I was exceptionally lucky this last weekend – not only did many of my friends and family members gather to March for Maddie, but a few of them insisted on throwing me a sweet shower the next day. I hadn’t wanted a shower, but they put their collective foot down, just like they did when I was pregnant with Annabel. I felt funny about having a shower for my third baby, but they reminded me that every baby should be celebrated…and that I only have girl clothes! As usual, my friends were right.
The Acrobat’s room is going to have a world travel theme, and my friends ran with that idea for the party.
The F is for the last name of the hostess who’s house the shower was at.
I was overwhelmed by the attention to even the tiniest details – there was a wreath on the door made of maps, little passports, world flags, globes and suitcases everywhere, vases decorated with maps of places that are meaningful to me and Mike, foods from all over the world (that were also on my diabetic diet!), and even the party favors were on theme: peanuts and airline bottles of wine!
The one thing I really wanted was to share the day with Annabel. The day wouldn’t have been complete without my best girl.
I wanted to make sure she felt as special as I did, so I gave her the sash, and she loved it. I also knew that she would be a big help when it came time to open the presents.
When that proved to be a little boring for her, she entertained herself by photobombing.
My sweet friends even gave Annie gifts:
The Acrobat was given some amazing gifts, too:
A map for our travels.
The crib bumper -it’s not going to be on the crib when he sleeps in it so don’t even stress.
I think it looks good on me.
Thank you to my friends and family, but especially to these beautiful ladies:
Leah, Tara, Diane, my mom, and Leslie
I am so, so lucky to have so many people in my life that care about all of my children, and that was really demonstrated this past weekend. Madeline, Annabel, and The Acrobat are so incredibly loved. I will forever be grateful to everyone (near and far) for always supporting my family.
Hayley says:
Looks fab!!!
Is that big F on the fireplace a clue to the acrobats name? Or you’re just in someone else’s home?!
Heather says:
Someone else’s home whose last name begins with F. He is still nameless!
Lilian says:
This post really moved me. You and your friends and family are the epitome of ‘love’. It’s so heartwarming to see how your circle of loved ones, really put themselves out for you and Mike and all your children. It’s wonderful to see, and I’m so happy for you! xxx
Jenn says:
Looks like you all had a great time!!! I LOVE Annie’s hair…SO CUTE & you looked GREAT!!!! You deserve to celebrate not only this baby boy of yours but also all the work YOU have done with this pregnancy. It’s nice to be celebrated sometimes – isn’t it? I’m happy for you Heather!! I really am and I can’t wait too see you holding your little man!!
Love from A far….
P.S. I can’t wait to see his room now!!xo
Mommy says:
You are the cutes opening those presents!! And your friends clearly adore you and all your babies. I’m totally with them too- eveey baby deserves a shower, no matter what! What a gorgeous and special shower it was too! I love, love, love all the details, and you and big sister Annie look simply beautiful!
Thrilled for all of you!!!! xoxo
RzDrms says:
Ooo, ooo, is this a hint?! Will his name be Gulliver, nickname…Ollie?! I can’t wait to meet the little dude. Annie looks so cute and happy. Kudos to your friends and family.
Heather says:
Not a hint, I just really liked a travel theme!
Elaine says:
NO, there was a big “F” on the mantel, so that must be a hint. Curious about why the travel theme too…what was Annie’s room’s theme again? Congrats!
Heather says:
Not a hint – the house the shower was at is owned by the F family!
Jen says:
Such a cute theme! You have wonderful friends to throw a shower for you. I think a 3rd shower is totally acceptable to celebrate a long awaited baby. I also spied that F on the mantle and am wondering if her real life friends know something we don’t? hmmmm.. the anticipation!
Heather says:
nope, the shower was held at the F family’s house!
Jenn says:
don’t think we didn’t notice the F in the background just like you did with Annie’s A. Franklin? Ferdinand? (for the travel theme?) Felix? Fitzgerald? Oh the possibilities are endless!!!
Heather says:
It’s not a hint! He still doesn’t have a name.
