Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving 2008

14 pounds of Maddie, 21 pounds of turkey

reflection

love from mom

playing scrabble

I am so thankful she is my daughter. I am so thankful I am her mommy.

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96 Comments

  1. Seraphim says:

    xxxxxxxx
    to you and Mike
    and a hearty bear hug too.
    From across the ocean.

    November 26th, 2009 at 12:14 am

  2. andrea's sweet life says:

    She is so beautiful. You will always be her mommy. Much love to all of you, today and everyday. Xoxo

    November 26th, 2009 at 12:15 am

  3. Krystal says:

    I am thankful for you sharing her stories with us!

    Enjoy life Heather! Have a Happy Thanksgiving!

    Lots of love to you and your family!

    xoxox
    Krystal
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    November 26th, 2009 at 12:18 am

  4. Jenny says:

    Happy Thanksgiving, Heather.
    I love the 14 lbs of Maddie, 21 lbs of turkey pic, that is awesome. LOVE!!!
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    November 26th, 2009 at 12:19 am

  5. Amy says:

    How beautiful, you are one lucky mama. And that can never change.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 12:43 am

  6. Kate @ UpsideBackwards says:

    And I’m thankful I got to know her, and you, through this blog. Happy Thanksgiving, Spohrs.
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    Janeen Reply:

    100% what she said.
    Forever and always you’re Maddie’s mom and she’s your baby. You are one lovely family.
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    Marti from Michigan Reply:

    I fully agree too.

    Friend of Maddie Reply:

    i agree.

    happy thanksgiving, heather and mike. and rigby!

    November 26th, 2009 at 12:55 am

  7. missbanshee says:

    Happy Thanksgiving, Spohrs. What a beautiful reason to be thankful.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 1:32 am

  8. Krissa says:

    Warm (((hugs))) and a Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. This is a beautiful post.

    November 26th, 2009 at 1:53 am

  9. Casey says:

    I love how she’s about the same size as that turkey! ;-) Beautiful girl as always. Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 26th, 2009 at 2:15 am

  10. Kelly says:

    Happy Thanksgiving, Heather. Hugs to all
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    November 26th, 2009 at 2:24 am

  11. Summer says:

    Happy Thanksgiving to you both!

    November 26th, 2009 at 2:46 am

  12. jen says:

    Beautiful! Happy Thanksgiving!
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    November 26th, 2009 at 3:01 am

  13. habanerogal says:

    Many good wishes to you and Mike for Thanksgiving. Hope it is spent with the people that you love.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 3:53 am

  14. amanda says:

    What a doll!

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    xo from CT,
    Amanda
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    November 26th, 2009 at 4:34 am

  15. Amy M says:

    I hope today is filled with happy memories for you!
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    November 26th, 2009 at 4:37 am

  16. Kristen McD says:

    That tuekry looks like it might have a few pounds on her. lol. Lovely girl.

    Love to you and Mike and your family today.

    November 26th, 2009 at 4:41 am

  17. red pen mama says:

    Happy Thanksgiving. You will always be hers.

    ciao,
    rpm
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    November 26th, 2009 at 4:45 am

  18. Tina says:

    My mom passed away last September, so Thanksgiving last year was a blur. This year it is more real that she is gone. I especially love the pics of your mom with Maddie. You could tell that Maddie was totally grandma’s girl… :-) Give your Mom a hug today, and hold on tight…
    Best to you and your family…
    Happy Thanksgiving

    November 26th, 2009 at 4:49 am

  19. Gemini-Girl says:

    And I am so thankful that you are my soul sister. love you.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 4:51 am

  20. binkytowne says:

    I am thankful that I get the chance to read your words and see cute pictures of Maddie. Good thoughts for you today. (and every day)
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    November 26th, 2009 at 5:01 am

  21. Jill Sarven says:

    SHE IS AND ALWAYS WILL BE BEAUTIFUL….god bless and Happy Thanksgiving from the Sarvens of Lima Ohio

    November 26th, 2009 at 5:19 am

  22. cj says:

    we are thankful for you….that Maddie is your daughter, that you are her mommy and that you share your life with all of us. i hope that you have a wonderful Thanksgiving remembering your beautiful daughter.

