Comments on: Ghosts

By: merlotmom

merlotmom — Mon, 25 May 2009 01:09:27 +0000

My heart breaks for both you and Mike. I wish more than anything that Maddie were still with you and that it was all just a horrible nightmare. Just take it day by day, minute by minute. I am here for both of you. merlotmom’s last blog post..Notes from the PMS Trenches

By: Sarcastic Mom (Lotus Carroll)

Sarcastic Mom (Lotus Carroll) — Wed, 20 May 2009 19:00:51 +0000

The unexpected stuff is always the worst with grief, I've found. Fucking shit. <3 Sarcastic Mom (Lotus Carroll)’s last blog post..Next time, I’ll aim for the pickles and tuna.

By: Myspace Layouts

Myspace Layouts — Wed, 20 May 2009 17:37:15 +0000

Sending you good wishes and prayers. Maddie was a beautiful little girl who will be remembered by so many. Myspace Layouts’s last blog post..Abstract Myspace Layouts

By: Myspace Layouts

Myspace Layouts — Wed, 20 May 2009 17:36:16 +0000

Sorry to hear that news.

By: jv

jv — Wed, 20 May 2009 17:07:48 +0000

Every update makes me bawl my eyes out. I am feeling so much pain for you. I can only imagine your grief, yet it literally blows my mind. Hugs hugs hugs.

By: Mama Kalila

Mama Kalila — Wed, 20 May 2009 14:25:37 +0000

hugs... and prayers Mama Kalila’s last blog post..MPM - 18 May - 24 May

By: Nina

Nina — Tue, 19 May 2009 14:26:43 +0000

I don’t know what to say……..I’m sorry, I’m sorry Maddie is gone and I’m sorry that you are hurting. I can’t even imagine……I’m so sorry

By: Noelle

Noelle — Tue, 19 May 2009 05:59:19 +0000

Dearest Heather, I tried for a couple of days to come up with the “right” words to say. I could not. So I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you both and wishing it didn’t have to be this way.

By: Jessica

Jessica — Mon, 18 May 2009 15:52:36 +0000

I read your blog and I weep heavily for all of you… I simply cannot even fathom. I just wanted to tell you that you, Mike and Maddie have affected my life profoundly. My days with my children are different because of you three, I don’t take any second for granted. Thank you for sharing your laughs, your joys, your tears and your sorrow with us. I am sending you love from someone that you will probably never meet but I am here, and I am praying for you all.

By: Mary

Mary — Mon, 18 May 2009 13:29:14 +0000

I think the ones we expect to be difficult are the ones that we’re at least kind of mentally prepared for. You expect to be kicked in the gut and punched in the face, so it’s not QUITE as surprising when you are. It’s the random day when you see something that you’d tell the other person and suddenly, there’s the kick at 20x the strength it was the last time. Cry, scream, throw things, break things. And keep journaling, however you do it. Whether you post it or keep it to yourself in your own diary, keep doing it. We will all continue to hold you up and help in whatever way we can. Although I don’t know your family personally, please know that if there is anything I could do, I will do it.