Determination
Madeline was the most determined little girl I have ever met. Being a determined person myself, I was prepared for this (I think “determined” sounds so much better than “stubborn,” don’t you?).
She needed that determination to get her through her gestation, NICU stay and hospital visits.
She needed that determination to do simple things like breathe with her scarred lungs.
But she also used that spirit for more fun things, like when she was determined to stay awake longer than her mommy.
Or when she decided she wanted something she shouldn’t have – like a phone, remote control, computer, anything with buttons.
When she figured out that she didn’t have to rely on Mike or me to carry her from place to place, there was no stopping her. She started with a funny army crawl – arms pulling her body behind her.
Mike and I always cheered her on, but she didn’t need it – she was determined to get to where she wanted to go.
if you can’t see the video above, click here.
When she set her mind to it, nothing could stop her.
catherine lucas says:
Bless her little heart… she wanted the book and went for it!
These movies are so precious… Funny to see her move, pulling herself forward! A true little fighter indeed… My heart aches.
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InDueTime says:
lol Loved that video and how you say “Duck-kay!” lol
We think about you and Mike every day.
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Kristen McD says:
Look at the focus! lol. Goll… what a love.
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Kate @ UpsideBackwards says:
So gorgeous! I would have gone for the book, too, I always was a bookworm…
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kelly says:
I love your duck voice – especially at the end how proud the duck is.
I can see your love ooze from the screen for Maddie and I think that is a beautiful thing. I miss her too and never met her. Thank you for keeping her alive in our hearts through these little stories that made up her big life!
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amanda says:
Go Maddie!
xo from CT,
amanda
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Lynn from For Love or Funny says:
Isn’t it amazing how someone so little can inspire us so much?
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Sue says:
I’ve never even met you, nor did I ever meet Maddie, but I could just scoop her right out of that video, and hold her tightly forever! What an angel,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Thank you for all that you share with us.
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Erica says:
O I agree with you, Heather, the appropriate word is certainly determined and not stubborn.
I love reading your special memories of your darling girl and to see the vidoes at the end is always such a bonus. Thank you so much for sharing with your readers. I just love this one of your determined daughter going after what she wants. Its brought a great big smile to my face and brought back my own memories of my little girl’s similar arm crawl and her determination.
I tell my little girl about the amazing Madeline Spohr and her amazing parents all the time. You are all such inspirations to us especially in our own times of stressful doctor appointments and hospital stays (of course nothing compared to what your family went through and is going through). We always thinks of how strong and brave Madeline, Heather and Mike Spohr are.
I hope you have a peaceful week-end. I’m sure that wonderful husband of your’s will be taking very good care of you and the special Binky Bean.
Thinking of you, lovely lady, today like every day.
With love
Erica
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charlane says:
I Love it! Proud Duckie!
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Elizabeth says:
So cute! Thank you for sharing Maddie with us. She is an inspiration.
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Lindsay says:
Maddie still touches us all! She is so beautiful!
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Christine says:
Oh she is gorgeous, but you crack me up lady. This pulls my heart in so many different directions. At the end of the day, no matter what you were lucky to have Maddie and visa versa.
Much love.
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Deborah says:
LOL! I love it! The crawl is soooo cute and I love her little legs just kind of hanging out in the back while her arms do most of the work.
(((hugs)))
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Jenny @ http://motherlawyercrazywoman.blogspot.com/ says:
She WAS going for it. You go Maddie.
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Nikki says:
LOL at “duck-kay”! So funny!
Maddie is soooo precious! She makes me want to pick her up and snuggle with her. Thinking of you and Mike (always) but especially during this season.
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nic @mybottlesup says:
LOL “don’t get sidetracked by books.”
thinking of you and yours always.
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Susan Cornett says:
I love Video Clip Fridays!
I told Maddie’s story last night to a group of friends. The conversation started when my friend Amy told me that her friend lost her daughter early yesterday morning. Seems Kate was also a preemie and, just shy of her 3rd birthday, was taken too soon by a respiratory infection. But thanks to you sharing Maddie with all of us, we are all more aware of the risk for preemies and what they have to endure, and most of all….what the March of Dimes needs so that no one has go through what you and Mike have gone through.
Love from Fort Worth.
p.s. How’s Rigby?
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kristen says:
i love that you have these little moments captured on film to share with the world…your little pumpkin makes me smile always.
xoxo
kristen
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Megan says:
I love your videos. They make me sad but they also make me smile. Thank you for sharing. I would say I can’t wait to see videos of Binky but I can…another couple of months.
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chatty cricket says:
Oh Miss Maddie, this is how I feel about books. I would also choose the book.
Heather she looks like a Cupie (Kewpie?) Doll. IMPOSSIBLE that her eyes are that big. Good grief what a beautiful little person.