    November 26th, 2009 at 5:27 am

  23. Jenn says:

    Hi Heather,

    When I saw the pics of Maddie today, I couldn’t help but cry. She’s so cute, so perfect. I wondered if you would share those pictures of her. I’m glad you did.

    I know you are thankful for Maddie, just as I know SHE is thankful for you and Mike. Even though it’s not my Thanksgiving, I am thankful I found your site, you opened your heart & soul and shared the most precious thing in the world with us.

    I wish you and Mike and your families a joyful Thanksgivings filled with love, laughter and hope.

    Blessings to all of you today and ALWAYS….
    Jenn

    November 26th, 2009 at 5:40 am

  24. Karen Chatters says:

    Happy Thanksgiving, Spohr family.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 6:15 am

  25. Kristel says:

    And even though it’s not Thanksgiving north of the border, I am so very thankful you have shared so much of your daughter, and yourselves, with the world.

    I am thankful, each and every day, for the Spohrs!
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    November 26th, 2009 at 6:22 am

  26. Lindsay from Florida says:

    I just saw Abby Cadabby on the Parade and had to come comment. I am so thankful to have “met” you this year and so thankful that your family will have a new baby to welcome very soon.

    And we are ALL thankful that your amazing Madeline lived a life that will continue to touch others for many, many years.

    Happy Thanksgiving, Spohrs!!!

    November 26th, 2009 at 6:28 am

  27. Tiffany says:

    Happy Thanksgiving to you all today! Maddie was lucky to have you for a mama and you are also for having her as your daughter. What a wonderful things to be thankful for! May you be able to see just how many blessings you have today! I am thankful that you all continue to share your story with us each and every day, good and bad. I hope that today is a good day filled with lots of turkey, desserts, & naps. :)
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    November 26th, 2009 at 6:32 am

  28. Chrissie says:

    I am thankful that I have the chance to “know” you.

    (((HUGS)))

    November 26th, 2009 at 6:34 am

  29. kristen says:

    thankful every day for the wisdom and strength and love you share with the world.

    thankful for maddie.

    hopes for a happy thanksgiving for you all.

    xo
    kristen

    November 26th, 2009 at 6:44 am

  30. Dawn says:

    Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!

    Thanks for sharing your beautiful daughter with the world.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 6:54 am

  31. Francesca says:

    beautiful. happy thanksgiving. love.

    November 26th, 2009 at 7:23 am

  32. Elizabeth says:

    Happy Thanksgiving to you and Mike! I am so thankful that I found your blog and got the chance to “know” Maddie and you, Mike and Rigby. ((Hugs)) from KY

    November 26th, 2009 at 7:33 am

  33. Tami says:

    Happy Thanksgiving Heather and Mike. The pictures are adorable of Maddie. Hugs, and thinking of you both.

    November 26th, 2009 at 7:36 am

  34. tara says:

    happy thanksgiving to you. sending you so many hugs and lots of love today, and every day. xo

    November 26th, 2009 at 7:45 am

  35. monica says:

    Happy Thanksgiving! I love her little face, I melt every time I see it. She is just a doll!!

    November 26th, 2009 at 7:52 am

  36. Tara. says:

    Happy Thanksgiving Heather and Mike! Maddy is feasting in heaven!
    I know today is hard. Be kind to yourself and take it easy. {{{hugs}}}
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    November 26th, 2009 at 7:55 am

  37. Christina says:

    Happy Thanksgiving Heather and Mike! I am so thankful I’ve gotten to “know” you through your blog. I saw the Abby Cadabby float in the Macy’s parade and thought of Maddie…be good to yourselves today <3

    November 26th, 2009 at 8:03 am

  38. Ginger says:

    I am thankful you had her for that brief shining moment, here with you, but she will always, always be yours. Happy days to you ,Heather and MZike.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 8:07 am

  39. jen says:

    I am thankful that although i never met Maddie she has made a difference in my life and so many others.

