I was looking back at my blog archives from last year, and I realized that almost exactly a year ago, I wrote about the effects hyperemesis gravidarum had on my teeth. It’s very common for HG sufferers to have massive enamel erosion on their teeth, and I was not one of the lucky ones: almost every single tooth in my mouth needed work, with my back molars and top front teeth having the most damage. I started the process of repairing them last year, and it’s been a long, painful, expensive journey.
We’re lucky we have dental insurance, but our coverage maxes out at a pretty low amount (low for what I need, at least). Last year, we worked on the teeth that were in the worst shape at the time (my back teeth) because that’s what we could afford. Unfortunately, that meant that the problems with my other teeth just got worse, requiring more extensive (and expensive) work done.
At the end of last year I asked my dentist to lay out a complete treatment plan, and he mapped out what each procedure would cost now versus waiting a year. He completely understood cost restrictions and never pressured me, but was also very honest about the risks associated with waiting on some of the teeth. Oral infections can lead to all sorts of other health problems. Mike and I worked out a budget, I took on extra projects, and my dentist worked out a payment plan with us. In January, we started the work on the front teeth…and we are just now, at the end of May, finishing it.
My front teeth were in really, really bad shape. I was terribly self-conscious of how they looked, to the point where I wouldn’t smile with my teeth in some photos. The enamel was so eroded on a few of them that they were cracked and discolored. I had to see a specialist for a few procedures, but his team was so kind and gentle. I especially liked one of the specialist’s assistants because she’d had three HG pregnancies and also had terrible damage to her teeth. It made me feel a lot better to know she’d had the same experience.
The one benefit to the work I needed done on my front teeth was getting caps on some of them. It sounded so movie star-glamorous until I realized how painful that whole procedure was (and gross…the prepping of the teeth…yuck). My face was numb from my lips to my eyes (I couldn’t even close my left eye). Breathing through a numb nose was a very strange experience! Then, my gums swelled up so much that my dentist had to replace my temporary crowns…it was really, really unpleasant.
When I was being fitted for the caps, my dentist said that I could change them up and make them look however I wanted. I said, “On a scale of one to ten, I want these teeth to be Oprah.” My dentist looked at me and said, “How about we make them a little more realistic?” Damn him and his sensible ideas. So, we decided to even out the color, and straighten my softball-damaged tooth. This is how they look now:
I am really happy with how well they are healing. The swelling in my gums is mostly gone, and I no longer have pain when I eat/drink/breathe. And of course, I think they look as good as Oprah smells (I have it on good authority that she smells like rare flowers, wisdom, and $10,000 bills). I like that the caps blend in with my other teeth, although eating with them is taking some getting used to. I’m not afraid to show my teeth when I smile now.
I still have a few more teeth that need work, but it’s nothing emergent and my dentist doesn’t think anything will progress any time soon (but he’s monitoring everything regularly). On a scale of one to ten, I’m feeling pretty Oprah.
Valerie says:
You (and your teeth) look WONDERFUL!! Sorry you’ve had to go through this, but thanks (once again) for educating so many with your gentle, realistic humor!! You are an AMAZING example for SO many… young, old, and in between!! So glad to have found your blog YEARS ago, and to continue to follow you and your beautiful family along on your journeys!!
MUCH LOVE from Ohiooooooooooo!!
Valerie
Sue says:
Your teeth look great, Heather! Is that a common reaction , with the overall gum & lip swelling & etc., when getting crowns? Sounds very scary! I’ve had crowns several times, and my son has as well, and we experienced none of that. I’m due for 2 more.
DefendUSA says:
Heather–You can write off those expenses on your taxes since, as a homeowner you itemize. Medical out of pocket expenses that exceed 10% of your adjusted gross income can be deductible. Two years ago it was 7.5%. If you didn’t know and you had high medical bills because of pregnancy, you can amend and possibly get more money back. Just an FYI…:)
Erin @ One Particular Kitchen says:
Beautiful! Very Oprah-esq.
Jessica says:
Your teeth look amazing! Your smile is so cute!
I capped my front top four teeth and I love them. It really made a huge difference in my smile and confidence. It was a frightening experience to have the teeth prepped for the caps – I know exactly what you mean and I’m terrified that one day I eat something that I shouldn’t and they pop off. I’m sure your dentist already told you, but stay away from taffy (biting and pulling it), caramel apples, apples, etc.
As always, thanks for your posts!
Kitty Deschanel says:
I know how you feel about all the dental work (hence, my post “The NeverEnding Story of Cosmetic Dentistry: http://lambaround.blogspot.com/2015/03/albuquerque-dentist-review-shaw.html) and about those lousy insurance maximums. At least you didn’t need crown lengthening!
