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I used to be a party girl. I was right out of college, living at the beach, and I paid the bills by bartending. You could find me out pretty much any night of the week. Even after I got a regular job, I’d still spend most nights closing down the bars and clubs. Somehow, I still managed to get to work on time the next day.
These days? I’m still a total night owl, but I am so uncool it’s rediculous. Sure, I occasionally have my wild moments where I dance on bars and sing karaoke, but for the most part I’m in my pajamas by 7 pm…mostly because I haven’t taken my pajamas off all day.
I met up with some friends on Sunday night. I was excited to see them, and excited to be out at night, and excited because I left Maddie home with Mike! I usually bring Maddie with me to night time events, so it was a treat. I put on make up and everything! Even my hair was freshly washed.
It was a lot of fun. I caught up with my friends, listened to loud music, and had some laughs. Someone suggested to go to another bar, one in my old neighborhood. I stood on the edge of the dance floor at a bar I hadn’t been to since I was twenty four, and I looked at all the people dancing. The girls were all young things, wearing cute little heels and wedges, skinny jeans and low-cut tank tops. And there was me, pushing thirty, wearing boot-cut jeans, a square neck top with a scarf, and UGGs. UGGs at a dance club.
I had to laugh at how much I’ve changed in the last five years. Twenty four year old Heather would be horrified to hear of my fashion faux pas at the bar, but almost thirty year old Heather was rather pleased at how comfortable her feet felt. And it’s a damn good thing I didn’t have to go to work today, because that margarita did me in. My body vs tequila was a battle that took most of the day. I’m still not sure who won.
I can’t party like I used to. It’s okay, though. Now the only thing that’s important is what songs Maddie and I dance to, and how many shots of pediasure she pounds in a day. Ah, priorities.
Ms. Moon says:
To everything there is a season…
maya says:
I am totally happy being the age that I am. I would not go back to my early twenties and be single again. Last week I had lunch with two co-workers and a friend of theirs. These girls were 22-24 years old, young, single and ready to mingle. The girl who joined us for lunch asked if I still lived with my parents. It was a compliment , yes- but I had to laugh (as did my co-workers once they explained that I was married and had two children). I like that I dont only talk about clothes, boys and the wild night I had. Now the only wild night I have is when my girls scream and need their diapers changed at 3am!
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ali says:
hey! there is nothing wrong with bootcut jeans!!! now the uggs on the other hand…hahah just kidding. i totally know what you mean. it’s funny how things shift REALLY quickly.
Susan says:
I was in shock recently to discover the style of jeans has so rapidly changed from slightly faded bootcut to skinny and dark. It depressed me a bit that I didn’t even know.
Alison says:
The more bottoms of (milk and Pediasure) bottles Maddie sees, the better! Hope she’s feeling better.
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sam {temptingmama} says:
Guess I’m right up there with you because when you were describing what you wore, I thougth it sounded just fine! Cute even! LOL
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Anissa@hope4peyton says:
There’s no shame in comfortable footwear…you forget I am the one who tromped around Blissdom in slippers all day Saturday. There are priorities, you know.
And a BIG whatever! You’re still the awesomest and I know that for a FACT now.
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Joe says:
I’m glad you understand that even men read your blog and posted a link to explain what uggs are, because I’ve never heard the word before tonight. Then I pictured them in a dance bar… my head exploded.
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Becca says:
Love this post! This is so me as well. I’m 23, but I swear, some days I feel like I’m about 65! Oh well, it is totally worth it!
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AMomTwoBoys says:
Um….as far as I’m concerned you’re still a party girl. You put me to shame, so what does that say about me?
Don’t answer that.
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Kristabella says:
Isn’t amazing how getting older, you get that perspective of “how cares what I’m wearing/doing/saying? I’m HAVING FUN!”
But I hate that the older you get, the longer the hangovers last. I can remember a St. Patty’s day in my mid-20s where were were drinking until 3 and I puked green beer at 7 AM and showered and went to work on like 3 hours of sleep.
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Domestic Extraordinaire says:
Comfy feet are not to be over rated! And rest assured that your 24 year old self would feel much better about what you were wearing if I went out with you.
Hope Maddie is feeling better.
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