    Sending my love…
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    November 26th, 2009 at 8:07 am

  40. Alexandra :) says:

    I have to agree with you, Heather. That sweet face is a lot to be thankful for.

    November 26th, 2009 at 8:15 am

  41. Aunt Becky says:

    Shit, I remember when I saw those last year. I’m so thankful I know you and that I know Maddie, and Mike and Binky and Rigby.

    Thank you for being my BFF, Heather. You’ve brought a lot of joy into my life.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 8:18 am

  42. Alison says:

    I’m thankful for getting to know Maddie and you guys courtesy of this here internet. And I’m thankful, as a lot of people are, for all that you and Mike do in her memory. Happy Thanksgiving.

    xoxo
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    November 26th, 2009 at 8:57 am

  43. Glenda says:

    Heather, beautiful pictures! Thanks for sharing! Happy Thanksgiving to you, Mike, Binky & Rigby and the rest of your family too! XXX

    November 26th, 2009 at 9:11 am

  44. Angella says:

    I’m thankful that we’ve all gotten to know your family.

    Happy Thanksgiving, Heather. xoxo
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    November 26th, 2009 at 9:13 am

  45. susie says:

    Happy Thanksgiving from my family to yours.

    November 26th, 2009 at 9:19 am

  46. missy says:

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    November 26th, 2009 at 9:19 am

  47. Jenny @ http://motherlawyercrazywoman.blogspot.com/ says:

    Happy Thanksgiving!
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    November 26th, 2009 at 9:25 am

  48. pgoodness says:

    Happy Thanksgiving, Spohr family. I am thankful you shared your sweet Maddie with us. xo
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    November 26th, 2009 at 9:36 am

  49. mel says:

    Thinking of all of you today. Much love to your family as well.

    November 26th, 2009 at 9:48 am

  50. Jen L. says:

    Such a beauty. Have a good Thanksgiving.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 9:54 am

  51. cindy w says:

    And I am thankful for my brave & strong friend Heather, and for what a wonderful mommy she is.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 9:58 am

  52. Mama Cas says:

    Hugs from New York. I know it’s not much and will never ease your pain….but I’m thinking of you.

    November 26th, 2009 at 10:07 am

  53. deej says:

    Many hugs and love for you, Mike, St. Gramma and Bampa today.

    November 26th, 2009 at 10:23 am

  54. Kelly says:

    Just a while ago I turned on the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade and who should be floating by? Abby Cadabby!

    I am so thankful that through her parents I came to know a bit about the Magnificent Maddie.

    Happy Thanksgiving to all of Madeline’s beloved family.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 10:31 am

  55. Sarah M. says:

    I’m so thankful I got to see Maddie’s beautiful eyes this Thanksgiving day. Thank you so much for sharing her with us :)

    November 26th, 2009 at 10:32 am

  56. Kim says:

    And I am thankful for you my dear friend. Thankful that I can call you my friend and that I have been able to get to know Maddie through you. Have a wonderful day and give that belly some sweet rubs from her Auntie Kim.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 10:58 am

  57. Suzie says:

    You are so right! You are her mommy and she is your daughter!! Happy Thanksgiving from Iowa!! Hoping Rigby is better and you, Mike and Binky eat lots of turkey today! I enjoyed this post so much, brightenend my day!! Let’s keep that little turkey of yours in the oven for a while longer!! Been following your friend, Anissa’s journey, and it sounds so encourageing. Praying for all of you!! Take care, my friend(not IRL, but oh well), lol

    November 26th, 2009 at 11:12 am

  58. Lisa says:

    Happy Thanksgiving. Those photos are beautiful.

    Love and hugs.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 1:29 pm

  59. Domestic Extraordinaire says:

    much love to you today and always.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 1:51 pm

  60. cm says:

    Happy Thanksgiving Spohrs!

    November 26th, 2009 at 2:04 pm

  61. Sherry says:

    Thank you for those beautiful pictures!!!!

    You were indeed blessed with her.

    You will always be her Mommy. She will always love you too.

    May God bless you with only goodness and happiness from now on.

    You are such a strong wonderful woman.