Your teeth look amazing!!!
rachel says:
Yay, your birthday gift to yourself for your little one’s second birthday!! You deserve (and yikes – do I hate dental work!)
Shelley Viestenz says:
You look beautiful, simply beautiful!
Tricia says:
Get your Oprah on girl! So glad that the pain is gone and that you are feeling confident again. They look great!
Effie says:
They looks so good! I have caps on my 6 front top teeth. You’ll get used to them and completely forget they’re not your real teeth. Keep smilin!!
christine says:
Beautiful!
Jeanie says:
My, what beautiful, white teeth you have, my dear. Seriously, they look great. I always had a fear of going to the dentist, and I swear that novocain does not work on me as well as it should. I always felt pain! At one point I had a partial because I had lost one of my front teeth. Now, here’s my most embarrassing moment: One day when I went in to work early (6:00ish) I saw a guy who worked in another area of the building standing in the lobby. I knew he kind of liked me, and when he saw me he said, “Good morning, Beautiful.” I gave him my biggest smile and said good morning back. And wouldn’t you know, that was the day I forgot to put my partial in. Sigh.
Katie says:
I’m so glad you were able to get it taken care of. I had a MUCH less severe morning sickness situations and I ended up with 9 cavities and a cracked tooth. I’m only halfway done with the dental work and it is awful. I hope the rest of the work is quick, easy and cheap.
Michelle says:
Ugh, I totally understand. I have Sjogrens Syndrome…it’s an autoimmune disorder in the same family as lupus but it impacts the moisture producing glands in your body. Mine mostly impacts my salvitory glands….leading to dry mouth and major dental issues. I ended up getting six of my bottom teeth pulled and use a partial denture. It was an awful decision to make, but my husband was unemployed at the time and I maxed out my dental insurance. Two years later I’m still finishing up some of the other work that needs to be done. I need two more crowns and two more fillings which I will get when my insurance resets in July. Then it’s major maintenance. It’s awful and annoying, but there are definitely worse things!
Annalisa says:
I never had HG. What I have is really bad teeth, genetically speaking. It got to a point where (about 5 years ago) my dentist and I agreed I needed to be seen every 3 months rather than the routine 6 most people can get away with. It can get expensive, even with good insurance (which we have), because even the best insurance only covers the standard number of preventive appointments, but I hear you on it being worth it anyway (I would probably be losing teeth from bone loss in my gums by now, otherwise).
Jordan says:
ugh. Reading this post just GIVES me major dental-related anxiety. I lost my insurance about 2 years ago. Before that, my dentist stopped taking my insurance, and no other local dentist took it. So I haven’t been to a dentist in a shameful amount of years that I won’t post here. I’m in the process of figuring insurance stuff out (if worse comes to worse, I’ll be able to get insurance when I start teaching in the new year, so long as I find a job). My teeth I KNOW are in bad shape. It hurts to eat certain things,some days they just ache– so I think I have a few cavities in there (the irony is that I had impeccable dental records before- NO cavities my entire childhood). I’m scared to find out if/how much work my poor mouth will need. My wisdom teeth are also giving me issues- they’re about halfway in my mouth, and they hurt every once in awhile like they’re going to come in but then it stops. Ugh.
I hate dental work more than doctor stuff. And I HATE doctor stuff. (health-related anxiety is my #1 GAD issue. Gah).
I’m hoping to get insurance this summer, but it’s hard when I won’t be working in the fall (student teaching).
KaraB says:
You’re looking pretty Oprah too! Great job! I’m going through a bunch of procedures right now. Ouch! I know it will be worth it in the end though.
Amber says:
Not only is HG the worst thing for teeth, being pregnant in general is hard on them as it is. I have had HG four times and my teeth were a nightmare. I have been accused twice now by two different dentists of being a Meth addict. I had never been so embarrassed or treated so unkindly in my entire life. It’s a long story but I ended up having to get the “all on four” treatment, because my teeth were beyond repair. So here I am with beautiful teeth, but with a dentist bill to last me years. I suffered for so long. It affected my life in every aspect and I became withdrawn and depressed. I was stared at and treated poorly. I could go on and on,it really takes a huge toll on ones life. I’m so happy you got yours fixed,they are beautiful.
monsoonmiss says:
You look gorgeous!! And I absolutely love your hair color.
One thing to consider as an option for those that live in the US Southwest – medical tourism! There are tons of dentists literally steps from the border into Mexico that are 100% bilingual and can perform the same services for a fraction of the cost in the US. I’m not advocating this for everyone, but it’s definitely an option to consider, particularly if you don’t have dental insurance.
Heather says:
I know someone who did this with braces! It’s definitely FAR more affordable!