I’ve told you that Mister (3 years on New Year’s Eve) just adores Maddie, yes? He loves her videos best of all but he’ll take pictures. Please keep sharing, I think we all agree with Mister.
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Therese says:
Loved that video of Maddie. My son has just started that army crawl business. Our nickname for it is “the wounded soldier.” I’m so glad that you have these awesome videos of your daughter and that you continue to share them!
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Lisa says:
That video is awesome. She looks so adorable doing that army crawl, that’s my favorite baby crawl
Love and hugs.
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Kandi Ann says:
I needed a laugh. Truly determined is right! Go Maddie! Thanks for sharing. xoxo, Kandi
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Lindsay from Florida says:
I love your voice and your joy when talking to Maddie. Every syllable you said to that girl was full of your love and awe for her.
When I’m a mom someday, you will be the model I try my best to emulate.
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friend of maddie Reply:
December 18th, 2009 at 9:23 am
i agree. i look at you, heather, and i see effortless motherly love that maddie and binky are so lucky to have.
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Lindsey says:
When I see that I want to scoop her up and squeeze her. She was one of a kind, that’s for sure.
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Molly says:
So sweet…a little reader!
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Momma Uncensored says:
determined like her momma and baby sister.
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Clarice says:
“Little by little, one walks far!”
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middle-aged-woman says:
My daughter did the same thing. We called it “the commando baby crawl.”
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Michele says:
SO sweet….
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Becky @TheRealBecks says:
Heather, I read this blog every single day. I look forward to hearing/reading about Maddie and Binky. You never cease to amaze or inspire me. This video had me giggling…esp the little Ducky’s commentary at the end. Keep on keeping on. I love it.
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Courtney says:
She wanted that book and she was going to get it, a determined little women!! God Bless.
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Jenn says:
Love her determination! Soo sweet!
Nice commentary
Jenn
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Kellee says:
I love the videos. Always love the videos. Beautiful girl.
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A Jill of All Trades says:
She was determined! I really enjoy watching videos of Maddie. I was showing a lady at work a video last week. She had a huge impact on me. I think it was that gorgeous face that won me over!
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Tara. says:
What a great video! Your duck voice is great-had me laughing!
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Liz says:
What an adorable video. Thank you for sharing her beautiful face and strong will.
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Leslie says:
Maddie always was determined. She was a fighter from the start.
And of course, I loved the duckey…
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Glenda says:
Cute video! Thanks for sharing! My daughter has that determination too…and we say the say them… she’s very determined/ stubborned… she’s very focused
have a great weekend Heather & Mike! XXX
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Stacey says:
Such a cute video! I think of you and your family so often. Maddie was so lucky to have you and Mike for parents. Not many kids are loved quite so much. Binky will be so lucky as well!
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Kristine says:
You’re right, she defintely gets that determination from her Momma.
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jen says:
Adorable. We should all have such determination. Thinking of you……..
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Katrina says:
So sweet. So, so very sweet. I just love her.
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Krissa says:
OH! What a cute little scoot! Such a sweetie. Thanks for sharing the videos. … Hope you guys have a peaceful weekend.
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Rebecca says:
That sort of reminds me of how my son started crawling…..He didn’t start crawling until around 13 months old and he had a big heavy spica cast on…..even after the cast was removed 3 MONTHS later, he still army crawled for about 3 or 4 months.
She’s adorable~
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Tina says:
Heather you’re adorable. I love the ducky talk
Maddie was stronger than most and always will be remembered as a determined little solder.
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Patty says:
That beautiful little angel was really the sweetest thing to ever grace this earth. Love from AZ, Patty
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Clarice says:
By the way, I loved your for CNN that just got posted! Very eloquent about the online community. You looked great too, today is 32 weeks right? Keep on cooking Binky!!
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Elaine says:
She’d rather read that play with that duck. Love her.
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Jenn says:
I love Maddie’s determination! It’s so funny when they learn how to combat crawl! ha ha ha
Thanks for sharing this video with us. I know you miss her….we miss her too,
Take Care,
Thinking of you!
Jenn
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Kathy says:
I saw you on CNN today speaking about how much support your draw from your blog, etc. in support of the poor woman who tweeted about her son in the pool. Thanks for offering support to her in hopes that she will not beat herself up too much.
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Alison says:
So determined, and so brave! Maddie’s personality always shines in photos and videos.
xoxo
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Maternal Mirth says:
This truly made my morning a more blessed one…
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Dawn says:
Thanks for sharing another memory with us!
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Ray says:
Maddie IS your little soldier. <3
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Danielle says:
Such proud duckies!
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Al_Pal says:
Oh my gosh, how darling, it is like she’s swimming through the carpet!!
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