.
Does Annie watch Wild Kratts? My boys (5 and 6 1/2) LOVE them. It helps that they are both animal-obssessed, but the show is really good. Part documentary style with real animals, part animated with new adventures each show. Its’ on PBS, but Netflix has a bunch of episodes too I can’t stand the majority of children’s shows, so anything that is actually informative and useful is good to go in my boat. (I too, don’t understand the deal with Caillou- he’s such a whiner!)
Heather says:
No! But now I’m going to look the Wild Kratts up, it sounds like something she’d love!
Hallie says:
Here is a link about the lowering the mattress to the ground like Michelle said.
http://growinguptriplets.com/2013/08/05/how-to-keep-baby-from-climbing-out-of-a-crib/
Heather says:
That’s cool…I wonder if it would work with our cheapo ikea crib!
Jennifer @ GrowingUpTriplets.com says:
Thanks for the link back, Hallie! Heather, I hope this works for your little guy so you have some more time with him in the crib! Our triplets are still in theirs at 34 months.
Love your site and was so affected by the story of Maddie’s birth! The last sentence gave me chills – I’m sure going back to your OB to show your beautiful baby girl was priceless. Moms of multiples are often told to “selectively reduce.” Thankfully, none of my doctors ever recommended that but we would never have been able to do that – who would we have been without if they had recommended and we’d given in??
God bless you! Followed you.
Jennifer F.
Nicole says:
Ugh. I remember having morning sickness with my second and my daughter bouncing up and down on my head while I lay on the floor trying not to puke. I got sick once when I was pregnant with baby # 1 and it was after drinking stawberry milk. I still cant drink the stuff.
Kristen in CO says:
I think you really might have been “land sick.” After my first (and to date, only) cruise, I felt really ill. Just like the seasickness I had (mostly) managed to keep at bay (ha!) during the cruise. I was still feeling dizzy and nauseous a few days after returning home, and my PCP diagnosed “mal de debarquement” syndrome. It cleared up on its own after about a week, but sometimes it affects people for weeks, months, or longer. I’m now afraid to go back on the water b/c I don’t want to risk another occurrence! It was awful. Besides the nausea, the worst was literally falling out of my car @ Qdoba b/c I misjudged where the ground was. I was mortified as there were plenty of witnesses and I was sure they were wondering if I was under the influence. Makes me queasy just remembering it, and this was 4 1/2 years ago!
Leah says:
I lovelovelove being on boats, yet I do get seasick. It’s a big drag.
I had never heard of Tween Dora. That’s pretty weird. Sort of the reverse of babifying characters, which Sesame Street and the Muppets have done. I’d like to see (and *hear*) Tween Elmo!
Jeanie says:
Hope you’re feeling better. You’ll look back one of these days and be amazed that you were able to care for the kids in spite of being sick. Thank God for bedtime!
Lisa says:
Did you download the science experiment toca boca app? That one is tons of fun!
Deirdre says:
I, too, like someone mentioned above, wondered if it might have been vertigo. Also, I second Wild Kratts. It’s a little goofy but the kids learn an awful lot about animals and nature.
Giselle says:
I suffer from horrible motion sickness, too. I’ve been known to get sick from elevators. Not kidding. For boats and the one cruise I’ve been on, I rely on the motion sickness patch. It goes behind your ear and lasts for three days, even with swimming. It’s prescription only, but worth it. I also have used it for road trips when I know I’ll be in a car for several days in a row. Works so great, I CAN READ. IN A CAR. SITTING IN THE BACK. ON A HOT DAY.
The other thing is that I cannot take more than one 24 Dramamine a day. I can take one in the evening and then the next morning, so not necessarily 24 hours, but I never take one in the morning and another later in the day. When I have, it makes me sick later. I take the less drowsy Dramamine or Walgreen’s brand. Same thing.
The regular Dramamine puts me to sleep like nothing else if I take it during the day. Done. Feel exhausted. Can’t keep my eyes open. Asleep all day.
I know we’re all different, but I figured I would share what works and doesn’t work for me.
I think if you took more than one less drowsy Dramamine, that could’ve been what did you in. Once I’m motion sick, there’s no getting better till the next day. And too much Dramamine does the same to me.
Good luck next time. Hope you’re all better!