    I know the Hoilday’s must be so hard. What beautiful memories you have.

    I do still cry when I realize again how deep the loss of her was to you and even to all those who are stangers and who have learned to love her so.

    Take care!! The pictures are wonderful.

    November 26th, 2009 at 2:44 pm

  62. Sara GC in the FL says:

    Happy Thanksgiving Spohrs! :)

    November 26th, 2009 at 3:46 pm

  63. Kate says:

    thinking of you…. lovely pics

    November 26th, 2009 at 4:49 pm

  64. Rebecca says:

    I’m pretty sure the bird looks bigger than her. So so so cute and adorable. I bet she tried to gobble the whole thing, or did she try to wear it on her head like how Joey did on Friends.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 6:42 pm

  65. Alli says:

    Beautiful…just beautiful.

    ~Hugs from TX
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    November 26th, 2009 at 7:12 pm

  66. Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] says:

    Frackin cute.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 7:19 pm

  67. Mary says:

    Those simple words…can’t believe I’m crying so hard, both with you and for you.
    Blessings to your family.

    November 26th, 2009 at 7:48 pm

  68. Andrea says:

    Happy Thanksgiving to Maddie in heaven.
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    November 26th, 2009 at 11:12 pm

  69. Noelle says:

    I am so thankful that you have shared so much of her with us all.
    Hugs to you.

    November 26th, 2009 at 11:52 pm

  70. Tamara says:

    I somehow came across your blog tonight. Beautiful and tragic all at once. I will be praying for you and your family. As I type this it is almost 3am and I have been trying to stop reading your blog for about 3 hours! I just couldnt stop. Thank you for sharing your story. I am so touched. I am crying for you and your loss. Tonight my son wanted to sleep with me and I said no. I know that making my son sleep in his bed is not a bad thing but I am about to go get him and bring him to my bed to cuddle between my husband and I. Thank you. Thank you for reminding me how lucky I am. On Thanksgiving, I am adding you to the list of things I am thankful for. May God bless you, your husband, and your children.

    November 27th, 2009 at 12:50 am

  71. cheryl says:

    These are wonderful photos. madeline was so beautiful and adorable.

    November 27th, 2009 at 6:58 am

  72. preTzel says:

    Happy Thanksgiving Heather, Mike, Rigby, and Binky. <3

    November 27th, 2009 at 7:09 am

  73. vp says:

    this kid never took a bad picture, did she?
    i’m sure little-miss-binky will be the same way as her big sis. i know your hearts are heavy but i’m sure maddie is thankful she has really amazing parents.

    November 27th, 2009 at 8:31 am

  74. Stephanie says:

    She is adorable…
    Happy Thanksgiving!

    BODA weight loss

    November 27th, 2009 at 9:17 am

  75. Leslie says:

    She’s so beautiful.

    I love you all so very much.

    November 27th, 2009 at 9:31 am

  76. Molly says:

    Oh, sweet Maddie. Happy Thanksgiving, guys! Hope Binky gave you lots of big kicks.

    November 27th, 2009 at 10:54 am

  77. Tina says:

    You have the best photos of her.

    Love to you all this Thanksgiving and everyday.

    XOXO

    November 27th, 2009 at 1:03 pm

  78. Debi Powell says:

    I’m thankful you took the most amazing photos of her so you could share her with the world! I know each one is priceless. I can SEE the love spilling from your heart for her.
    Enjoy today… enjoy your pregnancy… enjoy your precious memories of Maddie!

    November 27th, 2009 at 6:27 pm

  79. mythoughtsonthat says:

    Your girl, she is something.

