Comments on: Heavy http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 04:44:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: | The Spohrs Are Multiplying… | » Sticks And Stones http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/#comment-69230 | The Spohrs Are Multiplying… | » Sticks And Stones Tue, 20 Jul 2010 07:42:15 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=2429#comment-69230 [...] I say that I am sometimes overwhelmed by my feelings, I’m told I didn’t spend enough time grieving, as if there is a time [...] [...] I say that I am sometimes overwhelmed by my feelings, I’m told I didn’t spend enough time grieving, as if there is a time [...]

]]> By: Al_Pal http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/#comment-60910 Al_Pal Sun, 30 May 2010 01:29:47 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=2429#comment-60910 Huge *HUGS*. I'm so sorry that you are missing your angel Madeline. I'm so glad you have Annabel to hold, and love, and breathe for. *hugs* Huge *HUGS*.
I’m so sorry that you are missing your angel Madeline.
I’m so glad you have Annabel to hold, and love, and breathe for.
*hugs*

]]> By: Amie http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/#comment-51106 Amie Sat, 20 Mar 2010 02:50:56 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=2429#comment-51106 I am one of those people that says nothing because I don't know what to say. But I came across your site shortly after Maddie died and I have shed many tears for you and your husband. Maddie had such vivacity in her eyes and her smile. I cannot help but smile when I see her pictures. My favorite little cousin died when she was 2 and that was 20 years ago and I still hurt. Her eyes had the same vivacity as Maddie's. I'm so excited to watch Annabel grow with you. HUGS I am one of those people that says nothing because I don’t know what to say. But I came across your site shortly after Maddie died and I have shed many tears for you and your husband. Maddie had such vivacity in her eyes and her smile. I cannot help but smile when I see her pictures. My favorite little cousin died when she was 2 and that was 20 years ago and I still hurt. Her eyes had the same vivacity as Maddie’s.

I’m so excited to watch Annabel grow with you.

HUGS

]]> By: Morgan @ The818 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/#comment-50899 Morgan @ The818 Thu, 18 Mar 2010 00:03:52 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=2429#comment-50899 I only recently found your blog (I was so taken my Maddie's face showing up on my BlogHer bar, I had to know who she was) and I am so, so sad that she's not there enjoying Annabel with you. The way you talk about Maddie though...it just solidifies for me how strong Mommy-love is. Wherever Maddie is, I know she can feel it. That's an incredible thing. I only recently found your blog (I was so taken my Maddie’s face showing up on my BlogHer bar, I had to know who she was) and I am so, so sad that she’s not there enjoying Annabel with you.

The way you talk about Maddie though…it just solidifies for me how strong Mommy-love is. Wherever Maddie is, I know she can feel it. That’s an incredible thing.

]]> By: gorillabuns http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/#comment-50875 gorillabuns Wed, 17 Mar 2010 17:45:13 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=2429#comment-50875 you can grieve yet love in the next breath. The love doesn't take away the grief and grief doesn't diminsh the love. but what the hell do i know. to me all of it seems just like pointless words. you can grieve yet love in the next breath. The love doesn’t take away the grief and grief doesn’t diminsh the love.

but what the hell do i know. to me all of it seems just like pointless words.

]]> By: Marcela http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/#comment-50859 Marcela Wed, 17 Mar 2010 15:49:36 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=2429#comment-50859 Wow, how many people were touched by that sentence. I include myself here. I almost cried after that final word... so cold sounding. We miss her so much, Heather. And we cannot imagine how you as her mother feel. Stay strong and continue honoring her memory by what you do here. We love Maddie and Annie <3 and of course their wonderful parents. Sending you hugs <3 .-= Marcela´s last blog ..<a href="http://thejoyofenjoying.blogspot.com/2010/03/goblins-in-my-house.html">Goblins in my house!</a> =-. Wow, how many people were touched by that sentence. I include myself here. I almost cried after that final word… so cold sounding.
We miss her so much, Heather. And we cannot imagine how you as her mother feel. Stay strong and continue honoring her memory by what you do here. We love Maddie and Annie <3 and of course their wonderful parents. Sending you hugs <3
.-= Marcela´s last blog ..Goblins in my house! =-.

