Annabel hasn’t had a diaper blow-out or vomit incident since Sunday. THANK GOODNESS. I have not been so lucky. A respiratory bug and stomach flu are both crappy enough on their own, but together? Really super crappy…no pun intended.
Any time that isn’t spent in the bathroom is spent laying in bed or (when my mom makes me move) on the couch. Which means I am an easy Target for a suddenly energized Annabel. But to my surprise, she seems to have developed empathy. Maybe puking matured her? I guess we’ll never know.
I was laying in bed, half under the covers (the only way I can moderate my fluctuating temperature) when I heard her walk into the room. She appeared next to me, silently staring at my face.
Before I could say anything, she stuck her face in mine and said, “Mama, whaaaaat’s wroooonnnnng?”
Then she patted my face with all the gentleness you can expect from an almost-two-year-old.
All the coughing/wheezing/bathrooming has made sleep very hard. After one particularly icky episode, I was crying to Mike about how tired I was. Of COURSE Annie picked that moment to walk in.
“Oh no! Mama sad! Mama! Why you cry Mama?!”
Then she patted my face with all the gentleness you can expect from an almost-two-year-old.
This new-found empathy is adorable, if slightly bruising. I’m hoping I can use it to my advantage when I’m feeling better. You know, the whole, “Mama is so sad because you didn’t eat all your lunch,” routine. Or the, “Mama is crying because you WON’T TAKE A NAP,” routine. It’s worth a try, right?
Jenny says:
I’m glad to hear your nurse is feeling better. If your bug keeps up you may need to see a doctor. Hopefully. Annie’s recovery means you’ll be feeling better soon, too.
Even with her newfound empathy I don’t see Annie falling for emotional trickery. She seems like a very smart cookie to me!
Get well soon, Spohr Family!
Elle says:
Poor little Annabel. Get better Spohrs! xx
Terri says:
That is just the sweetest little face!
lisaj says:
S asks “Ok? Mommy OK?” It is adorable.
I cannot vouch for whether the “mommy is sad because________” works, Usually, I get the very suspicious look. Ha ha.
Feel better, Heather. Having had a lingering cold since Thanksgiving, I can totally relate. Here’s hoping you don’t pull as many chest muscles as I managed to pull with all the coughing.
Glenda says:
Get well soon!
em says:
I worked at a day camp one summer, and out of exhaustion, I closed my eyes and pretended to sleep. The toddlers got VERY worried and patted my face and pulled my ears! Quite similar to your Annie Nightingale
Pattie says:
I hope you get to feeling MUCH better soon, Heather. And I’m glad Annie’s on the mend already. Here’s hoping she learns gentleness soon now that she’s got empathy down.
Jennifer says:
Feel better Heather! Nothing like being sick for the holidays. Though it sounds like you’re in good hands with your little Nightingale.
I recently had bronchitis, and my teenage son spent some time making me soup and tea. Just want you to know that while kids will always make you sick, you have something to look forward to in the being-cared-for department. Hang in there.