    Faith….Hope….Love….Peace.
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    November 27th, 2009 at 8:19 pm

  80. Ray says:

    Such a cute Thanksgiving outifit Maddie had on. But, oh my, those shiny red shoes? Too cute! And that photo of you and her? Precious. You will always be her mommy, yes. And she will always be your daughter. And what a blessing she was. And what a blessing she will always be. To you, your family and those like us who are just lucky to read her story, to read about her (which reminds me that I must go back on this blog, and read some more about her). <3

    November 27th, 2009 at 10:55 pm

  81. Danny says:

    What great photos (Jesus, that turkey was massive!). Madeline should have been here with you this Thanksgiving, it’s really agonizing. How do we learn to accept such things? There’s just nothing harder. Happy Holidays to all of you.
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    November 28th, 2009 at 9:47 am

  82. Momma Uncensored says:

    thoughts of you.
    what a beautiful girl in a beautiful dress.%Pr

    November 28th, 2009 at 5:10 pm

  83. Kelley Land says:

    And we are thankful that you’ve shared her with us. Our lives will never be the same.
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    November 28th, 2009 at 5:49 pm

  84. Kim Jones says:

    Abby Cadaby in the parade made me smile for your Maddie. What a peanut, that turkey was bigger than her!

    November 28th, 2009 at 7:10 pm

  85. C says:

    Big hugs all the way from Canada. What a beautiful post for a beautiful girl. Thinking of you guys. Our preemie was born on the same day as Maddie, only the year after. I think of Maddie often whenever I look at my little preemie…who was also born at the same gestational age as Maddie.

    xo
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    November 28th, 2009 at 10:07 pm

  86. Heidy Martinez says:

    I know the holiday season is always a very hard time, I know exactly what you are going through. I always have my son in my mind but Im also very thankful for the time that he did spend with me and Im thankful for what I have now. Hang in there.

    Question: There was this guy that you mentioned in one of your post a few months back. He had twins but one of them passed. You went to some time of concert with him. I used to follow his blog but my MAC crashed and I lost the page. I would like to follow him again to see how the baby (Charlie) is doing. Do you have the page. Thanks

    Heather Reply:

    yes, it is http://dannymiller.typepad.com/blog !

    November 29th, 2009 at 5:44 am

  87. Kandi Ann says:

    Dearest Maddie, Heather and Mike. I love the pictures you post. I Thank God for you all and you show me in the worst times to keep my chin up, or at least when its down, I know I can come here and read about Maddie & Binky and smile through my tears. I just wanted to say, I don’t know what it all means with my niece Amber Aka Boogie, It seems like good/great/Miracle news, she is set to get a blood test once a month. They can’t FIND anything now. Though she has bald spots, weird black pour things on her beautiful little red head, no one has a name. I am hoping that is because we got our Miracle and there is nothing wrong. Though there is a f*ear that isn’t the case. We don’t have the best medical teams here. So when she moves back here soon I will just keep Praying over her and letting God take care of it all. I think about you all often and hope that you can smile through the tears of this Christmas. Maddie wouldn’t want you to be crying. She is an active little angel that I know is touching lives every where and will for as long as we live on earth. Love to you all. xoxo, Kandi

    November 29th, 2009 at 12:23 pm

  88. Childwoman says:

    I am so thankful that I met you in the blog world. I am thankful for the strength and courage you show. Thank You for the inspiration.

    hugs

    Childwoman~

    November 29th, 2009 at 7:59 pm

  89. Stephanie says:

    Sometimes when my son, Jasper, is upset, I go to your site and show him photos of Maddie. He immediately grins, laughs, and kicks in a way that’s different from the way he reacts to all other babies. Her smile, her joy, are so contagious in all of the photos…I just wanted to thank you for sharing so much of your life with us.

    November 30th, 2009 at 8:20 am

  90. thatgirlblogs says:

    I have four children… but Maddie was, and is, the most beautiful baby that ever was, and is.

    November 30th, 2009 at 1:13 pm

  91. Al_Pal says:

    Such sweet photos!
    Happy Thanksgiving, Spohrs.

    November 30th, 2009 at 8:27 pm

  92. qcmama says:

    Dear Heather and Mike,
    I havebeen thinking about you guys alot this week. I don’t know if it is because my Madilynn is 17 months old this month, or if it is just the holidays in general. I want you guys to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday and so is your Madeline and Binky. :) I wish I were close enough to give you a real hug but guess I will settle for a virtual one. :) (((HUG))) Take care you two, well 3.

    December 5th, 2009 at 4:30 am

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