]]> By: Lucy http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/#comment-50848 Lucy Wed, 17 Mar 2010 14:45:04 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=2429#comment-50848 I couldn't read this post without reaching out to give you big warm internet (((HUGS))). You are a fabulous mummy. And even miles away in Canada, Maddie is often in my thoughts and every picture of her that you post makes me smile. I hope some solace can be felt that so very many people around the world love your family. .-= Lucy´s last blog ..<a href="http://wordmama.blogspot.com/2009/12/learning-curve-of-motherhood.html">The learning curve of motherhood</a> =-. I couldn’t read this post without reaching out to give you big warm internet (((HUGS))). You are a fabulous mummy. And even miles away in Canada, Maddie is often in my thoughts and every picture of her that you post makes me smile. I hope some solace can be felt that so very many people around the world love your family.
.-= Lucy´s last blog ..The learning curve of motherhood =-.

]]> By: Amanda (Garibay Soup) http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/#comment-50771 Amanda (Garibay Soup) Wed, 17 Mar 2010 05:12:14 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=2429#comment-50771 Heather, There really are no words for the pain you are feeling. I want you to know that even though I'm not a regular commenter here, I do keep you in my prayers ~ I didn't get to know Maddie until her 2nd Birthday. That post you wrote to her has stuck in my heart every, single day. I took the time to treasure my little miracle that much more. I almost lost my daughter and sadly I did lose her big sister, and I've thought exactly what you thought... I'm sleeping in my room with both of my daughter's, yet one of them is in an urn {in my case it was an urn necklace} and in my case an urn necklace that got flushed down the toilet by my toddler *sigh* Since then I've had to remind myself that even though some of my daughter's ashes are gone... she still in that room every night with us and her sister {since she is STILL not in her own room @ the age of 2 LOL} Okay.... totally rambled, but I just want you to know that even though I'm just another commenter, and not a blog/twitter friend that you really know I do keep you in my prayers, and Annie, and Maddie ~ and I like to think that Maddie & Layla Grace & Cora all hang out with my Mya, because they're all such awesome babies <3 .-= Amanda (Garibay Soup)´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.garibaysoup.com/2010/03/wfmw-double-toddler-trouble.html">WFMW ~ Double Toddler Trouble</a> =-. Heather,

There really are no words for the pain you are feeling. I want you to know that even though I’m not a regular commenter here, I do keep you in my prayers ~ I didn’t get to know Maddie until her 2nd Birthday. That post you wrote to her has stuck in my heart every, single day. I took the time to treasure my little miracle that much more. I almost lost my daughter and sadly I did lose her big sister, and I’ve thought exactly what you thought… I’m sleeping in my room with both of my daughter’s, yet one of them is in an urn {in my case it was an urn necklace} and in my case an urn necklace that got flushed down the toilet by my toddler *sigh* Since then I’ve had to remind myself that even though some of my daughter’s ashes are gone… she still in that room every night with us and her sister {since she is STILL not in her own room @ the age of 2 LOL}

Okay…. totally rambled, but I just want you to know that even though I’m just another commenter, and not a blog/twitter friend that you really know I do keep you in my prayers, and Annie, and Maddie ~ and I like to think that Maddie & Layla Grace & Cora all hang out with my Mya, because they’re all such awesome babies <3
.-= Amanda (Garibay Soup)´s last blog ..WFMW ~ Double Toddler Trouble =-.

]]> By: Savannah http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/#comment-50765 Savannah Wed, 17 Mar 2010 03:24:11 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=2429#comment-50765 I'm so, so sorry for your pain. I'm also so sorry (and angry at the workplace) to learn that Mike lost his job while away on bereavement leave. Unbelievable. I'm not going to tell you to 'hang in there', because that's trite and useless. Just know that your pain is heard. I’m so, so sorry for your pain.

I’m also so sorry (and angry at the workplace) to learn that Mike lost his job while away on bereavement leave.

Unbelievable.

I’m not going to tell you to ‘hang in there’, because that’s trite and useless. Just know that your pain is heard.

]]> By: Lynn http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/heather/heavy/#comment-50764 Lynn Wed, 17 Mar 2010 01:52:43 +0000 http://thespohrsaremultiplying.com/?p=2429#comment-50764 I'm so sorry. I've been following your blog for awhile now and feel guilty for not commenting on anything until now. I think of you and your family every single day. I’m so sorry.

I’ve been following your blog for awhile now and feel guilty for not commenting on anything until now.

I think of you and your family every single day.

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