MG says:
#1 You look GREAT! Love the dress and you were do look wonderful in it! #2 I can SO relate about showers for “not your first”. I’ve been the one to poo poo that a lot…but in my defense, I’ve ONLY been against it if it’s been a “mirror” of a first shower…..registered, getting/needing ALL baby gear (high chair, stroller/carseat, crib etc). I think it’s rude to invite the same people to a shower that already bought all that stuff! BUT, I do love these kind of showers….totally out of love from friends! I actually had TWO showers with my 4th! I agree, all babies should be celebrated. I just have people in my life (relatives) that have a shower for each because they don’t hang on to their stuff….your shower looked amazing and well thought out! I’m getting really excited for you!
MG says:
“you DO look wonderful in it” (sorry for the typos!)
Heather says:
thank you!
Kim says:
You are very lucky to have such wonderful friends and family who support you and your children!
LOVE your dress. Where is it from???
Kate says:
I am echo’ing the comment on the dress. I love it! You look fabulous!
Wishing you well in the coming weeks and months. Can’t wait to “meet” the acrobat! xo
Heather says:
Thank you! It’s by Pea in the Pod, I got it at Destination Maternity!
Jess Z. says:
How fun That prop pillow (I think that’s what it is?) is adorable. And I love all the maps. You look great!
Heather says:
It’s actually a little rocking “horse” and it IS sooooo adorable. My parents gave it to him!
Jess Z. says:
Oh I see it now! Very cute! Boys are fun; mine is 4 now and he’s a rough-and-tumble, sweet as pie, drives me crazy, loves me like crazy little boy. You’ll have fun with yours…you’ll notice how different they can be to raise, but it’s so fun having one of each
Maggie says:
Love love love your dress! I’m 29 weeks pregnant and am looking for a cute dress to wear to a wedding – where did you get that dress?
Heather says:
It’s by Pea in the Pod, so I’m sure you could get it there or at a Destination Maternity store (like I did). It’s SUPER comfortable!
RzDrms says:
Okay, so no Gullivan if there’s an F. My final guess is Frederick, with Freddie for short. Or Finnegan, with Finnie for short? I’m sticking with Frederick. I’ll even venture Frederick Michael! I like that.
Heather says:
F is the first initial of the last name of the owner of the house the shower was at! He still does not have a name.
RzDrms says:
ooo, or RICKY for short!
Maris says:
Great pics! I saw the F on the mantel. Does the acrobat’s name start with an F?
Heather says:
Nope, he still doesn’t have a name. F is the initial of the family that owned the house the shower was at.
Lisa says:
That “F” is sneaky!! I’m guessing Finnegan. I love that name. Ohhhh or Flynn! The suspense of names just gets to me..lol
Heather says:
He still doesn’t have a name! The family that owns the house the shower was at last name begins with F.
Jannette says:
I thought Finn as well. I love that name.
Heather says:
He doesn’t have a name yet, the F belongs to the shower host.
Rachel says:
I think it’s Finn too!
Heather says:
Nope, he is still nameless! The F belongs to the homeowner!
Annalisa says:
Oh, you guessers, stop it! Clearly they’re not revealing the name before the Actobat gets here, and want readers to be surprised. Quit being spoilers!
Glenda says:
Heather,
You look amazing! Love your dress…the theme and Love the bumpers!
Adrianne says:
HAHA! I just have to laugh at all of the comments above:) When I was pregnant, we didn’t share the name with anyone outside of our family, and it drove people nuts. As much as I’m dying to know what the Acrobat will be named (and from the sounds of it, you are too, hehe), I actually much prefer the anticipation of not knowing. And I have no doubt it will be perfect. I distinctly remember when your Annabel was born and I clicked over and saw her picture and name, and it was just so…perfect! I know the Acrobat needs to cook a little bit longer, but I’m really looking forward to a post just like that pretty soon!
And now on to this post…what AMAZING friends and family you have!! You and all of your kiddos are so lucky to be surrounded by so much love and thoughtfulness. What a wonderful shower!
kristen says:
Duuuuuuude you had to answer 100 questions about that F on the mantle. I’m sorry. Ha! Also sorry Young Master Spohr is still nameless as of yet! Here’s hoping you see his face and inspiration strikes like a bolt of lightning! Also wanted to echo what everyone else said about you looking GREAT!! (And not just the dress, your actual self.) I know this pregnancy has been kicking your butt, but you really look awesome. And the shower was adorable. And he’s almost here!!! Hoorayyyy! You can have a summer full of Annie splashing in the backyard sprinkler (pool, slip n slide, whatever) and The Acrobat napping in the shade nearby. I love it! So happy for your family.
Amy Collen says:
Heather, you have the best wardrobe and hair ever. Love it! So glad you had a wonderful baby shower!
Marin D says:
Love the theme! How fun! And I think each baby should have a baby shower thrown for them (our tradition is to have the shower after the baby comes so that friends and family can see him/her – plus I was paranoid and wanted to make sure I had a baby to celebrate – thanks pregnancy complications). We have birthday parties for each kid, why not a baby shower?
Jessica says:
Holy crap!!! He doesn’t have a name yet!!! The “F” family hosted the shower!!! Lol. Obviously his name is much anticipated!
Jolene says:
SOOOO the “F” is for the family that hosted it..right? Just double checking. HEEHEE
I am sure I know the answer to this..but why are bumpers bad?
Annalisa says:
Suffocation risk. I decided to put the bumpers on the outside of the crib for our daughter, they were too cute not to use. The crib base I attached them to was below the mattress level anyway, and at least it looked pretty on the outside.
TracyKM says:
Not just the typical suffocation risk, but it reduces the oxygen levels at mattress level by not allowing the CO2 to leave the immediate area….(sorry if my chemistry isn’t right).
I like the idea of putting them around under the mattress, instead of a crib skirt! There’s still so many nice bumpers on the market, that’s a great way to use them if someone gives them as a gift!!
Auntie_M says:
Soooo….what you’re saying here is that the Acrobat doesn’t have a name yet and that F on the mantle has nothing to do with him??? LOL
I LOVE the theme of your shower and of the Acrobat’s room!!! And it is a theme that will grow with him over the years! What adorable things you recieved (loving the rocking airplane!)!!!!
And how very loved you are!!! Your friends & family are absolutely correct! EVERY baby should be celebrated! AND the Acrobat doesn’t have a name yet, the least you could do is have some clothes for him!
What a wonderful weekend celebrating your beautiful family and your precious children!
Meg says:
So sweet, and I love the travel theme, too! So wonderful — and a great departure from the usual “jungle,” “zoo,” etc. (boys get the shaft on that stuff!). Can’t believe The Acrobat will soon be here — I think I speak for all of us in saying we can’t wait to meet him!
KaraB says:
You look amazing! It looks like a great time was had by all!
Annalisa says:
Oh, and here’s a tip my MIL had for us on how to keep a tyke entertained when they’re at a party where the presents are not for them (a baby shower, or someone else’s first birthday, or having to take turns opening Christmas presents…) they’re in charge of ‘recycling’ the wrapping paper, whether it’s just collecting it into stacks, using it to build a makeshift fort, or cutting it up and using it as a collage (you just need to have scissors/glue at the ready if that’s what they choose).
Pam says:
Glad you had a fun (and well deserved) baby shower! What a great and unique theme!
Wanted to let you know that today I ordered a seat cushion from intelliBED. I often sit in my computer chair for long periods (I follow many blogs – lol!) and my back/hips have felt terrible when I go to get up. I’m hoping for more comfortable computer sessions now. I was glad I went back to re-read your original post because I used the 10% discount code! Can’t wait to receive and start using it!
I have a feeling my teen girls will each want one, too, because their computer/task chairs are very uncomfortable! Gotta support all efforts for good grades – but want to make sure it’s worth the $ investment first.
Nicolette says:
such a beautiful entry! you looked stunning and as a long time follower, I cannot believe how big Annie is getting! Such a beautiful family you have! Can’t wait to read about your new addition!
edenland says:
I SEE AUSTRALIA. In all of the maps.
And I see beautiful people everywhere.
xxxx